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Offline somethingrandom

not for her if she can find (sorry, but you do serve this) idiots who will lend £700 to a person they have never met on a site known to have some scammers on it. 

what got into you? I think as you say, you have made a "charitable donation" which you will never see again (or her)

I do indeed deserve that comment. And it's definitely a learning experience.

I was absolutely inundated with messages on there. I think I exchanged almost 3000-4000 messages in the first 2 weeks and blocked hundreds and hundreds of scammers. Emma however, was very different indeed from the normal run of the mill scammers and I definitely fell for it. At the moment I'm waiting for her to ramp things up to full on blackmail, at which point I might consider doing something about it. She has already blocked me on seeking so I can't actually report her on there as you have to view a member and then use the report member button at the bottom of her profile and upload evidence.

Easy come, easy go I guess, I'm not going to loose any sleep over it myself.

Offline Pawgylove

If you do, you can always ask her how she intends to repay the £700 I loaned her.lol.

In all seriousness, I think she is very clever, and very convincing, and very coniving.
It's possible that if you met her in a hotel she might possibly exist and won't actually rob you in person.
Don't pay any deposit whatsoever

And I would be interested in hearing your experience

She had a whole trail of fake WhatsApps and bank screenshot to support her story, some of which is possibly genuine.

But then she started getting a friend to contact me, maybe to scam me as well, but I was able to prove she was connected to Emma (real name by the way) and I also spoke to her on the phone a few times.
She went utterly ballistic eventually, but still is insisting that she really does want to meet.

I'm just considering the lost cash my charitable donation for the year. Hopefully she did actually need it.

Shame, it would have been more lucrative all round if she just actually met.

That is rough! Thanks for sharing, I know it takes a lot to do that with your tail between ur legs :(

I have to say, I was going to message her a few weeks back, but one of her pics looked off, so didn’t bother.

I never give money before a meet, Ever ever ever. I almost never pay for meet and greets even! I only exchange money when arangement has started and we have met.
The only time I stupidly made an exception to pay for a meet and greet cos the girl was stunning, and I considered it a sweetener, she stopped messaging!! So always follow good instincts

Offline GoodLookinGuy

Just went to see who it was but the account is now gone

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Just went to see who it was but the account is now gone

Went to see what

Offline GoodLookinGuy

The Seeking link for the girl scammer

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Does anyone know who this is?
Has to be a working ~girl~ woman…
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anyone have any info on Poppy_XO aged 28, Bournemouth (although actually lives in Salisbury)?

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She replied to me on here but then ghosted me when I said I was in Salisbury if she wanted to meet.

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Offline Pawgylove

Anyone met Lilly in bristol?
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Caught my eye, messaged but havent got a reply yet. Was wondering if it was worth pursuing

Offline tomukpunter

Are there any decent alternatives to SA in the area or is it the typical go-to? I've tried SecretBenefits on the odd occasion, it has some decent profiles on there but feels like a complete scam.

As it happens I've never had any success on SA but perhaps it's just a numbers game.

Offline GoodLookinGuy

SecretBenefits is a scam, I can confirm that. I have had luck on Seeking but you also have to watch for the scammers on there, it used to be better.

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they all have some "bot" /fake profiles - including Seeking. perhaps Secret Benefits has more than most  - about 12-18 months ago one member here did a lot of research on them which showed a lot of "fake" activity.  But equally there have been guys who have had some sucess from there and a previous LT SB of mine was on it - although i met her via Seeking.

It may also depend on what you want . if you mainly want hotel sex meets they seem easier to get thesedays from seeking than something nearer what i want (a longer term arrangement where we do stuff together - social, sporting, active, fun stuff, weekends away, maybe holiday together etc). That is getting harder to find but certainly in the last 6 months or so i have been offered a hotel meet by a number of ladies which i have declined in part because that is not what i want and in part because the PPM amount has been imo excessive! And i have one LT SB anyway and have recently acquired a second - she was on Seeking although i did not meet her through any online site but by way of a personal recommendation from another SD.

Offline jlike

Maybe I am lucky but have been seeing someone from Secret Benefits for nearly 12 months now since I lost the zest for punting. Had a lot of messages from girls but never bothered reading them as too young for me and probably a bot. Person I am seeing is older, in her 40's.
Like South Coast Punter I was looking for more than a quick meet, that's why I lost the desire to see escorts. I meet this person generally once a week, go for a meal, maybe a walk or shopping and of course a bit of fun. Might see her socially the occasional afternoon but apart from that we go our own ways.

Offline patdavies

After reading a lot of this I am thinking sticking to punting is the best idea

Offline METEOR

After reading a lot of this I am thinking sticking to punting is the best idea
Gone downhill massively since covid, onlyfans etc.
I first used it 10 years ago and it was great

Offline Pawgylove

After reading a lot of this I am thinking sticking to punting is the best idea
I have tried SA quite a few times over the years and this is the same conclusion I got to. Seen a few girls on there, mostly short term and a couple long term. Most of them have reasonable demands but down the line they lose interest or vice versa. With patience, you will definitely find a gem, but sometimes keeping hold of them can be hard. Punting is easier and less hassle.

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I have tried SA quite a few times over the years and this is the same conclusion I got to. Seen a few girls on there, mostly short term and a couple long term. Most of them have reasonable demands but down the line they lose interest or vice versa. With patience, you will definitely find a gem, but sometimes keeping hold of them can be hard. Punting is easier and less hassle.

I do have to disagree, SA has consistently worked well for me and have had far more positive experiences than negative ones. Sure, there's time wasters on there, but there are on AW etc or normal dating sites and in terms of the cost of meets, I have only paid £300 once (and that was for a very attractive blonde in London who accommodated overnight and even made breakfast) rest of my meets have been £150-£250 and thats for around 3 hours most of the time if not longer.

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Offline updownandaround

In the absence of a Welsh Seeking thread (or if there is I cannot find it!) here is a potential scam warning about Lucy from Cardiff:

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Talks like normal and then just before meeting she asks for a bank transfer and won't budge on it. She might not be a scammer but I never send money to girls beforehand so not prepared to find out. Anyone else met her? She's from Swansea rather than Cardiff apparently.

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Bex, Gloucester. She has been on SA on and off over the past few years.

She wants money upfront at start of the meet, citing bad previous experience. She may well be genuine, or she may be a scammer, but I don't pay upfront, her ppm was more than I usually provide, particularly as Gloucester is more than 1hr drive for me. So CBA.

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Started with my usual spiel, seemed genuine, moved to Tgram as per.

States brazenly that she's "looking for PPM or weekly allowance as long distance boyfriend has just gone to jail and needs financial help with their new situation"

 :dash:  :lol:

No real reason for sharing other than I thought others could have a good laugh too!

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States brazenly that she's "looking for PPM or weekly allowance as long distance boyfriend has just gone to jail and needs financial help with their new situation"


thats not the first time i have heard of that - whether its the same girl or not i don't know as you haven't named her and i am not reactivating my account to see who it is. So either she has been around for a while or Seeking girls and not very good at choosing boyfriends or maybe its meant to scare us in some way but for what benefit i don't know!!

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thats not the first time i have heard of that - whether its the same girl or not i don't know as you haven't named her and i am not reactivating my account to see who it is. So either she has been around for a while or Seeking girls and not very good at choosing boyfriends or maybe its meant to scare us in some way but for what benefit i don't know!!

Who knows mate. I said to her "are you having a fucking laugh?" and she blocked me  :D

Jen from callington.

That's the one. Shame as she looked very tasty!

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Has she heard of conjugal visits?

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Miley, location listed as Swindon
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is Milly-mae, an escort based in Hungerford:
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That photo on her Seeking profile page is photoshopped - she isn't as good looking as that in real life.

I note he AW rates are now £150hh/£250hr; she will get a shock if she thinks she is going to get the equivalent of that via arrangements on Seeking.

« Last Edit: June 15, 2025, 11:00:24 pm by Cunning Punt »

Offline updownandaround

Miley, location listed as Swindon
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is Milly-mae, an escort based in Hungerford:
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That photo on her Seeking profile page is photoshopped - she isn't as good looking as that in real life.

I note he AW rates are now £150hh/£250hr; she will get a shock if she thinks she is going to get the equivalent of that via arrangements on Seeking.

She lives in Wootton Bassett now and wants a minimum of 250 "for a few hours", problem is she looks as rough as a badgers arse and bareback is included for no extra 😂
« Last Edit: June 16, 2025, 07:01:23 am by updownandaround »

Offline Natwest

Has anyone met up with this lady? She contacted me and very keen to meet.

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Any info much appreciated.

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Offline Danj89

Has anyone met up with this lady? She contacted me and very keen to meet.

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Any info much appreciated.

Been speaking to her for years but haven't sorted anything as meet times are restrictive. If you can do weekday daytimes you are in with a better chance.

Offline Danj89

Miley, location listed as Swindon
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is Milly-mae, an escort based in Hungerford:
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That photo on her Seeking profile page is photoshopped - she isn't as good looking as that in real life.

I note he AW rates are now £150hh/£250hr; she will get a shock if she thinks she is going to get the equivalent of that via arrangements on Seeking.

Dunno if it's the same girl as the aw link but used to be on seeking years back when I lived in the area username was alwaysworthit or something along those lines. Used to be on aw back in the day as well , after speaking to her for a while meets are very time limited and price expectations are aw level which isn't what I'm looking for in an arrangement.

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Been speaking to her for years but haven't sorted anything as meet times are restrictive. If you can do weekday daytimes you are in with a better chance.

Thanks for the reply, much appreciated.

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Bambi_xoxo  aged 22 Bournemouth - upfront deposit required to meet, hence potential scammer

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Lucia aged 20 Bournemouth  External Link/Members Only

wants platonic meets only.

Offline Danj89

Bambi_xoxo  aged 22 Bournemouth - upfront deposit required to meet, hence potential scammer

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Bambi was on my snap a while before when asked about seeking was obvious she wouldn't meet.

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Lucia aged 20 Bournemouth  External Link/Members Only

wants platonic meets only.

I didn't get this vibe was meant to meet last week, rescheduled for this week,will let you know how I get on .

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I didn't get this vibe was meant to meet last week, rescheduled for this week,will let you know how I get on .

she has just told me this after chatting for a while - maybe she just decided that for me and if you are younger (30's or early 40's) maybe you will get a different response! Anyway please do update!

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Yes deffo will do .

Also karrina - bournemouth, platonic only. got confused when exchanging pics told her I wasn't after sexual ones , and she assumed I meant sexual arrangement not sexual pics.

Offline Shagalott

In the absence of a Welsh Seeking thread (or if there is I cannot find it!) here is a potential scam warning about Lucy from Cardiff:

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Talks like normal and then just before meeting she asks for a bank transfer and won't budge on it. She might not be a scammer but I never send money to girls beforehand so not prepared to find out. Anyone else met her? She's from Swansea rather than Cardiff apparently.

I was chatting to her. Didn’t get to the stage where she would be leaving to come see me but quite rigid on her demand for £350. I rarely pay that on the first meet.

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Offline Wcrasher89

Speaking to Fe. Anyone seen? Photos look good
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Hi mate,

Fe from Cardiff? I'm not subbed atm so can't check link. Dark hair, 25?

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Yeah. I asked for 30 sec video verification and she absolutely flipped calling me a retard and all that. I’ve had 2 previous situations where the person was very different and older and clearly AI magic. Most ladies understand and are not opposed to it. So I’m assuming fake or eccentric. Either way not my cuppa.

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Yeah. I asked for 30 sec video verification and she absolutely flipped calling me a retard and all that. I’ve had 2 previous situations where the person was very different and older and clearly AI magic. Most ladies understand and are not opposed to it. So I’m assuming fake or eccentric. Either way not my cuppa.

Ha yeah that's her. So yes, I've met her. I actually messaged her three times, over the course of a year, each time receiving wildly different responses from interested, to arrogant etc.

However, I did fancy her pics, so persevered (as is often the requirement on seeking!) and low and behold, managed to get her off the site and talking via another app as is my preferred route after initial contact.

We met once, down here in Devon (Exeter). She drove down from Cardiff, I covered her travel and the hotel on top of the cash we'd agreed for the meet (if I recall we agreed £400 for a few hours). This was probably back in March/April sort of time. She is the girl in the pics no doubt, she's Jewish, petite and very attractive. Makes a proper effort to dress up and impress and has some very strong opinions on world affairs which made for interesting chat in between rounds.

The sex was fantastic (for the most part), she really goes for it and clearly loves being fucked. Gets very wet, and cums very hard. However, one of the strangest encounters I've ever had, occurred when I said "now turn around, I want to fuck you from behind" to which she replied "Ha, so can put it in my ass?". I said "no, that's not for me don't worry", to which she said "that's what all guys say, then they just put it in! I don't think so".

This really took me aback as we'd been together for well over an hour at this point so presumably she trusted me enough to do everything we'd done up to that point! Not sure if she's had a couple bad experiences but it did kind of through the whole vibe off.

I didn't see her again after that as she was just a little too erratic for me, despite being very physically attractive.


Offline updownandaround

Yeah. I asked for 30 sec video verification and she absolutely flipped calling me a retard and all that. I’ve had 2 previous situations where the person was very different and older and clearly AI magic. Most ladies understand and are not opposed to it. So I’m assuming fake or eccentric. Either way not my cuppa.

Problem is that now you can't even trust video calls or videos as you can work AI magic on that too! I did a threesome a couple of years back, got them both on a video call beforehand and they were both stunners. They rocked up at the hotel and they looked nothing like how they were on the video call!

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Hi mate,

 I'm not subbed atm so can't check link.

yes you can Wcrasher - you can still search and view current profiles ( even when not subbed) - you just can't message or read any messages received. If you have de-activated your account, that is different and you are correct - you would need to re-activate to see anything!

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Melissa aged 24 Bournemouth - been on Seeking over 2 years. wants to go straight to a sex meet (no M&G) £300 but wants a travel deposit. anyone had any dealings with her?

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Melissa aged 24 Bournemouth - been on Seeking over 2 years. wants to go straight to a sex meet (no M&G) £300 but wants a travel deposit. anyone had any dealings with her?

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Christ, if she's legit then have fun man. She looks unreal!

(I noted your above message and does indeed appear I can just log in to see links thank you mate!)

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Emma, 25, Bristol
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Anyone had any dealings with her? Seems nice but inevitably some money worries were mentioned
Her profile is active again, so beware

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Not from Bristol but Kyrgyzstan.
Did she send you a generic email plus pics after wanting you to chat elsewhere ?
On seeking she messaged me hi there! What's making you smile? followed up with message me on telegram, they hadnt even viewed my profile just marked it as favourite and then a rambling message on telegram and has messaged once a day for the last few days even though i have said i'm not interested

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going to meet but then gives a sob story (eg electric meter ran out) and asks for some (financial) "help" before meeting. she stopped chatting after i told her i never send money before meeting. 

Offline GoodLookinGuy

Speaking to Fe. Anyone seen? Photos look good
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Yes went on a date with her in Cardiff last year, fun girl, had some great stories from Seeking and generally in life. I can verify she does look like her pics.