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Offline sesalovdarlo

How did u get into it? Why do u carry on doing it? Do you plan to stop?. My first punt was at the dam at 21 yo best punts iv ever had with Russian models. I'm addicted to paying for sex and I'm quite open about it with mates who can't understand why I do it when I have my gf. Nothing wrong with sex life at home! I'm 28 with super hot girl friend who turns heads everywhere, not punted with a pro (in the uk) that is on par with her looks wise , so it's not that I'm paying to bang good lookers, I just love the thought of women doing what I want because iv paid then to!  :diablo:

Offline Randy101

Does your GF have an suspicions that you're punting?

Offline sesalovdarlo


Toshiba

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Really dint know how i started or why, the gf has gone off sex unless i instigate it and it suits her

I stumbled accross AW and it lead to a punt

Still very concious of stds, i dont want to lose my vanilla life

Offline FLYING BLUE

Didn't get any as a teenager :(

Simply making up for lost time :cool:

Goharley

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I first punted on business trip to Austria, a place called Babylon in Salzburg - google it.
Had an incredibly sexy girl from Moldova but felt guilty as f**k coming back. Soon got rid of the guilt and my first local punt was Sophie, that was a great choice!

denyason

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i got into it through reading all the celebs doing it back in early 2000's where all manner of celebs from MP's to actors, footballers were at it.  All front page news on many a tabloid which resulted in many documentaries on the tv screens at the time.  Before this i did not know what escorting was.  I'd thought it was the old school version where you hire a girl for a date at the theatre etc...  Reading about it got me intrigued and now i've seen over 60+ punts since 2003.  I believe i'm a sex addict.

Offline mcb

I just love the thought of women doing what I want because iv paid then to!  :diablo:
I guess you won’t mind me paying you’re girlfriend if she’s as good-looking as you say by that logic then ;)

facialgiver

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Couldn't pull for love so tried for money. Had some good, some bad.

Offline dino1990

I do it because I like having sex with a variety of women. And also I can't be bothered with wasting my time on dating sites and bars/clubs when all I want is a bit of sex.

Offline alenski

i will tell you why i do it.about 6 months i saw a film '' the sessions''its about a man totally paralysed who wants to have a sex life at the age of 38.so he hires a sex surrogate to introduce him to sex play then finally when she thinks he is ready  for it  they have sex.i think the guy carried on for another 5 or 6 years found  a girlfriend and had a sexlife till the day he died .well the story certainly inspired me to do something about my own situation which was totally lacking.so  went off to see an escort and got the minimum ,a massage back and front [no touching genitals ]i found the whole experience liberating and beautiful beyond words.so i do  a second turn and it is exactly like the first [i thought she might she might do sex me to shy to ask]feeling slightly frustrated i made a point of asking for sex at the outset of my third visit and after a covered oral we finally  had sex ahh what a blessed relief to get that out of the way.yes at the age of 69i finally came alive and have happily carried on   ever since.

Offline alenski

i forgot to thank the girl in question, she is gabriella who did a vanishing trick shortly after but who reappeared as'' gabriella busty newcastle escort'' available to all and sundry but not alas for me.

Offline Eager Thighs

What kick-started my punting career can be summed up in 3 points.

1. I have been in two long term relationships since I was 16 (I'm 27 now) and had slept with only a handful of girls. Although I love/d my partner/s I had a fear of growing old and regretting not having taken full advantage of my prime/youth by shagging more women basically. This feeling has been mitigated by my push into the punting scene and I will probably be happy/retire when my conquests are in triple digits. (999?  :D )

2. My girlfriend doesn't like giving head. I love receiving head. I didn't want to leave her but at the same time I didn't like the prospect of going the rest of my life without a blowjob! And I kind of resented her for it. Now I pay prossies to do what she doesn't want to do and I no longer resent her, everyone is happy.

3. I'm a horny bastard with an extremely high sex drive and I love women.

simonthesimples

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My wife once said "can't do with all this jiggling about" and has not bothered ever since. That was 4 years ago and not as much as a kiss since then; just fobbs me off. I was really angry and thought "stuff you" and eventually went else where.

I didn't want an affair as they always end in disaster. I didn't want to leave because other than this she is OK and we get on, and also kids would be hurt. I now have my needs met, I am happy, and she in her ignorance is happy especially with me destressed. I believe that punting has ironically saved my marriage and my family (at least until she finds out!).

Offline Bengeo13

Simple for me, I'm in a sexless marriage (for more years than I care to remember). Not just sexless, affectionless in fact, and I gave up trying - could only takes so many knockbacks, so I remembered several (10+) years ago visiting a massage parlour in Longbenton, and after many nervous attempts the girl asked me if I wanted a HE, and that was it - an easy harmless transaction. I enjoyed the experience so now that things have petered out at home I remembered the sensation and ventured to see an escort.
To be honest I'm not a sex maniac (I wonder how many of us actually are) but I enjoy the closeness and affection that can develop with only a few girls.

Offline TheSpaniard

I got into punting because I really wanted to try some bum fun but the wife cant do it so I went ahead to give it a go. Met a gorgeous, and I mean it, gorgeous polish girl in Leeds who gave me the pleasure I was looking for. Lovely GFE with some really passionate dfk. That's what got me into punting. Will I ever stop? I bloody hope so! It is expensive and risky. My last punt was 7 months ago and right now all I can think of is meeting a girl this weekend for some bum fun  :wacko:

aerofan5

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Good post Alenski.

For me it was just curiosity, I wanted to know what different girls would be like.

I have been in 'The Hobby' for around 25 years and have had great experiences and after several hundred punts. I am told that I have become an expert at getting the girl good orgasms.

When the WG is up for it and enthusiastic you always get a good result.

Offline socks

I wanted to try all the sexy things I had never done with my long term partners (too afraid to ask, too certain they'd say no and pretty certain they'd be offended) and make up for a bizarre decision to stay away from sex when I was a teenager. I would never have experienced anal sex, giving and receiving rimming, giving a facial, cumming on an arsehole, being spat and pissed on and in my mouth (and drinking some), giving fisting, making lots of selfie porn, teabagging, wanking while watching sexy ladies undress, dance and pose, receiving some BDSM, being fingered and fucked with a strap on, cumming while rimmed and a whole load of stuff that can only be done in an FFM threesome. Oh and increased my "had sex with" count from 2 or 3, to over 50 (so far). :yahoo:

yorkshire123

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Mrs Yorkshire was going through a bad time with Lady matters & totally went off sex.
I still had a itch to scratch so rather that have an affair (or doing without) i started punting.
As she seems to be through the worse now & more randy than ever i thought i could stop my hobby at a drop of a hat, not a chance I'm afraid its like a drug & I'm addicted.


xCocoMonroe

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How did u get into it? Why do u carry on doing it? Do you plan to stop?. My first punt was at the dam at 21 yo best punts iv ever had with Russian models. I'm addicted to paying for sex and I'm quite open about it with mates who can't understand why I do it when I have my gf. Nothing wrong with sex life at home! I'm 28 with super hot girl friend who turns heads everywhere, not punted with a pro (in the uk) that is on par with her looks wise , so it's not that I'm paying to bang good lookers, I just love the thought of women doing what I want because iv paid then to!  :diablo:
Imagine if you came across your gf on AW!
What a conversation starter that would be..

Offline socks

What like "who the fuck pays for it off you?" :sarcastic:

Offline socks

my gf that is, the OP's sounds lush :D

Pompoy123

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I was talking to a female work friend about not having any sex for a while and she told me a friend of hers punts on the regular and why did I not try it out. So a month in here I am 6 girls chalked up. Fucking expensive habit I've fallen into now I think of it lol.

Rochdull lad

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Almost 10 years ago and almost 2 years after the late Mrs R L passed on [after a gradually deteriorating marriage], I was in my late 50s with low self-esteem about my chances of pulling a "civvy" due to my disability so I decided the time had come to stop just wanking to porn and to "do the deed" in a Parlour.

I was intensely nervous, but my first experience was so enjoyable that I was hooked.  With neither kids nor mortgage, I was like the proverbial "kid in a sweetshop" for the first year or so; and, although now I'm retired and have to limit the frequency of my visits, I've never really looked back.

pokenn

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My first punt was when my girlfriend at the time was being a bitch. I booked an outcall with an agency (I got fleeced £240 for 2 hours). A young little blonde with big boobs turned up. We were both nervous as hell as she was new to the game too. She didn't kiss, wouldn't shower with me (in case it messed her hair), and didn't smile once in the 2 hours. But it still brings a smile to my face remembering her cute head bobbing up and down on my dick.

vorian

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For me it is due to a lack of understanding with regards to attract women, I have mild aspergers and when young this was a problem with having the necessary empathy to form a relationship, short or long term. Eventually I got fed up with the sexual frustration and started to punt, it works very well for me as it follows set rules and with the emotional aspect of relationships I find it easier to manage. I have no real interest in women in a loved up way and find this lack of empathy is actually an advantage when punting. When I see punters who suffer from EAS or other issues of "Feelings", "Jealousy", etc and the problems that causes, I believe that my coldness is for once an advantage.   

Offline ForrestGump

Been married for a long time now and mrs appears to have zero desire or need to have sex with me. I'm sure if I initiated she'd probably oblige but I'd rather be with someone who's motivated to want to pleasure me, even if the motivation is purely financially fuelled.

The world of punting is all still very new to me but, with the help of this brilliant forum, I'm learning fast.

Had my 3rd punt this week (review available) which was the best yet and that, I believe, has a lot to do with me being more comfortable with being there in that punting groove.

I haven't shared any details of my secret lust life with anyone outside of this forum, nor do I plan to.  :cool:
« Last Edit: April 10, 2014, 10:27:25 am by ForrestGump »

Offline PatrickCarnes

I was on a kibbutz for 6 weeks when I was in my early 20s and didn't get laid at all much to my frustration, so stumbled across the page in Lonely Planet guide detailing the red light district in Tel Aviv. Decided to check it out before my flight home to Blighty and ended up getting a lift from an Israeli I got talking to, to a parlour.

Had a covered blowjob from a Ruskie ( I hope she was Jewish, otherwise my mother would be very disappointed ).

Came out of there thinking "that was ok as an experience, no need to do that again. No one knows me in Tel Aviv so no one will ever see me".

Was back in London a week later flicking through the local rag and saw the whore ads at the back and thought " I wonder if the experience will be any different in London?".

Here I am 100s of punts later.
« Last Edit: April 10, 2014, 05:29:14 pm by PatrickCarnes »

sfj3006

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For years (since maybe age 14 or 15; I'm 30 now) I've harboured a specific fantasy - older women. No desire at all to be in an actual relationship with one though. I haven't been able to shake off the lust and relatively recently I had the revelation that at some point I'm going to be the older one. So I seized the day.

a10

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I'm not especially attractive and get seriously tongue tied around women I find attractive unless drunk.

This is a bad combination that often ends up in poor choices when selecting "civvy" sexual partners. I also far more enjoy "gonzo" fucking than lovey dovey cuddles under the covers.

I punted at first in a parlour in King's Lynn (*shudder*) soon after, I got my first milf under my belt. Then my first black girl. After that it was a case of chasing experiences and all kinds of different body types.

These days I watch porn, think "I'd like to try that", search AW and go do it. Also after your first deep throat, spit drenched, gagging blow job finishing in a sloppy facial, a half-hearted disinterested tug job from the local bar's fat slapper doesn't really cut the mustard.

Gordo987

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I got into punting via the early 'massage' scene. I went to what looked like a legitimate sauna and massage place on the high street somewhere in Manchester. As it turned out, the tall fit brunette masseuse was a mind reader. Although I didn’t get to fuck her, she gave me one of the most erotic hand jobs I can remember, and she let me feel her firm arse as a shot all over her tits. Soon after that I had my first full punt with a cute little Indian girl near Victoria station. The rest, as they say, is history. :hi:

valleypunter

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I can remember my first, but not why I went. I was very nervous but it went well.
Ever since I can't stop even though I have a lovely girlfriend who never turns me down for sex!

vorian

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I can remember my first, but not why I went. I was very nervous but it went well.
Ever since I can't stop even though I have a lovely girlfriend who never turns me down for sex!

Sounds expensive to me. :D

cockneybstrd

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At first work. The industry I worked in the late 90's was very much the work hard play hard mentality. So often evenings out ended up with hookers involved.

kenw1

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How did u get into it? Why do u carry on doing it? Do you plan to stop?. My first punt was at the dam at 21 yo best punts iv ever had with Russian models. I'm addicted to paying for sex and I'm quite open about it with mates who can't understand why I do it when I have my gf. Nothing wrong with sex life at home! I'm 28 with super hot girl friend who turns heads everywhere, not punted with a pro (in the uk) that is on par with her looks wise , so it's not that I'm paying to bang good lookers, I just love the thought of women doing what I want because iv paid then to!  :diablo:

My step sister suggested that should see a escort and 80 plus punts I still having fun with no plans to stop. :D

cockneybstrd

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For years (since maybe age 14 or 15; I'm 30 now) I've harboured a specific fantasy - older women. No desire at all to be in an actual relationship with one though. I haven't been able to shake off the lust and relatively recently I had the revelation that at some point I'm going to be the older one. So I seized the day.

That sounds exactly the same as some other geezer who posted on here

Offline CBPaul

Can't remember the year but early 90's, young and extremely horny, single and wanted sex at that exact time, the whole dating game would have taken too long. Toured the local RLD a few times before getting the bottle to pull over and pick a prossie up. First one just a BJ but 'french and sex' as they put it from then on.

Didn't punt when involved with someone probably because I plenty of sex which was better and with infinitely more attractive girls. Probably just kidded myself that I was being decent and would only punt when single.

Now I punt because I realised I always liked humping different girls and my tastes change on a regular basis. Whether punting preconditioned me to that view I don't know. So years of marriage and sex on the wane I started punting again, this time moving from the streets to indies on AW.

aerofan5

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Interesting replies on this post.

It reinforces my view that men are not naturally monogamous, and that we would all have multiple partners given a choice.

vorian

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Interesting replies on this post.

It reinforces my view that men are not naturally monogamous, and that we would all have multiple partners given a choice.

And punting gives you that choice :yahoo:

charley11

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Not attractive and bullied at school over my appearance, had my confidence shot and too shy to get a girlfriend.  Women can smell desperation a mile off.  At 28 and still a virgin I decided to do something about it and havent looked back, c. 500 punts later

Gordo987

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Interesting replies on this post.

It reinforces my view that men are not naturally monogamous, and that we would all have multiple partners given a choice.

And many of my life experiences have shown me that neither are women!

Offline denneboom

I was dragged into a parlour on a lads night out following a strip club visit
Problem was I'm useless with girls and was low on confidence.

Now I can have my pick of Central , Eastern European, English or Asian girls. Slim or BBW, Teenager or Milf. White or Black. Any get what I missed out on in my teen years.

I have never regretted and it actually builds my confidence.

Offline house music dave

I was 21 and in my first year of university, knew that with my disability i wasn't going to have the confidence, knowledge, ability, or looks to talk with women. went home in the easter holidays and phoned up my local parlour explained my situation and the rest is history. At first i went in with the idea of building up confidence and learning about how to pleasure the body with limited movement. After my 5th punt, I'd given up on the whole idea of a relationship and now it's just an itch to be scratched. In a way it's a bit sad that I've completely given up, on the other hand I don't have any hurt or expectations.

HMD     

Offline Eager Thighs

Interesting replies on this post.

It reinforces my view that men are not naturally monogamous, and that we would all have multiple partners given a choice.

I agree, very interesting thread.

dilettante

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I was in a LTR for 10 yrs or so, when that ended I found another gf that only lasted a few weeks, now on the wrong side of 50 and a) pointless saving all your money as "crawling slowly towards death" anyway and b) forget ambition, standards, morals as you're well on the downwards slope and who cares who or what you are anyway?  After the gf split up I started having Thai massages, then I fucked one of them, then after discovering AW it was just too easy!  Oh and the immediate "justification" was another girl I thought was keen on me, made a bit of effort and thrown back in my face, so that was it!

But if I did get into another relationship I'd turn my back on punting while it was ongoing, no two ways about it.

Rochdull lad

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But if I did get into another relationship I'd turn my back on punting while it was ongoing, no two ways about it.


I'd agree with that, dilletante; but as much because I'm an awful liar and couldn't keep punting because, if I were in a relationship, I'd soon get found out,

jcdmj12

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Walked into a parlour one day because it was on my walk home from the pub and I'd often walked past wondering what it was like. I'd walked in and out of a few before summoning up the courage.  Was in an LTR that had gone sexless, and thought 'stuff it'

Went a couple of times and got was what in retrospect a pretty shitty service, but it was enough to get me going.


Offline kong

i found the amount of time and effort required to try and get laid to be nowhere near worth the pay off - getting laid with an average/decent looking girl on the ocassional night out after spending hours listening to shitty music and blowing my bank account on alcohol. because i'm very highly sexed this was nowhere near enough for me.

besides, on a 1 night stand you'll be lucky if they even suck your dick. i like with punts you know exactly what you're gonna get.

and as for relationships? WAY too much drama and BULLSHIT. life thus far has lead me to the belief that most people are peices of shit, so making compromises isn't something i care to do, for anyone.

being in my late 20s and living with a suspicious mother who makes enquiries every time i leave the house has just reinforced that i will never get married and will never co-habit in a relationship.

fuck the world. i'm just out to sleep with as many women as i can before i drop dead!

ironically since i started punting i've acutally found it a lot easier to pull in clubs, go figure.

domino131

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ironically since i started punting i've acutally found it a lot easier to pull in clubs, go figure.

It's funny you say this because a lot of people say similar things about relationships - as in, once you have a girlfriend, you seems to get a lot more interest from people.  In the latter case it's probably due to having more confidence and self assurance.  In the case of punting, I personally find that it's improved the way I see women in day to day life - not that I was remotely sexist beforehand, but what I mean is that I no longer tend to think of attractive girls that I see at potential pulls or girlfriends because I'm not bothered.  Of course if it does happen then great, but it's not at the front of my mind.

As for my reason for getting into punting; I ended a long, terrible relationship with someone I hadn't been particularly attracted to.  I kind of wanted to just have sex with someone that I actually found attractive, but I also wanted to 'play the field' a bit, having been tied down for so long.  That, and tick off a few boxes in terms of types of girl and thing I'd like to try.  Trouble is, although I don't think I'm bad looking or difficult to talk to, I'm just useless as pulling, not least because I hate clubbing.  It really just popped into my head one day out of nowhere; 'why don't I just pay for it?'.  Although I think mainstream society thinks by default that prostitution is wrong, I couldn't rationally think of any reason why it should be in and of itself.  I came across Chester Brown's book 'Paying for It', in which his reasons for taking it up were rather similar to mine (he says he's given up permanently on 'romantic love', while I'm not sure I have totally), and although I don't agree with everything in that book, it gave me the confirmation that it was the right thing in terms of what I wanted.  Not sure I'll do it forever, and not sure I've given up totally on relationships, but it suits me for now.

visa0049

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I watched a lot of porn. I was watching armature porn a lot. Home-made stuff was fascinating.

Then at work we had a discussion. How much is an evening out and I was told £100.

in another words the same amount for an incall.

I did not drink or smoke. So I did never see the point of pubs and clubs.

When I balanced things out. I thought to myself once a month is not an issue.

So I did it. Once a month and never stopped. What I hate is WG's moving on without informing regular punters.

So many of my women have disappeared.

David x