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Author Topic: Prossies who don't respond to emails  (Read 4971 times)

Offline Aspen

This has been the case for a long time and getting steadily worse. About 50% of the messages I send on AW don't even get read, and most of those profiles disappear within a couple of months. About another 25% are read but no reply, and a lot of them disappear too. Another 20% I get a reply in a day or two, but half of those fizzle out quickly. Of the rest it can take anything up to a month to get a reply.

I stick more or less to the ones that display phone numbers. It's a lot easier, and you find out straight away if the number is false or not. Quite a lot are non existent and are only there to add credibility to the PG scams. I have the impression that only about 5% of the profiles are girls actually serious about the business. The rest are jokers and scams.
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Offline rogerc23

I agree this is annoying,i am now trying to arrange my punts at least a week in advance as it can become quite time consuming emailing and texting a few girls at once trying to organise a booking.
I do think you have to persevere as some of the best girls as recommended by this site can in my experience still take days to reply.
I now have a punt lined up for friday with my top choice but it took a while,my original email was sent last thursday but not read till yesterday despite the wg having logged in,the time i wanted had gone but luckily there was another that worked so i got there in the end!

Offline pokenn

I think part of the problem is that good WGs get so many messages.  I saw a girl for outcall yesterday evening. After we had finished we were sitting chatting and she looked at her phone and had about a dozen messages and texts.

Offline CBPaul

Many do have the tendency to check their phones at every opportunity. If it's when I go for a piss then fine, if it's when I should be getting the attention I've paid for, not fine.

I'm sure that most prossies get a load of messages and many of them from time wasters and punters they would rather not see. Then again I get a shit load of emails and delete off the crap ones as I go through them, leaving the ones I have an interest in - not too difficult.

I don't tend to book too far ahead either. Arranging for a punt in a week may be all settled today but come next week she may have forgotten or double booked (got a better offer). The most I book ahead now is making arrangements the day before.

Offline Cactus

As an update, the two who had read my mails have now made contact.

The first asked for my mobile number, which I provided & then entered into an exchange of barely legible text speak messages. I asked for an hour incall in my email, but advised that I needed an hour to get into Edinburgh for the punt, she asked by text if I could do an hour, but gave me 15 minutes notice. I pointed out what I said in my email & told her to forget about it. I've seen her before, she's as thick as two short planks but gives a good service, I've reviewed her positively, but she's changed her profile. Stupidity is her downfall & I due to the fact that her texts made absolutely no sense eg.. i dnt do hour erm u do half hour... then I got; I do do hour jurt timimg wish ok I can mabya do 345 for hour. What the fuck does that mean? She's Scottish too, English being her first language. Hasn't responded again after I pointed out what I requested & advised in my email.
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Prossie 2 responded & advised she was taking the week off, but would be available for incalls next week.

Prossie 3 still hasn't read my email. Seen her before,bad a good punt & she was online yesterday.
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Prossie 4 who deleted my email without reading has now disappeared.

I genuinely think I'm going to buy a new Hoover instead :dash:


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Offline cunnyhunt

I genuinely think I'm going to buy a new Hoover instead :dash:

You will get more suck for your money if you do  :hi:

Offline Cactus

You will get more suck for your money if you do  :hi:

Indeed. Probably time for another thread, but should it be off topic or UKP?  :unknown:

Offline GeeWiz

This is one reason why it may be preferable to have a regular.  Until diminishing returns anyway.

This is one reason why it may be preferable to have a regular or two.  Until diminishing returns anyway.

Suggested amendment for you, GeeWiz.

Offline Cactus

This is one reason why it may be preferable to have a regular.  Until diminishing returns anyway.

Tried that, they tend to become complacent and useless in the end, taking your booking for granted - in my experience anyway.  I'd rather have a civvy partner these days than a regular prossie.  I'll happily see a prossie a number of times if they are good, keep the bookings spaced out so that they don't get complacent.  I know a couple of prossies who are reliable and can contact them for a booking pretty much whehever they are available, but you need to keep them on their toes.  Would never have a "regular" where you see her pretty much exclusively again - the last one turned into a nightmare, took some real liberties, plus variety is the spice of life.

Offline SirFrank

I have a two counts and you're out policy. As much as it boils my piss when they don't respond it's usually an indication of flakiness and or cuntage. If she can't be bothered to reply blow the fucking bitch out and move on
« Last Edit: April 01, 2014, 04:27:29 PM by SirFrank »
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I have a two counts and you're out policy. As much as it boils my piss when they don't respond it's usually an indication of flakiness and or cuntage. If she can't be bothered to reply blow the fucking bitch out and move on

Say your after a longer meet, or a 'dinner date' or even an overnight, ££££'s generate prompt replies
 :D  Then if she eventually fits the criteria you can sharpen your pencil a bit with the appointment duration.   

Offline Andre 3000

I have a two counts and you're out policy. As much as it boils my piss when they don't respond it's usually an indication of flakiness and or cuntage. If she can't be bothered to reply blow the fucking bitch out and move on

Indeed. There are a few WG's I've taken off my HL for that. Sent them a email with maybe 2 quick questions on it,I can see they look at it usually within 5 mins and don't reply at all. I mean I can understand if they're doing something and can't reply straight away but if the next day comes and there is no reply then off the list they go.


Offline Qwerty

She's Scottish too, English being her first language.

That's a moot point  :D

Offline JV547845

Working Girls have to put up with shed loads of creepy weirdos and our messages could get lost.  As well as the Private Gallery Scams, I wonder if some part timers are nervous, disorganised or don't log in very often cos they've not thought it through properly.  Also maybe some women start a profile cos they've seen Call Girl Diaries or are curious get cold feet when it comes to actually doing the deed or just wanted to see how much attention they'd get.

While I'm sure that WGs have to put up with some weirdos, I think that the girls JV describes in his last sentence are simply in the wrong job and are as much time-wasters as some clients are accused of being.

It takes a woman with a fairly strong personality, I'd have thought, to be a good and successful WG.

Offline pleasure

A lot of girls seem to prefer to deal only by phone, and almost ignore the AW side of things except as a way to advertise their number. I can't understand it myself, the email route seems like a much more convenient, but each to their own. I just wish girls would make that clear on their profile, so I don't bother sending an email only for it to be ignored.

Offline vorian

A lot of girls seem to prefer to deal only by phone, and almost ignore the AW side of things except as a way to advertise their number. I can't understand it myself, the email route seems like a much more convenient, but each to their own. I just wish girls would make that clear on their profile, so I don't bother sending an email only for it to be ignored.

Imo a lot of that is down to SAAFE they are very strong advocates for the prossie speaking to the punter directly on the phone to gauge the type of person they are. They even talk about a TW tone of voice and a dangerous tone of voice.
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Offline ladyofthemansion

A lot of girls seem to prefer to deal only by phone, and almost ignore the AW side of things except as a way to advertise their number. I can't understand it myself, the email route seems like a much more convenient, but each to their own. I just wish girls would make that clear on their profile, so I don't bother sending an email only for it to be ignored.

I understand what you're saying about girls making stuff clear on profiles but many don't read the profiles. There have been times I've been in areas where Internet signal shit so have put on my profile not to email if they want to see me that day. Some still do it and send an email that I won't read till after I've left.

Offline ladyofthemansion

Imo a lot of that is down to SAAFE they are very strong advocates for the prossie speaking to the punter directly on the phone to gauge the type of person they are. They even talk about a TW tone of voice and a dangerous tone of voice.

That is correct. However there is nothing wrong with replying to initial emails that are polite. You can gauge the sort of person they are by that. There is nothing wrong with the sort of email the OP says he writes, but certain emails will get ignored including ones from guys who say they have a big cock or asking for things that I don't do. They obviously haven't read my profile. While initial emails are ok I still like to speak with the guy prior to giving address. Though it's not as essential if he has feedback. Am sure guys like to speak with the lady too first.

Offline CBPaul

Some prossies will only deal by phone, others demand an AW booking and some want both, often without actually telling the punter and we are left second guessing whilst having to dance to their tune. I've missed out on several bookings thanks to not doing something I wasn't told to do in the first place - my powers of clairvoyance are pretty crap.   

Being sceptical, there are prossies who only arrange things by phone, don't answer emails and totally avoid the booking system. If this is combined with hidden fb then I move on - comments that have been left as 'fb only' don't seem to appear. If the profile has fb from bookings against it, a mouse over will reveal the number of positives, negatives and neutrals, so the more dodgy ones out there avoid this by only dealing by phone. 

Offline Ben4454


One thing I have noticed is the increasing trend of so called working girls who get an ego boost from men who are willing to pay for their time. This is why your E-mails get read and never responded to. If you notice on her feedback she either has no escorting reviews or hasn't had any recent escorting reviews only webcam or phone reviews.

If you want to maximise and cut through the time wasters then only message working girls on there who display phone numbers (and call them opposed to E-mailing) - Make sure she has recent escorting reviews (within the last two weeks) Also look to see if they're 'logging in everyday but never seem to have any new reviews written about them ' that is a dead giveaway also.


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Offline Sienna_Bronze

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One thing I have noticed is the increasing trend of so called working girls who get an ego boost from men who are willing to pay for their time. This is why your E-mails get read and never responded to. If you notice on her feedback she either has no escorting reviews or hasn't had any recent escorting reviews only webcam or phone reviews.

If you want to maximise and cut through the time wasters then only message working girls on there who display phone numbers (and call them opposed to E-mailing) - Make sure she has recent escorting reviews (within the last two weeks) Also look to see if they're 'logging in everyday but never seem to have any new reviews written about them ' that is a dead giveaway also.

This is a tough one. Around 99% of my bookings are via phone/private email. In fact this year alone I have only received 3 ratings even though I see 5 odd clients a day. I though the most preferable option is by phone at least that way you have instant contact with someone.
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Offline Admin

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Hi everyone,

I am a WG, this is my very first post here. I think that the customer comes first (I know, I know we all say this – some of us mean it, some of us don’t really), so if a potential customer takes the time and effort to message a WG on AW, the least she can do is to send a reply (although I must admit that I don’t tend to reply if the message is rude, arrogant, or in text speak), even if she cannot/doesn’t want to see the client. I don’t think it is impossible to read all your incoming mails even if you have dozens each day. How long does it take? If a message is very detailed then probably 5 minutes?? I think it is worth to spend that amount of time on EVERY potential client (not on apparent TWs, of course). Why would I expect clients to read my (very detailed) profile if I cannot be arsed to read and reply to their much shorter messages?

No "Waynee" not a SP, just a sad twat who likes to pretend to be one.

Offline pleasure

certain emails will get ignored including ones from guys who say they have a big cock or asking for things that I don't do. They obviously haven't read my profile.

If I sent an email as retarded as that I'd expect to get ignored. It's when a perfectly polite, brief, to-the-point email gets ignored or deleted without reply for the tenth time this week that it get kinda tiresome.


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