Teenpanties - Newcastle CC (yes, another TP thread!)

[williambream]

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I am posting this having last seen TP over a year ago in which I described it as the best punt I had ever had (to date at the time). The difference in the girl between then and now is astronomical.

I am classing this as a meet even though I walked within 3 minutes of getting there and not having arranged any services however we all know at present there is an open invitation for anyone to go around and see what happens...

I saw her status the other morning and I genuinely felt sorry for her (and still do) so thought I would go around for a chat to cheer her up. She seemed to be getting very aggressive over AW messages over me asking for her address, after it had been confirmed she wanted me to come over, as if she expected me to know the address.

I knocked on the door and thought I heard something shouted, like a "hello" but I waited regardless. She then flung the door open, disheveled, and asked if I was deaf and didn't hear her saying to come in (!?). She then lay on the mattress on the floor, in the pitch black, and about ten seconds of silence occurred.

I asked how she was and how she was getting on to which she replied she had no money for electricity (obviously has enough for wifi or mobile data!) and needed money. It was extremely uncomfortable at this point and I just asked her if she wanted me to buy her a gas, or electric, card to top her meter up. She just wanted cash...

I left and said I would go back to the car for some money but we both knew this was a one way trip. To be honest I'm glad I contacted her on AW and not something with more details PI like phone/email as I really think she is playing a risky game at present inviting anyone along and putting herself in a situation where she is saying how desperate she is.

Grim, and sad, but not surprising based on everything that has been typed about her since the last time I met. I don't think she has the ability to pull this around and start offering services in a nice, presentable environment and as I mentioned on the other thread, it is a slippery slope and downward spiral from here.

 

[billabong]

Based on her AW activity and having met her also.... I think many could have predicted this would be the cycle of events. Shame.

Thanks for the review and helping to build the picture.

She will quickly become one to be avoided after a couple more of these pop up.

[MME]

I’m typing mine up right now....

[winkywanky]

Clearly the poor girl is at rock-bottom.

I should imagine any money she does get will go straight on exactly the wrong thing (drugs of some sort) rather than paying any bills. So she'll continue to be in surroundings which no-one will want to visit, and anyone half-decent who turns up will tend to walk. So it's a vicious circle, and anyone who does decide to 'stay' will probably be someone completely undesirable, possibly with dire consequences for her.

Perhaps I wouldn't have done any different from you Amst, but it probably wasn't a good idea to tell her you were just going to the car to get money, and then you didn't return. This merely reinforces her current state of mind where she thinks no-one will see her, or stay with her. She presumably feels she's been abandoned (and there was a post to this effect a day or two ago, perhaps it's even written on her profile now, I can't remember?)

It seems to me she's in a very bad place mentally and very bad shit is liable to happen.

Can anyone fairly local alert social services or mental health services to her situation? Easy for me to say because I'm hundreds of miles away and I don't know where she lives, but I really do think someone should intervene.

I think she really needs help.

[winkywanky]

I just had a look on her profile and three's stuff about she wants to go back to Poland?

I don't think she's Polish (?), did she have a Polish bf, or had she spent some time there and enjoyed it?

I really think someone should try to help her.

[williambream]

I don't disagree however how many of us have any personal information for her? I imagine you'd need this as a minimum to go to social services?

It's also a massive risk for anyone who doesnt want this hobby to affect their normal life as to how much they consider you may have contributed to the situation?

[Pasola1]

Ina e. Ogives a couple of times on her aw account she was accessing from Poland

[Pasola1]

Shud be ive noticed  big thumbs 🙈

[winkywanky]

I don't disagree however how many of us have any personal information for her? I imagine you'd need this as a minimum to go to social services?

It's also a massive risk for anyone who doesnt want this hobby to affect their normal life as to how much they consider you may have contributed to the situation?

Anyone who knows her location can report her as being vulnerable.

I understand about people's normal lives being kept separate from their punting hobby, but although I couldn't guarantee it, I don't believe for one minute that a genuinely concerned punter would come under the police spotlight. They'd see them as merely doing the right thing.

[winkywanky]

Even an anonymous phone call to 101 (put a 141 in front of it) with a few details would at least get the police round there to assess her situation.

[johnny34]

Clearly the poor girl is at rock-bottom.

I should imagine any money she does get will go straight on exactly the wrong thing (drugs of some sort) rather than paying any bills. So she'll continue to be in surroundings which no-one will want to visit, and anyone half-decent who turns up will tend to walk. So it's a vicious circle, and anyone who does decide to 'stay' will probably be someone completely undesirable, possibly with dire consequences for her.

Perhaps I wouldn't have done any different from you Amst, but it probably wasn't a good idea to tell her you were just going to the car to get money, and then you didn't return. This merely reinforces her current state of mind where she thinks no-one will see her, or stay with her. She presumably feels she's been abandoned (and there was a post to this effect a day or two ago, perhaps it's even written on her profile now, I can't remember?)

It seems to me she's in a very bad place mentally and very bad shit is liable to happen.

Can anyone fairly local alert social services or mental health services to her situation? Easy for me to say because I'm hundreds of miles away and I don't know where she lives, but I really do think someone should intervene.

I think she really needs help.

I've been in touch with someone how can hopefully contact the right people to offer help/support if needed.

[winkywanky]

A big well done to you sir 

[Amelia Andrews]

Give me some details and all intervene or get correct authorities and agencies to do so.

I'm seriously concerned for this ladies welfare, and without revealing too much, it's my forte in civvie....

[MME]

I've been in touch with someone how can hopefully contact the right people to offer help/support if needed.

Johnny34: I've just left my review, please PM me if I can help with this.

Edit: I just read Amelias thread, please check your PM...

[williambream]

While I don't think these reviews should be deleted - due to the circumstances of apparent UKP members contacting TP just to invite her to read the comments they may benefit from being locked so just the reviews stand and not the hyperbole which is going to surround them.

[MME]

While I don't think these reviews should be deleted - due to the circumstances of apparent UKP members contacting TP just to invite her to read the comments they may benefit from being locked so just the reviews stand and not the hyperbole which is going to surround them.

+1

[Amelia Andrews]

Dealing with it. Appropriate agencies have been informed and details passed. Spoke about my concerns and directed them here, and things are escalating. This girl will get the help she needs. Waiting for a log number now

[daviemac]

Dealing with it. Appropriate agencies have been informed and details passed. Spoke about my concerns and directed them here, and things are escalating. This girl will get the help she needs. Waiting for a log number now

Thanks for that AA. Under the circumstances I'm going to lock all threads on her. If for any reason you think an update is warranted just let me know.