Never got to see her but this is a negative for fucking me around and generally being both a time waster and a liar.
I arranged to meet SBM after seeing she was available on Monday. She confirmed via aw email that she was available up until 8pm. I said I'd confirm by text the following day.
I texted SBM at 12.50pm and said that I was definitely ok for the 5pm appointment to which she replied. 'Awesome
Do you remember where you are going? Since I'd not been before this was a bit odd and I replied that I'd not been before to which she replied, OK babes xx, she then sent me the post code. I pulled up outside her place at 16.45 and texted her to say that I was ready when she was. At 5pm, still no response so I called and she answered the phone and I said I had booked and was waiting outside to which she replied, can you call me back in 15 minutes. No I said, I have booked you for 5pm to which she replied that she didn't have a booking in. Incredulous I replied that I had a text message from her confirming the 5pm appointment at which point she put the phone down on me. I sent her a copy of her text confirmation and said she had wasted my time.
Some minutes later and after I'd left, the bullshit started. I received the text, Babes, I'm so sorry, receptionist replied...I'm free to speak now xxx. So she was claiming to have a receptionist and further claiming that I'd spoken to her receptionist and not her. So I thought, OK, let's do the dance and see where it leads. Tried to call her 3 times and phone turned off or diverting to answer phone. I texted and said I'd still like to see her but every time I tried it seemed to go wrong.
She replied, Do you wanna see me?? Xx I said that yes I did but that I'm now on my way home but was she available tomorrow? Eventually got the text reply.... Nah.
I finally replied that I was in Birmingham for a few nights and was she available any of those but never heard from her again.
I don't know why but I keep thinking of the old 'treat her well' line and thinking, no don't bother treating her well. She is discourteous, inconsiderate, a liar and a time waster. She deserves the same in return as far as I'm concerned.