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Offline HappyFlyer

I'm wondering about the popularity of anal sex in the straight punting community.

E.g. how widespread is it really? What percentage of punters consider it a key element of a session? What percentage of WGs actually offer it? Is it more common now than 20 years ago?

My personal interest is negligible, having always considered that part of the anatomy as a one-way street, and having noticed there is a similar facility very nearby. designed expressly as a two-way street ;-) Of course that's just me and I am a vanilla kind of guy. Everyone is different and what turns on one guy can put off another. So this post is entirely curious and in no way judgemental!

But I've noticed on forums like UKP, PN, AW & Escort web sites, and indeed web porn, that anal sex seems to be a very popular pastime indeed. Is it because the act is rather uncommon in normal relationships, that there is a pent-up demand within the hobbyists? Or are punters just more adventurous than the average guy and are looking more for new and more extreme ways to stimulate the senses? Is it more appealing to the giver (usually male punter) than the receiver (usually a WG)?

I'd be interested in the views of other punters and WGs alike. Thanks.

Offline threechilliman

It was one of my search criteria when compiling my HL, which is why I missed a lot of good one's.

In 13 punts, I've done it once - the first one. After that, even when it's available I haven't really considered it. That said, the WG that I started with and whom I've seen since and didn't do it with the second time, even though I planned to, seems to enjoy it. I've promised myself a little treat on my third visit, but only really because I know she enjoys dp (me and a toy) and there is something about it.

Not sure any of that makes sense, but I'm not re-writing it! I've now re-jigged my HL to include WG's that don't offer it because I'm not arsed.....

tcm

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I like it occasionally.
But then I only get sex occasionally. Allowing for that, I like it a lot.  :D
But seriously, my former wife used to let me fuck her arse if I liked (before sex was almost banned) and I used to partake only once in a while. My current partner makes it clear it is a taboo and I would love to go there.
On a punt it isn't essential by any means. Just an additional box that's nice to tick now and then.

Offline J_H

It's on my bucket list, HF, albeit not very near the top. Definitely curious about it.
Both ways, if the truth be told!

Offline threechilliman

It's on my bucket list, HF, albeit not very near the top. Definitely curious about it.
Both ways, if the truth be told!

That's where we differ. My arse is a one-way street......

Offline threechilliman

But seriously, my former wife used to let me fuck her arse if I liked (before sex was almost banned)

That's a bit extreme, I hope it was nothing you did....

vorian

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Doesn't interest me at all. Rimming both ways, that I do enjoy.

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That's a bit extreme, I hope it was nothing you did....
Nope, nothing I did I don't think. Just the usual wifely disinterest in sex that occurs in many marriages. :diablo:

yorkshire123

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Happy Flyer,

Are you actually a punter?  :unknown:
The reason i ask is that half of your posts have been Topic starters.
You sound like your conducting a bloody opinion survey.

Offline Matium

Perhaps s/he is a psychology/sociology student?

They always seem to be interested in doing surveys.


Offline Horizontal pleasures

Happy Flyer,

Are you actually a punter?  :unknown:
The reason i ask is that half of your posts have been Topic starters.
You sound like your conducting a bloody opinion survey.
+1

Offline Horizontal pleasures

Perhaps s/he is a psychology/sociology student?

They always seem to be interested in doing surveys.
+1,
we will find ourselves in the Grauniad next month

Offline malcster

i think with a long term partner its like the final frontier you know like forbidden fruit
my wife was kind of into it but its hard to tell if that was more for my benefit rather than pleasure for her

if i am honest i enjoyed the feeling of a tight entrance but its not the be all and end all


Offline Matium

I hope Happy Flyer turns out to be a she.

It'll be interesting to know what her boob size is.

But then again he could be a guy and still a boob.

 :D

Offline threechilliman

We're in bacon sandwich territory here - the thought of it is better than the actual act of consuming it :D

Offline Dani

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It seems to be very popular.  Even though it clearly states I do not offer it (I make a point of putting this on my profile as well as not ticking it in the likes list) I still get asked about 10 times a week if I will just do it this once.

I think it has become more and more popular as it has become less taboo and you see it a lot more in porn than you did 20-30 years ago so for some it has become more the norm than vaginal sex especially amongst they younger clients

Offline J_H


yorkshire123

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Ok just for data collection purposes....

Tried it once with a prossie & didn't think much to it so haven't bothered since.

With Mrs Y its hard enough getting in the pink let alone the brown.

Rochdull lad

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Quote from: threechilliman link=topic=30268.msg424337#msg424 :blush:337 date=1400520756
We're in bacon sandwich territory here - the thought of it is better than the actual act of consuming it

The first thought your anal-ogy [sorry!  :blush: ] planted in my mind, tcm, was whether to have it with red sauce or brown! :crazy: :scare:

broksonic

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Anal sex doesn't interest me in the slightest

Offline AnthG

Anal sex is something I have done 1 and a half times in all of my punts (I say half as I had to stop after a few mins as I was having firmness problems so we needed to stop).

And all I can say is without doubt it is the most enjoyable thing to possibly do by a considerable margin (for me at least). I appreciate many say its just the same as a tight vagina but the naughtyness/taboo element is a massive turn on which I appreciate is therefore making it a fetish I possess.

And all I can say is even just off that limited amount I would seek it out and pay extra to have a punt with this as I enjoyed it that much. And I personally would rather girls charged more for it as an extra for this to guarantee it is there on the cards when I enter the booking as opposed to this "with discretion" rubbish which usually means, no its not there and never has been which the girl panders to you with the deception by trying to claim its all as you are too big after you have handed over the cash and are sitting there naked which is a load of rubbish as I know quite well I am no Ron Jeremy.

I appreciate the above sounds weird that I would pay for it as an extra but I would personally rather pay £130 for a punt with it guaranteed than £100 for a gamble punt with it promised but then on arriving it has a high chance of not being delivered so then you have the awkward situation of wanting to walk but not sure how to and feeling you have wasted your day as you could have booked someone else who did offer it.
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Offline threechilliman

The first thought your anal-ogy [sorry!  :blush: ] planted in my mind, tcm, was whether to have it with red sauce or brown! :crazy: :scare:

The sandwich or Anal sex?  :wacko:

Rochdull lad

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The sandwich.  Of course!! ;)

Offline MancSean

I have only had anal with 3 people all exes. Never done it with a WG although I fantasise about it I never get round to doing it. Although I have given a few WG's a good finger fuck up the arse. I have been offered it but by the time I have I already jizzed a couple of times and for good anal I think you need to be as hard as a rock. I think the reason I haven't done it with a WG is fear of Cummin to quickly and not really enjoying it

Curious6705

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Like facials it's a demand created by porn. If you ever read porn forums with any new starlet "When will she do her first Anal scene" is a recurring theme. I think it's like sex as a video game. On Level 1 you only get covered missionary. Then you have to reach Level 6 or summat to get anal.

(Apologies to any practicing anal lovers on UKP -  just my personal view).

I saw a nice Polish girl a couple of times who I thought might become a regular, who offered anal as part of her standard deal. If she'd stuck around I might have spent some quality time on a regular basis, getting to know her arsehole better, but she moved on. So I guess I may never get to play regularly on Level 6. 

Offline willie loman

Was on the bus the other day, and a gaggle of teenage girls got on and sat behind me, top deck, I thought count to ten, and they will start talking about boys,,, I was right, but the subject was the antics of one their mates, who like being sodomised by  her boyfriend, when he dies said one, she will  write on his tombstone, I miss you and so does my arse. Always interesting to eavesdrop on female chit chat.

Gigabyte

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I have done anal with a number of girls (6 or 7 different ones, some multiple times). It is partly the taboo side of it like anth said. Out of all the wg's  that have had it as discretion, I have only been turned down once and that was because I had not mentioned it before hand so she hadnt prepared herself. Would I punt a girl if she didn't have it. Absolutely. For me its just like something extra that I can enjoy but not the be all and end all.

Offline smiths

I'm wondering about the popularity of anal sex in the straight punting community.

E.g. how widespread is it really? What percentage of punters consider it a key element of a session? What percentage of WGs actually offer it? Is it more common now than 20 years ago?

My personal interest is negligible, having always considered that part of the anatomy as a one-way street, and having noticed there is a similar facility very nearby. designed expressly as a two-way street ;-) Of course that's just me and I am a vanilla kind of guy. Everyone is different and what turns on one guy can put off another. So this post is entirely curious and in no way judgemental!

But I've noticed on forums like UKP, PN, AW & Escort web sites, and indeed web porn, that anal sex seems to be a very popular pastime indeed. Is it because the act is rather uncommon in normal relationships, that there is a pent-up demand within the hobbyists? Or are punters just more adventurous than the average guy and are looking more for new and more extreme ways to stimulate the senses? Is it more appealing to the giver (usually male punter) than the receiver (usually a WG)?

I'd be interested in the views of other punters and WGs alike. Thanks.

No idea how popular it is for sure obviously but from reading punting forums for years certainly quite a number said they required it or were interested in it.

Zero interest to me, but i do like Anal Play on the WG and Rimming on me if in offer, plus i enjoy a strap-on up my arse as long as the WG uses plenty of lube and easy does it, i am not a homosexual so have a tight anus.

Offline willie loman

A lady I visit, brings the subject up quite often, I have a hunch that its the 30£ extra that interests her, done it a few times, always make me feel like a "made man". Will try it again, before the whole show packs it for good.

Offline Happyjose

Enjoy it as an occasional treat. Lucky enough to have never had a bad experience, though a mate has experienced blow back on a couple of occasions. He describes them as 11 pointers - pink, red and brown on the same visit

Offline HappyFlyer

Happy Flyer,

Are you actually a punter?  :unknown:
The reason i ask is that half of your posts have been Topic starters.
You sound like your conducting a bloody opinion survey.

Sorry if I'm asking too much. Just a relative newbie to the scene despite my advanced years. My experimental days were 30 years ago and there's quite a gap between my experience and the thick menu of punting pastimes that I've unearthed in recent months. I am sure my curiosity will dim soon enough.

Offline HappyFlyer

I hope Happy Flyer turns out to be a she.

It'll be interesting to know what her boob size is.

But then again he could be a guy and still a boob.

 :D

At the risk of disappointing you, I am a bloke. But I admit that the passage of time has encouraged the annoying emergence of a nice pair of bitch tits that I would rather do without. Time to go easy on the ale and pies I fear.

Curious6705

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Enjoy it as an occasional treat. Lucky enough to have never had a bad experience, though a mate has experienced blow back on a couple of occasions. He describes them as 11 pointers - pink, red and brown on the same visit

Was it Nina Hartley who said about anal sex "Just remember - shit happens"?

Offline HappyFlyer

Enjoy it as an occasional treat. Lucky enough to have never had a bad experience, though a mate has experienced blow back on a couple of occasions. He describes them as 11 pointers - pink, red and brown on the same visit

+1 Happy Namesake  :D

Tjkooker

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I love it. Even had a few shitty fallouts that despite turning my stomach never stopped me asking to go again.

Sienna_Bronze

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I love anal, i always get asked for it. I do think it's become more mainstream due to porn. You do have to prepare for anal though, I've never had any accidents.

pleasure

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We're in bacon sandwich territory here - the thought of it is better than the actual act of consuming it :D

All I can say is you must be making your bacon sandwiches wrong.

Offline threechilliman

All I can say is you must be making your bacon sandwiches wrong.

Think about one tomorrow morning when you can't have one, you'll see what i mean!!

pleasure

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I used to love anal, but an ex of mine actually liked it even more than me (despite being pretty vanilla in most other respects). I ended up banging her up the shitter so damn often that it's lost most of its appeal for me. Not that I'm complaining, it was heaven while it lasted.

Due to that, I normally just go with the pussy these days when it comes to punting. I'll sometimes give her a good rimming though, if she appeals to me sufficiently for such thoughts to spring to mind!

Online hendrix

I love it, as do all my regulars. I will see girls that don't offer it if they're exceptional overall.

pleasure

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Think about one tomorrow morning when you can't have one, you'll see what i mean!!

But now you've made me want one, I'll just have to have one tomorrow. Which is coincidentally also the effect this site has on me when it comes to WGs.

domino131

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It is one I would like to tick off the list, but I suspect that - like facials - it's one of those things I would find much more of a turn on in porn than in real life.  Unfortunately the WGs I am interested in always seem to have it on their 'Don'ts', and I'm not keen enough on it that I would see someone I was less attracted to just for the sake of giving anal a go.

It's a shame Bara-Babeure seems to have disappeared as I was interested in seeing her and she did anal.  Oh well.

Offline socks

I've had the pleasure of fucking 9 different WGs up their arseholes. It was something I was always desperate to try and I love the fact that I can talk about having had anal sex with those girls. But it is surprisingly similar to facials at point of actual experience for me. The thought of it and the recollection afterwards generates a hype for me that isn't really there in the moment. To be honest I think anal would be amazing bareback but that's not gonna happen in punting. I tried to get my cock up my OH several times a few years ago when we were still physical and the sensation of her arsehole just about yielding to my erection, tight and warm around my bell end, was a notch or five up from the vaginal equivalent. Wearing a rubber though when punting and the intense sensation of feeling an arsehole slide down around my helmet is lost. Initially it's just tighter and I find I really do need a raging hard on to get it in. Then once I start pumping away and things loosen up a bit more, I can't tell the difference in sensation.

So it's not a deal breaker for me and I will always do it with girls who offer it as part of their standard fee. I've yet to be tempted to buy it as an extra though.

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It is one I would like to tick off the list, but I suspect that - like facials - it's one of those things I would find much more of a turn on in porn than in real life.  Unfortunately the WGs I am interested in always seem to have it on their 'Don'ts', and I'm not keen enough on it that I would see someone I was less attracted to just for the sake of giving anal a go.

Argh facials & CIM - usually when that happens I'm so wiped out all the evidence is long gone before I can enjoy the sight of my handiwork. Also I guess especially on facials as soon as I come I lose 90% of my interest anyway.

Anal - done it I think about 3 timees with WGs and probably tried to do it a similar. If it's one they aren't really interested in you are not getting in that arse. I did it with one ex about twice and it was great. With WGs it's always been pretty poor and certainly twice they were girls I really didn't want to be with. That said I doubt I ever lasted more than 15 seconds - forbidden fruit eh :)

Roland D Hay

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If she'd stuck around I might have spent some quality time on a regular basis, getting to know her arsehole better

I don't think her pimp likes meeting the punters.

Curious6705

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I don't think her pimp likes meeting the punters.

I see I've made a new friend.  :crazy: :lol:

Toshiba

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Done it many times, apart from the supposedly naughtiness of it i dont see much difference tbh

The downside can be the smell if you pick a wrong un

broksonic

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I did at one point think about doing Anal sex with a WG.  But thought it wasn't for me ,and would prefer my cock in her pussy .   So not in the slight bit interested in anal sex

Offline gorge

I use to do it a lot, but the novelty seems to have worn off. I got a bad bladder and kidney infection which I put down to bareback anal with my gf which sort of put a dampner on it!

SeekingtheTruth

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Tried it once and enjoyed it. Will definitely do it again but I do prefer a nice wet pussy  :lol: