Author Topic: SEXY VIVIEN x2 - E15 - "Not tonight, son"  (Read 17357 times)


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Offline JPin

Preamble: Only been at this punting malarkey for a month or so, and this was only my fourth (attempted) punt so still very very fresh to the whole thing and finding my feet. When I first came across this forum, Vivien caught my eye straight away and she was the first SP I put on my HL. Thought I'd work myself up to booking her and was actually trying to book a few others on the day I booked her, but had no joy, so now was the time...

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Price - £110 for 60 mins (Refunded, which I will explain below)

Services - Light kissing, little bit of OWO

Date - March

Comms - Booked a few hours before on the day. Comms were all good and she checked I was on my way 15 mins before. Slight stress at the entrance to her building as my battery ran out, so had to use back up phone.

Location - Easy enough to walk to from Stratford station. A big apartment block so you'd probably expect people to be in and out a lot. Building has a receptionist, but they were preoccupied when I arrived and exited.

What's she like? - Sexy by name.... Confident, jovial, good humoured. Better than her pics I thought; tight bod, nicely enhanced breasts, good arse, sexy toned legs - just my type actually.

The service - So, this NBA thing has been a bit difficult for me to stomach having never really experienced anything like it before. Reached out to a few SPs lately that have said they don't accept bookings from guys of my complexion. I'm quite sensitive so have found it hard having to even ask them. Anyway, this is part of the reason why this meet was particularly disappointing. I had explained my heritage and she was cool with it, great...

When I got there, she seemed impressed with my appearance and was full of beans. Cracked a few jokes, and even put on some music that related to my heritage. Played with my hair. Anxiety immediately evaporated. Could tell we were gonna have some fun. Paperwork handed over, took the offer of a shower.

Came back into the room with a towel wrapped around me and my boxers still on. She gestured for me to take them off, took a look at the little fella (who was still flaccid at this point) and said, "Is it big?". I don't think it's that big so I said, "It's not massive... suck it and see!". So she gave me a bit of OWO, got me hard, popped it out of her mouth and said, "Too big". She explained that she'd had a bad experience in the past that left her bleeding. I tried to gently persuade her, she offered to give me head and CIM for £40 but I don't usually cum through oral and I wanted to give that body a seeing to. So.... stalemate, little fella instantly back to flaccid. Stood there for a couple seconds like, "Ah man!". I mean, what do you do?! She was very polite and nice about it, no aggression, seemed genuinely a bit worried. Then we had a bit of awkward chat while I put my clothes back on (urgh), again totally pleasant and I guess she wanted to somehow quell my disappointment.

Left feeling mega deflated, especially with the previous knock backs while trying to book other SPs. I honestly have never had any women complain about my cock size before. Perhaps she could have given it a try but I didn't want to pay for a half-hearted attempt that would have probably been aborted anyway. Real shame as I proper fancied her and I'm sure we would have had a lot of fun together, but it wasn't to be.

Summary - Some might call this a negative but she gave me money back without question, and was really lovely throughout the whole 10/15 minutes I was there. Recommended to guys with small(ish) willies!

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Amazing that she refunded you. Genuine girl.

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Obviously not a racist thing on her part, perhaps the often seen questions on reviews of " can she take the D " or " can she take a pounding " might explain a lot more than putting things down to race.
Her pussy is the tool of her trade, faulty tools means no work and no money in any trade requiring them.
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Offline JPin

Obviously not a racist thing on her part, perhaps the often seen questions on reviews of " can she take the D " or " can she take a pounding " might explain a lot more than putting things down to race.
Her pussy is the tool of her trade, faulty tools means no work and no money in any trade requiring them.

Of course, and I totally understood that and was very nice about it.

I wasn't saying it was racially motivated, there wasn't even a hint of that but in light of other recent experiences it was a lot more demoralising and that's why I mentioned the NBA thing - just to give a broader context regarding my disappointment.
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Least you got some money back which is descent of her, sorry didn't go as planned Bro.

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Of course, and I totally understood that and was very nice about it.

I wasn't saying it was racially motivated, there wasn't even a hint of that but in light of other recent experiences it was a lot more demoralising and that's why I mentioned the NBA thing - just to give a broader context regarding my disappointment.

Mate, do not get disheartened, the point I was making is it may well not be a racist thing when they have a NBA, some seem intent on ruining a pussy and putting it out of action, bleeding, sore or whatever. No one wants blood, or to work in pain.
She was in fear of it happening and politely declined and returned your money, offered to do a service she was happy with, everyone is free to make personal choices.

Maybe if you had gone with her offer things would have changed, you will never know now. Lots put preferences on profiles, lots do not for fear of sounding racist, not a lot you can do about it except be upfront and honest to avoid travelling and time wasting, I am sure there are those that have a preference for black guys, same as some white men have preferences for black or Asian women, do you have any preferences yourself?

All part of the game we play.
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There are more than a few great performers listed here who can handle "more", just do your research and you won't have any worries.  You'll soon spot the punters packing a "Linford" and they'll be able to steer you straight.

Shame the neutral is gonna seem to be against her but given her described behaviour I think the girl behaved creditably, especially as you got free OWO!

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Obviously not a racist thing on her part, perhaps the often seen questions on reviews of " can she take the D " or " can she take a pounding " might explain a lot more than putting things down to race.
Her pussy is the tool of her trade, faulty tools means no work and no money in any trade requiring them.

100% spot on

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There are more than a few great performers listed here who can handle "more", just do your research and you won't have any worries.  You'll soon spot the punters packing a "Linford" and they'll be able to steer you straight.

Shame the neutral is gonna seem to be against her but given her described behaviour I think the girl behaved creditably, especially as you got free OWO!

This too

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OP what's your preference

Race
Body type
Services

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Unfortunately contrary to what porn projects about BBCs. Big dick is bad for work and most women can't hack it. Unlucky OP, don't feel down about it, as soon as you leave they won't remember you so don't take it personally. Part and parcel of the game.

Offline JPin

Cheers everyone. Just getting my head around a whole world of strange new experiences.


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Unfortunately contrary to what porn projects about BBCs. Big dick is bad for work and most women can't hack it. Unlucky OP, don't feel down about it, as soon as you leave they won't remember you so don't take it personally. Part and parcel of the game.

this

its why i ask everyone if someone can take a pounding, what that does is it opens the scope for what they will allow/can take. i almost never "dick down" anyone, but what i know i will absolutely not like is someone saying "slow slow slow, veeeeery slow baby" , you go slow and they still say "come fast and quick for me baby"....like WTF?"...

Most women cannot hack it and so those that can become regulars

Offline JPin

OP what's your preference

Race
Body type
Services

Sorry, took a while to respond to this.

You know what, I like a bit of everything to be honest. If you could see my HL, there's milfs/gilfs, Thai, slim Russians, thicc PAWGs...

Offline JPin

Shame the neutral is gonna seem to be against her but given her described behaviour I think the girl behaved creditably, especially as you got free OWO!

100%. On reflection, the neutral should be a positive. She didn't actually do anything wrong and my emotions/disappointment/pre-punt state of mind totally clouded my reviewing capabilites.

Offline NigelF

100%. On reflection, the neutral should be a positive. She didn't actually do anything wrong and my emotions/disappointment/pre-punt state of mind totally clouded my reviewing capabilites.

I’ve changed it to a positive for you. If you want it reversed (or to change another of your review ratings) then just report the relevant post and ask for it to be changed.

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Offline pa5151

On the plus side you have a massive cock  :hi:

Offline unus669

Chin up OP, NBA unfortunately is part of this hobby of ours.

I had a similar experience years ago, before I became a member here. The Polish SP wasn’t sure she could manage me in her front and backdoor. I suggest a BJ , to check sizing, she was happy with my size and only needed a little warming up for Anal.

I guess, she decided I had a tiny one in the end :D

Offline MysteryManNo.7

Shame that happened to you OP but at least to me that seems like a nice reason to get let down in a way.

I'm curious if you find certain positions with women tricky due to the size of your equipment. I ask as I am rather well endowed myself and whilst I have had almost every woman I've been with comment on its size (some of them seemed genuinely a bit scared when I revealed it) I've not as of yet been turned down because of it however I have had problems multiple times with positions, particularly doggy, in which multiple women have straight up told me we can't do it or have called it off midway through as it penetrates them too deeply, hitting their cervix and causing them pain.

As 'lillythesavage' quite rightly put, her pussy is her tool of her trade and I imagine having it pounded by a larger than average man could put her out of action for a few days. I remember one of the HOD girls (Billie) telling me during our first meeting that on her first day one of the most well endowed guys she had ever met fucked her as hard as he could and she was scared to say anything due to him also being a large due and muscular, as a result she was left unable to work for a few days as she was so sore and bruised down there. 

Anyway, try not to feel too bad about it, I'm glad you posted this review as it's a difficult subject to talk about without sounding like you're bragging as, as I can confirm, sometimes having a larger than average meat-missile is not a blessing.

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You know what, honestly, besides one ex-girlfriend who occasionally complained (though she moaned about everything), I don't think I've ever had an issue with any civvie girls. It's only been since I started punting that it's been commented on as much and it's become a pre-sex consideration. And understandably so. I would never expect SPs to simply take a pounding from a massive cock because they're being paid for a service, but my ego got bruised by what I perceived to be a "rejection" at the time.

After this experience I've taken time to reflect, take a more balanced view and steel myself for other such instances of this happening.

I literally never thought it was even that big, but I guess it poses more of a threat when you start to consider that one big dick could amount to a few days of lost earnings as lilythesavage pointed out.

The punting game can be a mind fuck for anyone I'm sure, but when you add in the complications of ethnicity, cock size and so on, it can even more of a challenge to your state of mind. Especially if you're a sensitive soul...  :angelgirl:

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You know what, honestly, besides one ex-girlfriend who occasionally complained (though she moaned about everything), I don't think I've ever had an issue with any civvie girls. It's only been since I started punting that it's been commented on as much and it's become a pre-sex consideration. And understandably so. I would never expect SPs to simply take a pounding from a massive cock because they're being paid for a service, but my ego got bruised by what I perceived to be a "rejection" at the time.

After this experience I've taken time to reflect, take a more balanced view and steel myself for other such instances of this happening.

I literally never thought it was even that big, but I guess it poses more of a threat when you start to consider that one big dick could amount to a few days of lost earnings as lilythesavage pointed out.

The punting game can be a mind fuck for anyone I'm sure, but when you add in the complications of ethnicity, cock size and so on, it can even more of a challenge to your state of mind. Especially if you're a sensitive soul...  :angelgirl:

All good points, I have had ex girlfriends complain, one as she was breaking up with me saying my cock was too big for her and hurt to take it which simultaneously made me feel good (that I was big) and annoyed that she had at no point in our relationship told me it was causing her pain. One other just bragged about me to her friends and I couldn't understand why all her female friends were so flirty with me until a mutual told me she had revealed my size to them.

I was also like you thinking I'm not even that big (even though I have measured myself countless times and do come in significantly above the average in both length & girth) and have had a lot of women comment on it, I suppose one reason is we're always seeing it from one angle, above, whereas she is seeing it from another, usually from below, where it tends to look a lot larger and more threatening.

I guess if it is your job to take multiple cocks in a day to earn your living trying to take something that looks like it would re-arrange your insides is a daunting prospect to some SPs.

I understand you possibly feeling conflicted about how to feel but don't lose hope, there are plenty of size queens out there and every woman is different.


Offline Saltnpepper

Preamble: Only been at this punting malarkey for a month or so, and this was only my fourth (attempted) punt so still very very fresh to the whole thing and finding my feet. When I first came across this forum, Vivien caught my eye straight away and she was the first SP I put on my HL. Thought I'd work myself up to booking her and was actually trying to book a few others on the day I booked her, but had no joy, so now was the time...

Link - External Link/Members Only

Price - £110 for 60 mins (Refunded, which I will explain below)

Services - Light kissing, little bit of OWO

Date - March

Comms - Booked a few hours before on the day. Comms were all good and she checked I was on my way 15 mins before. Slight stress at the entrance to her building as my battery ran out, so had to use back up phone.

Location - Easy enough to walk to from Stratford station. A big apartment block so you'd probably expect people to be in and out a lot. Building has a receptionist, but they were preoccupied when I arrived and exited.

What's she like? - Sexy by name.... Confident, jovial, good humoured. Better than her pics I thought; tight bod, nicely enhanced breasts, good arse, sexy toned legs - just my type actually.

The service - So, this NBA thing has been a bit difficult for me to stomach having never really experienced anything like it before. Reached out to a few SPs lately that have said they don't accept bookings from guys of my complexion. I'm quite sensitive so have found it hard having to even ask them. Anyway, this is part of the reason why this meet was particularly disappointing. I had explained my heritage and she was cool with it, great...

When I got there, she seemed impressed with my appearance and was full of beans. Cracked a few jokes, and even put on some music that related to my heritage. Played with my hair. Anxiety immediately evaporated. Could tell we were gonna have some fun. Paperwork handed over, took the offer of a shower.

Came back into the room with a towel wrapped around me and my boxers still on. She gestured for me to take them off, took a look at the little fella (who was still flaccid at this point) and said, "Is it big?". I don't think it's that big so I said, "It's not massive... suck it and see!". So she gave me a bit of OWO, got me hard, popped it out of her mouth and said, "Too big". She explained that she'd had a bad experience in the past that left her bleeding. I tried to gently persuade her, she offered to give me head and CIM for £40 but I don't usually cum through oral and I wanted to give that body a seeing to. So.... stalemate, little fella instantly back to flaccid. Stood there for a couple seconds like, "Ah man!". I mean, what do you do?! She was very polite and nice about it, no aggression, seemed genuinely a bit worried. Then we had a bit of awkward chat while I put my clothes back on (urgh), again totally pleasant and I guess she wanted to somehow quell my disappointment.

Left feeling mega deflated, especially with the previous knock backs while trying to book other SPs. I honestly have never had any women complain about my cock size before. Perhaps she could have given it a try but I didn't want to pay for a half-hearted attempt that would have probably been aborted anyway. Real shame as I proper fancied her and I'm sure we would have had a lot of fun together, but it wasn't to be.

Summary - Some might call this a negative but she gave me money back without question, and was really lovely throughout the whole 10/15 minutes I was there. Recommended to guys with small(ish) willies!

Don't worry my bro I've had the similar issues just like you at first I thought wtf then spoke to a few WG and they said the same thing which is understandable. What really gripes me is when there is no explanation, it's NBA or " I've had a bad experience with a black man , 🙃 wtf has that got to do with a whole race .what has that got to do with moi. 🤷🏾‍♂️

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What really gripes me is when there is no explanation, it's NBA or " I've had a bad experience with a black man , 🙃 wtf has that got to do with a whole race .what has that got to do with moi. 🤷🏾‍♂️

Always found the “no black guys because of bad experience” excuse to be so stupid why put some ones actions down to the race they are that’s  like saying you’ll never ride in a red car again because you had an accident in one there’s no correlation  :dash:

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Shame that happened to you OP but at least to me that seems like a nice reason to get let down in a way.

I'm curious if you find certain positions with women tricky due to the size of your equipment. I ask as I am rather well endowed myself and whilst I have had almost every woman I've been with comment on its size (some of them seemed genuinely a bit scared when I revealed it) I've not as of yet been turned down because of it however I have had problems multiple times with positions, particularly doggy, in which multiple women have straight up told me we can't do it or have called it off midway through as it penetrates them too deeply, hitting their cervix and causing them pain.

As 'lillythesavage' quite rightly put, her pussy is her tool of her trade and I imagine having it pounded by a larger than average man could put her out of action for a few days. I remember one of the HOD girls (Billie) telling me during our first meeting that on her first day one of the most well endowed guys she had ever met fucked her as hard as he could and she was scared to say anything due to him also being a large due and muscular, as a result she was left unable to work for a few days as she was so sore and bruised down there. 

Anyway, try not to feel too bad about it, I'm glad you posted this review as it's a difficult subject to talk about without sounding like you're bragging as, as I can confirm, sometimes having a larger than average meat-missile is not a blessing.

So its safe to say then that if you say someone can take a pounding then they are a goer

Any big booty names for us?

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Always found the “no black guys because of bad experience” excuse to be so stupid why put some ones actions down to the race they are that’s  like saying you’ll never ride in a red car again because you had an accident in one there’s no correlation  :dash:

 :lol: good analogy

Offline MysteryManNo.7

So its safe to say then that if you say someone can take a pounding then they are a goer

Any big booty names for us?

Ha, I'm definitely not an authority on the subject and as I say, all women are different. Most of the women I've been with (in fact all but one in terms of punting) have been via HOD and most of them have now left.

Three in particular who really struggled to take me particularly in doggy were Scarlett, Bethany and Viktoria. Elle and Ophelia, whom I have both reviewed and still work at HOD, have not reported any issues so far though, as I mention in my review, I did go a bit too deep with Elle and she did cry out at one point. I'm also a lot more cautious in general about going too deep compared to when I was new to the game.   

It's not an exact science and I imagine it is very rare to get turned away specifically for the reason OP encountered but overall just be sensible and considerate. I get that we are paying them to pleasure us but doesn't mean we need to not consider one size does not fit all. 

Offline JPin

Always found the “no black guys because of bad experience” excuse to be so stupid why put some ones actions down to the race they are that’s  like saying you’ll never ride in a red car again because you had an accident in one there’s no correlation  :dash:

THIS.

So they've never had bad experiences with anyone from any other ethnicity? I guess it's just a convenient way to exclude people you don't want to see.

Obviously us chatting about this won't change anything on their side, but it is weirdly comforting to hear similar experiences and feel like I'm not alone in this. So thanks to you all.

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THIS.

So they've never had bad experiences with anyone from any other ethnicity? I guess it's just a convenient way to exclude people you don't want to see.

Obviously us chatting about this won't change anything on their side, but it is weirdly comforting to hear similar experiences and feel like I'm not alone in this. So thanks to you all.


You changed this to a positive review because the SP explained to you politely and personally the " Bad Experience " and did not have an exclusion policy, yet you quote someone and agree with who does not understand having an exclusion policy?

You cannot have it every way, you got reasons, first hand from the horses mouth.
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I changed it to a positive because the SP did nothing wrong, as I explained.

And yes, I do agree that tarring an entire group with same brush due to a "bad experience" is difficult to understand. Not this particular SP by the way, as you mentioned, she didn't have that policy - we're talking more generally here. Would be a bit different (and maybe more accurate) if they said 'I don't see guys with big dicks due to bad experience'.

Do you see where I'm coming from?

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I changed it to a positive because the SP did nothing wrong, as I explained.

And yes, I do agree that tarring an entire group with same brush due to a "bad experience" is difficult to understand. Not this particular SP by the way, as you mentioned, she didn't have that policy - we're talking more generally here. Would be a bit different (and maybe more accurate) if they said 'I don't see guys with big dicks due to bad experience'.

Do you see where I'm coming from?

Not really, you had it explained to you face to face by the SP, big guys pounding away damaging her and putting her out of work, she decided not to put on profile, but if she had would have saved you the trip. Do you not think the guy that did it to her does not do it to others or there are other guys doing the same?

Others do put it on profile, save you the trip or having the conversation you had with this SP. Others want to avoid being put out of work by people with large cocks that think doing injury is ok. The few always ruin things for the many.

Then there is personal preference, which you seem to have for white women? Is that racial profiling. ?
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Not really, you had it explained to you face to face by the SP, big guys pounding away damaging her and putting her out of work, she decided not to put on profile, but if she had would have saved you the trip. Do you not think the guy that did it to her does not do it to others or there are other guys doing the same?

Others do put it on profile, save you the trip or having the conversation you had with this SP. Others want to avoid being put out of work by people with large cocks that think doing injury is ok. The few always ruin things for the many.

Then there is personal preference, which you seem to have for white women? Is that racial profiling. ?

Are you trying to justify racial profiling from SPs?

You do know there's big guys from all races, likewise there's a number of girls who are just smaller on the inside.

Why would SPs even put a big dick policy on their profile it's more rare than you think. The average penis size in the uk 5.1 inches, once you start getting to 6.5inches+ you're talking about sizes only 5% of all men have.

What the SP did was the best way to handle it, she has no racial profiling and decided on the spot that she couldn't handle his size, she told him so politely and offered an alternative service. For all we know she's said the same thing to a number of white and asian men who also have larger sizes.

Girls who have a blanket NBA policy with no reasoning behind it are clearly just racists.   

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Are you trying to justify racial profiling from SPs?

You do know there's big guys from all races, likewise there's a number of girls who are just smaller on the inside.

Why would SPs even put a big dick policy on their profile it's more rare than you think. The average penis size in the uk 5.1 inches, once you start getting to 6.5inches+ you're talking about sizes only 5% of all men have.

What the SP did was the best way to handle it, she has no racial profiling and decided on the spot that she couldn't handle his size, she told him so politely and offered an alternative service. For all we know she's said the same thing to a number of white and asian men who also have larger sizes.

Girls who have a blanket NBA policy with no reasoning behind it are clearly just racists.   

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Are you trying to justify racial profiling from SPs?

You do know there's big guys from all races, likewise there's a number of girls who are just smaller on the inside.

Why would SPs even put a big dick policy on their profile it's more rare than you think. The average penis size in the uk 5.1 inches, once you start getting to 6.5inches+ you're talking about sizes only 5% of all men have.

What the SP did was the best way to handle it, she has no racial profiling and decided on the spot that she couldn't handle his size, she told him so politely and offered an alternative service. For all we know she's said the same thing to a number of white and asian men who also have larger sizes.

Girls who have a blanket NBA policy with no reasoning behind it are clearly just racists.   

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If an SP cannot take hammering and certain size dick, it can be stated on her profile. You don’t need a NBA policy, to convey such a message for f**ks sake :dash:

Some SPs do state size being an issue.

Offline SeriousLee

I had a similar issue with Vivien. Tried to see her for 15 minutes when she was in Forest Gate area. Refused to have intercourse, sucked my dick for a few minutes and then gave me back my money.

She mentioned that I should have told her that I have a huge dick but I can't say its ever occurred to me to bring it up as she's the first person in say a 100 people that I ever had a size issue with. Only other was a Romanian woman I saw that did intercourse but didn't want to do doggy.

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I had a similar issue with Vivien. Tried to see her for 15 minutes when she was in Forest Gate area. Refused to have intercourse, sucked my dick for a few minutes and then gave me back my money.

She mentioned that I should have told her that I have a huge dick but I can't say its ever occurred to me to bring it up as she's the first person in say a 100 people that I ever had a size issue with. Only other was a Romanian woman I saw that did intercourse but didn't want to do doggy.

Maybe she’s in the wrong profession  :D

It would probably help all concerned, if she stated on her profile, she only allows micro dicks or dicks less than 4 inches to penetrate her? That way if you’re 4 inches +, you know you’re only getting a blow job :unknown:

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does she accept dicks ranging from 5.5 to 6.5?
I have her on my HL.
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Offline oinki

She clearly needs to state that she is not ok with dick sizes of x cm in her profile...


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Not really, you had it explained to you face to face by the SP, big guys pounding away damaging her and putting her out of work, she decided not to put on profile, but if she had would have saved you the trip. Do you not think the guy that did it to her does not do it to others or there are other guys doing the same?

Others do put it on profile, save you the trip or having the conversation you had with this SP. Others want to avoid being put out of work by people with large cocks that think doing injury is ok. The few always ruin things for the many.

Then there is personal preference, which you seem to have for white women? Is that racial profiling. ?

I am 100% on board with a working girl being allowed to work with who they want to, they should never be put in a situation where they HAVE to sleep with someone they dont want to (though in this business it is work for them but its a bitter pill they swallow)

..but what you said just there sounds a bit rubbish to me.

All she has to do is say she doesnt want big dicks to come and visit her. Simple are that. Everything else you said is unecessary.

She Works in the sex industry,..preference isnt a problem for her....to a certain degree anyway.

"Others want to avoid being put out of work by people with large cocks that think doing injury is ok." State on the profile that you dont want to see big sizes...or during the meet that if you are big size then is slow motion all the way through....now if you say that to someone and they ignore you...thats a whole other problem in itself (and that problem is NOT race related)

Like i said, fully in support of her being allowed to choose who she wants to fuck...but the stuff you mentioned regarding the profiling, no thanks

Offline Convince Me

Can those who've been turned down give us an indication of what Viven deems to be large. Would help save the rest of time & potentially exposing ourselves as Fotum members.

Offline SeriousLee

I'm 8 or 9 inches and I am not particularly girthy, average width penis I believe and I was turned down so I would guess 5½ and below would be her acceptable range.

She didn't state a size just my assumption.

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Offline Royalasianlad

Hey there all, I saw Vivien when she was working in Bethnal Green the initial punt got off to a good start with her giving me OWO shortly moving to 69. However it did go slightly downhill after she applied the rubber on, now I would say I'm between 6-7 inches and when asking If I could start in doggy she mentioned missionary as "I'm a little bit big" now while in missionary she seemed to be able to take the whole length and seemed to be enjoying herself too. Maybe this was the reason to her then allowing doggy.

Offline DomUK

As you guys have mentioned a NBA policy is racist no ifs or buts, there are guys big from every race and to simply say only black guys aren’t allowed because of size is insulting to all. Either specify a size limit, say you don’t wanna see black guys or admit you might be in the wrong profession and can’t take dick.

Online last_days_of_logan

I'm 8 or 9 inches and I am not particularly girthy, average width penis I believe and I was turned down so I would guess 5½ and below would be her acceptable range.

She didn't state a size just my assumption.

8 vs 9 is actually a VERY big different ..1 potentially just touches/tickles the cervix.....the other outright busts right through it and can be very painful

Online last_days_of_logan

As you guys have mentioned a NBA policy is racist no ifs or buts, there are guys big from every race and to simply say only black guys aren’t allowed because of size is insulting to all. Either specify a size limit, say you don’t wanna see black guys or admit you might be in the wrong profession and can’t take dick.

NBA is indeed racial profiling but i actually dont think that some of the SPs that do it are racist or trying to be racist. Its a numbers game and for THEM they might feel that a higher proportion of a certain group are difficult customers..so they eliminate that group entirely.

Then there is also the fear and stigma associated with being black, to some from foreign lands...these boogeyman stories might be seared into their brains and they cant help them selves but be scared...who knows

Offline unus669

NBA is indeed racial profiling but i actually dont think that some of the SPs that do it are racist or trying to be racist. Its a numbers game and for THEM they might feel that a higher proportion of a certain group are difficult customers..so they eliminate that group entirely.

Then there is also the fear and stigma associated with being black, to some from foreign lands...these boogeyman stories might be seared into their brains and they cant help them selves but be scared...who knows

Agreed.

There are several non-racial reasons, why some SPs apply NBA’s, that have been highlighted over the years. However, I believe many are racially based.

Offline Saltnpepper

NBA is indeed racial profiling but i actually dont think that some of the SPs that do it are racist or trying to be racist. Its a numbers game and for THEM they might feel that a higher proportion of a certain group are difficult customers..so they eliminate that group entirely.

Then there is also the fear and stigma associated with being black, to some from foreign lands...these boogeyman stories might be seared into their brains and they cant help them selves but be scared...who knows


💯 Agree

Offline MysteryManNo.7

8 vs 9 is actually a VERY big different ..1 potentially just touches/tickles the cervix.....the other outright busts right through it and can be very painful

I'm between 7-7.5 and I find myself bottoming out and hitting the cervix of most women, I've only met one who actually liked it. 

A genuine 8-9, which is almost unheard of, would be way too much for most women to take especially in a position like Doggy. No way you'd be able to get balls deep into most women with a penis that long.

Offline Convince Me

8 vs 9 is actually a VERY big different ..1 potentially just touches/tickles the cervix.....the other outright busts right through it and can be very painful
Saved me a visit  :drinks:

Offline Convince Me

I'm between 7-7.5 and I find myself bottoming out and hitting the cervix of most women, I've only met one who actually liked it. 
I feel your pain. Had an affair with a work collegue & her cervix got in the way!