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Offline Matium

You only have to read the prostitute forums to see the venomous contempt for punters and time and again their vitriol is reserved for those punters who cross their "boundaries" by wanting more than a physical encounter.

If using a prostitute is just a physical encounter with no intimacy, affection, feeling or emotion then is it just a glorified wank?

They are woman ...
I got close to a girl over a period of time and we became mates until i left fr on aw on two other girls then she went ever so slightly loopy

so sadly its all a glorified wank   but some of them are good at it  :drinks:

Offline AnthG

If using a prostitute is just a physical encounter with no intimacy, affection, feeling or emotion then is it just a glorified wank?
What more do you want. It would be great if the fit 19 year old said at the end, you know that was great lets go out on a proper date but it just does not happen.

And from seeing my first Escort a month to the day now all I can say is if you can get something similar from wanking then I have definitely been doing it wrong all these years.  :blush:

Wanking does not come near the real thing!  You can not beat the feel of
a soft female body next to you and  doing all the things to na dwith you that you enjoy.
Enjoy the fantasy while you can, and don't try to analize it. Perhaps I have been lucky
in my choise of WG's, On a scale of 1 to 10 most have been 7 plus and only had the odd
punt that was somewhat lacking.  I think it can be all down to attitude for both parties,
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Offline Wayang

In my experience very few WGs can do nearly as good a wank as self-service - and that does not cost you £150!

In reality many WGs do provide no more than a wanking service and delude punters into spending £150 for no more than a glorified wank.
As JRC once said - "I emptied my sacs" - now if that is no more than an expensive wank..............

Offline Wife4rent

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You eat when you are hungry, sometimes it gives you pleasure, sometimes it just fills a need.

Offline smiths

Wanking does not come near the real thing!  You can not beat the feel of
a soft female body next to you and  doing all the things to na dwith you that you enjoy.
Enjoy the fantasy while you can, and don't try to analize it. Perhaps I have been lucky
in my choise of WG's, On a scale of 1 to 10 most have been 7 plus and only had the odd
punt that was somewhat lacking.  I think it can be all down to attitude for both parties,
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Indeed. It all comes down the WGs attitude, mine is already good when punting. Most of my punts have been average, good or better.

Offline RedAlertTourist

If a girl is enthusiastic, likes her job, makes the same effort as me into pleasuring and we "click". Its a dream one night stand (and a measure of how all one night stands should be  ;).

If she doesn't like her job- isn't willing to perform certain sex acts or lies outright about her likes list (cherry girl from Adultwork I'm looking at you  :mad:). Its more of a glorified lapdance and therefore a complete waste of time, Money and additional expenses (additional travel tickets, parking, petrol, time, cost of eating out, coffee beer etc).
« Last Edit: June 07, 2011, 04:47:18 PM by RedAlertTourist »

Offline sacredrealm


Wanking does not come near the real thing!  You can not beat the feel of
a soft female body next to you and  doing all the things to na dwith you that you enjoy.
Enjoy the fantasy while you can, and don't try to analize it. Perhaps I have been lucky
in my choise of WG's, On a scale of 1 to 10 most have been 7 plus and only had the odd
punt that was somewhat lacking.  I think it can be all down to attitude for both parties,
a

If a girl is enthusiastic, likes her job, makes the same effort as me into pleasuring and we "click". Its a dream one night stand (and a measure of how all one night stands should be  ;).

If she doesn't like her job- isn't willing to perform certain sex acts or lies outright about her likes list (cherry girl from Adultwork I'm looking at you  :mad:). Its more of a glorified lapdance and therefore a complete waste of time, Money and additional expenses (additional travel tickets, parking, petrol, time, cost of eating out, coffee beer etc).


Its this that makes me find it hard to choose when thinkin about booking. I dont like to think how I'd feel if I felt completley let down in some way by it the first time I do it.

Offline BlueSteel

Indeed. It all comes down the WGs attitude, mine is already good when punting. Most of my punts have been average, good or better.

Agreed, the girl's attitude makes or breaks a good punt.

Offline RedAlertTourist

If using a prostitute is just a physical encounter with no intimacy, affection, feeling or emotion then is it just a glorified wank?

Well there is a world of difference between "intimacy, affection, feeling and emotion" versus having "fun and full service (Kissing, O.W.O and CIM) sexual contact".

A W/G, Prostitute, Escort can provide the latter.
But for the former that's where you need a girlfriend, loving wife or at least some long term partner.

I'm no different. In an ideal world I would date/sleep with some of the Escorts I've seen at the drop of a hat if they were interested, outside the confines and boundaries of the "Escort/Client" agreement. But common sense tells me why this isn't possible.

I've cancelled an Escort booking tomorrow because frankly I'm not in the mood for another "pipe dream". Before getting into Escorting I was forewarned by a forum user (on a non Punter forum) that the world of Escorting is just that- an expensive pipe dream.
Like smoking weed, or snorting a line of coke it is no substitute for long term happiness. More like a temporary relief before that disappears into thin air the instant it wears off and you realise you have nothing to show for it (and can't remember the experience).

The only thing that changes is digits falling from your bank account.

Offline sacredrealm

Well there is a world of difference between "intimacy, affection, feeling and emotion" versus having "fun and full service (Kissing, O.W.O and CIM) sexual contact".

A W/G, Prostitute, Escort can provide the latter.
But for the former that's where you need a girlfriend, loving wife or at least some long term partner.

I'm no different. In an ideal world I would date/sleep with some of the Escorts I've seen at the drop of a hat if they were interested, outside the confines and boundaries of the "Escort/Client" agreement. But common sense tells me why this isn't possible.

I've cancelled an Escort booking tomorrow because frankly I'm not in the mood for another "pipe dream". Before getting into Escorting I was forewarned by a forum user (on a non Punter forum) that the world of Escorting is just that- an expensive pipe dream.
Like smoking weed, or snorting a line of coke it is no substitute for long term happiness. More like a temporary relief before that disappears into thin air the instant it wears off and you realise you have nothing to show for it (and can't remember the experience).

The only thing that changes is digits falling from your bank account.

It might be strange but in one way, I actually find that about it quite comforting to think about haha. I don't know maybe because theres no deep involement or emotions to complicate it. Or maybe because of how I feel about the idea of myslef doing the act. Like the thought of it being like a dream in a way kind of makes it feel like its......well, a dream and just a way of trying it out. And then it being as if it never happened haha. Of course I'd know about it, but thats just me.

However, of course at sometimes I do crave that emotional involvment.
But one thing about that, is in my mind its almost sometimes as if that is seperate from my drive for sex, and that sometimes depending on how I feel they might not go together well. I don't know.
Another thing about this is a don't want an actual girlfriend anyway even if I had the option of it. So it would be difficult to get that.

I sometimes worry that after putting so much effort into thinking about about/planing the escort idea, that afterwards, like you said in a way, I'll think, well I'm still just as empty. But now feel like theres nothing to reach for that would help that.
However i the experience although not lsting feels very good. That might be fine. And I can just look forward to ding it again sometime.
« Last Edit: June 09, 2011, 05:08:54 PM by sacredrealm »

Offline SteveNova


If using a prostitute is just a physical encounter with no intimacy, affection, feeling or emotion then is it just a glorified wank?
It's what goes into the encounter: how it's performed and whether you 'click' with the WG.  It's not a relationship but most will not be looking for that.  OWO, cuddles and French kissing are an adrenalin rush and once the session has ended the mind turns to the next encounter.  I have never found wanking has the same effect or produced the same longing for the next session.

Offline Wife4rent

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I sometimes worry that after putting so much effort into thinking about about/planing the escort idea

I never really thought that guys put much effort into it, I thought they just made contact when they were feeling horny and wanted to unload

Offline smiths

I never really thought that guys put much effort into it, I thought they just made contact when they were feeling horny and wanted to unload

Perhaps your punters dont and simply want to spunk up you BB and leave assuming there not the ones missing out under your double booking modus.

Many punters as evidenced by punting forums enjoy the build-up to a punt and find this anticipation a turn-on, some spend days and weeks exchanging emails and getting a kick out of the whole build-up. I actually prefer to punt same day usually and have little interest in a long build-up.

Offline Matium

Many punters as evidenced by punting forums enjoy the build-up to a punt and find this anticipation a turn-on, some spend days and weeks exchanging emails and getting a kick out of the whole build-up.

The ones who do that are under the illusion that the encounter actually means something to the WG, it doesn't, you only have to read the prostitute forums to see how, time and again, they refer to sex as "work".

Offline Shade

I bet it is with a lot of clients though! And that's a bit of a generalisation, many working girls have argued that they do enjoy the sessions - along with the money too of course. I think the majority of the punts I've had are where a girl has put on a good (or bad) performance, but there's a fair few where I'm pretty certain we had a genuinely passionate session which we both enjoyed. That or they should have been Oscar winning actresses. Either way, I'm not complaining. :)

Funnily enough a friend described losing his virginity as "a glorified wank". And ended up marrying that girl years later. I just hope their sex life has improved since the first time...
« Last Edit: June 10, 2011, 02:17:38 AM by Shade »

Offline RedAlertTourist

many working girls have argued that they do enjoy the sessions - along with the money too of course. <snip> I'm pretty certain we had a genuinely passionate session which we both enjoyed. That or they should have been Oscar winning actresses. Either way, I'm not complaining. :)

Even if an Escort is wet, cums or has a vaginal orgasms- I seriously doubt they enjoy their work, nor does that mean they want to make you part of their life.

I had an Escort who had her first vaginal orgasm with me. Her abs muslces were fluttering, twitching and contracting. Her eyes were doey, she was panting away, begged me to keep going and gushed over me when she came (vaginal juices pouring out of her well contracted and tight opening).
She gave me genuine thanks and we had a cuddle afterwards.

A better question would be would she sleep with you if no Money was involved? If the answer is no then as far as I am concerned she's not interested in you- despite the usual Escort string alone line "what are you doing later, or I know an awesome restuarant we should go out sometime" giving you false hope she wants to date you.

Offline Matium

the usual Escort string alone line "what are you doing later, or I know an awesome restuarant we should go out sometime" giving you false hope she wants to date you.

Why on Earth would any man ever want to date a prostitute?

Dating is all about being intimate and affectionate with a woman who's special and true to you. A prostitute who has sex with 10 - 15 men a week has no comprehension of the word "fidelity". She proves you are not special to her every time the phone rings and off she goes to have sex with strange men for money. How can a man who believes in love bear to be with a woman like that?

How could any man bear to kiss her knowing what she's been doing with her mouth all day long?
« Last Edit: June 10, 2011, 08:34:05 AM by Matium »

Offline James999

Why on Earth would any man ever want to date a prostitute?

because it saves money, you don't have to pay them while dating them, Pro$$ies realise this and as such they develop a very jaded view of men to protect against the loss of income  :cool:

Offline Matium

That's men who want freebies.

I'm talking about men who want a genuine relationship with a woman. Prostitutes never know anything about Fidelity.

Offline James999

That's men who want freebies.

I'm talking about men who want a genuine relationship with a woman. Prostitutes never know anything about Fidelity.

It's one and the same thing, Guys "date" pro$$ies for two reasons, Free sex and Money, sometimes a combination of both where the guy gets his freesex and takes money off her (that she earns shagging) and spends it on other pro$$ies.

Guys will deny this to mask what they are doing, and pro$$ies will say that it's true love etc as they prefer not to believe the truth.

Offline Wife4rent

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Perhaps your punters dont and simply want to spunk up you BB and leave assuming there not the ones missing out under your double booking modus.

I think you summed up the point you seem to have been missing, they wait there turn so do not miss out...

Many punters as evidenced by punting forums enjoy the build-up to a punt and find this anticipation a turn-on, some spend days and weeks exchanging emails and getting a kick out of the whole build-up.

And when it does not happen for many reasons, often their own, I guess they must feel really frustrated

Offline smiths

I think you summed up the point you seem to have been missing, they wait there turn so do not miss out...

And when it does not happen for many reasons, often their own, I guess they must feel really frustrated

You mean apart from those that wouldnt wait at your convenience and those that havent got the time to wait and had relied on you being correct when you gave them the agreed timeslot which you also gave to someone else.

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You mean apart from those that wouldnt wait at your convenience and those that havent got the time to wait and had relied on you being correct when you gave them the agreed timeslot which you also gave to someone else.

Life can be harsh like that.

All I can say is I do recall the time now. I am genuinely sorry that you were left disappointed and will try not to do it again. Please mention who you are next time you make a booking

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