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Author Topic: first time punting, vigin too, some advice needed.  (Read 4956 times)

Offline CBPaul

like it say in the title i never used an escort and to make matters worse in in my early 20's and still a virgin.


i'm glad i've found these forums as i already learned a few things by reading around, and found couple of girls that i like the look of with good feedback here and on AdultWork.

i'm just not sure how to approach this situation, the logical thing to do would be to find a girl that offers good GFE and see what happens.

but at the same time as i think of all those years i've lived without getting any the idea of making up for it and going all out by booking 2 girls seems tempting...


i thought i'd ask here first before i do anything as i think this will be a one time thing only for me, i got to get that shit over with as its always in the back of my mind whenever i'm around women....

Who are the couple of girls on AW you like the look of ? Post links and you'll get advice of them.

I know how you feel Dietcoke. I felt the same way and lost my virginity at 18 to a prossie in Amsterdam. Happy punting  :)

Offline Anadin

Hotel meets always make me nervous if I have never been into the hotel before.

Yeah if it's her hotel and I have to find the room then I find the whole thing disquieting. If it's my room and I'm just waiting for her to turn up well that's tremendously exciting although potentially terribly expensive.

Is my Troll-meter twitching; or has the OP gone awfully quiet on us?

Offline dietCoke

i'm definitely not a troll, i'm looking for the right WG (and the right approach, 15/30 mins quicky vs non-rushed hour) and at the same time i'm still thinking if its the best decision, i see that not all of you agree if its a good idea to lose the virginity to a WG (i don't think i'd regret it but who knows how i'd feel afterwards ?)


Offline abdul

i'm definitely not a troll, i'm looking for the right WG (and the right approach, 15/30 mins quicky vs non-rushed hour) and at the same time i'm still thinking if its the best decision, i see that not all of you agree if its a good idea to lose the virginity to a WG (i don't think i'd regret it but who knows how i'd feel afterwards ?)

Also it is important that from which position you will start your session so you can watch some porn movie or clip to get intial idea.
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Dietcoke.....you're getting some good advice here (and not so good !) but just remember the choice is yours and I know you've got the monkey on your back but take your time to make the right decision for you.

In my experience, rarely someone's first time with a woman is that great. Mine was terrible ! Don't expect too much. Get some of the practicalities out of the way beforehand (learn to put a condom on if you haven't already!) and don't try and copy what you might have seen in porn because it's not going to happen like that first time.

You might think your cowardly going with a WG first time instead of a civvie but I actually think it's quite brave. And whilst you say it's a one time thing, you might find you want to return.

I would suggest you book and hour and don't jump into the sex straight off. Have an idea in your mind how you want it to go, what you want to do with her and what you want her to do to you, and if the sex is over in 5 seconds that's fine....u might be up for round 2 !

One word of caution though, if you think you're going to regret it in the future, think hard before you take the plunge.

Good luck my man !


Offline cunnyhunt

i'm definitely not a troll, i'm looking for the right WG (and the right approach, 15/30 mins quicky vs non-rushed hour) and at the same time i'm still thinking if its the best decision, i see that not all of you agree if its a good idea to lose the virginity to a WG (i don't think i'd regret it but who knows how i'd feel afterwards ?)

My troll meter is twitching as well

But if I am wrong then my advice is not to punt with full sex but to visit and have a BJ &HJ, you will experience female attention and orgasm without pressure to perform. It will also give you a taste of what punting is.





Offline vorian

My troll meter is twitching as well

But if I am wrong then my advice is not to punt with full sex but to visit and have a BJ &HJ, you will experience female attention and orgasm without pressure to perform. It will also give you a taste of what punting is.

Good advice, takes the pressure off for sure.
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"But if I am wrong then my advice is not to punt with full sex but to visit and have a BJ &HJ, you will experience female attention and orgasm without pressure to perform. It will also give you a taste of what punting is"


For what its worth, I agree. Take it slow, there is plenty of time to take things up a notch or two in future visits.........on the other hand it might be worth going to your first meet with the thought of 'I'm just going for a toppless HJ' it will take the pressure off you before you get there, and I bet that once you are there, within ten minutes you will be relaxed/comfortable and going a little further than you thought you would.... ;)
« Last Edit: March 25, 2014, 09:30:00 AM by knight5648 »

Offline Madone1

I think the virgin troll on here is hornyuklad231 from never even feeling a pair of tits before too anal barebaker.

the advice her is spot on a two girl would be a big expensive mistake take your time a 30 minute 121 with an older WG 27+ say would be the place to start.

good luck.

Offline Dani

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Also it is important that from which position you will start your session so you can watch some porn movie or clip to get intial idea.

Please don't do this. Nothing worse than a guy who thinks porn movies are like real life and bookings start with him ass fucking her to start. Porn is not real and nothing like a first time experience. Let her lead you and then you won't be disappointed when she doesn't make the awful noises porn stars do as that is also very fake

Offline CBPaul

Also it is important that from which position you will start your session so you can watch some porn movie or clip to get intial idea.

Totally agree with Dani, very bad idea and will only end with a pissed off WG and your major disappointment. You have to separate reality and porn.

Offline dietCoke

Ok so I met this girl and I actually like her (which is very rare) and it looks like she's interested and my close friend is of the same opinion, the problem is she rents her room in the same house that 2 of my friends live in (so if I had "gone in 60 seconds" and she decided to share that with anyone I'd have to live with them knowing about it), she's also older than me (26 or 27 don't remember tbh) which for some reason I find intimidating (but only in when I think about the potential sex), I wanted to ask if it'd be better to maybe visit a WG first just to get an idea of what will it be like, etc or just go with the girl in question and take it easy, (if I knew u wouldn't see her again I wouldn't even ask this question)

Ok so I met this girl and I actually like her (which is very rare) and it looks like she's interested and my close friend is of the same opinion, the problem is she rents her room in the same house that 2 of my friends live in (so if I had "gone in 60 seconds" and she decided to share that with anyone I'd have to live with them knowing about it), she's also older than me (26 or 27 don't remember tbh) which for some reason I find intimidating (but only in when I think about the potential sex), I wanted to ask if it'd be better to maybe visit a WG first just to get an idea of what will it be like, etc or just go with the girl in question and take it easy, (if I knew u wouldn't see her again I wouldn't even ask this question)

This isnt Dear Derdrie

But so what if your mates know your quick draw mcgraw you just laugh it off

Offline cunnyhunt

so if I had "gone in 60 seconds" and she decided to share that with anyone I'd have to live with them knowing about it

I do not understand ? who would give a shit.

Do not believe what you see in porn a lot of men do not last very long, what matter to a girl (civvy) is how you pleasure her which is usually not banging her for hours, what matters to a pro$$ie is ££££'s so a quick cummer is a prefered customer.

Offline vorian

Ok so I met this girl and I actually like her (which is very rare) and it looks like she's interested and my close friend is of the same opinion, the problem is she rents her room in the same house that 2 of my friends live in (so if I had "gone in 60 seconds" and she decided to share that with anyone I'd have to live with them knowing about it), she's also older than me (26 or 27 don't remember tbh) which for some reason I find intimidating (but only in when I think about the potential sex), I wanted to ask if it'd be better to maybe visit a WG first just to get an idea of what will it be like, etc or just go with the girl in question and take it easy, (if I knew u wouldn't see her again I wouldn't even ask this question)

Fuck knows, can't give you relationship advice. Personally I would fuck both,  then ask for a threesome.
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Offline CBPaul

Ok so I met this girl and I actually like her (which is very rare) and it looks like she's interested and my close friend is of the same opinion, the problem is she rents her room in the same house that 2 of my friends live in (so if I had "gone in 60 seconds" and she decided to share that with anyone I'd have to live with them knowing about it), she's also older than me (26 or 27 don't remember tbh) which for some reason I find intimidating (but only in when I think about the potential sex), I wanted to ask if it'd be better to maybe visit a WG first just to get an idea of what will it be like, etc or just go with the girl in question and take it easy, (if I knew u wouldn't see her again I wouldn't even ask this question)

Is this really the place to ask ? Is this older woman your teacher by any chance ?

You are worried about releasing the load too soon, are you not also concerned about a visit from Mr Floppy ? As above, stop watching the porn, it doesn't happen like that.

Offline oldfart

Every one of us on here has gone through this, dietcoke....my first time lasted about 30 secs...i exploded in her hand..lol

just get it over  with the older woman...then fuck as many as you can till your cock drops off.. :scare:
« Last Edit: April 09, 2014, 12:28:56 PM by oldfart »


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