A single guy is
never going to have it easy, either in person at a swingers' club or online. I've never used Fabs as a single male so can't really add anything personally, but the posts I've read here about writing a profile that stands out, including some decent pics and above all,
NOT being a total arse, all ring true.
I have been to swingers' clubs alone, especially whilst on holiday in Spain, and the same rules apply. (
Search my previous posts if you'd like to know more ).
My F/B and I have a Fabs account as a couple and we paid the extra to be Silver Site Supporters. It allows us to see who's been checking us out, better access to chat rooms and allows us to see full size pictures of others members ( and their members
). We (almost) exclusively use the site to chat to other couples and exchange info about swingers' clubs in the UK and Europe. We've seen or heard nothing to back up the claims that the site's run by blackmailers, that members' pictures are shared with other websites or that they simply take your money and run.
We don't allow incoming messages from single men, otherwise we'd be snowed under, they can express interest by liking ( or "fabbing" ) our photo gallery.
As previous posters have said, the BS / reality ratio on the site is pretty high - all the men are super studs, all the couples are fabulously attractive. We can't prove or disprove the first claim but in our experience some of the "Supermodel Couples" are "Actual Monsters". The last local couple who checked our profile had a single picture in their gallery which proved nothing except that they had ( combined ) more tattoos than teeth. "Soft" drug abuse appears to be very common ( "420 friendly" being the code words ).
If you're prepared to put the hours in, as some previous posters obviously have been able to, then single guys might find it a useful site. Compared to the price of a ( possibly crap ) punt it's not
that expensive.