Dee would not be seeing anymore black guys even in duos..
some of us really know how to spoil the fun!
I think your opening statement separates black guys from other guys.
As mentioned by Lance and a few others bad behaviour is not governed by race.
I would have felt a lot more comfortable if you didn't reiterate the problem was the black guys.
The problem is badly behaved guys that happen to be black.
Dee decision to stop seeing black guys is nothing short of racial discrimination regardless of the events which lead up to the decision.
Once you start seeing all members of racial ,religious ethnic groups etc as being the same based on a experience or process of thought you are heading towards practising a form of discrimination.
You call it blanket banning, others may regard it as learning from experience, if you stoke a strange pit bull terrier and it bites you, and you stroke another stray pit pull terrier and it bites you, then you stop stroking pit bull terriers, it's not rocket science it's common sense
Its common sense
for anyone comfortable with racial discrimination.
I know we have animal rights but foolishly I believed ethnic groups to come under humans and human rights recognizes racial discrimination.
To have a sign outside your house that says NO DOGS
is unlikely to get you arrested, as you are not breaking any law.
Try putting a sign outside your house that says "NO BLACKS"
…..humans no matter what the race are not treated the same as dogs in law and civilized society .
Your example is flawed for a simple reason……It relates to the breed
not the colour
To be correct your example would have to say, If you got savaged by a pit bull of a particular colour
and pattern would you be stay away from ALL
pit bulls or just ones of that same colour and pattern ?
Dee had a bad experience with a man, his colour is as relevant as the colour and markings of a pit bull, it is by her own choice she decided to categorize that man by the colour of his skin and apply it to all similar.
That is ignorance not common sense
and its ignorance like this that leads to racism.
This linking of personalities, behaviour patterns, IQ etc to skin and ethnic backgrounds took place in concentration camps and should have been left there with the Nazis.
It has no place in our society and that is why its practised underground where it belongs.