Like a couple of other guys I get a hard on easily , but have trouble popping with a girl. When I was younger I could often cum twice in 30 mins. My last couple of punts I didn't cum at all despite them being very good punts. I usually abstain from wanking for a couple of days before. I can easily come when wanking, so I've no idea what the problem is. Probably too much porn. It's a bit frustrating, but I try to relax about it and just enjoy the sex and being with a young hottie.
Go to the website 'Your brain on porn' ....it really does make sense.
I had the same problem.......you need to 're-train' your brain to feel a women's soft pussy, not you pulling your cock off fast and furious with you hand whilst watching porn.
What happens is, the more you watch the more extreme it gets. Then without realising it, you are pulling harder and harder and faster and faster. You would never fuck that fast, nor would a pussy grip that tight.
I had the same problem......3 or 4 punts I couldn't cum, then seem to lose all sensation. I found the YBOP site and stopped watching and wanking that day. It took about two weeks before feelings started to come back.......
It is a combination of unrealistic mental fantasies and too hard physical yanking that made a mess of things for me.
I rarely watch and wank anymore.........
Just lately, when I am with a Girl, I have tried to cum when I am ready, rather than TRY to prolong things for an hour or more......and I have enjoyed 'pussy' orgasms naturally, rather than my normal modus operandii which is to take it out, wank it and spray it about!