Kim Robinson Milf

[Rochdull lad]

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Well, I was SO looking forward to this meeting.  She looked to tick all my preferred boxes: a mid-40s Blonde Milf who has good reviews on AW [for what they're worth ]; whose AW Profile seemed to indicate that she had a bit of character and seemed to enjoy being an SP.

And for all I know, she may well be all of those things.

Because I still haven't seen her!    And that's despite a phone conversation yesterday, in which we set up a 12 noon meeting today and she told me that when I arrived, I should text for the code to let myself into the block of apartments which she uses.  And I told her my age and a bit about my disability and how it restricts my ability to get into certain positions; neither of which were a problem for her.

Directly after that phone call, she texted me the name of the block of apartments, and of the street on which it's located.  After we'd spoken, I thought that, while I know the general area in which the block is situated, it would do no harm to reconnoitre so that I wasn't rushing round on the last minute today.  So, being a "time-rich" pensioner, I took a trip to the city centre yesterday afternoon and found not only just where the block is situated, but where there's a nearby ATM so that I could take the exact fee into today's meeting.  [The tips you pick up from reading ukpunting! ]

This morning, I went through my usual pre-punt routine: no breakfast [so that I can take my Sildenafil on an empty stomach]; make sure that I've got my tablet and a small bottle of water so that I can take the tablet while on the bus; check that I've got my Debit card to go into that ATM, just before going to the apartment block and texting for the intercom code.  All of which I did and made my way from the ATM to the apartment block where, about 3 minutes before my appointment was due to start, I texted to tell her that me & my hard-on  were waiting outside for her to send me the code to let us into the building.

And got no reply!     

So I left it 3 or 4 minutes and, for fear that she might have taken offence at the wording of that text , I sent her a re-worded text to say I was outside waiting for the code.  And I'm still waiting for a reply, over four hours later!  

I haven't even had a text saying, "Sorry; as you didn't text me earlier today to let me know you'll be turning up as arranged, I've booked someone else in."  Which I could have accepted [just about]; would have kicked myself metaphorically and recorded this as a Neutral.

I admit that I never thought to send her such a text .  But equally, given that we'd only made the arrangement about 24 hours previously and she didn't ask me to do to text her today, I can't think what I did to provoke this total lack of response from her.

I guess that, the three things I'm most irate about are: as I was so confident that a meeting was going to take place, I didn't have a plan "B"  ; as I'd gone without breakfast, I was really hungry; and the waste of a tablet.  Yes; I know there's no problem about buying the tablet these days, but we poor pensioners  , you know; we were brought up in the era of "Look after the pennies and the pounds'll look after themselves!"

[vorian]

Sorry you got let down RL and thanks for the review. No excuse for zero comms from her, shows a lack of professionalism.

[threechilliman]

I always text a couple of hours before, irrespective of when the arrangement was made. That way the line of communication is open. Gives time for plan b as well. Still, the money's still in your pocket 

[Cornish sub]

Her profile says she's taking a break till further notice due to family matter. That maybe a reasonable excuse for her to have not gone ahead with the booking, but it would've taken her less than a minute to have sent you a quick cancellation text as soon as this 'family matter' cropped up, or at least at some stage between it cropping up and the due time of your booking.

[Rochdull lad]

Thanks for that, Cornish sub.

All I'll say on the subject is that when I began drafting my OP [around 4.00 pm], her Profile was exactly as it was yesterday when I booked her, not like it is now.

At least you've saved me starting a thread on the main board about "Punting etiquette"; and a fair amount of paranoia!

And, like 3cm says, there's £110 in my pocket ready for next Tuesday's visit to one of my Regulars!

[bigmc]

I would give her the benefit of the doubt on this one. It looks like she's had an emergency. We all have them from time to time, and she does have good feedback normally. Ive been on the verge of booking her for a month or so now, and been following her profile / feedback.
Not good when you miss out or get messed about but shit happens now and again

[bigmc]

I would give her the benefit of the doubt on this one. It looks like she's had an emergency. We all have them from time to time, and she does have good feedback normally. Ive been on the verge of booking her for a month or so now, and been following her profile / feedback.
Not good when you miss out or get messed about but shit happens now and again

Profile now gone

[Jay-Jay]

Unless of course she saw you doing your initial reconoitre and thought,"Fuck that......I'm retiring from the game from this moment on!"

Joke....seriously that was a bummer but as has been said,sounds like there could be an explanation.

Jay

[Rochdull lad]

Unless of course she saw you doing your initial reconoitre and thought,"Fuck that......I'm retiring from the game from this moment on!"

Joke....seriously that was a bummer but as has been said,sounds like there could be an explanation.

Jay

Indeed, Jay.  But as I pointed out in the OP, I had told her on the phone of my congenital physical handicap and how it affects my punting.  During the conversation, Kim took the attitude all WGs have done when I've mentioned it to them [which I always do before a first meeting], "We can work round that."

I'm sure there is an explanation; it's just a pity she didn't send me a 1-line text saying "Sorry, something's cropped up; won't be able to see you."  That would have saved me a load of hassle.

[Jay-Jay]

I had told her on the phone of my congenital physical handicap
Apologies Rl......hadn't even noticed that in your OP and it makes my comment rather insensitive. not meant at all.

Jay

[Ben4454]

As a safety precaution never let a WG know your location before the punt. For example `Just outside the block of flats now. ` - Of course you can tell her you are there  but in reality you are 1 min away-  If she requests this then its a red flag.  Its also good to case the place out and look for suspitious figures hanginf around the area in cars etc - Sorry to hear of your wasted journey. Happened to all of us at one point. Always have plan B

[threechilliman]

As a safety precaution never let a WG know your location before the punt. For example `Just outside the block of flats now. ` - Of course you can tell her you are there  but in reality you are 1 min away-  If she requests this then its a red flag.  Its also good to case the place out and look for suspitious figures hanginf around the area in cars etc - Sorry to hear of your wasted journey. Happened to all of us at one point. Always have plan B

Can you expand a bit for the rookies amongst us?