Author Topic: Name & Shame ? (Read 9220 times)

Shortandsensible · « **on:** April 05, 2020, 10:14:17 pm »

Feel free to go mental & swear your heads off if it’s a bad idea, but personally I can’t believe some working girls are still happily working at the moment (obviously breaking social distancing rule and with the nature of a meet, making it extremely high risk) is it worth starting a name & shame list for the South west? Or am I being too harsh.?
Because Imo no girl who says on her profile q&a ‘no way because health is the most important thing to me’ is a now brought into question as a liar.

I’ve noticed several in the Dorset area. And not just pimped out barebacking EE girls. Also well reviewed English independent girls too.

I’ll see what the majority say. If admin think I’m breaking the rule regarding starting a new thread on.... you know what, I apologise and I’ll take it on the chin.

bdyno · « **Reply #1 on:** April 06, 2020, 06:25:47 am »

Personally I don't think it will achieve much. You'd be permanently incriminating them for trying to feed their families during a temporary situation. In no way does this come close to barebacking as you're trying to imply.

And it's worth noting that the Available Today light is booked in advance - I believe it's slightly cheaper if you book it a certain period ahead. I'm also told it drives private gallery sales, so many use it for that.

At the end of the day, social distancing is your responsibility. If you don't want to go see them, don't. It's as simple as that.

mike63 · « **Reply #2 on:** April 06, 2020, 06:35:28 am »

It's a two way thing in my opinion. I can't see the point in being critical of people whose circumstances I don't know. It's in my hands to keep myself safe by not punting.

Davey Dykes · « **Reply #3 on:** April 06, 2020, 06:55:30 am »

Quote from: 90125 on March 29, 2020, 10:10:25 am

I personally do not see this the same as the bareback listings. Listing SP’s that are working during the lock down isn’t responsible in the current in our view so threads will be deleted. Providing an advertising platform isn’t appropriate. Members may not agree but it’s our decision.

Shortandsensible · « **Reply #4 on:** April 06, 2020, 12:42:47 pm »

Yeh you’re right, after sleeping on it, and looking on saafe forum, I actually feel sorry for one or two in the situation they’re in. Others not.
Forget it and let’s ‘wash our hands’ of it.

EnglishRebecca121 · « **Reply #5 on:** April 06, 2020, 02:53:21 pm »

Whilst I find it hard to understand why some are still working we don’t know what position there in to have to work still . What does shock me is some of the “higher end “ girls who always state they pay tax have a second job etc and are still working , if you are paying tax the gov is going to help you out in June and surely most higher end girls would have some savings ?! Anyway I guess some are living hand to mouth so I’m trying not to judge but if it’s greed then that makes me angry !

Kev40ish · « **Reply #6 on:** April 06, 2020, 02:57:26 pm »

Quote from: EnglishRebecca121 on April 06, 2020, 02:53:21 pm

Whilst I find it hard to understand why some are still working we don’t know what position there in to have to work still . What does shock me is some of the “higher end “ girls who always state they pay tax have a second job etc and are still working , if you are paying tax the gov is going to help you out in June and surely most higher end girls would have some savings ?! Anyway I guess some are living hand to mouth so I’m trying not to judge but if it’s greed then that makes me angry !

Totally agree..it’s sad that some girls feel the need to work, but like you say we don’t understand their social and economic needs.
I find it a bit frustrating that all SPs are being judged when we do not know their situations.

justalad · « **Reply #7 on:** April 06, 2020, 03:15:14 pm »

Let’s try and not be too judgemental without knowing each WG’s financial position.

If they are backed into a corner financially to put food on the table, I feel sorry for them having to take the risk. If it’s to take advantage over limited WG availability due to Covid 19 and to line their pockets in times of adversity, that is deeply concerning and shows a real lack knowledge / awareness of what is currently happening in world.

Naming and shaming will do no good, punters will still return when the pandemic comes to an end.

nurfe7 · « **Reply #8 on:** April 06, 2020, 05:28:49 pm »

I have had texts from someone I see regularly offering a reduced price due to the situation. She has two kids so with hardly any money coming in (low amount of gov benefits) I can't blame her. Kids got to eat! I have politely refused but sent her money via bank transfer which will go towards future meets.

RobT22 · « **Reply #9 on:** April 06, 2020, 06:07:09 pm »

Nice touch that you care about the young lady to help her through this difficult time and also trust her enough to fulfil her side of the deal once this is all over. Refreshing and reassuring in contrast to many of the comments put on here about wgs.

squigmcdig · « **Reply #10 on:** April 06, 2020, 08:22:04 pm »

Quote from: nurfe7 on April 06, 2020, 05:28:49 pm

I have had texts from someone I see regularly offering a reduced price due to the situation. She has two kids so with hardly any money coming in (low amount of gov benefits) I can't blame her. Kids got to eat! I have politely refused but sent her money via bank transfer which will go towards future meets.

Well done, decent

bdyno · « **Reply #11 on:** April 06, 2020, 10:37:26 pm »

I'm expecting a similar thing to happen. One of my regulars who I saw just before the lockdown was talking about it & was worried. Told her to get in touch if things got tough. She hasn't yet, but if she does I'm sure we'll figure something out.

LondonPete · « **Reply #12 on:** April 07, 2020, 12:49:20 pm »

Quote from: Shortandsensible on April 05, 2020, 10:14:17 pm

Feel free to go mental & swear your heads off

If you want some personal abuse, you might try posting this on UK Escorting. Playground-like name-calling and infantile personal abuse is pretty much the norm for many of the posters there.

LondonPete · « **Reply #13 on:** April 07, 2020, 03:17:51 pm »

Quote from: Kev40ish on April 06, 2020, 02:57:26 pm

Tit’s sad that some girls feel the need to work, but like you say we don’t understand their social and economic needs.

Yes, I agree it is very sad. There is a good BBC article External Link/Members Only which explains some girl's situations.

rudolph hucker · « **Reply #14 on:** April 07, 2020, 03:46:02 pm »

As long as there are girls working, they'll be idiot punters making bookings

anon1989 · « **Reply #15 on:** April 07, 2020, 09:22:16 pm »

I agree, they should be forever named and shamed. Worse than B/B IMO. Several posts have attempted a similar thread then removed so admin disagree. I have seen a few well known local W/G advertising meets. Whatever the circumstances this will add to the spread which takes people's life's. No excuses can possibly justify that.

daviemac · « **Reply #16 on:** April 07, 2020, 09:30:29 pm »

Quote from: anon1989 on April 07, 2020, 09:22:16 pm

I agree, they should be forever named and shamed. Worse than B/B IMO. Several posts have attempted a similar thread then removed so admin disagree. I have seen a few well known local W/G advertising meets. Whatever the circumstances this will add to the spread which takes people's life's. No excuses can possibly justify that.

Admin has stated lists of those still working are not allowed to be posted here.

Quote from: 90125 on March 29, 2020, 10:10:25 am

I personally do not see this the same as the bareback listings. Listing SP’s that are working during the lock down isn’t responsible in the current in our view so threads will be deleted. Providing an advertising platform isn’t appropriate. Members may not agree but it’s our decision.

LondonPete · « **Reply #17 on:** April 07, 2020, 11:58:13 pm »

Quote from: anon1989 on April 07, 2020, 09:22:16 pm

Whatever the circumstances this will add to the spread which takes people's life's.

Actually, it does depend on the circumstances.

If neither the punter nor the escort have Covid19 it will not add to the spread.

If they both have it, it will also not add to the spread becuase they both already have it.

But if one already has it, and one does not, then it will probably add to the spread (contagion is not automatic).

So the circumstances do matter indeed.

puntingpumping1920 · « **Reply #18 on:** April 08, 2020, 12:56:10 am »

People need to pay their bills

If you have a problem with a sex worker working...call one up and offer to cover her living expenses until the lock down ends if she stops working (no strings attached)

I can guarantee you she will stop working lol

jeanphillipe · « **Reply #19 on:** April 11, 2020, 01:58:25 am »

Everyone knows the risks and people can make their own decisions.

Naming and shaming imo is a bad idea. The risks with covid19 are much different to say a horrible std caught from barebacking.

Covid19... will hopefully dissapear soon.

smithblack · « **Reply #20 on:** April 11, 2020, 10:20:17 am »

Support Admin on this.

One "risk" cannot be treated by current medicine, is currently causing thousands of deaths, and involves others through asymptomatic individuals unknowingly passing the virus on.

The other "risk" can be treated by current medicine, does not cause reduced life expectancy, and so long as we go for regular tests does not involve others. Yet, this is a risk this forum has historically disapproved of.

dog999 · « **Reply #21 on:** April 11, 2020, 01:53:39 pm »

Quote from: smithblack on April 11, 2020, 10:20:17 am

Support Admin on this.

One "risk" cannot be treated by current medicine, is currently causing thousands of deaths, and involves others through asymptomatic individuals unknowingly passing the virus on.

The other "risk" can be treated by current medicine, does not cause reduced life expectancy, and so long as we go for regular tests does not involve others. Yet, this is a risk this forum has historically disapproved of.

Take a look a my recent posts on the West Mids Page 'after the lockdown punting plans'. It's a choice we all have to make, stay away from punting or maybe never punt again. You may find yourself 6ft under!. The threat is very real.

Colston36 · « **Reply #22 on:** April 11, 2020, 02:48:04 pm »

Quote from: RobT22 on April 06, 2020, 06:07:09 pm

Nice touch that you care about the young lady to help her through this difficult time and also trust her enough to fulfil her side of the deal once this is all over. Refreshing and reassuring in contrast to many of the comments put on here about wgs.

Good man. I have lent or given money to 6 girls over the last four years. Two have paid back; two have done/are doing so in sex; one had a terrible family problem so I old her to forget it. Only one has let me down - and pissed me about, too. I am angry with her, but haven't commented in a review as she has a teenage daughter. When I think of the number of creeps who've fucked me about or failed to repay favours in business I'd place more faith in a WG. Which is why I find some of the comments on here disgusting. I don't think a WG's life is at all easy. I lived with one when younger - and so did one of my sons later.

ulstersubbie · « **Reply #23 on:** April 11, 2020, 06:15:15 pm »

Quote from: Colston36 on April 11, 2020, 02:48:04 pm

When I think of the number of creeps who've fucked me about or failed to repay favours in business I'd place more faith in a WG. Which is why I find some of the comments on here disgusting. I don't think a WG's life is at all easy.

You come across as a very compassionate man Colston, others should take heed.

dog999 · « **Reply #24 on:** April 11, 2020, 09:05:37 pm »

Quote from: ulstersubbie on April 11, 2020, 06:15:15 pm

You come across as a very compassionate man Colston, others should take heed.

+1. Please read my last post on West Mids page. Stay away from punting it's not worth dying for!.

Kev40ish · « **Reply #25 on:** April 11, 2020, 09:10:32 pm »

Quote from: dog999 on April 11, 2020, 09:05:37 pm

+1. Please read my last post on West Mids page. Stay away from punting it's not worth dying for!.

And how many other threads will you post this on????

I appreciate that you feel you have something to say but no need to post it everywhere..

radman67 · « **Reply #26 on:** April 12, 2020, 07:20:01 pm »

I was actually shocked when doing a random trawl that, not only were some girls still working, but a couple had literally tripled their rates !! That's definitely greed over necessity in my book.

anon1989 · « **Reply #27 on:** April 12, 2020, 10:44:13 pm »

I don't know what's worse, the fact girls are still punting or the punters on here defending it. I guess they are trying to justify there own despicable actions. I know the vast majority is being safe and sensible. There is NO good excuse to be advertising meets whatever their situation. I have blacklisted anyone on AW still advertising meets. This includes well known W/G's I have seen before and would of seen again. If you want to help a regular out, do a Skype meet. I have done a couple with one and enjoyed it. Stay safe & well people.

Kev40ish · « **Reply #28 on:** April 12, 2020, 11:22:58 pm »

Quote from: anon1989 on April 12, 2020, 10:44:13 pm

I don't know what's worse, the fact girls are still punting or the punters on here defending it. I guess they are trying to justify there own despicable actions. I know the vast majority is being safe and sensible. There is NO good excuse to be advertising meets whatever their situation. I have blacklisted anyone on AW still advertising meets. This includes well known W/G's I have seen before and would of seen again. If you want to help a regular out, do a Skype meet. I have done a couple with one and enjoyed it. Stay safe & well people.

I am sure the girls you have blacklisted will not suffer at all from your actions.
Once it all blows over it will be back to service as normal.. but if it makes you feel better to show your outrage, good for you..

If I’m honest I couldn’t really care less it’s upto them and any punters who want to see them..

It’s a dirty world we mix in.. some things you may like other things you may not but it all comes down to what is an acceptable risk, we all judge that differently.

anon1989 · « **Reply #29 on:** April 12, 2020, 11:31:33 pm »

Quote from: Kev40ish on April 12, 2020, 11:22:58 pm

I am sure the girls you have blacklisted will not suffer at all from your actions.
Once it all blows over it will be back to service as normal.. but if it makes you feel better to show your outrage, good for you..

If I’m honest I couldn’t really care less it’s upto them and any punters who want to see them..

It’s a dirty world we mix in.. some things you may like other things you may not but it all comes down to what is an acceptable risk, we all judge that differently.

So if you walked down the road and saw a group of teens sat around in a field drinking, clearly ignoring the lockdown rules you wouldn't care less as it's "up to them". It would annoy me and I would let them know. People punting is the same thing and it annoys me.

Kev40ish · « **Reply #30 on:** April 12, 2020, 11:38:10 pm »

Quote from: anon1989 on April 12, 2020, 11:31:33 pm

So if you walked down the road and saw a group of teens ast around in a field drinking, clearly ignoring the lockdown rules you wouldn't care less as it's "up to them". It would annoy me and I would let them know. People punting is the same thing and it annoys me.

It’s all about what you think is acceptable.. I am not going to tell you what to do it’s up to you to decide.

Would it annoy me a group of people escaping from their council flat sitting and playing with their two young kids in a park or by the beach, probably not.. would it bother me two consenting adults making a decision to meet, no probably not either.

It’s all degrees of risk some you may like, some you probably won’t but the girls will be fucking after this is all over maybe not with you as you’ve blacklisted them..

anon1989 · « **Reply #31 on:** April 13, 2020, 12:02:45 am »

Families are allowed out as a group. It's anything that breaks the lockdown rules. It's law and there really is no excuse to break them. Punting breaks them. The rules are there to stop the spread and save lives. It just won't sink in with some people. Someone can see a girl, catch COVID 19 but have no symptoms. Spread it in a supermarket and infected 20 people of which 2 die. Then the other 18 can spread it to 100 people and 10 die and so on. All because a pair of imbeciles ignored the lockdown. Enough said on the subject anyway! Stay safe bud

Kev40ish · « **Reply #32 on:** April 13, 2020, 12:19:10 am »

Quote from: anon1989 on April 13, 2020, 12:02:45 am

Families are allowed out as a group. It's anything that breaks the lockdown rules. It's law and there really is no excuse to break them. Punting breaks them. The rules are there to stop the spread and save lives. It just won't sink in with some people. Someone can see a girl, catch COVID 19 but have no symptoms. Spread it in a supermarket and infected 20 people of which 2 die. Then the other 18 can spread it to 100 people and 10 die and so on. All because a pair of imbeciles ignored the lockdown. Enough said on the subject anyway! Stay safe bud

Or someone could go to a supermarket infect 20 people of which 2 die.. they get on the bus the bus driver dies.. then the other 18 could spread it and so on..

All because someone who got it from anywhere decided to go shopping and catch a bus..

Ban shopping, getting on buses... oh that’s not against the law but just as risky for the poor supermarket colleagues, bus drivers etc. Oh where are the entitled people who can self isolate / work from home telling people what they should be doing...

EnglishRebecca121 · « **Reply #33 on:** April 13, 2020, 12:37:49 am »

Clients are as bad as girls I’ve had numerous emails on aw asking to see me this week when I clearly state I’m off

Kev40ish · « **Reply #34 on:** April 13, 2020, 12:52:04 am »

Quote from: EnglishRebecca121 on April 13, 2020, 12:37:49 am

Clients are as bad as girls I’ve had numerous emails on aw asking to see me this week when I clearly state I’m off

Yes it’s a two way street..

Glad that your taking a break

anon1989 · « **Reply #35 on:** April 13, 2020, 07:50:40 am »

Quote from: Kev40ish on April 13, 2020, 12:19:10 am

Or someone could go to a supermarket infect 20 people of which 2 die.. they get on the bus the bus driver dies.. then the other 18 could spread it and so on..

All because someone who got it from anywhere decided to go shopping and catch a bus..

Ban shopping, getting on buses... oh that’s not against the law but just as risky for the poor supermarket colleagues, bus drivers etc. Oh where are the entitled people who can self isolate / work from home telling people what they should be doing...

The difference is both of them scenarios are front line workers. Yes they are taking a risk going to work but it's necessary to keep the country going. Is punting classed as a front line job? Is punting necessary to keep the country going?

Snunzl · « **Reply #36 on:** April 13, 2020, 09:33:10 am »

It’s all about what you think is acceptable.. I am not going to tell you what to do it’s up to you to decide.

Would it annoy me a group of people escaping from their council flat sitting and playing with their two young kids in a park or by the beach, probably not.. would it bother me two consenting adults making a decision to meet, no probably not either.

It’s all degrees of risk some you may like, some you probably won’t but the girls will be fucking after this is all over maybe not with you as you’ve blacklisted them..

Can women on aw see if you’ve blacklisted them ??

houseboot · « **Reply #37 on:** April 13, 2020, 12:39:20 pm »

Quote from: Snunzl on April 13, 2020, 09:33:10 am

It’s all about what you think is acceptable.. I am not going to tell you what to do it’s up to you to decide.

Would it annoy me a group of people escaping from their council flat sitting and playing with their two young kids in a park or by the beach, probably not.. would it bother me two consenting adults making a decision to meet, no probably not either.

It’s all degrees of risk some you may like, some you probably won’t but the girls will be fucking after this is all over maybe not with you as you’ve blacklisted them..

Can women on aw see if you’ve blacklisted them ??

You need to use the quote facility correctly.

Your post is just the last sentence, i.e.

"Can women on aw see if you've blacklisted them??"

dog999 · « **Reply #38 on:** April 13, 2020, 06:31:23 pm »

Quote from: anon1989 on April 13, 2020, 07:50:40 am

The difference is both of them scenarios are front line workers. Yes they are taking a risk going to work but it's necessary to keep the country going. Is punting classed as a front line job? Is punting necessary to keep the country going?

Some bag heads and idiots obviously think it is necessary!.

hockogrockle · « **Reply #39 on:** April 15, 2020, 11:08:39 am »

Sadly, some of the girls who are still trying to bring cash in by sex work are probably heroin addicts. Their whole perspective on life is their next fix. If continuing to offer sexual services incurs the risk of catching a potentially-deadly virus, it is a risk they will take as long as it means they can pay for their next high. Their whole life is full of risk as it is. What can you do? People like that are hard to help.

BillyPoison · « **Reply #40 on:** April 15, 2020, 01:45:11 pm »

Some massive price hikes going on £500 an hour

from an already high of £180.

External Link/Members Only

Stay at home folks

BP

RobT22 · « **Reply #41 on:** April 15, 2020, 02:02:23 pm »

She obviously thinks she's worth it.
I wonder how many overnight takers she'll get!!

LondonPete · « **Reply #42 on:** April 15, 2020, 06:24:34 pm »

Quote from: hockogrockle on April 15, 2020, 11:08:39 am

Sadly, some of the girls who are still trying to bring cash in by sex work are probably heroin addicts.

Or mums with young kids who have no money coming in from the kid's dad. Poverty is very cruel if you have young kids - everyone wants to do the very best that they can for their offspring.

Crackpot11 · « **Reply #43 on:** April 15, 2020, 07:27:32 pm »

It will be interesting to see what happens to escorting after this. I hope if lockdown restrictions are lifted that things can go back to normal although I would think escorts may take precautions, no kissing, no oral without etc. Will prices drop or go up? Interested to know what people think? Looks like another month at least.
Also for all those lurkers who say they are too busy to post reviews, surely now is the best time while you have nowt else going on to drop some reviews of all those ladies you have been keeping to yourself?

Barney31 · « **Reply #44 on:** April 16, 2020, 11:45:34 am »

I have always been of the opinion that people can make their own life choices regardless of how stupid I think they are even during these challenging times. However this SP is really taking 'risk' to a new level External Link/Members Only

LondonPete · « **Reply #45 on:** April 16, 2020, 12:05:26 pm »

With five negative reviews I think we would be taking the bigger risk if we booked her after the restrictions have been lifted. No-shows and poor performace frequently mentioned.

dog999 · « **Reply #46 on:** April 17, 2020, 08:39:56 pm »

Quote from: LondonPete on April 15, 2020, 06:24:34 pm

Or mums with young kids who have no money coming in from the kid's dad. Poverty is very cruel if you have young kids - everyone wants to do the very best that they can for their offspring.

Poverty in this country should not be an issue. Several planes of eastern Europeans are on there way to work on farms?. Today I saw groups of workers picking in the fields, there are jobs around if you are willing to do them.

bdyno · « **Reply #47 on:** April 18, 2020, 06:10:25 am »

Quote from: dog999 on April 17, 2020, 08:39:56 pm

Poverty in this country should not be an issue. Several planes of eastern Europeans are on there way to work on farms?. Today I saw groups of workers picking in the fields, there are jobs around if you are willing to do them.

Unfortunately, too many Brits aren't willing.

dog999 · « **Reply #48 on:** April 18, 2020, 07:08:05 am »

Correct!!!!!!!!!!!.

LondonPete · « **Reply #49 on:** April 23, 2020, 12:31:50 am »

Quote from: dog999 on April 17, 2020, 08:39:56 pm

Poverty in this country should not be an issue.

Agreed, but poverty in the UK is very bad. Over 50,000 premature deaths each year, largely due to crippling cuts to the NHS since 2008 and a slashing of budgets for social care by 50% since 2008. Luckily for the Government, most of these people are elderly and they are all poor, hence of no interest to the newspapers or industry.

Amidst the Covid19 deaths we should also remember the 450 people who die each day from cancer, exacerbated by poor air quality and smoking, which again is worst amongst poor areas. That is 165,000 premature deaths from cancer every year - no peaks or troughs - which helps to put the Covid19 deaths into context.

Remember poor people are often disabled or elderly and cannot work.

And I am not belittling Covid19, I am just saying that the death rate has to been seen in context.

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Author Topic: Name & Shame ? (Read 9220 times)