sorry guys and girls ive been away (with work sigh) and not had chance to log in
yes i agree re reading it does sound needy and timewasterish
i have a problem sometime i get a bit flumexed and flusterted on the phone with people i dont know and wanted a way of communicating intitally before calling her up
i am going to man up and call her today when i get home and book her for next thursday if she is free
the reason i wanted to sit and have a drink and a quick chat was initially to settle me down a bit rather than straight in and down to business hence the hour and a half appointment to stress that i am not wasting her time but infact paying for it
i guess as my punting experience increases i will be more forth coming and more direct
I can understand your approach to email / phoning. Just a brief want to meet - day & time - to have play time etc would suffice but then again most prossies want you to phone at some point so you'll have to take a deep breath and make the call.
Only go for a 1.5 hr booking if YOU want a chat before getting down to business. The fact that you turn up proves you are for real.
Has the prossie in question read or replied to your email ? I'm guessing no to both. It may be her policy or she may be unreliable, if it is the latter prepare plans B and C. Once you are on a roll you may well want to line something up for next week.
Good luck and report back.