actually, don't bother - text exchange went something like this
me - can I confirm CIM anal and rimming on me as per your profile
her - I don't do CIM
me - ok, but anal and rimming is ok?
her - I don't do anal
me - your profile lists all three
her - I can't change it
me - but rimming is ok?
her - no hun
I was tempted to ask her if getting naked was ok, but I gave up.