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Author Topic: How To Walk Away  (Read 4051 times)

Offline badsin

left foot, right foot - one front in front of the other :hi:

Offline ladyofthemansion

I think Jimmyredcab has walked once or twice. He will be the best to advise.

Roland D Hay

It's very easy to make glib comments about putting one foot in front of the other but this is a confidence issue; the fact that the OP asked the question tells me that he is probably struggling with the confidence to deal with such a situation. I struggled to walk in the early days though stupidly it wasn't due to a lack of confidence it was due to not wanting to offend the girl. I cringe when I think about this now! I think it takes a couple of bad ones to toughen you up or at least it did with me. If I walk it's because the profile is inaccurate or I get a bad vibe during the lead up. I walked a couple of weeks ago but didn't actually see the girl, she knew what time I was coming but then asked me to sit outside while she got dressed. Fuck off I thought; this told me everything I needed to know about her attitude.
My advice if you are struggling with confidence is to first prime the girl by stating that you will leave if the profile is inaccurate; mention that you have had a couple of bad experiences. If you get there and don't like what you see then don't get into any sort of protracted discussion. Say nothing and walk away, this confuses the fuck out of them or just say, 'wait one minute' before turning around and walking away. This gives them no reason to enter into an argument. Finally, make sure you have a punting phone, if you piss a WG off then you do not want her harassing you on your civvy mobile. The fact is that any decent working girl will place you under no obligation to stay if you do not like what you see and will be fine with you leaving.

Offline Marmalade

Good comments by hay man. It is too easy to let your guard down the minute before she answers the door instead of when you have decided everything is to your liking. Whatever you do, don't leave it too late. If she looks horrible, or her attitude is horrible, move quick. If you walk in and the place is too much of a shit hole for your expectations, move quick. Be calm and polite but get out of there. If you feel certain she's a decent sort but a bit of a minger, then possibly a quick reason (if photo inaccurate, looking for someone younger, blonde, brunette, whatever) but never said as if opening a conversation, merely as a polite noise with a smile as you fuck off out of there. What would you do on a blind date you didn't like? Maybe, (1)"I'm sorry, but I don't think this is going to work"; (2) smile); (3) go. All three should all take no more than four seconds from opening your mouth to departing quickly.

But don't get so neurotic that you jump into quit-mode too easily. They're prostitutes, not a hospitality service. If she's worth the money you're about to spend, end of. Paris Hilton probably charges much more.  :lol:

Offline tazz

I think what some guys want to know is what to say when you let her know your not staying and she asks for some money. Has happened to me twice. Some guys are afraid a pimp may appear or she may get angry. Read about one guy who had his buttons ripped off his shirt by some drug addict whore when he decided not to stay.

Offline LL

Read about one guy who had his buttons ripped off his shirt by some drug addict whore when he decided not to stay.
Blimey, I hope he recovered!  :hi:

Even my most expensive shirt cost me less than a typical punt so I'll still risk it.
Anyway, the guy you read about wasn't quick enough.  You have to make your way to the exit first and mutter your bullshit on the way out of the door - or don't say anything at all.

I recall saying I was going to the toilet and legging it out of the door after I did my pee. The bathroom was foetid. Luckily I was still dressed and had not left a coat in the bedroom.

Most times now I ask to go to the bog on the way to the room to give myself a chance to walk (or run) if necessary, even if the bog is clean but it is the lady that I do not fancy.
« Last Edit: March 23, 2014, 05:40:00 PM by Horizontal pleasures »

thank you for the post.

i have found that discussing it out works the best and you gain respect and self worth. instead of feeling like a muppet you feel like a man should. normal to happy.

issue is not the girls. its the punters who need to keep one eye over there shoulder or the ones who are cheating. cheating on wives and girlfriends. aka liars. these are the ones who cant and wont confront the girls.

After discussing what you feel is gone wrong and what is wrong when you are there you often find out many clues on how to look or shall i say read the pcitures and profiles properly.


maintain respect and dignity alwasys. dicuss and say sorry and walk out.

Ali
Dear Ms Ali (That is a woman's name isn't it?)
You are seriously asking a man who has been misled by bait and switch, who sees a different lady before him than the one he booked through seeing the photo, to say sorry? You are must be visiting us from s sasfe planet in another universe.

Offline Dani

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don't do as Ali suggests and discuss it.  If you do that you are using her time and she will expect or demand money.  You should know as soon as you walk  in the door and if something is not right just turn around and start walking out.  You can say, you are not the girl in the photos, or those photos are years out of date, or even this place is a shithole but do it whilst walking out of the door.  Once outside most wont want to cause a scene so all the neighbours are aware.
If you are unsure if a pimp is there say oh shit I didn't lock my car and then leave


Offline CBPaul

thank you for the post.

i have found that discussing it out works the best and you gain respect and self worth. instead of feeling like a muppet you feel like a man should. normal to happy.

issue is not the girls. its the punters who need to keep one eye over there shoulder or the ones who are cheating. cheating on wives and girlfriends. aka liars. these are the ones who cant and wont confront the girls.

After discussing what you feel is gone wrong and what is wrong when you are there you often find out many clues on how to look or shall i say read the pcitures and profiles properly.


maintain respect and dignity alwasys. dicuss and say sorry and walk out.

Ali

The problem is with the punter ? You are joking again aren't you ? Go back to Mumsnet.

The whole point is that they are scams. There is no problem with 'reading' a picture, the problem is when the girl in the picture has managed to age 20 years, put on 3 stone in weight and otherwise transformed into a munter before you arrive.

The only thing we can do is gain the experience needed to spot the fakes and when one is found, walk out and report back.

Offline wristjob

It's very easy to make glib comments about putting one foot in front of the other but this is a confidence issue; the fact that the OP asked the question tells me that he is probably struggling with the confidence to deal with such a situation. I struggled to walk in the early days though stupidly it wasn't due to a lack of confidence it was due to not wanting to offend the girl. I cringe when I think about this now! I think it takes a couple of bad ones to toughen you up or at least it did with me. If I walk it's because the profile is inaccurate or I get a bad vibe during the lead up. I walked a couple of weeks ago but didn't actually see the girl, she knew what time I was coming but then asked me to sit outside while she got dressed. Fuck off I thought; this told me everything I needed to know about her attitude.
My advice if you are struggling with confidence is to first prime the girl by stating that you will leave if the profile is inaccurate; mention that you have had a couple of bad experiences. If you get there and don't like what you see then don't get into any sort of protracted discussion. Say nothing and walk away, this confuses the fuck out of them or just say, 'wait one minute' before turning around and walking away. This gives them no reason to enter into an argument. Finally, make sure you have a punting phone, if you piss a WG off then you do not want her harassing you on your civvy mobile. The fact is that any decent working girl will place you under no obligation to stay if you do not like what you see and will be fine with you leaving.

ood advice there.

I find it quite easy to walk now but it wasn't always so. Same as everything with punting really. I only recently started going to parlours and I found that nerve wracking for the first few times and actually when I've stopped punting in the past I found it very stressy the first few times. do it a few times and it's easy peasy.

Never had any issues while walking either. if it's just a girl (which it mostly is) then what's the point, you are gone she may as well move on to the next guy.

Offline akauya

I've never done the "I left my wallet in the car" routine (although I once dropped mine under the car by accident). In the early days of AW and when mobiles didn't have big fancy screens like they do now I remember printing the girls pics and taking them with me. It proved invaluable when confronted by a bait & switch as I would show the picture saying I want this woman and you're not her then walked out.

Of course that only happened after I got stung by B&S many times and got more confident after a while. I also did a bit of acting taking my wallet out so as to pay the prossie then look in shock when opening it and say oh my god I forgot to get some cash out, is there a cash machine near here? It worked a few times :)


I've never done the "I left my wallet in the car" routine (although I once dropped mine under the car by accident). In the early days of AW and when mobiles didn't have big fancy screens like they do now I remember printing the girls pics and taking them with me. It proved invaluable when confronted by a bait & switch as I would show the picture saying I want this woman and you're not her then walked out.

Of course that only happened after I got stung by B&S many times and got more confident after a while. I also did a bit of acting taking my wallet out so as to pay the prossie then look in shock when opening it and say oh my god I forgot to get some cash out, is there a cash machine near here? It worked a few times :)

It's a bit more difficult for me to do the "left my wallet in the car" routine, Akauya; because I no longer drive.  That means I have to ask the girl for details of how to get her by public transport!  The first time I should have walked was last year; but because of that reason and because it would have been my first time to walk [as Roland implies, it can be quite a daunting thing to do for the first time], I didn't.

As recorded in https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=26610.0, I recently walked for the first time in a punting career of almost 10 years and it felt SO good!  As I said in that thread, my first thought was that I was £120 better off than I would have been.  Which rather made me question the purpose of punting; but only until I got back oop north and saw one of my Regulars and remembered! :)

Offline wristjob


As I said in that thread, my first thought was that I was £120 better off than I would have been.  Which rather made me question the purpose of punting; but only until I got back oop north and saw one of my Regulars and remembered! :)

I never see walking as money saved. I have a rough budget so if I have to cancel for whatever reason, or there's nobody I fancy available today it just means I get a punt another day instead. Certainly thinking like that makes it much easier cos you arn;t missing out - you are postponing the un to an appointment that you hope will be more fun.

As to walking - I think you could have been more patient but I'm not you. If something winds you up you likely won't enjoy it so best walk, go to another girl on another day and enjoy it.

Offline smiths

I never see walking as money saved. I have a rough budget so if I have to cancel for whatever reason, or there's nobody I fancy available today it just means I get a punt another day instead. Certainly thinking like that makes it much easier cos you arn;t missing out - you are postponing the un to an appointment that you hope will be more fun.

As to walking - I think you could have been more patient but I'm not you. If something winds you up you likely won't enjoy it so best walk, go to another girl on another day and enjoy it.

I do, if i walk and havent paid i have a smile once safely back in my car and then ring my plan B and pay them the money i would of paid the aborted plan A. I see the saved plan A money as money saved that i would of spent on a bad plan A. ;)

Offline tazz

I once went to see a women i knew would be big, just didnt realise she would be gianormous. Felt there was no way i could bang her, asked her if she had wine, she said know and then said im just going to get a bottle.

I once went to see a women i knew would be big, just didnt realise she would be gianormous. Felt there was no way i could bang her, asked her if she had wine, she said know and then said im just going to get a bottle.
Link? She might be my sort of lady?
Thanks

Offline jg048012

Blimey, I hope he recovered!  :hi:

Even my most expensive shirt cost me less than a typical punt so I'll still risk it.
Anyway, the guy you read about wasn't quick enough.  You have to make your way to the exit first and mutter your bullshit on the way out of the door - or don't say anything at all.

Regretably not the best for the Glasgow stereotype but sometimes it's not that easy to get out just minus a button on two...
 
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=25209.msg364855#msg364855


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