Dating a prossie. Is it as bad an idea as it sounds?

[finn5555]

if you don’t like us men then what are you doing on this forum? Many of us wouldn’t date or marry hookers simply out of lack of trust. don’t take it personally.

They are here to tout for business simple as that 

[willie loman]

They are here to tout for business simple as that 

I wish there was more contribution from sps or wgs, and if they get business from posting, that doesnt bother me at all.

[tynetunnel]

@TheOwl - great post

[finn5555]

I wish there was more contribution from sps or wgs, and if they get business from posting, that doesnt bother me at all.

I think they would ruin this site the ones who are tolerated are plenty enough 

[Global_Punter]

@TheOwl - great post

+ 1 @ TheOwl great post  well written.

[Private Parts]

I think they would ruin this site the ones who are tolerated are plenty enough 

Not man enough.
The SP’s hold their own and don’t go running to Admin when a bit of shit hits the proverbial.
Just as we are entitled to our view so we should hear it from the other side.
Misogynistic  claptrap.
Really need to get a grip
PP

[AnthG]

Not man enough.
The SP’s hold their own and don’t go running to Admin when a bit of shit hits the proverbial.
Just as we are entitled to our view so we should hear it from the other side.
Misogynistic  claptrap.
Really need to get a grip
PP

No, they just post with the opposite intent of what the forum is designed for. For a long time I wanted more WG members on here. A lot of people at the time I said it, said to me I was crazy and I didn't truly know what I was wishing for there. It then happened and I seen what it causes and realized it was a mistake. Most of them have now been banned.

They don't post to help anyone but themselves. They don't post in anyway to benefit punters or punting. They don't contribute anything but drama and self-centeredness.

The only WG I have seen able to follow the ethos of the forum is Strawberry.

[mace-window]

I'd never date a working prostitute, it would be an utter mind fuck. Imagine being in bed and feeling frisky or just wanting to have a conversation about shit but your other half isn't interested because she's spent all sucking and fucking other men and making an effort to talk to them so they'll come back. You only have to look on SAAFE to see how many escort aren't interested in a recreational sex life because of the job. It would be madness to go from being a punter enjoying paid intimacy with a prostitute to being the boyfriend of a prostitute who doesn't need physical intimacy with you. It might seem very typical blokey to make it all about sex but the reason why many men punt is because of a lack of sex, therefore a fulfilling sex life is going to be an important part of a relationship.

I've made no secret of an enjoyable social relationship with an escort. We didn't spend every minute away from work in each other's company but we had a lot of contact that firmly crossed the client-escort boundary. When it was time for sex it was strictly paid although there continued some blurring of lines with bookings lasting a lot longer and other stuff, although we always practised safe sex.

The problems always started when emotions started coming in to play as the boundaries continued to crumble. It became obvious that there was a mutual attraction but neither of us wanted a relationship for good reasons. The problems started when the escort started acting like a girlfriend even though she wasn't. She started trying to change how I lived my life but never offered any real incentive to change. She claimed not to be jealous but then acted in a way that screamed jealousy, she was probably fucking far more different people than me. She made constant threats to never see me again when this kind of reaction was uncalled for. If I made a comment about her life it was a serious faux pas whilst,  even though she did the same about my life all the time. She got upset when I referred to her as prostitute, something she'd called herself, but used the term punter on me as a form of attack and as another way to try and make me change with no incentive. During one booking she skipped on part of the service she had been paid for after telling me. How guilty she felt about another punter paying for a fuck but only having a blow job, that went down like a ton of shit and she blamed me for it, I was already the boyfriend of a prostitute at that point in her brain rather than a valued customer. Eventually she blurted out that she wanted a relationship with me and that it meant no more escorting for her and no more punting for me, we agreed to have a long conversation about it but then she backed off just as quickly, then she continued all the behaviour of trying to change how I was for no reason. In the end I did to her what she did to me and she couldn't handle it. I got a scathing character assassination message from her that both painted me as someone she would never date as well as telling me I'd broken her heart and made her completely incapable of getting close to anyone romantically or even trust wise again. My last reply to her set out in detail all the shit she'd done that had derailed a brilliant sexual service, a decent friendship and a possible post punting/prostitution relationship. To me the problem was built around x years in prostitution where she needed to be in control combined with a complete lack of self-esteem probably partly from the job and more than likely from other stuff I won't discuss on a forum.

When it was good it was really good, we had a lot of laughs and did some fun non-sexual activities together like meals out going Dutch and shared a lot of normal couple stuff.

Where it went wrong was how her insecurities turned her in to a control freak who started to try and destroy my self-esteem because of her own lack of self-esteem. Fortunately for me I'd already experienced that kind of relationship so knew how not to give in.

If she'd started to work on herself rather than trying to break me down things might have turned out differently.

Prostitution is a real head fuck. It attracts lots of women with problems because sex for money seems like an easy way to make a lot of money quickly, but it's not. If a woman is already damaged, mentally unhealthy or living a damaging lifestyle then sex work will most likely make those issues worse. Fucking men you wouldn't want to go anywhere near if there was no money involved is a sure fire way to increase your problems as much as your bank account.

There are escorts and punters who have had successful relationships. They're probably in the minority. It requires two people to actually deal with their own shit before dealing with having a healthy relationship.

Amazing post The Owl  . I would of been a lot harsher but you post was reasonable and remind us why relationships with escorts is a no no full stop. Some of the men who don't see a problem to this need to wake up big time. That and I question why they are punters in the first place.

[mace-window]

I wish there was more contribution from sps or wgs, and if they get business from posting, that doesnt bother me at all.

I believe that place is called UKE pal.

[Fkk]

I watched from a distance where Escorts starts dating and try to give up SW. The novelty wears off after about a month or two. She gives up SW for a man but struggles financially. He has it on his toes as finds he can’t carry on with doubts in his head.
Escorts can’t give up as they love the frill of the chase. They try different other businesses but ultimately they can’t earn at the same levels as SW. so they return to SW.
I couldn’t date an SW, they are good at their jobs and a punt is not real life. The loyalty ends when the meter runs out.

[finn5555]

Not man enough.

Really need to get a grip

You do 

[mace-window]

No, they just post with the opposite intent of what the forum is designed for. For a long time I wanted more WG members on here. A lot of people at the time I said it, said to me I was crazy and I didn't truly know what I was wishing for there. It then happened and I seen what it causes and realized it was a mistake. Most of them have now been banned.

They don't post to help anyone but themselves. They don't post in anyway to benefit punters or punting. They don't contribute anything but drama and self-centeredness.

The only WG I have seen able to follow the ethos of the forum is Strawberry.

Bang on the money AnthG. I don't mind a few WG's here coming on and apologizing, making things right or in my case sharing porn videos of themselves. But they are some who are such horrible people looking after no 1 (themselves). 

[sensualencounter]

I can’t quite believe all the bollocks spouted on here. Casting every wg as an unstable crack whore Who are we to judge when we pay for sex? There are just as many fucked up punters and many of us are cheating on wives and partners, spending family money on wgs and not exactly following the perfect way of life. Lying to those nearest and dearest, sneaking about and so on.

The misogynistic attitude from some on here really is pathetic. Take a look at yourselves before casting massive aspersions on others.

[Fkk]

I'd never date a working prostitute, it would be an utter mind fuck. Imagine being in bed and feeling frisky or just wanting to have a conversation about shit but your other half isn't interested because she's spent all sucking and fucking other men and making an effort to talk to them so they'll come back. You only have to look on SAAFE to see how many escort aren't interested in a recreational sex life because of the job. It would be madness to go from being a punter enjoying paid intimacy with a prostitute to being the boyfriend of a prostitute who doesn't need physical intimacy with you. It might seem very typical blokey to make it all about sex but the reason why many men punt is because of a lack of sex, therefore a fulfilling sex life is going to be an important part of a relationship.

I've made no secret of an enjoyable social relationship with an escort. We didn't spend every minute away from work in each other's company but we had a lot of contact that firmly crossed the client-escort boundary. When it was time for sex it was strictly paid although there continued some blurring of lines with bookings lasting a lot longer and other stuff, although we always practised safe sex.

The problems always started when emotions started coming in to play as the boundaries continued to crumble. It became obvious that there was a mutual attraction but neither of us wanted a relationship for good reasons. The problems started when the escort started acting like a girlfriend even though she wasn't. She started trying to change how I lived my life but never offered any real incentive to change. She claimed not to be jealous but then acted in a way that screamed jealousy, she was probably fucking far more different people than me. She made constant threats to never see me again when this kind of reaction was uncalled for. If I made a comment about her life it was a serious faux pas whilst,  even though she did the same about my life all the time. She got upset when I referred to her as prostitute, something she'd called herself, but used the term punter on me as a form of attack and as another way to try and make me change with no incentive. During one booking she skipped on part of the service she had been paid for after telling me. How guilty she felt about another punter paying for a fuck but only having a blow job, that went down like a ton of shit and she blamed me for it, I was already the boyfriend of a prostitute at that point in her brain rather than a valued customer. Eventually she blurted out that she wanted a relationship with me and that it meant no more escorting for her and no more punting for me, we agreed to have a long conversation about it but then she backed off just as quickly, then she continued all the behaviour of trying to change how I was for no reason. In the end I did to her what she did to me and she couldn't handle it. I got a scathing character assassination message from her that both painted me as someone she would never date as well as telling me I'd broken her heart and made her completely incapable of getting close to anyone romantically or even trust wise again. My last reply to her set out in detail all the shit she'd done that had derailed a brilliant sexual service, a decent friendship and a possible post punting/prostitution relationship. To me the problem was built around x years in prostitution where she needed to be in control combined with a complete lack of self-esteem probably partly from the job and more than likely from other stuff I won't discuss on a forum.

When it was good it was really good, we had a lot of laughs and did some fun non-sexual activities together like meals out going Dutch and shared a lot of normal couple stuff.

Where it went wrong was how her insecurities turned her in to a control freak who started to try and destroy my self-esteem because of her own lack of self-esteem. Fortunately for me I'd already experienced that kind of relationship so knew how not to give in.

If she'd started to work on herself rather than trying to break me down things might have turned out differently.

Prostitution is a real head fuck. It attracts lots of women with problems because sex for money seems like an easy way to make a lot of money quickly, but it's not. If a woman is already damaged, mentally unhealthy or living a damaging lifestyle then sex work will most likely make those issues worse. Fucking men you wouldn't want to go anywhere near if there was no money involved is a sure fire way to increase your problems as much as your bank account.

There are escorts and punters who have had successful relationships. They're probably in the minority. It requires two people to actually deal with their own shit before dealing with having a healthy relationship.

Post of the year

[Global_Punter]

I can’t quite believe all the bollocks spouted on here. Casting every wg as an unstable crack whore

Last time I checked crack was smokable white powder. I don't recall anyone referring to SP's as drug addicts 

Just stating facts, experience is the best teacher - have you dated one before ? if YES was it singing and dancing ?

[scutty brown]

I wish there was more contribution from sps or wgs, and if they get business from posting, that doesnt bother me at all.

not often I agree with you Willie, but I do on this. Having more females post might dampen some of the misogyny some members exude.

[BobAJobMan]

The answer is quite simple. She belongs to the streets. Whether if she is a nice person, down to earth or an intellectual titan, it does not matter... go and find a chick like that who does not sell sex, they do exist. It's quite funny that men are ready to give a look in to any type of woman no matter her situation but when the table is flipped those same women they would give a chance would ignore that man.

People are ignoring their initial instincts focusing on the one positive they can grasp onto in a sea of negatives and then wondering how they end up in messed up situations in the future.

Men willing to enter such an entanglement are setting themselves up for heartbreak and I do not feel sorry for any of them. It's as bad as nice girls that fall for the typical bad guy that uses the girl for everything and dumps them, leaving them an emotional wreck. Take it how you will.

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Yet many go on to have happy marriages, and own businesses, homes etc.? There are more and more students whoring to pay uni fees - it's not as if they're all street hookers. Not saying a relationship with an active escort would be easy but there are lots of different personality types.

[Animalbeast]

if you don’t like us men then what are you doing on this forum? Many of us wouldn’t date or marry hookers simply out of lack of trust. don’t take it personally.

At the same time, to the segment that clearly don’t like or trust escorts as a whole  and don’t view each as individuals with lives and unique personalities beyond their jobs why punt and spend your money on them? And on the same token the wg who hate all punters, box as all into the same category, assume people punt because they have to pay for sex etc, why work with a client base you hate.

As for OP.....I think it would probably be like any other relationship great until it’s no longer great.

[Animalbeast]

Yet many go on to have happy marriages, and own businesses, homes etc.? There are more and more students whoring to pay uni fees - it's not as if they're all street hookers. Not saying a relationship with an active escort would be easy but there are lots of different personality types.

I agree. Something that both some punters and some wg do is homogenise one and other. As punters we are all unique, we all punt for different reasons, we all go about punting and interacting with wg girls differently, amongst us there are the good and bad. Same applies to WG

[Niggledebits]

I can’t quite believe all the bollocks spouted on here. Casting every wg as an unstable crack whore Who are we to judge when we pay for sex? There are just as many fucked up punters and many of us are cheating on wives and partners, spending family money on wgs and not exactly following the perfect way of life. Lying to those nearest and dearest, sneaking about and so on.

The misogynistic attitude from some on here really is pathetic. Take a look at yourselves before casting massive aspersions on others.

Well said.

[Home Alone]

What a bloody good, grown-up, discussion this has developed into.  Respect to all who have contributed. A really good, mature debate.

[cotton]

This is a bit of a daft question as it assumes that all "prossies" are the same and that all punters are the same. There is no reason why dating prossies shouldn't go well. If the couple are a good match then it will work. I know some punters who got involved with WGs and went on to have long-term relationships. I know of at least one member on here who fits into this category and no longer posts as a result.

I do believe, though, that prossies are more likely to have issues than civvies who've never been on the game. It may also be true that punters themselves are more likely to have issues than non-punters. The profession definitely attracts more unstable characters than most.

I would also be wary of foreign WGs. I'm not being racist or xenophobic here, but as we all know, WGs from some countries have bad reputations. As much as I like Thai pussy, I'd be very hesitant to get into a relationship with one.

So, I reckon level-headed punters could cautiously attempt to date a prossie, provided they have found out as much about them as possible and proceed slowly and carefully.

Yes there is ; shes a hooker and shes fucking other guys for money 
As the Owl says its a real head fuck , i hung out with one girl for a while, there was never any sex because sex was something she did for money and not something she wanted to do for fun and mostly i just drove her to jobs.  In a way it fascinated me but ultimately it is soul destroying.  The only way as i see it to cope with that is to develop a pimp mentality and be impervious to psycological and emotional feelings.  But for guys like us its a hiding to hell and best avoided 

[Private Parts]

You do 

Has it ever occurred to you that it’s the SP’s having the last laugh.
Your myopia does you no favours.
Have your opinion if you must
 

[AnthG]

not often I agree with you Willie, but I do on this. Having more females post might dampen some of the misogyny some members exude.

I agree, it really benefitted Punter Net having them post on punting discussion topics there...

[aronteo]

Prostitution is a real head fuck. It attracts lots of women with problems because sex for money seems like an easy way to make a lot of money quickly, but it's not. If a woman is already damaged, mentally unhealthy or living a damaging lifestyle then sex work will most likely make those issues worse. Fucking men you wouldn't want to go anywhere near if there was no money involved is a sure fire way to increase your problems as much as your bank account.

I think too many people seem not to understand that.......; and it is a fact, not an opinion. There are many studies out there on sex workers/ former sex workers. The vast majority (not all of them...)  of WGs suffer from depression, have anxiety issues, PTS syndrome etc. Actually there is one study which compares the PTS of WGs to the PTS suffered by soldiers...

And things sometimes get even worse after WGs retire. It's a very difficult business to be in, and it can really fuck you up.

[AnthG]

I think too many people seem not to understand that.......; and it is a fact, not an opinion.

If you told any official psychiatrist/psychologist working on the NHS you were a prostitute, or you visit prostitutes. The first thing they will think or say to you is she is druggy with serious emotional issues. No matter who it is

And they are professionals. And it is quite literally true on that too. These stigmas arose for a reason, usually its true.

[smiths]

I agree, it really benefitted Punter Net having them post on punting discussion topics there...

The dusty phone brigade and pimps ruling the roost on their is a big reason NIK started UKP though so it had a silver lining for genuine punters not the arse licking crawling pricks who polluted it. Some of whom are no doubt on here now using different nicks with no link to their sickening crawling, defending pimps and bad WGs, and attacking genuine punters past.

[Hobbit]

Sweetie nowhere did I say I didn't like men 

Hmm, well this comment below doesn't sound like you do. In fact, we just have to read comments on SAAFE to realise how much hookers actually like their clients.

There is a lot wrong with men.....but we still put up with you

[MissWolf]

Hmm, well this comment below doesn't sound like you do. In fact, we just have to read comments on SAAFE to realise how much hookers actually like their clients.

I think we misunderstand each othe Mr Hobbit.

The we put up with you comment was written with a wry smile as a genuine bounce and reflection of the there is a lot wrong with women who are or have been wg's comment and meant in that vein, as in there is a lot wrong with both genders but we still interact, form relationships, friendships etc. I think the misunderstanding stems from my occasional frustration at the broad brushstrokes used on here in terms of generalizations.

I wholeheartedly agree there are a lot of the WG demographic who don't like their clients or men at all and the same can be said for punters and their feelings towards women, going on the language used on here many really don't seem to like women.

However I'm quite a well rounded human who does this part time, for extra money, fun and one on one adult time with the opposite sex,  I'm single and have been by choice for several years,  I'm neither looking for a relationship or wanting one so this fits the bill for me, I'm an ex swinger btw, I can have sex pretty much whenever I want without the commitment I'm not wanting to give atm.

I like men, genuinely like them, I find them easy to get on with, 80% of my colleagues are men and many of my friends also.

Kind regards
MW 

[AnthG]

the same can be said for punters and their feelings towards women, going on the language used on here many really don't seem to like women.

You are expanding comments made about working girls to being about all women in general. And people say I generalize...

[Home Alone]

Hmm, well this comment below doesn't sound like you do. In fact, we just have to read comments on SAAFE to realise how much hookers actually like their clients.

Isn't that a bit of a generalization, Hobbit?

There must be many blokes who are members of this message board but rarely, if ever, post on it. I must confess to being only a very occasional reader of Saafe - I find it tame and, frankly, a bit boring - but I wouldn't be surprised if all the SPs who are members of it don't post on it very often, if at all.

Some members of Saafe may be contemptuous of their clients in the way that some posters on here seem to have a contempt for SPs. Equally, I'd suggest that it may not be a majority of the SPs who hold the views that you appear to attribute to all of them.

[AnthG]

Some members of Saafe may be contemptuous of their clients in the way that some posters on here seem to have a contempt for SPs. Equally, I'd suggest that it may not be a majority of the SPs who hold the views that you appear to attribute to all of them.

I don't think Mary Poppins would ever become a working girl. It's a certain type that will become a working girl. And that type will very soon resent the men they see and punters in general.

[hunkybc]

100% yes. No further comment needed.

[Hobbit]

You are expanding comments made about working girls to being about all women in general. And people say I generalize...

Exactly, this discussion was about hookers and not all women. 

[Hobbit]

Isn't that a bit of a generalization, Hobbit?

There must be many blokes who are members of this message board but rarely, if ever, post on it. I must confess to being only a very occasional reader of Saafe - I find it tame and, frankly, a bit boring - but I wouldn't be surprised if all the SPs who are members of it don't post on it very often, if at all.

Some members of Saafe may be contemptuous of their clients in the way that some posters on here seem to have a contempt for SPs. Equally, I'd suggest that it may not be a majority of the SPs who hold the views that you appear to attribute to all of them.

I didn't say all SP's on SAAFE but there are some.

[yorkieyorkie]

I can’t quite believe all the bollocks spouted on here. Casting every wg as an unstable crack whore Who are we to judge when we pay for sex? There are just as many fucked up punters and many of us are cheating on wives and partners, spending family money on wgs and not exactly following the perfect way of life. Lying to those nearest and dearest, sneaking about and so on.

The misogynistic attitude from some on here really is pathetic. Take a look at yourselves before casting massive aspersions on others.

Exactly this. Plus most punters would have no chance of having sex with most WG’s if they didn’t pay for it.

The misogyny on this thread is disgusting.

[Hobbit]

I think we misunderstand each othe Mr Hobbit.

The we put up with you comment was written with a wry smile as a genuine bounce and reflection of the there is a lot wrong with women who are or have been wg's comment and meant in that vein, as in there is a lot wrong with both genders but we still interact, form relationships, friendships etc. I think the misunderstanding stems from my occasional frustration at the broad brushstrokes used on here in terms of generalizations.

I wholeheartedly agree there are a lot of the WG demographic who don't like their clients or men at all and the same can be said for punters and their feelings towards women, going on the language used on here many really don't seem to like women.

However I'm quite a well rounded human who does this part time, for extra money, fun and one on one adult time with the opposite sex,  I'm single and have been by choice for several years,  I'm neither looking for a relationship or wanting one so this fits the bill for me, I'm an ex swinger btw, I can have sex pretty much whenever I want without the commitment I'm not wanting to give atm.

I like men, genuinely like them, I find them easy to get on with, 80% of my colleagues are men and many of my friends also.

Kind regards
MW 

It's a complete generalisation to say punters hate women and I certainly like many punters here don't hate women. Not sure where you got that idea from? We are talking about whether or not we would date a prostitute and some of us said that we wouldn't out of lack of trust. Where does that imply that we hate women? You talk about us generalising and yet you have made a huge generalisation there.

[Private Parts]

Exactly this. Plus most punters would have no chance of having sex with most WG’s if they didn’t pay for it.

The misogyny on this thread is disgusting.

I Agree totally but the numptees on this thread cannot take themselves off their pedestals
Effing hypocrites. They would soon start moaning if the oasis dried up. They think their wallets are the only driver when it comes to ladies.
Rant over
PP

[Private Parts]

It's a complete generalisation to say punters hate women and I certainly like many punters here don't hate women. Not sure where you got that idea from? We are talking about whether or not we would date a prostitute and some of us said that we wouldn't out of lack of trust. Where does that imply that we hate women? You talk about us generalising and yet you have made a huge generalisation there.

Ergo.
In which case why should they trust you
PP

[cotton]

Ergo.
In which case why should they trust you
PP

Where has anyone said they should 

[yandex]

Isn't that a bit of a generalization, Hobbit?

There must be many blokes who are members of this message board but rarely, if ever, post on it. I must confess to being only a very occasional reader of Saafe - I find it tame and, frankly, a bit boring - but I wouldn't be surprised if all the SPs who are members of it don't post on it very often, if at all.

Some members of Saafe may be contemptuous of their clients in the way that some posters on here seem to have a contempt for SPs. Equally, I'd suggest that it may not be a majority of the SPs who hold the views that you appear to attribute to all of them.

Totally agree with this. There are some pretty bleak attitudes towards WG's on show here. It makes me wonder if it's more a reflection of some members experiences with women/relationships in general.

Undoubtedly, in the days when sex work involved walking the streets touting for business, there were a large number of WGs looking for money in order to fund a drug habit. I'd suggest the internet has changed things beyond recognition now, and there are a whole host of women out there doing it for money to fund things other than drugs. Some of those women will have out of control habits, some will be very damaged in other ways and some will be 'normal' human beings earning cash in ways most of us wouldn't contemplate. My guess is that a lot can give it up and live productive lives when they have to although I'm sure a lot will struggle with that as well.

Who knows whether dating such a person is a bad idea  I know it wouldn't be for me but the world is full of surprises

[Private Parts]

Where has anyone said they should 

I would suggest “what is good for the goose is good for the gander”
You can’t take all your life
PP

[Narnia]

I did, unfortunately she didn't tell me about her 'day job' until it was too late!

We dated for a good few months before I found out, she worked part time and I honestly didn't have a clue until a buddy sent me her link on AW, face shot and everything. I didn't even punt back then. Could say it opened up a whole new world to me.

But I was crushed tbh, after the initial blow up she said she would quit but she had a financial goal to hit first. I just walked away, I tried to reconcile it with myself with all the 'it's just a job' etc. But no, not for me. I have a lot of respect for the guys that can do it, but knowing your lady is getting ploughed and gangbanged would have ruined me.

Fair play if you can do it. But the lure of easy money must be hard for the WG's to walk away from. And as an earlier post mentioned, if they can do it once they can do it again.

[cotton]

Exactly this. Plus most punters would have no chance of having sex with most WG’s if they didn’t pay for it.

The misogyny on this thread is disgusting.

Acknowledging that there are going to be issues when dating a hooker does not equate to not liking hookers and it certainly does not equate to misogyny, it equates to being realistic about the potential relationship pitfalls with a hooker and that they possibly arnt going to be the best dating material. You could say the same thing about punters.

What is it with some people on here with the name calling 

I think we need to get this into some kind of perspective , what i understand people are saying is that hookers are great but they arnt the idea relationship material , lets remember hookers fuck other guys for a living , thats hard to live with , try it 

[Hobbit]

Acknowledging that there are going to be issues when dating a hooker does not equate to not liking hookers and it certainly does not equate to misogyny, it equates to being realistic about the potential relationship pitfalls with a hooker and that they possibly arnt going to be the best dating material. You could say the same thing about punters.

What is it with some people on here with the name calling 

I think we need to get this into some kind of perspective , what i understand people are saying is that hookers are great but they arnt the idea relationship material , lets remember hookers fuck other guys for a living , thats hard to live with , try it 

Well said! Totally agree. All we have said is that there are issues around dating hookers. This does not equate to misogyny or any kind of dislike towards women. Anyone that doesn't understand this needs to reread the thread over again or go to Specsavers.

[Grumpy Pumpy]

There is a broad spread of views on this (excellent) thread. Some of it certainly misogynistic.

I think I'd find it very difficult to date an SP. Though that is, in itself, fucked up logic. I'm happy to pay them for sex. And delighted that SPs exist. But I'm not prepared to date one.

But I do think it possible to have this view, but not be misogynistic. Some of the posters appear, to me, to hate women and especially SPs. I've often wondered how this group feel when they walk away from a booking. Triumphant? Or shabby and unhappy?

[Hobbit]

Some of the posters appear, to me, to hate women and especially SPs.

Can you please give some examples to prove your point?

[AnthG]

Exactly this. Plus most punters would have no chance of having sex with most WG’s if they didn’t pay for it.

The misogyny on this thread is disgusting.

Drug dealers would never give anyone drugs if they didn't pay for it. It doesn't make Drug Dealers saints or people without any issues.

[daviemac]

Well said! Totally agree. All we have said is that there are issues around dating hookers. This does not equate to misogyny or any kind of dislike towards women. Anyone that doesn't understand this needs to reread the thread over again or go to Specsavers.

What makes me laugh about threads like this is the number of people who speak on behalf of others. It has been said many times that it is a bad idea to date an escort, so I will ask all those who have made that claim to tell me why it would be a bad idea for me to date an escort.

The answers will have to be from judging my standards, my tolerances, my outlook on life and the type of escort I would consider forming a relationship with.

I look forward to hearing what I think.

[daviemac]

Drug dealers would never give anyone drugs if they didn't pay for it. It doesn't make Drug Dealers saints or people without any issues.

How many drug dealers do you know or how involved have you been in the drug scene.