Seeking.com in the South West

[jamesbb]

In the absence of a Welsh Seeking thread (or if there is I cannot find it!)

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Lucie, 33
Cardiff, WLS

Highly engaging, excellent comms, seemingly very plausible story about needs etc.  We met for several platonic dates/ lunches, assisted ££££ at various levels, artfully avoided any chance of intimacy, whilst interspersed with teasing, flirting messages to maintain interest (and ££)….more fool me ! 

Common sense eventually prevails hence this message. 'Lucie' has been on both Seeking and Secret Benefits for several years, so imagine she is well practised...

Latest profile header reads 'Elevated Energy for an Exceptional Gentleman' - so if you just want a bright, pretty blond to flirt with you - go for it!

(Yup….I know, one born every minute, should have taken heed of sage advice given here…)

[jamesbb]

In the absence of a Welsh Seeking thread (or if there is I cannot find it!) here is a potential scam warning about Lucy from Cardiff:

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Talks like normal and then just before meeting she asks for a bank transfer and won't budge on it. She might not be a scammer but I never send money to girls beforehand so not prepared to find out. Anyone else met her? She's from Swansea rather than Cardiff apparently.

Possibly related to the 'Lucie' experience I have just posted ??

[updownandaround]

In the absence of a Welsh Seeking thread (or if there is I cannot find it!)

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Lucie, 33
Cardiff, WLS

Highly engaging, excellent comms, seemingly very plausible story about needs etc.  We met for several platonic dates/ lunches, assisted ££££ at various levels, artfully avoided any chance of intimacy, whilst interspersed with teasing, flirting messages to maintain interest (and ££)….more fool me !

Common sense eventually prevails hence this message. 'Lucie' has been on both Seeking and Secret Benefits for several years, so imagine she is well practised...

Latest profile header reads 'Elevated Energy for an Exceptional Gentleman' - so if you just want a bright, pretty blond to flirt with you - go for it!

(Yup….I know, one born every minute, should have taken heed of sage advice given here…)

She is a scammer and at best a rinser. Avoid.

[Punting2022]

Natalie External Link/Members Only 52
So I fancied a milf and contacted this lady. She liked my pics and me, So we agreed 150 per meet. I made the trip to her as it was cheap.
But she's so disorganised, One meet she forgot she had a appointment cancelled the day before. I had a day use anyway.
We rescheduled. Booked a day use. On the day of the meet, she decides to do errands first that could have waited for after. Half way through my Journey she's like I remembered I have an appointment. So is coming later.

I was nearly there at this stage. I had a day use room. But didnt check in. I explored her town. When she turned up i checked the day use.

Attractive enough, Not the milf like pics, less makeup etc,
Got to the room and was good, Kissing, i went down on her. good sex.
Was hoping to do raw, as shes older and no baby risk. But didnt.
She stayed for 2 hours, Said she will come to me in future. But tbh im more into the younger ladies on seeking.
Good for a milf, but be prepared for cancelations.

[finn5555]

Natalie External Link/Members Only 52

Cracking set of Turkey teeth 

[METEOR]

Natalie External Link/Members Only 52
So I fancied a milf and contacted this lady. She liked my pics and me, So we agreed 150 per meet. I made the trip to her as it was cheap.
But she's so disorganised, One meet she forgot she had a appointment cancelled the day before. I had a day use anyway.
We rescheduled. Booked a day use. On the day of the meet, she decides to do errands first that could have waited for after. Half way through my Journey she's like I remembered I have an appointment. So is coming later.

I was nearly there at this stage. I had a day use room. But didnt check in. I explored her town. When she turned up i checked the day use.

Attractive enough, Not the milf like pics, less makeup etc,
Got to the room and was good, Kissing, i went down on her. good sex.
Was hoping to do raw, as shes older and no baby risk. But didnt.
She stayed for 2 hours, Said she will come to me in future. But tbh im more into the younger ladies on seeking.
Good for a milf, but be prepared for cancelations.

If you want an older women is late 50s too old?
There's one in Trowbridge who will meet at hers for £150 for a a hours and will do raw, anal etc. Looks very good for her age and very nice to chill with

[Prifessionallondinguy]

If you want an older women is late 50s too old?
There's one in Trowbridge who will meet at hers for £150 for a a hours and will do raw, anal etc. Looks very good for her age and very nice to chill with

The queue must be around the block 🤣

[Pawgylove]

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Azriah 23 might be a scammer. She has another profile in the london area, same name but listed as 25. Slightly different photos. Dont have a link to the london profile but saw it earlier while browsing.

[Danj89]

She sent me her number msged her on WhatsApp but next morning got a snap notification, checked it and the snapchat account associated with the number was clearly a guy , so blocked on WhatsApp before she could respond.

[southcoastpunter]

I recently re-subscribed and have been very pleasantly surprised at the response!
This time I increased my age range a bit to include ladies in their 40’s!
I have  22 year old, a 30 year old and 3 in their 40’s on the go and have to whittle them down to just one ( or two at a push !
This is in the Bournemouth and Poole area - one from
Southampton! None are likely to be interested in a PPM hotel only arrangement but if you are after a wider and social arrangement- there are ladies out there ! And all of these have realistic arrangement expectations! So maybe now might be a good time to return and re-try if you have struggled with Seeking in the past!

[Wtt2014]

I recently re-subscribed and have been very pleasantly surprised at the response!
This time I increased my age range a bit to include ladies in their 40’s!
I have  22 year old, a 30 year old and 3 in their 40’s on the go and have to whittle them down to just one ( or two at a push !
This is in the Bournemouth and Poole area - one from
Southampton! None are likely to be interested in a PPM hotel only arrangement but if you are after a wider and social arrangement- there are ladies out there ! And all of these have realistic arrangement expectations! So maybe now might be a good time to return and re-try if you have struggled with Seeking in the past!

I've also returned for a brief stint and also found quite a bit of fresh blood.

This is absolutely not the point but I do find Seeking attracts quite a lot of interesting people. And I don't mean that in a metaphorical or ironic way, I mean genuinely interesting. Even with girls whom it's become quickly clear we aren't likely to meet I find that we sometimes end up chatting for a while regardless.

[Mr Garmin]

This is absolutely not the point but I do find Seeking attracts quite a lot of interesting people.

You're right there, I met one who was a truck driver

[Illya Kurakin]

Had a brief dialogue with this lady who gave off a hot Milfy-vibe. Did not get a sense of being a professional lady. Anyone else have any info?
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[southcoastpunter]

Who is she? Name, age and location would be helpful ( I have disabled my account and am not going to re- enable it just to see who she is)

[Wtt2014]

Who is she? Name, age and location would be helpful ( I have disabled my account and am not going to re- enable it just to see who she is)

Katie, Southampton, 52

[southcoastpunter]

Katie, Southampton, 52

Thanks - sorry, I can’t help you as never seen or even chatted to her!

[Prifessionallondinguy]

I’m spending a night in Bristol shortly before flying off on holiday. Doing my search on seeking.
Any 100% guaranteed ppm ladies anyone could suggest would be appreciated 
I’m ideally looking at Asian but needs must.

[GoodLookinGuy]

Just created a Seeking account again for the first timne in, must be over a year. Got to say I'm pretty disappointed. A lot of the same faces. Probably only one lady localish to me really jumped out at me that I would be very keen to message, so seems a lot of money for that. I remember in the past there were a lot of ladies of interest. At the moment doesn't look like I will subscribe.

[Pawgylove]

Just created a Seeking account again for the first timne in, must be over a year. Got to say I'm pretty disappointed. A lot of the same faces. Probably only one lady localish to me really jumped out at me that I would be very keen to message, so seems a lot of money for that. I remember in the past there were a lot of ladies of interest. At the moment doesn't look like I will subscribe.

Don’t bother subscribing. I did a few months back and realised it was mostly the same girls on rotation, and the new ones either don’t reply or they have demands that I am not interested in meeting.

I have been far more successful when using seeking while away in europe for holidays than I have been in the south west.

[GoodLookinGuy]

Shame as Seeking used to be great, had some really great experiences and met some really greta ladies on there.

[sugardaddy0511]

A few years ago around September time there would be more students. , it seems now they are mostly on onlyfan

[southcoastpunter]

2 or probably 3 years ago , Seeking suddenly and quickly got a reputation among Uni students as an “Escort “ site and this put them off Seeking - I heard that at the time from students at at least 4 different universities!
Escorting was /is viewed by students as a “no” but OF was seen as being “acceptable “

Having said that , our experiences will vary depending on your age, what you actually want, how generous you are, how engaging/ active/funny/social etc you are and whether you are doing PPM’s or monthly allowances - as I reported a few posts back I re-subscribed about 3 months ago and meet 3 lovely ladies and am still struggling to choose between them ! FWIW - I don’t think it would have worked out with 2 of them if I had just offered PPM’s.

[sugardaddy0511]

SCP what an amazing problem to have ! Problem of plenty ! Enjoy 😊 the 3 of them

[GoodLookinGuy]

Don’t bother subscribing. I did a few months back and realised it was mostly the same girls on rotation, and the new ones either don’t reply or they have demands that I am not interested in meeting.

I have been far more successful when using seeking while away in europe for holidays than I have been in the south west.

I have just taken the plunge and re-subscribed. The one lady I mentioned from the post above that jumped out at me actually messaged me, and of course I needed to subscribe to read it and reply. Might all turn out to be a waste of money but we'll see. I'll let you know how I get on.

[Pawgylove]

I have just taken the plunge and re-subscribed. The one lady I mentioned from the post above that jumped out at me actually messaged me, and of course I needed to subscribe to read it and reply. Might all turn out to be a waste of money but we'll see. I'll let you know how I get on.

Good luck! I am sure you will have success.
Full disclosure: I have managed to get at least one arrangement everytime I have re subscribed to seeking.
My “don’t bother” comment was more how frustrating the process of finding a decent girl can be sometimes especially for people who arent really interested in the too young end of the spectrum. In bristol, the ratio of new faces to old is tilted towards the old side usually.
Demands can be crazy! Once got asked for £500 for a M&G, that was very funny. Of course nothing wrong in asking, but not for me.
I have been far more successful within europe than in England.

[GoodLookinGuy]

Good luck! I am sure you will have success.
Full disclosure: I have managed to get at least one arrangement everytime I have re subscribed to seeking.
My “don’t bother” comment was more how frustrating the process of finding a decent girl can be sometimes especially for people who arent really interested in the too young end of the spectrum. In bristol, the ratio of new faces to old is tilted towards the old side usually.
Demands can be crazy! Once got asked for £500 for a M&G, that was very funny. Of course nothing wrong in asking, but not for me.
I have been far more successful within europe than in England.

A few potentials I'm messaging and one drinks date lined up for next week. So far, so good.

[southcoastpunter]

Good luck! I am sure you will have success.
Full disclosure: I have managed to get at least one arrangement everytime I have re subscribed

Can you expand a bit on what you mean by “arrangement “ ? Do you mean a PPM meeting or a regular PPM lady ( at least one meeting per month) lasting several months or a monthly allowance?  Also what sort of lady do you generally go for ( age etc) and area or areas you look in . It may make a bit of a difference for some guys in considering whether it’s worth signing up or not!

[hamchang]

It's serious effort these days if you are looking for PPM with these girls. Just a shame they charge so much for the subs - no need for it.