As I've already hinted, there are strange bits. The OP had two separate disasters within one week. The prossie mentioned on this thread had good feedback from a verified punter. There's been no useful description of the prossie appearance-wise (other what I've uncovered from google, 24y brunette) which is the thing that would really help punters. If the prossie has made some recompense then we have no way of knowing, without some details, if it has been genuine or the OP has just been conned again or threatened. If someone has made or posted a fuck-up, better to get it in the open, clear the air and move on. As it is, sad to say, but there are big question marks just now hanging over both the OP and the prossie. For everyone's sake these should be resolved.