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Author Topic: how many of you have partners or married  (Read 6294 times)

Offline CBPaul

There's a big difference between intermittent sex and NO sex at all.

I put up with the latter for a long time, and so have many of my friends. But it's a waste of time and your life putting up with it.

Going at it like rabbits was NOT what I was talking about, and if you think that it was you need a good few more candles on your cake before you are qualified to comment.

I have more than enough  'candles on my cake' to comment thanks and besides, everyone is entitled to make comments irrespective their 'qualifications'. A one line sweeping statement doesn't give the rest of us much to go on does it ?

Now you've clarified a little, I accept that no sex whatsoever is a major issue but I don't agree that your partner doesn't give a toss about you if she doesn't want sex.

My going at it like rabbits comment is merely an observation, the amount of sex tends to lessen over time, and there is more to a marriage than sex alone, you don't need sex to still care for each other.

Offline Toshiba

I have more than enough  'candles on my cake' to comment thanks and besides, everyone is entitled to make comments irrespective their 'qualifications'. A one line sweeping statement doesn't give the rest of us much to go on does it ?

Now you've clarified a little, I accept that no sex whatsoever is a major issue but I don't agree that your partner doesn't give a toss about you if she doesn't want sex.

My going at it like rabbits comment is merely an observation, the amount of sex tends to lessen over time, and there is more to a marriage than sex alone, you don't need sex to still care for each other.


Totally agree with this, the sex has slipped such a lot but why be with her? Many reasons, too many to discuss on here, i just tend to want to sort the sex bit out in my head, everything else in my life is what i want, relationships are that, not just sex

jcdmj12

What's the point of staying with them? If they won't have sex with you they don't give a toss about you. It amazes me how many men just don't get that.

Because you have kids, generally, and your spouse's presence as a parent might be more important to you than having sex with them regularly.   After all, you can buy a very good sex life for £1000 a month, whereas you wouldn't get decent childcare for that.

I don't understand why childless couples stay together though with no sex.   :unknown:


Offline CBPaul

Because you have kids, generally, and your spouse's presence as a parent might be more important to you than having sex with them regularly.   After all, you can buy a very good sex life for £1000 a month, whereas you wouldn't get decent childcare for that.


Totally agree, most would also be against the notion of seeing their kids a lot less frequently and having less influence on their upbringing. 

Offline vorian

After all, you can buy a very good sex life for £1000 a month, whereas you wouldn't get decent childcare for that.

That is a hell of a good point you make there. I wonder if anyone has ever tried to link a reduction in divorce rates to an increase in the use of prossies. Impossible to get the data of course, but that would be one for the anti's to mull over. Prostitution is good for family life.
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Offline Matty24579

Because you have kids, generally, and your spouse's presence as a parent might be more important to you than having sex with them regularly.   After all, you can buy a very good sex life for £1000 a month, whereas you wouldn't get decent childcare for that.

I don't understand why childless couples stay together though with no sex.   :unknown:

I know a couple only met him his girlfriend is a virgin and he apparently just likes Oral sex he had a scare from his ex girlfriend and he has been with this one for 4 years but both suffer from Aspergers Syndrome .

Offline Mr Br1ghts1de

Single with no intention of having another serious relationship for at least another 10-15 years. Been there, seen that and paid a certain price.

Punting is cheap compared with the possibility of divorce. It's like the old joke:

What have a women and a hurricane got in common ?

They are wet and wild when they come and they take half the house with them when they go  :lol:   

jcdmj12

Single with no intention of having another serious relationship for at least another 10-15 years. Been there, seen that and paid a certain price.

Punting is cheap compared with the possibility of divorce. It's like the old joke:

What have a women and a hurricane got in common ?

They are wet and wild when they come and they take half the house with them when they go  :lol:   

"If it flies, floats or fornicates, always rent it, it's cheaper in the long run"

Offline abdul

I'm just worried if I get married one day how can I forget my lovely ladies from porn industry.
 :(
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Offline Aspen

I'm just worried if I get married one day how can I forget my lovely ladies from porn industry.

You wouldn't is the answer.
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Offline smiths

"If it flies, floats or fornicates, always rent it, it's cheaper in the long run"

Initially at least love isnt all about what it costs though of course. For me my life would be empty without having a child and loving and being loved, punting provides just one thing to me, sex with a variety of WGs that its unlikely i would be able to pull and i certainly wouldnt get in their knickers as quickly. Everything else i get from a relationship and what stems from a relationship.

Obviously if a punter doesnt want a relationship thats their business, but even with the shit its caused me over the years i much prefer to have experienced the fantastic emotions a relationship brings and having a child than to have just punted.

jcdmj12

Initially at least love isnt all about what it costs though of course. For me my life would be empty without having a child and loving and being loved, punting provides just one thing to me, sex with a variety of WGs that its unlikely i would be able to pull and i certainly wouldnt get in their knickers as quickly. Everything else i get from a relationship and what stems from a relationship.

Obviously if a punter doesnt want a relationship thats their business, but even with the shit its caused me over the years i much prefer to have experienced the fantastic emotions a relationship brings and having a child than to have just punted.

Totally agree... but having kids with someone is a very different matter to having sex with them, even though one stems from the other.

Offline cunnyhunt

I'm just worried if I get married one day how can I forget my lovely ladies from porn industry.
 :(

Why forget ?

Offline ALyons

I started a thread of whether marriage is worth it or if people here would recommend it: https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=26382.0

Would be interesting to hear all your feedback. :)

On topic, I always thought marriage meant more regular sex. Seems not so reading your posts :/
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Offline Aspen

On topic, I always thought marriage meant more regular sex. Seems not so reading your posts

It does for a while, but it becomes less and then disappears altogether in most cases. It's something you learn as you get older. I used to hear the jokes and think it wouldn't happen to me, but it did. Not only that but it seems to be the norm. I'm on good conversational terms with several women of middle age and they are all quite definite that they are no longer interested in sex with their partners, and don't see why they should be doing it if they don't want to. That is something that I never realised when I was young, and I think that is true of most guys. We get fooled into believing that women are just as interested in sex as we are. If there are any that are, it really doesn't last long. It's a fallacy. Prostitutes understand that very well and take full advantage.
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Offline ALyons

^ Magazines, the media, music all revolves around sex. They portray it as so that women are mad about sex.

Is it because sex loses it's magic because you know your partners game and it gets boring and predictable after a while? I wonder why women go off sex.

Might also explain why their weight balloons the older they get.
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Offline Aspen

^ Magazines, the media, music all revolves around sex. They portray it as so that women are mad about sex.

Yeah - load of crap innit.

Is it because sex loses it's magic because you know your partners game and it gets boring and predictable after a while? I wonder why women go off sex.

I think it's because they don't have a factory down below nagging at them all the time to find somewhere to place its output - to put it bluntly. They don't have a need for it in the same way, and when they get to middle age any interest they did have melts away. They can't be arsed.

Might also explain why their weight balloons the older they get.

Not all of them, any more than it does for men. Many of them don't seem to care any more.
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Offline Mr Br1ghts1de


Is it because sex loses it's magic because you know your partners game and it gets boring and predictable after a while? I wonder why women go off sex.


Yes (for me). The concept of being married to someone for 40 years seems alien enough to me and the thought that sex can still be interesting with someone beyond 5 years even more so. I guess women feel the same, but I think they are much more attuned to creating a stable family background/home etc. once married. And once their menopause kicks in, that really is probably end of game. My thoughts only.   

Offline vorian

Yes (for me). The concept of being married to someone for 40 years seems alien enough to me and the thought that sex can still be interesting with someone beyond 5 years even more so. I guess women feel the same, but I think they are much more attuned to creating a stable family background/home etc. once married. And once their menopause kicks in, that really is probably end of game. My thoughts only.   

I read in a book somewhere about a system with fixed term marriage contracts, with options to renew. Eliminated divorce and much of the fighting associated with break ups, the arguments they made for it made a hell of a lot of sense. Seems even in the 21st Century many of our laws still have a religious influence.
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bloody hard work to keep the passion alive with someone you've been with for years not to mention life stresses - kids, finances, work getting in the way, i genuinely think a little extra-curricular fun so long as you're careful can keep a relationship going beyond the point it would otherwise last and like others have said already on this thread, seeking sex elsewhere doesn't equate to you no longer loving your other half i still love mine to bits and the kids even more so 

Offline Mr Br1ghts1de

I read in a book somewhere about a system with fixed term marriage contracts, with options to renew. Eliminated divorce and much of the fighting associated with break ups, the arguments they made for it made a hell of a lot of sense. Seems even in the 21st Century many of our laws still have a religious influence.

Interesting argument. Still difficult where kids are involved I say (in fact you may be perceived as more of a heartless bastard if you simply walked away, rather than having justifiable grounds), but holistically, I would certainly be in favour of more liberal arrangements than those we are currently wedded (sorry) to.     

Ermm.....

I must say, i'm not actually very comfortable answering this question.... If my wife, Sophie Mendez reads this, she'll realise what i'm doing and....

oh shit!!!

LoL!!!

Ok... joke over. I'm single and have a disability which has prevented me from obtaining a real girl.
Punting is actually SO much cheaper than having a real girlfriend/wife too imho!!!!

Offline abdul

....
. I'm single and have a disability which has prevented me from obtaining a real girl.
Punting is actually SO much cheaper than having a real girlfriend/wife too imho!!!!

Sorry to hear your disability well it's cheap sometimes but you cannot expect here unlimited orgasm anytime you want as because always a time limit in punting.
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Offline cunnyhunt

well it's cheap sometimes but you cannot expect here unlimited orgasm anytime you want as because always a time limit in punting.

You are obviously not married yet.

When will mother be choosing your bride ?


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