Fair points. The reason I suggested it is as I know she's from a group of friends, all of whom have been to my linking, in that location, and all of whom have been the person pictured on the profile at the time. I see what you are saying, but to me, for those reasons, she is a more sure thing than most AW. I felt that as it was someone I would go to myself, it was fair to point out the profile.
The reason she is plan b is because I try around for a plan a, and have a plan b that I know I will like and is to me a sure thing really.
She isn't my plan a later tonight as I will try and see one I will give a chance, with not great odds. I see your points though.