TaysteTessax - Middlesbrough

[TaysteTessax]

I do not disagree. As I have apologized and said that It wont happen again. Please stop with the name calling and putting me down. Is that a reasonable request?

With what you have said I have worked with National Ugly Mugs and have had meetings with the police who confirmed that I was an escort. The police themselves told me that prostitution (kurb crawling) is what they call prostitution not what I do. But as I said thats ok. I dont mind what you call it. Please dont look down on sex workers though x

[datwabbit]

I do not disagree. As I have apologized and said that It wont happen again. Please stop with the name calling and putting me down. Is that a reasonable request?

You have green/positive reviews. Keep delivering like that and this thread will reduce in importance.

[daviemac]

I do not disagree. As I have apologized and said that It wont happen again. Please stop with the name calling and putting me down. Is that a reasonable request?

Read the legal definition I linked to, nobody's calling you names, it's what you are, like it or not you sell sex for money and that makes you a prostitute.

We know you've apologised and said it won't happen again, great, but this thread is not about that now, it's about one member trying to defend the indefensible.

As this is no longer about you directly I would suggest, no, recommend, you don't post any further comments.

[The Outsider]

Ok, let it be as you said. But I am really think nothing major happened to apologise, especially in front of public. Too much attention, I think, to this story and reviewer who should have taken ALL precautions before getting into punting. I believe each person have the right to send a message to anyone no matter what time, there is no such rule, when possible/available.

Why not pop your personal mobile number on here and test that theory? 

The feedback on this thread gives Tessa a chance to learn and change her approach.  You should try the same. 

A text to a married punter could result in a divorce with the the associated costs - both financial and personal.  Yes, we have a duty to protect ourselves but an escort who gets a reputation for being careless with discretion will have a very short career. 

[Shearer1955]

The OP was correct to flag this up as a Negative because of the unsolicited text and at the time it was sent (3am or 5am is irrelevant because it was wrong)
The thread keeps rising to the top particularly because of irresponsible messages from those defending her ... to be fair to her she is a young lady and probably wasn't aware of the furore (and the damage) things like this cause ... she has come on to try and explain her actions and acknowledges mistakes were made ... I'd acknowledge that she was upset by the Negative but at least hasn't resorted to tantrums or bad language (insults) to defend herself and that provides an element of common sense in here replies 
I'd also suggest a personal comment to her that profiles or advertising which publicise "duos" more than the individual are a turn off as in my opinion it smacks of publicity to boost the coffers ... I know escorts are in in this business for cash which is always the primary motivation but provide a decent service yourself and that is the best promotional publicity to provide endorsements on UKP
Hopefully she has learned some lessons about communications in the world of escorting and that discretion is always paramount
She has had good reviews and whilst I haven't met her others seem to acknowledge she performs a good service
Lets hope it continues and further good reviews follow 

[tynetunnel]

Tessa does have plenty of green reviews, and as testified by me in my review, does provide a great experience. As others have said, unsolicited messages for those members who are married or have significant others, could be an issue. I’m sure Tessa will have taken this on board from this thread and will have learned from the experience

Let it be said through, that punters have a duty of care to protect themselves first and foremost. You can do that by muting an individual contact, using a punting sim or phone, and disallowing notifications when your phone is locked. Using a strong PIN and/or facial log in to lock the phone is a must!

That the OP received such a message is not ideal, especially in the middle of the night. But had he taken the sensible and recommended precautions, it should have never been an issue for him 

[Bustydusty]

I must say I think this thread has been very useful in explaining how dangerous unsolicited texting is - I had one a while ago something like “darling I can fit you in tomorrow...”  but also a helpful nudge to punters who don’t use a punting phone to use the privacy settings properly 

[toon972]

I do not disagree. As I have apologized and said that It wont happen again. Please stop with the name calling and putting me down. Is that a reasonable request?

It is your fan boys with their comments that are making this worse for you and keeping this negative to the top

[tynetunnel]

It is your fan boys with their comments that are making this worse for you and keeping this negative to the top

You chose to let almost 6 hours elapse before doing exactly that. So that makes you a fanboy? 

[toon972]

You chose to let almost 6 hours elapse before doing exactly that. So that makes you a fanboy? 

I am not allowed to reply when I come online and also I have never seen her. If you read my other post on here you would maybe notice that I would never ask for an appointment. 

[tynetunnel]

I am not allowed to reply when I come online and also I have never seen her. If you read my other post on here you would maybe notice that I would never ask for an appointment. 

You told the WG that “ It is your fan boys with their comments that are making this worse for you and keeping this negative to the top”

You yourself brought this negative back to the top after six hours of no other comments, hence making it worse for her 

[toon972]

You told the WG that “ It is your fan boys with their comments that are making this worse for you and keeping this negative to the top”

You yourself brought this negative back to the top after six hours of no other comments, hence making it worse for her 

Yes I was explaining to her why the name calling started and now you are keeping this to the top. 

[yellowfever888]

Children......

[toon972]

Children......

 

[Kev3773]

Why are people still replying and keeping this at the top ? ........
Oh shit 

[toon972]

Why are people still replying and keeping this at the top ? ........
Oh shit 

  not me 

[TaysteTessax]

I would thank you all to stop now. Fan or not I appreciate the support and somehow I've had more people message from reading this thread, so I hold no animosity to those commenting, however I'd like to forget about this and keep providing the best work. I apologized for a first time of one year working, one mistake. Please let it end here. 

[Lilywhite]

With what you have said I have worked with National Ugly Mugs and have had meetings with the police who confirmed that I was an escort. The police themselves told me that prostitution (kurb crawling) is what they call prostitution not what I do. But as I said thats ok. I dont mind what you call it. Please dont look down on sex workers though x

We are prostitutes. We sell sex for money. That is that. The police should not be giving you false information.

[northface]

We are prostitutes. We sell sex for money. That is that. The police should not be giving you false information.

Who are you trying to score points in our area.
Go back to Scotland and make it up to those guys you messed about -quotes 27th December.

[Lilywhite]

Who are you trying to score points in our area.
Go back to Scotland and make it up to those guys you messed about -quotes 27th December.

Giving a heads up is not against the rules. 

[Kev3773]

Giving a heads up is not against the rules. 

Stick to giving head... you didn't give us anything we didn't know