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Author Topic: Why You Choose Punting Over Pulling  (Read 6494 times)

Offline Andre 3000

'Pulling' is easy and fun for me, but getting caught pulling is not. I consider myself attractive and in very good shape etc. I work around the west end area in a creative role so interacting with people all day comes naturally. I do flirt with a lot of the clients and women I work with and see in the bars and clubs around there.

The only problem is Mrs 3000 also works in the west end area in a creative role. She knows I'm a massive flirt and she's even on occasion allowed me to dabble and use my 'passcard' ,but I don't want to humiliate her by potentially fucking people she knows. The term we both use is don't shit where you eat.

Punting is so much easier, I pick a woman I fancy, we meet, I pay, we fuck and we both go away happily. Pulling comes with it's own pitfalls her having mutual friends,or work colleagues in common, it's bad news all round.

Offline mack10

'Pulling' is easy and fun for me, but getting caught pulling is not. I consider myself attractive and in very good shape etc. I work around the west end area in a creative role so interacting with people all day comes naturally. I do flirt with a lot of the clients and women I work with and see in the bars and clubs around there.

The only problem is Mrs 3000 also works in the west end area in a creative role. She knows I'm a massive flirt and she's even on occasion allowed me to dabble and use my 'passcard' ,but I don't want to humiliate her by potentially fucking people she knows. The term we both use is don't shit where you eat.

Punting is so much easier, I pick a woman I fancy, we meet, I pay, we fuck and we both go away happily. Pulling comes with it's own pitfalls her having mutual friends,or work colleagues in common, it's bad news all round.

Very well said Andre 3000. Everything you wrote goes for me aswell - especially about the mutual friends lol. Its happened to me on a few occasions.

Pulling is all about confidence. Ok, if you look like Joseph Merrick (don't correct me, his name was not John Merrick !) it's not going to happen. I'm average looking (I don't think anyone other than my mother has described me as hansom!) but not wanting to sound cocky I'm good at flirting and funny/cheeky and above all I have confidence.

I'm late thirties now but in my twenties I thought I was god's gift. I was very cocky and thought I could have anyone. And you know what, usually I could because I believed I could !

Also, I'm very well endowed and I think most of my confidence began from that. It's very shallow (and a little pathetic) I know but I usually manage drop that in subtly or not so subtly and often curiosity is piqued in my 'target' and hey presto !

Offline Gordo987


Punting is so much easier, I pick a woman I fancy, we meet, I pay, we fuck and we both go away happily. Pulling comes with it's own pitfalls her having mutual friends, or work colleagues in common, it's bad news all round.

Absolutely! :hi:
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Offline rubric

I don't do too badly - a lot more confidence than when I was younger and have aged well and much fitter now, and whilst I don't like clubbing *at all* I don't do too badly 'pulling' women I bump into casually in other places.  It's like cooking though - you either restrict yourself to the ingredients you have at home - or you head out for a meal of your choice.

Whilst I have had great sex with girl's I've picked up, I've also had mediocre sex and met girls with strange hang ups, so it's kind of nice to pay an escort and know that she's going to be naked, on her knees with your cock balls deep in her mouth 10 minutes after you come in through the door.

It's just a different experience, that's all. And pulling and paying have as much variability as either of them on their own.

plus on any given day I fancy something different - age, body type etc. Punting is easy, feel horny, find a prossie that appeals, make booking, do deed.

The is the other major reason for me; there's many different types of girl I would like to have at least one experience of, and the idea of not only successfully pulling, but finding and pulling the particular type of girl I fancy on that particular day it is just beyond any likelihood of happening.  Of course it's not always easy to find the exact type of WG you're after if you have something specific in mind, but at least you can have a hotlist or something for future reference.

Offline saf1976

I found pulling relatively easy in my early to mid 20's. Relatively in that there would also be knock backs  :lol:

When I hit mid 20's I found the internet and obviously my attention turned to porn and chat sites. The girls in porn did a whole bunch of stuff the average girl I pulled didn't do, most notably anal. I was desperate to try it and took the plunge with Caprice of Wolves around 2003.

Although it took me a while to relax and properly enjoy punting, the internet was a much easier and exciting way to chat to girls on sites like Faceparty and ICQ. This was cheaper than going out round town and I started to enjoy it more than pulling in clubs whilst drunk as a skunk. So standard pulling in a club was loosing it's appeal.

Obviously the girls on the chat sites I mentioned, whilst nice girls, didn't come up to the standards of the girls in porn still and I slowly but surely turned to punting again ... and again ... and again ... until 1 day it seamed second nature.

My best mate is suspicious as I am single and don't have the inclination to go out like I once did but appreciates I enjoy the ladies.

The excitement is that on any given day, within 30 mins to an hour of making the decision, you can have sex with a lady you desire with minimal effort. The easy way is the best way as they say.

As a guy now in my late 30's i'd not have much chance with girls in their early to mid 20's. I'm also a different character to my early 20's in that back then i'd adapt myself to each girl I spoke to and take an interest in what they liked. Being genuine and also getting older, I have no interest in the guff that most girls follow nowadays, celebrities, chart music etc

jcdmj12

Time, effort, and attachment.

Before I met my current partner, I put a lot of effort into the whole 'Game' thing, went through a phase of pulling a different, attractive women every week. Some were great in bed, some not so great.  It was fun, but it was SO time consuming.  To do it well, you had to spend all of your time when you were out chatting up women, and that mean I missed out on chilling out and spending time with my mates.  Plus, I tend to get emotionally attached to any attractive woman who can push my buttons in bed, so it took its toll mentally because it ends up being all you think about as well.

I'm still tempted by the idea of finding a fuck buddy, but punting is so easy and I have a high 'hit' rate of good punts right now.  The thing I like about it is that the whole thing is a pre-agreed contract, where you both set expectations and limits up front. 

Offline CoolTiger

I found pulling relatively easy in my early to mid 20's. Relatively in that there would also be knock backs  :lol:

When I hit mid 20's I found the internet and obviously my attention turned to porn and chat sites. The girls in porn did a whole bunch of stuff the average girl I pulled didn't do, most notably anal. I was desperate to try it and took the plunge with Caprice of Wolves around 2003.

A lot of guys went to see Caprice for Anal. AFAIR, She hardly turned anyone down and was very popular on auto-censored, where she also posted on. Pity never took a fancy to Anal at the time.

Im interested to know why everyone punts (been punting for 4 years). Do you just want variety, excitement or do you have trouble pulling? If you have a lady, is she better or worse than escort standards.

For myself im early 30s, still dont do too bad. Punted while had girlfriends for variety and a bit of excitement. My girlfriends have been normally better looking than the average 80 quid punt, and decent in the sack, buy i just get bored.

I do both.

I love going out at the weekends and finding women who will bang. The success ratios aren't that high and a lot of girls aren't up for banging that night. Often times I can't be bothered to follow up with numbers for girls who are less receptive when not pissed up. I was in Las Vegas a few weekends ago and did a hat trick, three different girls from various clubs in three nights. I don't fancy punting while in the USA, all the girls seem hugely paranoid probably due to the legal situation.

Sometimes however I want something now and if I haven't already planned an unpaid encounter then I start trawling through AW. I guess I'm all about getting what I want when I'm in the mood, sometimes you can get that for free and other times you have to pay.

Immediacy is where it's at!

Offline Toshiba



I get to pick a fit as fuck 19yr old and be filthy as fuck with her

Something only punting can do

Pulling is easy on the dating sites for me but it still takes a while to get them into bed, ive had 2-3 shags on the first date but they were women my age


I get to pick a fit as fuck 19yr old and be filthy as fuck with her

Something only punting can do

Pulling is easy on the dating sites for me but it still takes a while to get them into bed, ive had 2-3 shags on the first date but they were women my age

I won't meet a gal from an online dating site unless she'll bang on the first "date" or at least a blowy in the car post drink. I ask them up front in a tongue in cheek way, if they over react then you know it's not going to happen. It's my way of "going for the no" early and not wasting time!

Offline berksboy

you fuck them then fuck off down the pub without hrs of earache i mean apart from fucking them why would what to be near one ?

as for guys who pay to chat to them WTF is that about !

Offline Matium

No possibility of a rejection in punting.

WGs are paid to be your fantasy girl.

My domestic arrangement is such that dating would be really hard to achieve while successfully keeping it under the radar. I never was much good at it either. I was much too shy and unsure of myself as a youngster. Wasted so much time and effort mostly ending up at dead ends. Punting, on the other hand, requires only a very small investment of time and, mostly for that reason, is much more easily achieved. The outcome is also typically either a good or a great one. No guarantee that my activities will stay unnoticed; Karma may still catch me and kick me really hard in the ar$e. So best I enjoy it while I can  :)

No possibility of a rejection in punting.

WGs are paid to be your fantasy girl.

That's an interesting point, especially when you consider it the other way around. I've walked out of a good number of punts now on the basis that they look like drug shooting skanks or nothing like their online photos. I went to an expensive punt last year in London organised by an agency. She was gorgeous in her photos but when I arrived she was a good 15 kilos heavier and older. She was also pissed as a fart or high or both. I took one look and turned around. I got a text from her and the agency saying that I should at least pay her for 15 minutes of her time for the trouble! Yeah, right.

My domestic arrangement is such that dating would be really hard to achieve while successfully keeping it under the radar. I never was much good at it either. I was much too shy and unsure of myself as a youngster. Wasted so much time and effort mostly ending up at dead ends. Punting, on the other hand, requires only a very small investment of time and, mostly for that reason, is much more easily achieved. The outcome is also typically either a good or a great one. No guarantee that my activities will stay unnoticed; Karma may still catch me and kick me really hard in the ar$e. So best I enjoy it while I can  :)

I find the only way of having multiple girlfriends at the same time is to do it when you're away with work. Fortunately for me I travel a lot and have accumulated a few different girls in Europe and the USA. It works quite well as they get hacked off after around 3 months which is about the time I'm bored with banging them anyway.

Offline Steely Dan

Time spent planning a punt leads to sex 100%.  Time spent hanging out in bars leads to sex 10%.

Because I want my cake and eat it too. I want the loving relationship with my other half and the secret sex with hot women.

Offline SirFrank

It costs less it's less effort the sex is usually better and it's no strings
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Time spent planning a punt leads to sex 100%.  Time spent hanging out in bars leads to sex 10%.

That's easy then, just talk with 10 times the women in a night and hey presto you'll get 100%. That's some prossie logic for you!

It costs less it's less effort the sex is usually better and it's no strings

All of the above! :D

Plus at my age, I wouldn't want any "Civvie" that I might pull!!  Why would I, when I can shag someone young enough to be my attractive daughter?!

Offline Daffodil

I dislike the uncertainty with pulling. You can put the leg work in and pay (don't forget you still pay! :scare:) and then get nowhere. Time and money wasted.

Also pulling is far riskier for those in relationships. Too many loose ends. I don't think I've ever even come close to being rumbled when punting, but I have on a number of occasions with affairs and the such. Usually because of the other girl involved, a situation much harder to control.

Sex with a civvy is invariably better, in my opinion, but the effort and risk of it just makes punting more appealing.

Offline Jimmyredcab

This is the sort of lady who I would be capable of pulling -----------


Offline Aspen

Time spent planning a punt leads to sex 100%.  Time spent hanging out in bars leads to sex 10%.

I'd say you're doing well at 1 in 10. Still very hit and miss though. My experience of meeting women in bars or whatever puts it no better than 1 in 100 if that.

I'd also say that planning a punt is not 100%, I'd put it at more like 50%.

I don't feel there is any realistic alternative. If it was more socially acceptable it would be a lot easier though. There's a long way to go to improve that side of it.
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