Wood problems

[SirFrank]

Anyone ever had wood problems on a punt? I've never failed to rise to the occasion but last her had a punt that I should have walked from but didn't. I did get wood but I can only describe it as somewhere between semi and hard. I did wonder what was going on. Probably the hardest I was during the meet was when I whacked myself off just to get the fuck out of dodge. Anyone ever had similar issues with their old fellas? She had a cunt like a butchers dustbin - yuk. It's no wonder I couldn't cu diamonds with the old boy

[vorian]

The wood, is never a problem. However coming is, takes ages no matter how good the prossie is. Think this might be a sign of age but even when I was younger coming never happened quickly. No pills to make you come quicker as far as I know.

[Stealthshagger]

I have had the opposite. Horny as fuck, shag hard, come. Still so horny. Blowjob epic, come, still horny. Etc. hot day really horny...just can't get enough and sate the horniness and get rid of the wood. Those days are great if you're with a civvies you picked up in Hyde park on a June day, but when paying for the hour and she wants you gone after 60 minutes, no so much. Leaving a punt hot and horny isn't good.

I guess in your example, it's hard to have a rocket with enthusiasm if you dont fancy her at all. Even when you don't fancy her, it'll be fine if she has a nice torpedo tube, or a nice fibre pipe, etc. If she has an old meat grinder for a pole warmer it's blowjob time or time to go home.

[Neverspell]

The one I had last night should have been a major case of. Mr Floppy... But I'm almost ashamed to say (with her approval)  almost ruined that poor woman - she even tried to invite me back., but no,  no, no... Got to get in control!

[SirFrank]

I have had the opposite. Horny as fuck, shag hard, come. Still so horny. Blowjob epic, come, still horny. Etc. hot day really horny...just can't get enough and sate the horniness and get rid of the wood. Those days are great if you're with a civvies you picked up in Hyde park on a June day, but when paying for the hour and she wants you gone after 60 minutes, no so much. Leaving a punt hot and horny isn't good.

I guess in your example, it's hard to have a rocket with enthusiasm if you dont fancy her at all. Even when you don't fancy her, it'll be fine if she has a nice torpedo tube, or a nice fibre pipe, etc. If she has an old meat grinder for a pole warmer it's blowjob time or time to go home.

Yeah her twat did look like roadkill and despite her profile photos (taken when the spice girls were top of the charts) the reality was she had a body you'd see in a circus hall of mirrors

[Stealthshagger]

When I see a pussy that looks like roadkill fighting for its life, I don't poke it. It's such a turn off.
I did once see a vagina that looked like a badger had stepped on a landmine, so I had anal and a blowjob. But some things can't be unseen.

[BigLad89]

I suffer from porn related ED, so I always have trouble standing to attention unless i take a blue pill.

really embarrassing considering that I'm only 24

[Stealthshagger]

I suffer from porn related ED, so I always have trouble standing to attention unless i take a blue pill.

really embarrassing considering that I'm only 24

Don't worry about it. Most people are embarrassed about something to do with sex or their bodies. Actually, the vast majority have a long list for both.

[cockneybstrd]

It happens to best of us

One of the worst was a few years ago I had been on bit of beano at the football and bit other stuff was involved and I fancied a punt, So searched AW and came up with what looked a cracking sort. Rocked up and its Marty Feldman with tits I had already scoffed a jelly on the taxi ride over and had a semi before getting in the door

She was also very short and I am very tall so it was all a bit difficult anyway. Anyway she got me hard while I kept my eyes shut I thought the best way through this is doggy. So got her on all fours but there was a mirror on the wardrobe and every stroke seemed to make her eyes go even more marty like after about a minute I could feel myself going soft. So I made some loud noises and faked cumming (Like a good pro does) and made my excuses like a good tabloid journalist would do and left the scene

the problem was once I got on the tube i developed a boner all the way home and had to sit with jacket on my lap till i got to my station

[vorian]

I suffer from porn related ED, so I always have trouble standing to attention unless i take a blue pill.

really embarrassing considering that I'm only 24

Try not to wank before a punt at least a week is good, but the longer the better.

[renton69]

Old Percy has never let me down on a punt I'm pleased to say.... well, not yet anyway. I have had times when I've been with long term girlfriends though when I've really had trouble getting things going... boredom I guess.

On the odd occasion that I've fucked a howler, I tend to blow my load quicker than with one that I like.... I guess I like to savour the time spent with the good ones.... and of course there is the value for money aspect.

[wristjob]

The wood, is never a problem. However coming is, takes ages no matter how good the prossie is. Think this might be a sign of age but even when I was younger coming never happened quickly. No pills to make you come quicker as far as I know.

And that's a problem? if I "hang on" a bit it tends to get hard to come but that usually means a longer better session.

When I was younger I used to come really quick with new girls but I'd usually recover pretty quick. One time I had a wank before setting off and sods law....

The only other times were twice with the same girl. It's rare for me to see the same girl twice anyway and this is the girl i've seen most times ever (5) but times 3/4 were pretty embarassing really. Saw other girls in between without problems and it wasn't that she wasn't hot or good. i guess you get used to new girls all the time and no matter how good they are they need to reinvent themselves, do something different to keep you coming back.

[smiths]

Yes i sometimes have trouble getting and/or keeping wood, such is life is how i view it.

[Anadin]

I had wood problems and now it's not cumming easily. It's weird to say but I'm a little bit envious of guys who occasionally suffer from premature ejaculation.

[vorian]

I had wood problems and now it's not cumming easily. It's weird to say but I'm a little bit envious of guys who occasionally suffer from premature ejaculation.

That's make two of us.

[NottsDB]

I tend to do half hours, because I'm a cheap skate, so I don't do myself many favors, in terms of time frame. There is a pressure to pop within the allotted time or it feels like you've missed your opportunity, so you start rushing trying to finish. But, the more I rush, the longer it seems to take. When i relax and just go with the flow, i get better results.

I think i'd probably experience some wood problems if i didn't pick a WG that I really wanted to get stuck into. I'm by no means a stud, but because I'm digging the girl and i know what's about to go down, I'm able to get wood and keep it long enough to feel i put in a decent shift.

[BigLad89]

Try not to wank before a punt at least a week is good, but the longer the better.

I dont wank anymore. havent had a wank in almost 5 months now. my ED is getting better now

[SirFrank]

When I see a pussy that looks like roadkill fighting for its life, I don't poke it. It's such a turn off.
I did once see a vagina that looked like a badger had stepped on a landmine, so I had anal and a blowjob. But some things can't be unseen.

Yip - you can't unring a bell. Once you've seen the goods there's no way to expunge it

[vorian]

I dont wank anymore. havent had a wank in almost 5 months now. my ED is getting better now

Ah you are following the programme. Please let me know how it works out,  it is a genuinely interesting subject.

[BigLad89]

Ah you are following the programme. Please let me know how it works out,  it is a genuinely interesting subject.

Which program do you mean? Im going by what i read on YBOP.

It's been going really well, havent really had the urge to wank until i started punting but i refuse to restart my timer again so i just wait till my next punt for release

[CBPaul]

I haven't been effected by the sight of a grim vag - yet - but have been by the rancid stench of a semi rotten one.

One in particular appeared to be a star find at first, cracking body, good looking and I was getting close to attaining full wood in anticipation of the action. She peeled a particularly tight pair of jeans off and not long after the unbearable sickly sweet stench of a mouldy, sweaty fanny hit me. Even now I can't work out why she had paid attention to the rest of her body but totally neglected her gash.

Love the badger on a landmine analogy - perhaps it was the same girl, just that I saw her a couple of weeks later after the remains of the badger had been allowed to putrefy.

Things can't be unseen - true. But some things also can't be un-smelled. Fucking pong stayed up my nostrils for ages.   

[webpunter]

Try not to wank before a punt at least a week is good, but the longer the better.

+1 on no wanking.  And loads of booze don't help either.  Add the two together & i'm right up shit creek without a paddle
When feeling tired and / or knowing that i'll be drinking before then there is only one solution
Take a bluey.  But whilst these give you a raging hard-on they do make it a bit more difficult to come
If Kamagra then drink loads of water
No chance of 'getting over the line' in a condom in such circumstances as above
Plan B - have a nice oily TW. Her hands and arms then get tired.  Take over & knock one out straddling her tits
This & some dirty verbal encouragement normally works wonders
Finally get there, all sweaty & i think to myself:  TFFT.  And I then check to see the volume produced & distance achieved...

[webpunter]

Plan B - have a nice oily TW. Her hands and arms then get tired.  Take over & knock one out straddling her tits
This & some dirty verbal encouragement normally works wonders
Finally get there, all sweaty & i think to myself:  TFFT.  And I then check to see the volume produced & distance achieved...

Correction - let the girlie take over for the final 5-10 secs when the inevitable is in sight
Start this final process too early & its like the baton change when GB run the 4 * 100m

[Eager Thighs]

I suffer from porn related ED, so I always have trouble standing to attention unless i take a blue pill.

really embarrassing considering that I'm only 24

I'm curious, how much were you watching porn to suffer that at 24? My reason for asking is that I have quite an appetite for porn (usually at least a wank a day, sometimes 2) and I'm wondering whether I should quit while I'm ahead since I'd hate to end up with P.R.E.D (I'm 27).

With regards to wood problems. Only when I've been on the sauce, but never with a prossie since I drive to my punts so obviously don't drink.

[Stealthshagger]

Why or how does porn cause ED?

[webpunter]

Why or how does porn cause ED?

Goggle it - PRED

External Link/Members Only
One of the lines: "I used to have 5-10 windows of streaming video open at a time, and bounce between them, which really upped the levels of arousal"
This technique is especially useful as unless you have like fibre broadband - then with mulitiple downloads then these slow up
Solution = start each one.  Then pause.  They still load.  Hey presto...

[renton69]

It's about conditioning.... Pavlov's dogs and all that... they hear a bell and they know it's time to eat.. With porn related ED you switch on the TV/Monitor, open the mag or whatever is your media of choice and you get a boner... often this can happen just with the anticipation of what you're about to view.. So, the physical reaction becomes conditioned behaviour ... In extreme cases NO porn = No boner. 

As it is generally a self induced condition, it can also be self cured ... Just stop the porn for a while and generally the body return to it's default position.   

[Stealthshagger]

Interesting...I had no idea it got that bad. I didn't realise people were really that hooked on porn.

[vorian]

Interesting...I had no idea it got that bad. I didn't realise people were really that hooked on porn.

Much more common now with broadband and free streaming sites.  Fuck you can  now watch hardcore porn on your smartphone on the bus.

[Stealthshagger]

Much more common now with broadband and free streaming sites.  Fuck you can  now watch hardcore porn on your smartphone on the bus.

Happily I won't be on that bus with you. That would make me do a sadgit and walk.

[vorian]

Happily I won't be on that bus with you. That would make me do a sadgit and walk.

I would expect Sadgit to ask a large number of questions first.

[Stealthshagger]

No, just the same one many times. Before the internet he was the guy asking "are we there yet?" every five seconds.

[BigLad89]

I'm curious, how much were you watching porn to suffer that at 24? My reason for asking is that I have quite an appetite for porn (usually at least a wank a day, sometimes 2) and I'm wondering whether I should quit while I'm ahead since I'd hate to end up with P.R.E.D (I'm 27).

With regards to wood problems. Only when I've been on the sauce, but never with a prossie since I drive to my punts so obviously don't drink.

I would go 12-16 hours looking at porn pretty much everyday i was not working, and if i was working then i would get atleast 4-5hours in before i went to sleep.

This is all with one long drawn out wank, i used to edge all day until bedtime.

Why or how does porn cause ED?

Porn causes our minds to get used to the extremeness of it and thus finding sexual interaction abit mudane and doesnt excite us like it's meant too.

if you like your science, porn basically reduces the number of dopamine receptors in our brain which helps maintain erections.

If you watch a lot of porn, i bet you have noticed that you now have to look at more hardcore or fetishes to actually keep a erection.

If you want to know more about P.R.E.D then I would suggest giving this website a read and you can decide if you may have or start to have a problem like myself.
External Link/Members Only

[Stealthshagger]

I would go 12-16 hours looking at porn pretty much everyday i was not working, and if i was working then i would get atleast 4-5hours in before i went to sleep.

This is all with one long drawn out wank, i used to edge all day until bedtime.


Porn causes our minds to get used to the extremeness of it and thus finding sexual interaction abit mudane and doesnt excite us like it's meant too.

if you like your science, porn basically reduces the number of dopamine receptors in our brain which helps maintain erections.

If you watch a lot of porn, i bet you have noticed that you now have to look at more hardcore or fetishes to actually keep a erection.

If you want to know more about P.R.E.D then I would suggest giving this website a read and you can decide if you may have or start to have a problem like myself.
External Link/Members Only

To be honest, I don't really watch much porn at  all. But my taste in punting hasn't gotten more hardcore either.  It is interesting that it seems a lot of people need to go more hardcore as they go on.

[ciscoxxx69]

That's make two of us.

Erm. That makes three of us!

[CBPaul]

I have a look at porn probably 4 days a week - on and off, have a pretty varied taste depending on my mood and what takes my fancy - what hits the spot one day doesn't the next. My tastes in punting haven't changed over the years though so I guess I keep what I watch on the computer and what I do in the hotel room separate, I don't try to reenact the porn.

I do watch it sometimes and think sod this, I need a punt though.

Interesting points in linking porn to performance. I've never suffered from ED but in the days of crappy dial up I watched 20 second trailers, anything longer took the whole day to download, frame by frame. I eventually found myself to be conditioned to getting hard and shooting quickly, which started to follow through to punting. With the arrival of a better internet connection I moved to longer porn clips and low and behold got some self restraint back.

 

[ciscoxxx69]

I would go 12-16 hours looking at porn pretty much everyday i was not working, and if i was working then i would get atleast 4-5hours in before i went to sleep.

This is all with one long drawn out wank, i used to edge all day until bedtime.


Porn causes our minds to get used to the extremeness of it and thus finding sexual interaction abit mudane and doesnt excite us like it's meant too.

if you like your science, porn basically reduces the number of dopamine receptors in our brain which helps maintain erections.

If you watch a lot of porn, i bet you have noticed that you now have to look at more hardcore or fetishes to actually keep a erection.

If you want to know more about P.R.E.D then I would suggest giving this website a read and you can decide if you may have or start to have a problem like myself.
External Link/Members Only

I agree with all this BL.
I had the same problems and now rarely watch or wank.
I had several punts with very Hot women where I couldn't cum at all.
Then I lost all sensation.... I was terrified I would never get it all back so stopped watching it. After two weeks I began to recover.....

Basically wanking your cock harder and faster than you would ever do in a pussy was the problem I had. It was all logically explained in YBOP and happily I am enjoying it all again.

Nowadays I find wearing a condom is a bit of a problem though.
I also am trying not to control when I cum. I have problems when I try and control it. If I go past the 'point of no return' then I sometimes struggle to cum, so now I am trying to cum as quick as I can and when I am ready. It is still taking 30/40mins though, depending on how randy I feel and how horny the woman appears to be.
For me I think it is becoming a psychological, physical and age related issue.
I wish I could go without sex for a month and see if that helped, but I just think I would be impossible to live with.....

[ForrestGump]

Why or how does porn cause ED?

From my own perspective I find that porn has definitely raised my expectations of how good sex should be to unrealistic levels. The reality, of course, is not apparently anything like as exciting or intense. I, of course, appreciate that everything in porn vids/pics is contrived and stylised but it definitely has an effect which lasts beyond the moment of seeing it. So that mismatch between reality and perception is the issue for me. And going with a wg who ticks the right boxes is the closest I'll ever get to attaining that unattainable, imagined, perfect experience. That's also why I find abstinence from porn has a positive effect on my ability to get wood and cum

[Stealthshagger]

Frankly, I didn't realise it would be porn  and watching that would do it. I assumed that it would be masturbatory habits, as that tends to be what conditions one to come fast, slow etc. Such Pavlovian conditioning is learnt and can be unlearnt of course. I had no idea watching porn a lot affected your ability to get it up.

[vorian]

Frankly, I didn't realise it would be porn  and watching that would do it. I assumed that it would be masturbatory habits, as that tends to be what conditions one to come fast, slow etc. Such Pavlovian conditioning is learnt and can be unlearnt of course. I had no idea watching porn a lot affected your ability to get it up.

From what I have read it is less to do with the wood and more to do with the quality of the coming. With porn you are conditioned to cum hard and fast. Without the port you brain gets confused and struggles to get past the trigger points.

[Gigabyte]

Definitely for me porn is part of the problem but if I abstain for a couple of days I am usually good to go. This is also partly to do with condoms, the sensation is so much less between owo and ow, sometimes I can't even feel anything with a condom on (although it might be down to the condom).

But the reverse can be as bad, I was recently told by a girl that one client came as she was putting the condom on. How pissed would you be that you didn't even get to shag her before you popped, so are you sure that you would prefer premature ejaculation?

[ciscoxxx69]

Definitely for me porn is part of the problem but if I abstain for a couple of days I am usually good to go. This is also partly to do with condoms, the sensation is so much less between owo and ow, sometimes I can't even feel anything with a condom on (although it might be down to the condom).

But the reverse can be as bad, I was recently told by a girl that one client came as she was putting the condom on. How pissed would you be that you didn't even get to shag her before you popped, so are you sure that you would prefer premature ejaculation?

Good point. Seems we always want what we can't have....
I just wish I could pop twice in an hours punt.......

[vorian]

Good point. Seems we always want what we can't have....
I just wish I could pop twice in an hours punt.......

Me too,  not saying it's not fun trying and the wood it not the problem. I can come in an hour twice when wanking so it is in the head as opposed the physical.

[BigLad89]

when I've had punts with the blue pill, im finding that i get a bit too excited so i usually last like 20seconds compared to before the ED and porn problems where i would be able to last a lot long.

One of my biggest issues is in my head i put too much pressure on myself as im used to seeing videos of guys being able to fuck for hours and not come and still remain hard, now i know in the real world that doesn't happen and most men only last a few minutes.

For me, my ED is all in my head with these unrealistic ideas of how sex should be. but I am getting better, up until a month or so ago i couldnt remember the last time that i woke up with a raging boner, my morning wood had completely gone and i never realised until I searched YBOP.

[webpunter]

PRED seems to be getting some bad press here
I'm +1 on the commentary so far
There is one +ve aspect being overlooked
It's a perfect excuse for not being able to come with the OH
The reality is that you've had a cum-draining-experience the previous day / same day / whenever
Being able to politely give out instructions:  can we do this / stop / change / finish in whatever way [reasonably] one desires at the time
Back to more routine vanilla stuff with OH [desperately trying not to show behaviour traits associated with punting] then getting / keeping wood / coming can become a problem
And then the usual question arises.  Being tired / alcohol are ok excuses.  Can get a bit 'samey' though
Having watched porn & knocked-one-out recently is an admission of sorts [anyways - all blokes wank].  Does the job in a tight situation etc

[hendrix]

It happens sometimes, I try not to worry about it as that obviously makes things worse. Popping twice in an hour is becoming increasing difficult too. I have found though, given the types of punts I like, sometimes it's better if I switch off the "full filth porno Max Hardcore" mode when I'm feeling the strain and have a fluffier kiss and a cuddle..works wonders!

[pokenn]

Like a couple of other guys I get a hard on easily , but have trouble popping with a girl. When I was younger I could often cum twice in 30 mins. My last couple of punts I didn't cum at all despite them being very good punts. I usually abstain from wanking for a couple of days before. I can easily come when wanking, so I've no idea what the problem is. Probably too much porn. It's a bit frustrating, but I try to relax about it and just enjoy the sex and being with a young hottie.

[ciscoxxx69]

Like a couple of other guys I get a hard on easily , but have trouble popping with a girl. When I was younger I could often cum twice in 30 mins. My last couple of punts I didn't cum at all despite them being very good punts. I usually abstain from wanking for a couple of days before. I can easily come when wanking, so I've no idea what the problem is. Probably too much porn. It's a bit frustrating, but I try to relax about it and just enjoy the sex and being with a young hottie.

Go to the website 'Your brain on porn' ....it really does make sense.
I had the same problem.......you need to 're-train' your brain to feel a women's soft pussy, not you pulling your cock off fast and furious with you hand whilst watching porn.
What happens is, the more you watch the more extreme it gets. Then without realising it, you are pulling harder and harder and faster and faster. You would never fuck that fast, nor would a pussy grip that tight.
I had the same problem......3 or 4 punts I couldn't cum, then seem to lose all sensation. I found the YBOP site and stopped watching and wanking that day. It took about two weeks before feelings started to come back.......
It is a combination of unrealistic mental fantasies and too hard physical yanking that made a mess of things for me.
I rarely watch and wank anymore.........
Just lately, when I am with a Girl, I have tried to cum when I am ready, rather than TRY to prolong things for an hour or more......and I have enjoyed 'pussy' orgasms naturally, rather than my normal modus operandii which is to take it out, wank it and spray it about!

[vorian]

I've come to the conclusion that I'm now a one cum guy and there is no point pretending otherwise and trying to force a second out in the hour. I will relax sit back and let nature take its course from now on. Still lots of fun to be had getting one out.

[Wiltsboy01]

To be honest, I don't really watch much porn at  all. But my taste in punting hasn't gotten more hardcore either.  It is interesting that it seems a lot of people need to go more hardcore as they go on.

I don't actually fuck these girls but do lick/suck/get my face all over them a before a nosh-off.  Have noticed that my taste in that is changing for them to be ever less clean and shiny.

10 mg of Levitra chewed up gives a fast and furious boner that lasts as long as most WGs are willing to suck for.