Hotel safe?

[dieseldriver]

So your a married man with a lot to lose should the OH find out. But like most, still like a bit extra. So you get a hit on a hook-up site and arrange a day use hotel. She claims to be married too so can't use her place.
You know nothing about her. Her name, looks, where she lives, a complete stranger. All you have is a telephone number that's probabely a burner anyway.

Just how safe is to use a hotel. Remember, you know nothing about her. But as using a cc to book the room the hotel has your details. Risky? take a chance? Open to false allegations if go's tits up and she makes a police complaint?

Thinking maybe better to use an SP? Pay up front, do the business and walk away. A Mr nobody to the SP. 

[standardpostage]

Thought this was about hotel safe's (where you keep valuables) !

I think using service providers is safer 

[Jumping Jack Flash]

OP I think that you’re overthinking it. She may be genuine or she may be a scammer who knows? It strikes me that you’re not ready for this kind of subterfuge so I’d stick to SP’s if I were you.

[Fuzzyduck]

You know nothing about her. Her name, looks, where she lives, a complete stranger. All you have is a telephone number that's probabely a burner anyway.

You don't even know what she looks like?

Slap yourself around the face, mate. Even if you're single this is a high risk meet (e.g. it could be a set up to rip you off or she could be a total minger). You're insane to even consider it, considering your domestic situation. Keep the room and get a well reviewed, credible SP for an outcall.

[ik8133]

So your a married man with a lot to lose should the OH find out. But like most, still like a bit extra. So you get a hit on a hook-up site and arrange a day use hotel. She claims to be married too so can't use her place.
You know nothing about her. Her name, looks, where she lives, a complete stranger. All you have is a telephone number that's probabely a burner anyway.

Just how safe is to use a hotel. Remember, you know nothing about her. But as using a cc to book the room the hotel has your details. Risky? take a chance? Open to false allegations if go's tits up and she makes a police complaint?

Thinking maybe better to use an SP? Pay up front, do the business and walk away. A Mr nobody to the SP.

If you are meeting someone from a dating site, your first meeting should be a social one in a public place, so when it comes to the fun meeting you will know her a bit.

As for booking the room, the hotel will have hundreds in not thousands of peoples details, so why would yours stand out?

As for the lady making a false complaint, surely you'd have discussed what you were going to be getting up to, so save all your messages/texts as a back up.

[JamesKW]

If you wish to try this option maybe go on a normal date first to test the waters.If you enter into civvie relationship rather than WG the risks are much greater to go wrong.It may not just be the risks you mention,you may fall for her,she may fall for you,her O/H may find out.