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Offline TeenKylie

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Now don't get me wrong the amount of clients i have come accross have been in my view decent, respectful men just wanting some fun either if they are married or not.
I mean WGs would not have a job if they did not see married men lets be honest and that dose not make them bad people as everyone has there reasons for seeing a WG.

But what about when clients go too far or get obssesed?

Excessive calling even if not wanting a booking? Abusive calls? Threatening to expose ect? Or just generally weird and make the girl feel uneasy.

Should the WG just tell him where to go? Or continue to see them out of fear of these things? How should she go about this from a punters point of view not intending to offend or make things worse?

This post is not at all about how clients look ect it is honestly about the way they can act and when they are unstable people.

And please lets not turn this in to a ''TK'' thread.

Kylie
« Last Edit: June 05, 2011, 02:27:37 AM by TeenKylie »

Offline softlad

Should the WG just tell him where to go? Or continue to see them out of fear of these things? How should she go about this from a punters point of view not intending to offend or make things worse?

You should never tell anyone 'where to go' as your job puts you in a vunerable position, and a crank could use this to his advantage.
Likewise you should not see anyone you have your doubts about, make up an excuse, then don't take their further calls, they will get the message soon enough.

I have experienced this the other way around when a regular of mine (who refused feedback from me ) saw feedback from 2 other girls went pretty ballistic ..

 Shame really was great fun ...

Offline enzio

WG's play a dangerous game and I do not think it would be right for me to tell them how to look after their own safety.  However, since you are asking, if anyone ever did become obsessive or abusive then I believe there should be one firm "no" from the WG so that they are in no doubt where they stand.  After that, I would suggest that any obsessive or abusive punter be ignored continuously.  If they become a pest then report them to the police.

Offline Matium

99% of men would never dream of hitting or hurting a woman but 1% would. Fortunately, most WGs develop a sixth sense in spotting that 1% and keeping themselves safe. Make it art of your booking procedures that a man must phone you before you accept the booking from him. If he doesn't sound "quite right" on the phone and you think there's a chance he might be a little bit weird then refuse the booking.

However, most WGs pass through their entire careers without ever running into that 1%.

Offline Wife4rent

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99% of men would never dream of hitting or hurting a woman but 1% would. Fortunately, most WGs develop a sixth sense in spotting that 1% and keeping themselves safe. Make it art of your booking procedures that a man must phone you before you accept the booking from him. If he doesn't sound "quite right" on the phone and you think there's a chance he might be a little bit weird then refuse the booking.

However, most WGs pass through their entire careers without ever running into that 1%.

As above, 99% of guys are decent and you just look out for the odd balls.

Be firm on the phone and don't let conversations turn into sex chat calls
Do not react with hostility, as you often seem to on here, it will only turn into a real life battle
If you do not wish to see a person, avoid them, don't feel the need to do anything you do not feel comfortable with

Offline smiths

As above, 99% of guys are decent and you just look out for the odd balls.

Be firm on the phone and don't let conversations turn into sex chat calls
Do not react with hostility, as you often seem to on here, it will only turn into a real life battle
If you do not wish to see a person, avoid them, don't feel the need to do anything you do not feel comfortable with

Most WGs are decent in my experience, its the ones like you that mess punters about that arent, happily fucking them over.

Offline Wife4rent

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Most WGs are decent in my experience, its the ones like you that mess punters about that arent, happily fucking them over.

As I said

just look out for the odd balls.

Now don't get me wrong the amount of clients i have come accross have been in my view decent, respectful men just wanting some fun either if they are married or not.
I mean WGs would not have a job if they did not see married men lets be honest and that dose not make them bad people as everyone has there reasons for seeing a WG.

But what about when clients go too far or get obssesed?

Excessive calling even if not wanting a booking? Abusive calls? Threatening to expose ect? Or just generally weird and make the girl feel uneasy.

Should the WG just tell him where to go? Or continue to see them out of fear of these things? How should she go about this from a punters point of view not intending to offend or make things worse?

This post is not at all about how clients look ect it is honestly about the way they can act and when they are unstable people.

And please lets not turn this in to a ''TK'' thread.

Kylie

JRC has a good risk assessment when sussing out dodgy cab fares.  He uses the red, amber, green scenario.  I cant remember the exact detail but i thought it made good sense.  If i was a hooker i would use a similar method to qualifying nutters.  It will come over time tk i reckon you just have to rely on common sense though whilst you may lack experience.

by the way tk, did you download the spelling tool, your spelling looks super.  Im surpised some of the doctors and professors around here have not commented...

Offline smiths

As I said

I am not in the slightest interested in what you said, your a WG who happily fucks punters over making you underhand and dishonest, WGs like you are beneath contempt and should be condemned.

Where the punter comes first, yeah right, in your case where you can fuck them over you will and crow about it on here. About as far from where the punter comes first as its possible to be.

Offline softlad

Let's stay on topic please.  :)

(there's enough threads straying in 'that' direction at the mo' )

Thanks.

Offline smiths


Let's stay on topic please.  :)

(there's enough threads straying in 'that' direction at the mo' )

Thanks.



So condemning WGs who fuck punters over on a forum where the punter comes first has to be on certain threads? Amazing Softlad, WGs like W4R should be condemned at every opportunity in my opinion but if thats your rule i will of course accept it, but wont take advice off such a WG on any subject. To me what she posts is invalidated by how she treats punters. :)




« Last Edit: June 05, 2011, 01:24:06 PM by softlad »

Offline softlad


So condemning WGs who fuck punters over on a forum where the punter comes first has to be on certain threads?

Not at all mate, I'm struggling to keep up with this argument as it's crossing too many threads.  :)

Offline Wife4rent

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So condemning WGs who fuck punters over on a forum where the punter comes first has to be on certain threads?

But stalking gets tiresome for everybody and just makes you out to be an oddball

You have made your thoughts clearly known for all to see more than once, I accept your point of view as I do anybody who has a point of view, but however much you go on about it you are not going to change mine.

So what actually is your point?

Offline AnthG

But stalking gets tiresome for everybody and just makes you out to be an oddball

You have made your thoughts clearly known for all to see more than once, I accept your point of view as I do anybody who has a point of view, but however much you go on about it you are not going to change mine.

So what actually is your point?
The point is that you cannot possibly be that warped, cruel and cynical.

I personally truly believe you know you have been wrong and will be changing but it is just now a case of saving face on te forum so are strutting the unusual attitude of annoying everyone trying to help you out. Or at the very least of putting you straight.

My honest assumption with Escorts is you are paying for their time. And really for someone to want to actually pay £100+ for an hour of someones time you would have to be a pretty nice, decent and interesting person. Otherwise who would pay you?

You cannot possibly be the person you are portraying now as you are coming across as a bit of a heartless cruel...

That is the point being made. Just accept you have been wrong or stop the facade.

Offline Wife4rent

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I personally truly believe you know you have been wrong and will be changing

It was that I just did not know how to say it..........

Fatpro$$ie

TK. The best way to deal with any unwanted attention i.e unwanted calls texts or threats is to completely ignore them. Do not enter into any correspondence at all as this will only encourage their behaviour. If possible get a call/text blocker on your phone and add them to the list so they cannot contact you.

Trust your 6th sense at all times. If for one millisecond you think I dont want to see this client, DONT. For lots of other safety tips please go to SAAFE. The information on their can be invaluable.

If a client is already in your property and you feel uncomfortable or in danger offer him a full refund to leave.  Do not attempt to be argumentative at all no matter how angry you may feel. Just say that the pair of you are not compatible and you would like to offer a refund  . Be polite at all times, if he becomes in anyway threatening go to a room with a good lock on it (your phone should be kept there) and ring the police.


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