Utter madness to do anything BB with a WG or indeed a civvie you arent in a relationship with in my view. Obviously HIV is the biggie to get but i wouldnt fancy getting anything of course.
Not sure about utter madness but I'd agree it's not wise. I guess being realistic I've been quite lucky - I've slept with 80-120 girls and have never used a condom. But I am aware of the risks and it is my choice to take them. Believe me, I've tried many times to use a condom. It just doesn't happen. I never lie to a girl and tell her I don't fuck around. If I girl doesn't want to have sex without I don't have sex. I don't try and persuade or assure her I'm 'all clear' (even though I might have had a test some time before). I respect her choice and admire it. Oddly though, only two girls in my life have fallen into that category...and one gave the best bj I've EVER had. Balls deep and I'm a big boy !! No lie, my teeth actually tingled. Sounds total bullshit but true. I don't think they can tingle but that's how it felt! Israeli girl called Tal when I was travelling Australia...oh, the memories !!!
I smoke. That's dumb as fuck. with that I KNOW I'm damaging myself, but I still do it. Unprotected sex carries a risk. I just choose to take that risk. If I end up with something that's my stupid fault. I won't go blaming anyone else...unless she knew she had something before I fucked her.
That's why I've chosen never to have sex with WG's and instead just bj's. I would NEVER see a girl who offers bareback and not just because she's more likely to be riddled...but because even if I went there for just a bj I know I'd end up fucking her so won't put myself in that position.
Life's all about risk. What you eat. What you smoke, how you drive, sports, job, emotional risk in relationships, having children, you name it.