English Sophie GFE - Maidstone - No Show

[davementa]

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As torn as I am annoyed about this one. I have seen Sophie a few times before and always had a great time and have positively reviewed her on here also. Coms are normally good normally and I would have this down as a safe punt. However on Friday I was given a stone cold no-show.

Agreed to meet several days in advanced. There was some uncertainty if she was going to be in Margate or Maidstone but she messaged me the day before and confirmed she would be in Maidstone near Leeds Castle.

On the morning of the meeting I messaged her to confirm exact location. I didnt hear anything back but it was still relatively early. Text again just as I set off for the borader area I knew she was in.

Arrived in the area, text again an nothing. Called her phone and went to answer phone. Got a text back saying "Sorry cant talk now" (not sure if this was a manually initialted "quick response" option to the call as it came almost immediately as if she had swiped the phone and chose to send a quick SMS response back.

Waited for another 15minutes called again no answer, text, call, waited for 40 minutes and nothing. Texted to say im leaving and that the way she acted here was completely unacceptable.

There is a part of me that didnt want to write this as I know that she does deliver a good service, however I think that everyone on here deserves to know when someone has been subject to a stonewalling and a no-show after  a long planned meeting.

This is the first time in my punting life I have ever had a genuine no-show like this so was extremely pissed off by it, especially as I had to travel quite a way for it.

[timsussex]

I know how annoying this can be and I always have a plan B especially if I am travelling for the punt

It is of course possible that Sophie had a genuine good reason - but in that case she should be prepared to apologise and offer to make it up to you. 

On the other hand it is more likely that she believes that another mug will be along soon so she doesn't need to look after her customers

Personally If you have had previous good experiences I would be prepared to give her another chance - message her and ask what happened -  but have a plan B ready

[davementa]

I heard back from Sophie yesterday. She said that she was suffering with her fibromyalgia (I was aware she has this before our meeting and I wrote this review) which resulted in her feeling unwell, having a fall, hitting her head and apparently ending up in hospital.

Of course that could be a rouse to protect her reputation, however I would be inclined to believe her and it was in the back of my mind when I wrote the review, however not to the extend where it would prevent her from sending a simple text in the morning or something saying that she isnt well and would have to postpone.

Anyway - I think I would have to give her the benefit of the doubt and hope that she makes a speedy recovery and we can meet up again. Not sure f this is possible but i would contact admin and see if they can change the review from negative to neutral due to mitigating circumstances.

[timsussex]

Ive changed it to a neutral - as per your request, your review so your rating but personally that would still be a negative for me

[MrMatrix]

I've had this lady on my HL for 18 months now I reckon. I think you did the right thing giving a neutral and giving her the benifit of the doubt as you have seen her before. However its a real pisser when you've travelled some distance at expense only to get the cold shoulder. Its happened to me and I get well pissed off. Trouble of guilt comes when they get intouch and offer a plausable excuse or offer a return at a discount.
Last time this happened to me all was agreed the night before. Texted her in the morning I was leaving only to arrive and nothing. Get back home a PM sent and 15 minutes later a reply she'd slept in. Why do i think this was genuine she offered me a 50% discount. So 45 minutes later I was back balls deep. So sometimes there are legit reasons
Hope you see her soon as I'd like to see her still.

[James999]

I heard back from Sophie yesterday. She said that she was suffering with her fibromyalgia (I was aware she has this before our meeting and I wrote this review) which resulted in her feeling unwell, having a fall, hitting her head and apparently ending up in hospital.

Of course that could be a rouse to protect her reputation, however I would be inclined to believe her and it was in the back of my mind when I wrote the review, however not to the extend where it would prevent her from sending a simple text in the morning or something saying that she isnt well and would have to postpone.

Anyway - I think I would have to give her the benefit of the doubt and hope that she makes a speedy recovery and we can meet up again. Not sure f this is possible but i would contact admin and see if they can change the review from negative to neutral due to mitigating circumstances.

She's taken you for a mug and taken advantage of your EAS, if she was unwell she could easily have messaged to cancel, the fact she didn't clearly shows she took a better offer, should have stayed a negative.

[davementa]

She's taken you for a mug and taken advantage of your EAS, if she was unwell she could easily have messaged to cancel, the fact she didn't clearly shows she took a better offer, should have stayed a negative.

If i hadnt already seen her several times before I would agree with this. Only reason for the change request is because of this fact.

Could be a mug yes, I accept that, however I doubt it. We will see

[davementa]

but personally that would still be a negative for me

Personally If you have had previous good experiences I would be prepared to give her another chance - message her and ask what happened -  but have a plan B ready

Seem somewhat contradictory statements

thanks for changing though

[James999]

If i hadnt already seen her several times before I would agree with this. Only reason for the change request is because of this fact.

The fact that you've already seen her a number of times makes it worse as all the more reason and opportunity for her to tell you she couldn't make it, the fact she didn't bother speaks volumes for the contempt she has for you, despite you seeing her and paying her a number of times. 

[mr man]

It seems most people here think Romanians are the worst and avoid them but in my experience it's British escorts that a far more likely to time waste in this manner.

In the last 20 years i must have booked over 100 Romanian escorts (most of those over 10 years ago as i don't punt anywhere near as much as i used to these days) and as far as i can remember only 4 or 5 of them went silent, or cancelled, or switched girls when I've arrived.

In that time I've only seen 10 or so British girls, often with repeated visits and out of those at least 5 ended up going silent on me when i arrived (after a drive of 45-90 mins), funnily enough a couple of those used hospital visit as an excuse when they finally contacted me hours/ days later. Why they can't cancel via text on the way to hospital instead of leaving us hanging i don't know.

[James999]

It seems most people here think Romanians are the worst and avoid them but in my experience it's British escorts that a far more likely to time waste in this manner.

In the last 20 years i must have booked over 100 Romanian escorts (most of those over 10 years ago as i don't punt anywhere near as much as i used to these days) and as far as i can remember only 4 or 5 of them went silent, or cancelled, or switched girls when I've arrived.

In that time I've only seen 10 or so British girls, often with repeated visits and out of those at least 5 ended up going silent on me when i arrived (after a drive of 45-90 mins), funnily enough a couple of those used hospital visit as an excuse when they finally contacted me hours/ days later. Why they can't cancel via text on the way to hospital instead of leaving us hanging i don't know.

Perhaps the Romanians you've seen have strict Pimps who make sure they don't cancel / no show, Sergei needs his ££££££££ 

[timsussex]

Why should it surprise you that  a Romainian who is over here just to shag for money (with or without a pimp) is less likely to miss a booking than an English girl who might have a life outside of a bedroom ?

[smiths]

She's taken you for a mug and taken advantage of your EAS, if she was unwell she could easily have messaged to cancel, the fact she didn't clearly shows she took a better offer, should have stayed a negative.

As long as there are soft as shit punters about believing a WGs old cobblers such WGs will continue to fuck punters over.

[smiths]

Why should it surprise you that  a Romainian who is over here just to shag for money (with or without a pimp) is less likely to miss a booking than an English girl who might have a life outside of a bedroom ?

NO WG should take a booking then not honour it and ALL of them deserve a negative review if they don't honour it in my view. I long ago stopped believing a WGs unprovable excuses though its dead comms I get more than an excuse. Its of course up to the OP what rating he gives.

All WGs are WGs just to shag for cash, that's their function, I don't want to know and have zero interest in a WGs life outside the bedroom.

[mr man]

Why should it surprise you that  a Romainian who is over here just to shag for money (with or without a pimp) is less likely to miss a booking than an English girl who might have a life outside of a bedroom ?

Doesn't surprise me. I get it. Just saying some people here think Roms are far less reliable when proportionally Brits have let me down way more in the way of no shows, i think they're just as likely to give a poor service too.
Currently there are 3 English escorts on my radar in my area. One i recently saw and gave a neutral review for (the following week i saw a Rom who gave the best service I've had in a long time, put the brit to shame) and the other 2 have been getting lots of negative reviews which has put me off seeing them.
I just think a fairly large proportion of ALL escorts have poor standards regardless of nationality and are simply after a fast buck, it just so happens >80% of escorts are Romanian therefore >80% of negative reviews feature Romanian escorts which perhaps some people don't stop to think about that and maybe a little unfairly dismiss them all as poor service providers?

[Kentman27]

Id still see her again it would have pissed me off to. but i find i dont leave untill ive spoken to the wg that the punt is still on for that day as if its silent then its more than likely silent when you get there. She looks gorgeous though

[smiths]

Id still see her again it would have pissed me off to. but i find i dont leave untill ive spoken to the wg that the punt is still on for that day as if its silent then its more than likely silent when you get there. She looks gorgeous though

Yes more likely but still doesn't work for me sometimes with some newbie WGs to me, and I may have only rang the WG to confirm the punt and tell her I am on my way an hour before the agreed time and arrive in the WGs area to find her phone off and staying off for the half hour max I am prepared to wait. Then on occasion I have rang the WG a while later on another number and her phone is back on and she is taking bookings. More than likely she got a better offer after I rang to confirm, a low life tactic.

[Kentman27]

Yeah true it isnt full proof but i found it reduced the number of times it happened to me i think anyways ha. Do annoying when your hyped up for a good punt and let down like that

[winkywanky]

The way I'm seeing this is as a definite Negative.

Booking was made (presumably with a definite time) and then Sophie just went off the radar. Debatable whether the fibromyalgia thing is actually true, but still no excuse for not letting the OP know. The OP's previous positive experiences with the girl are immaterial, each punt (or failed punt) should be taken on its own merit.

OP, you should give yourself a Neutral...it's good practice not to leave the house simply thinking 'everything will be OK', always check on the day when a booking is made day(s) before.

[king tarzan]

She's taken you for a mug and taken advantage of your EAS, if she was unwell she could easily have messaged to cancel, the fact she didn't clearly shows she took a better offer, should have stayed a negative.

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[timsussex]

Ok Guys lets not give the OP too hard a time
He posted an honest review in which he noted at the start he was torn.

I noted when I changed the rating that I would still have had it as a negative but his review so therefore his rating.
 
Personally I would probably have waited and not posted a review if she had come up with a plausible reason. We are all human and sh1t happens so I will usually give people a second chance - even though I may be careful about it.

It does sometimes seem that some of the guys on here just don't view the girls as people - imagine if you had an appointment with a hairdresser, garage or dentist who you had used for years but when you arrived it was closed. When you finally managed to contact them they came up with a  plausible reason and apologised for not calling. Surely you give them a second chance ?

[king tarzan]

All WGs are WGs just to shag for cash, that's their function, I don't want to know and have zero interest in a WGs life outside the bedroom.

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[Tig101]

I've seen this one 3 times and reviewed her after the first time. I stopped trying as she became more of a pain to get hold of and on the day of all 3 bookings times changed and it involved multiple texts and hassle.

first time I saw her she was fit and told me she was in the gym all the time, she has stopped that and didn't look nearly as good when I last saw her in March. Service has been good each time but I wont bother again as booking will be hassle.

[massageseeker1977]

Ok Guys lets not give the OP too hard a time
He posted an honest review in which he noted at the start he was torn.

I noted when I changed the rating that I would still have had it as a negative but his review so therefore his rating.
 
Personally I would probably have waited and not posted a review if she had come up with a plausible reason. We are all human and sh1t happens so I will usually give people a second chance - even though I may be careful about it.

It does sometimes seem that some of the guys on here just don't view the girls as people - imagine if you had an appointment with a hairdresser, garage or dentist who you had used for years but when you arrived it was closed. When you finally managed to contact them they came up with a  plausible reason and apologised for not calling. Surely you give them a second chance ?

Personally I think that is the decision, if you have had dealings with someone in the past and in this scenario, had a good time and always got along then yes I would give a second chance

If it was a potential first time meet then honestly I would probably move on as unfortunately you never get a second chance to make a first impression