You've been a member for 2 plus years now jonty I'm sure your not that naive
No, I'm not. And my punting history goes back beyond my membership here. But at the same time I'm not blind to the fact that there are lots of reviews of where you can see if something is on offer beyond what is advertised on gumtree and the phone.
If you want a nailed on punt (or as close as dammit) then you go there. If you want to take one for the team then you take that risk. Fair play for the OP for doing so but it strikes me that he wanted extras that he had no automatic right to expect. That's the only way the reviewed worker would avoid a negative in the eyes of the OP. Personal view, I don't think that's right or helpful. Others disagree.
I've had a few massage punts. I've never asked on the phone as to what was available and I reckon there has never been a time where I have had to enquire about extras. They have always been offered where I think they were possibly on offer. That doesn't remove the WSWS excitement.
I have asked when offered what else may be on offer, there is one provider where I feel there may be more, but my feeling is that by pushing the point may make it less likely not more.
Maybe legit providers on Gumtree need to have a codeword that folks on here recognise. But to be honest is it their duty to protect us?
Can you point out where I said you were trying to get the ops to change his rating please
You didn't. And if it came across as an accusation then I retract and apologise. I was just pointing out the things, from both sides of the debate, that may have alerted the mods to the thread to things that were against the rules and ethos of the site.