So, let me start by saying I was unsure whether to do a review at all. And having decided to do one, I was unsure about whether to give it a positive or not. But I've gone with a positive because it is as advertised and whether you like it or not is quite dependent on your tastes. I want to try and write something without sounding judgemental because I really have no issue with what the offering is. I won't cover everything, as some of the details have been covered in previous reviews and remain the same.
At the very least, I can offer a first timers perspective. Anyway...
I arrived a little late and stuck around for about 2 hours. When I first entered, I was a little overwhelmed. The music was a little loud, plenty of people walking around. I was invited in, directed to changing rooms and offered a towel (pretty much everyone walks around in just a towel, if that). There was a decent offering of snacks and drinks. Eventually, still fully clothed, I took a quick tour of the place before towelling up.
For maybe 45 minutes or so, all I did was walk in and out of rooms, awaiting an opportunity. In the whole time I was there, I played with 2 girls. I don't know their names, one was I think Brazilian, thick, with big curly hair. She was, to me, easily the most attractive one there. There were a couple of other younger ladies who were very popular, particularly amongst the younger men. Besides that, it was largely as described in a previous review. You're not going to get ladies with porn star looks, and most of them are a bit older than what I would usually go for. On the other hand, the atmosphere was quite open and pleasant. The truth is that everyone is there to enjoy themselves, nobody is judgemental, and I can honestly say that I had no issue with fucking a woman in front of 10 other men while she sucked another mans cock (or vice versa). That alone is a major positive for me. The diversity of people there is also a pro, all races and ages.
So, what do I think overall? I'll be honest, much of my experience I can put down to it being my first time. However, ultimately I would say this party was not for me. The main issue is the type of person I am and therefore a big reason for going to these parties - the sociability. Much of the experience is about what happens away from the contact time, the chat and banter with everyone around. If that is not something you really care for, then you may find that there is a lot of dead time, with you hanging about quite literally with your dick in your hand. Which is my second personal con for this type of party, and that is the male to female ratio. It just meant there was a lot of hanging about - in fact, I would say it was queueing - for the next go. It is just simply not something I would want to do. There are And the final con was quite simply that I did not find enough of the women attractive enough physically. Now, there is a lot to say for an attractive personality making someone sexuality attractive and that is not really something I got the chance to explore. But on the face of it, I just didn't fancy most of the ladies enough.
Perhaps some of that sounds harsh, and so I should reiterate that they are not criticisms as such, rather my personal prefereces. I'm not judging the party itself, only whether it is for me or not and what it was like to experience it for the first time. For instance, the male to female ratio was not a surprise - but in the end, it just wasn't suitable for me. There are other parties that are more likely to cater to my preferences. I went to experience what it was like, with the hope that I might enjoy it, and some of it I did. I was open to almost anything, but on the day, it just wasn't for me. On that basis, I would still give it a positive because clearly there were plenty of men and women enjoying themselves and I did too at times. For £75, you're not going to get a choice of 15 porn stars to yourself. It's just not that kind of party.
On another note - I don't know if I just didn't notice, but it didn't appear to me as though there were many swingers about. I saw two couples come and have a walk around, but they didn't really get very involved (which, of course, is completely fine). That may have made things a little more interesting.
Interested to hear other people's opinions.
