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And I believe that this is exactly what the WG is expecting me to do. After she's shut the door, she consults her text messages to see who's next....

Or in between rounds in an hour punt....

Offline vorian

And I believe that this is exactly what the WG is expecting me to do. After she's shut the door, she consults her text messages to see who's next....

Again that is exactly as it should be. Sensible punters and professional prossies make it fun to play the game.
Banning reason: Two faced - Slagging off UKP and it's membership using fake account

Offline 385North

Dump the WGs for a full time mistress. You can be as fluffy as you like then and she'll lap it up with enthusiasm.

Or in between rounds in an hour punt....

Tends to be the younger one's in my experience. No etiquette at all  :D

Offline tom watton

I'm sure it's Dee,  she seems very clued up and professional. I could imagine her cutting a punter off for his own benefit, she probably rea6ds UKP as well and saw Tom's post.  As I said respect to her for playing the game as it should be played

Thanks for all the tips guy's and It's not Dee I'm talking about,  I was on AW before (about 6 months ago) but now returned.
I had 36 positive feedbacks before but one particular WG stood out from the rest. But I truly miss her.  :(

Offline tom watton

Dump the WGs for a full time mistress. You can be as fluffy as you like then and she'll lap it up with enthusiasm.
I tried that around 15 years ago but things went pear shape

Offline Persie

Thanks for all the tips guy's and It's not Dee I'm talking about,  I s on AW before (about 6 months ago) but now returned.
I had 36 positive feedbacks before but one particular WG stood out from the rest. But I truly miss her.  :(

Good job its not Dee as she is definitely the wrong girl to get EAS with. I would say half of London have bolted in her mouth and had their asses licked by here and thats when she was a young girl in Haggersston before she became a WG  :sarcastic:

Who is it?
Banning reason: Stalking prossies on Facebook and threatening to out them

Offline mattylondon


Only cure is for you to give us the link of said prossie so we can all go shag her and tell you all about it. That will soon stop you wanting to see her. Sorry mate.

 :hi:
Sometimes you've got to be cruel to be kind. Perfect advice!

And when he comes to the realisation that it's her job to fuck every Tom, Dick and Harry, who has the means, consistent with what she offers, he'll realise what it's all about.

The woman's actually done him a big favour. He should send us the link so we can all have the chance fuck and come over her face, if that's on the menu.  :P

If you're looking for a relationship, why punt and if you're after both, join a dating site and/or try to socialise more.
« Last Edit: May 23, 2014, 07:56:47 PM by mattylondon »

Offline punk

yes your correct Punk... It will only lead to



 :D sums it all up well, as some one else stated we are only walking wallets.

Offline punk

Definitely. I think some WG's obviously do encourage punters in this way..I don't know the specifics of this situation obviously..but I'm sure some do it with guys they think won't turn into stalkers, but WILL keep spending with them because the guy is looking for an illusion of a relationship, so the odd "free time" drink, meal etc..it's an investment by the girl in order to get more bookings. It's certainly not good behaviour on the girls part and punters should know better.

In a way its a scam, and a bit of a bitch on her part.

Offline mattylondon

Good job its not Dee as she is definitely the wrong girl to get EAS with. I would say half of London have bolted in her mouth and had their asses licked by her and thats when she was a young girl in Haggersston before she became a WG  :sarcastic:
That Dee has talent and judging by her services, plus feedback, she's drunk plenty of spunk in her time but who am I to complain!   :D

Offline wristjob

In a way its a scam, and a bit of a bitch on her part.

Not really. I've had trading partners take me out for a Chinese (meal before you ask) to grease the wheels so they keep getting my business. Par for the course in many areas of business. Probably daft for a WG to do it though as it might become expected and could lead to problems, I guess it's about judging the client.

Offline Persie

Sometimes you've got to be cruel to be kind. Perfect advice!

And when he comes to the realisation that it's her job to fuck every Tom, Dick and Harry, who has the means, consistent with what she offers, he'll realise what it's all about.

The woman's actually done him a big favour. He should send us the link so we can all have the chance fuck and come over her face, if that's on the menu.  :P

If you're looking for a relationship, why punt and if you're after both, join a dating site and/or try to socialise more.

Excellent advice.
Banning reason: Stalking prossies on Facebook and threatening to out them

Offline JB1969

Kudos to her for cutting him off as been said it is their job to make you feel special during the time you PAID for.
Banning reason: Accused and highly suspected of being "DeliciousMsDee" prossie posing as punter

Offline Jimmyredcab

Unfortunately I was a little obsessed with one particular WG from AW and now she won't see me anymore.
We got on fine at first,  we even had lunch together after a meeting, and I am absolutely gutted,  I do blame myself for getting too close to her and now she is just a fond memory  :dash:

Write this out 100 times -----------------

Pro$$ies want my money, nothing more, nothing less.     :hi:

Offline 385North

I tried that around 15 years ago but things went pear shape

Got a story to tell?

Write this out 100 times -----------------

Pro$$ies want my money, nothing more, nothing less.     :hi:

some also want your watch and mobile phone  :mad:

Offline mcb

You're paying a girl for sex for an hour at a time or whatever, to do what most civvy girls won't do (or you have to stay with them for a while before they'll let you do the things you want to do). Don't complicate punting with feelings!

It's OK to get somewhat friendly with a regular (probably one of the main attractions of having a regular), but there must be boundaries.

Problems arise when the boundaries aren't clearly defined, and if they suddenly shift.  If an escort goes out to a restaurant with a client (as friends, not as a paid companion), and later says "we're getting too close, I will never see you again", I think the client is right to complain!   "WTF, I wouldn't have invited you out if I'd known you were going to do that".

Offline 385North

There’s the age old adage that every bloke’s ideal woman is a hooker with a heart of gold but the reality is you cannot turn a whore into a housewife. As human beings we’re all fallible, and falling for a prostitute is an easy trap to fall into especially if you make a strong bond or connection with a regular. I’ve been seeing one for a while now and we’ve started texting each other socially and have on occasion discussed doing social stuff, but despite reeling it in initially I have since decided that it would not be a wise move for a list of obvious reasons as long as your arm (I wish it was a long as something else). Hasn’t changed my feelings towards her though (I still probably think about her every day if I'm being honest) and despite trying other WGs I still think she’s one of the best at what she does and I will keep on seeing her as a paid fuck buddy.

Listen to the likes of Roy Orbison, Led-Zep, et-al, all have all written songs about it and listen to what they’re telling you and stay away from crap like Pretty Women which is just rom-com fiction.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VQZoU7iBYN8

« Last Edit: May 24, 2014, 11:27:04 AM by 385North »

jcdmj12

Things like this make me glad I'm a misanthrope.   I'm fully aware that no matter how wonderful I feel about a particular WG, they would annoy the piss out of me just like almost everyone else if I had to spend more than 8 hours with them. This keeps EAS in check.    The only people I'm really compatible with are people who also don't like company very much, so we avoid each other enough not to annoy each other.   Those people are unlikely to become WGs, because after the 3rd annoying punter they'd probably stab someone in the face.




Offline Dani

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Things like this make me glad I'm a misanthrope.   I'm fully aware that no matter how wonderful I feel about a particular WG, they would annoy the piss out of me just like almost everyone else if I had to spend more than 8 hours with them.

This is what punters who fall into EAS should think about.  they know fuck all about the prossie they supposedly love.  They only know what she shows them during her paid time.   They don't see her when she first wakes up looking like crap snapping at everyone or when she is ill or even when she is just in a bitchy mood.
They forget they are paying for a fantasy and that is what they get.  she is not normally sat around in stockings waiting to please her partner.  her partner would be lucky if she bothered at all after a day of it.  They don't see any of the bad stuff that is part of everyday life.  Its why I always say they cannot be in love with a prossie. To love someone you have to know them.  They are in love with a fantasy. The idea of a woman who is always waiting to give them pleasure, who never moans, who is never too tired or has a headache. Who always looks her best for him.  Basically everything a normal partner would not be able to do in real life as work, illness, tiredness gets in the way

As for meeting socially I do that with a couple of regs, be it for a coffee or lunch but I have made the boundaries very clear that we will never be more than friends and paid for sex buddies.  They know this and accept it so we can socialise and have a good chat without worry.  Sometimes they do see the real me and we have a laugh about how different I am in real life to my work persona. 

Also remember unless you are a regular she probably wont even remember you in a weeks time.  I find it all becomes a bit of a blur and faces are the quickest to blur and I don't remember anyone I have not seen more than five or six times. Its not meant in a horrible way it is just how it is.  it would be impossible to remember every client (that's what having notes on a PC is for, so next time they book you know what they like etc).  To a prossie you hardly know you are just another in a long line.  It only becomes a little more than that when she knows you really well and feels comfortable around you.  That's when you get remembered

Offline GeeWiz

Also remember unless you are a regular she probably wont even remember you in a weeks time.  I find it all becomes a bit of a blur and faces are the quickest to blur and I don't remember anyone I have not seen more than five or six times. Its not meant in a horrible way it is just how it is.  it would be impossible to remember every client (that's what having notes on a PC is for, so next time they book you know what they like etc).  To a prossie you hardly know you are just another in a long line.  It only becomes a little more than that when she knows you really well and feels comfortable around you.  That's when you get remembered

So true.  I thought I left such a good impression on one particular girl, that she remembered all details of our sole encounter the next time I spoke to her.  So always worth bearing in mind that WGs - just like punters on their hot lists - make notes.

Even my regular, who invited me to use her services in her day job and has introduced me to her mum, I would never blur the line for.

As for meeting socially I do that with a couple of regs, be it for a coffee or lunch but I have made the boundaries very clear that we will never be more than friends and paid for sex buddies.  They know this and accept it so we can socialise and have a good chat without worry.  Sometimes they do see the real me and we have a laugh about how different I am in real life to my work persona. 


You aren't the only one to offer that "service", Dani.  The "Regular" of mine who does isn't the one for whom I've had E.A.S. either, btw.

Offline 385North

This is what punters who fall into EAS should think about.  they know fuck all about the prossie they supposedly love.  They only know what she shows them during her paid time.   They don't see her when she first wakes up looking like crap snapping at everyone or when she is ill or even when she is just in a bitchy mood.
They forget they are paying for a fantasy and that is what they get.  she is not normally sat around in stockings waiting to please her partner.  her partner would be lucky if she bothered at all after a day of it.  They don't see any of the bad stuff that is part of everyday life.  Its why I always say they cannot be in love with a prossie. To love someone you have to know them.  They are in love with a fantasy. The idea of a woman who is always waiting to give them pleasure, who never moans, who is never too tired or has a headache. Who always looks her best for him.  Basically everything a normal partner would not be able to do in real life as work, illness, tiredness gets in the way

As for meeting socially I do that with a couple of regs, be it for a coffee or lunch but I have made the boundaries very clear that we will never be more than friends and paid for sex buddies.  They know this and accept it so we can socialise and have a good chat without worry.  Sometimes they do see the real me and we have a laugh about how different I am in real life to my work persona. 

Also remember unless you are a regular she probably wont even remember you in a weeks time.  I find it all becomes a bit of a blur and faces are the quickest to blur and I don't remember anyone I have not seen more than five or six times. Its not meant in a horrible way it is just how it is.  it would be impossible to remember every client (that's what having notes on a PC is for, so next time they book you know what they like etc).  To a prossie you hardly know you are just another in a long line.  It only becomes a little more than that when she knows you really well and feels comfortable around you.  That's when you get remembered

I get the sentiment, but then again people go on blind dates and decide they want to spend the rest of their lives together based on the image they project and construct around it. They still buy into a fantasy and then 10-15-20 years down the line possibly end up on here when the fantasy FINALLY becomes reality.



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