Author Topic: Seeking.com in the South West  (Read 177369 times)

Offline jamesbb

In the absence of a Welsh Seeking thread (or if there is I cannot find it!)

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Lucie, 33
Cardiff, WLS

Highly engaging, excellent comms, seemingly very plausible story about needs etc.  We met for several platonic dates/ lunches, assisted ££££ at various levels, artfully avoided any chance of intimacy, whilst interspersed with teasing, flirting messages to maintain interest (and ££)….more fool me ! 

Common sense eventually prevails hence this message. 'Lucie' has been on both Seeking and Secret Benefits for several years, so imagine she is well practised...

Latest profile header reads 'Elevated Energy for an Exceptional Gentleman' - so if you just want a bright, pretty blond to flirt with you - go for it!

(Yup….I know, one born every minute, should have taken heed of sage advice given here…)





Offline jamesbb

In the absence of a Welsh Seeking thread (or if there is I cannot find it!) here is a potential scam warning about Lucy from Cardiff:

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Talks like normal and then just before meeting she asks for a bank transfer and won't budge on it. She might not be a scammer but I never send money to girls beforehand so not prepared to find out. Anyone else met her? She's from Swansea rather than Cardiff apparently.


Possibly related to the 'Lucie' experience I have just posted ??

Offline updownandaround

In the absence of a Welsh Seeking thread (or if there is I cannot find it!)

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Lucie, 33
Cardiff, WLS

Highly engaging, excellent comms, seemingly very plausible story about needs etc.  We met for several platonic dates/ lunches, assisted ££££ at various levels, artfully avoided any chance of intimacy, whilst interspersed with teasing, flirting messages to maintain interest (and ££)….more fool me !

Common sense eventually prevails hence this message. 'Lucie' has been on both Seeking and Secret Benefits for several years, so imagine she is well practised...

Latest profile header reads 'Elevated Energy for an Exceptional Gentleman' - so if you just want a bright, pretty blond to flirt with you - go for it!

(Yup….I know, one born every minute, should have taken heed of sage advice given here…)

She is a scammer and at best a rinser. Avoid.

Offline Punting2022

Natalie External Link/Members Only 52
So I fancied a milf and contacted this lady. She liked my pics and me, So we agreed 150 per meet. I made the trip to her as it was cheap.
But she's so disorganised, One meet she forgot she had a appointment cancelled the day before. I had a day use anyway.
We rescheduled. Booked a day use. On the day of the meet, she decides to do errands first that could have waited for after. Half way through my Journey she's like I remembered I have an appointment. So is coming later.

I was nearly there at this stage. I had a day use room. But didnt check in. I explored her town. When she turned up i checked the day use.

Attractive enough, Not the milf like pics, less makeup etc,
Got to the room and was good, Kissing, i went down on her. good sex.
Was hoping to do raw, as shes older and no baby risk. But didnt.
She stayed for 2 hours, Said she will come to me in future. But tbh im more into the younger ladies on seeking.
Good for a milf, but be prepared for cancelations.


Offline METEOR

Natalie External Link/Members Only 52
So I fancied a milf and contacted this lady. She liked my pics and me, So we agreed 150 per meet. I made the trip to her as it was cheap.
But she's so disorganised, One meet she forgot she had a appointment cancelled the day before. I had a day use anyway.
We rescheduled. Booked a day use. On the day of the meet, she decides to do errands first that could have waited for after. Half way through my Journey she's like I remembered I have an appointment. So is coming later.

I was nearly there at this stage. I had a day use room. But didnt check in. I explored her town. When she turned up i checked the day use.

Attractive enough, Not the milf like pics, less makeup etc,
Got to the room and was good, Kissing, i went down on her. good sex.
Was hoping to do raw, as shes older and no baby risk. But didnt.
She stayed for 2 hours, Said she will come to me in future. But tbh im more into the younger ladies on seeking.
Good for a milf, but be prepared for cancelations.
If you want an older women is late 50s too old?
There's one in Trowbridge who will meet at hers for £150 for a a hours and will do raw, anal etc. Looks very good for her age and very nice to chill with

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

If you want an older women is late 50s too old?
There's one in Trowbridge who will meet at hers for £150 for a a hours and will do raw, anal etc. Looks very good for her age and very nice to chill with

The queue must be around the block 🤣

Offline Pawgylove

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Azriah 23 might be a scammer. She has another profile in the london area, same name but listed as 25. Slightly different photos. Dont have a link to the london profile but saw it earlier while browsing.

Offline Danj89

She sent me her number msged her on WhatsApp but next morning got a snap notification, checked it and the snapchat account associated with the number was clearly a guy , so blocked on WhatsApp before she could respond.

Online southcoastpunter

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I recently re-subscribed and have been very pleasantly surprised at the response!
This time I increased my age range a bit to include ladies in their 40’s!
I have  22 year old, a 30 year old and 3 in their 40’s on the go and have to whittle them down to just one ( or two at a push !
This is in the Bournemouth and Poole area - one from
Southampton! None are likely to be interested in a PPM hotel only arrangement but if you are after a wider and social arrangement- there are ladies out there ! And all of these have realistic arrangement expectations! So maybe now might be a good time to return and re-try if you have struggled with Seeking in the past!
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Offline Wtt2014

I recently re-subscribed and have been very pleasantly surprised at the response!
This time I increased my age range a bit to include ladies in their 40’s!
I have  22 year old, a 30 year old and 3 in their 40’s on the go and have to whittle them down to just one ( or two at a push !
This is in the Bournemouth and Poole area - one from
Southampton! None are likely to be interested in a PPM hotel only arrangement but if you are after a wider and social arrangement- there are ladies out there ! And all of these have realistic arrangement expectations! So maybe now might be a good time to return and re-try if you have struggled with Seeking in the past!

I've also returned for a brief stint and also found quite a bit of fresh blood.

This is absolutely not the point but I do find Seeking attracts quite a lot of interesting people. And I don't mean that in a metaphorical or ironic way, I mean genuinely interesting. Even with girls whom it's become quickly clear we aren't likely to meet I find that we sometimes end up chatting for a while regardless.

Offline Mr Garmin


This is absolutely not the point but I do find Seeking attracts quite a lot of interesting people.

You're right there, I met one who was a truck driver :cool: