In my civvie sex-capades, I've realised that most girls like to have their hair pulled when they are getting banged doggy-style.
And I've been surprised by how many have asked to be choked. It's not my thing, but it if turns them on, then who am I to say No? :-)
I guess a lot of women want to be "owned by a dominant man in the bedroom" as one explained to me.