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Author Topic: how many of you have partners or married  (Read 6296 times)

Offline Toshiba

Im attatched , never punted since august but im soon gonna have a punt

Im shit scared of catching a std, ive had 2 scares both turned out to be nothing but its held me back, im not bothered what anyone thinks of me for cheating, i know its wrong but if i didnt instigate sex i guess it would be once every 2-3 months if im lucky, at first we were shagging every other night , some pretty hardcore sex too but after a few years its now about once a month and usually cos i want it.....covered oral just doesnt do it for me but i feel shit scared of not doing it

I love the safety of my life but sexually we are growing apart

Just wanted to know that im not alone iv got partner of 11 years and 2 kids I do love my partner to bits but after 2 kids she seams to have slowed down on give me it :-(

Married with a relationship that has improved in the past year, before that it had been several years without sex. Now its once maybe twice a month with some effort and is very vanilla which tbh has slowed my punting but I still look and will/would given the urge. I do have kids and OH always has an excuse - tired, cold etc - if she was a little more exciting and we did it 2 or 3times a week I would still look but unlikely to punt very often tbh

I am getting more fussy with paying £100/hr and tbh again with little good providers atm means I am only punting a few times a year atm "/

jcdmj12

Im attatched , never punted since august but im soon gonna have a punt

Im shit scared of catching a std, ive had 2 scares both turned out to be nothing but its held me back, im not bothered what anyone thinks of me for cheating, i know its wrong but if i didnt instigate sex i guess it would be once every 2-3 months if im lucky, at first we were shagging every other night , some pretty hardcore sex too but after a few years its now about once a month and usually cos i want it.....covered oral just doesnt do it for me but i feel shit scared of not doing it

I love the safety of my life but sexually we are growing apart

My view is that if your spouse doesn't bother to provide for you sexually, it's fine to go elsewhere.

Offline som2083

Im attatched , never punted since august but im soon gonna have a punt

Im shit scared of catching a std, ive had 2 scares both turned out to be nothing but its held me back, im not bothered what anyone thinks of me for cheating, i know its wrong but if i didnt instigate sex i guess it would be once every 2-3 months if im lucky, at first we were shagging every other night , some pretty hardcore sex too but after a few years its now about once a month and usually cos i want it.....covered oral just doesnt do it for me but i feel shit scared of not doing it

I love the safety of my life but sexually we are growing apart

As long as try oral with condom and when you have sex try to avoid the uncover shaft, scrotum or testicles touched the women private part.

You should be safe from STDs

Offline rogerc23

Married with kids,usual story of having a higher sex drive than the mrs so started punting a couple of years ago.
I dont think iwould bother with punting if i was single,there is so much available fanny about in london,i just dont have the alibi's to be out nailing civilian girls every night!

Happily married, but wife's sex drive has completely gone down the plughole. Shame really; she still has a nice figure for her age.

Happily married. Wife has a very low sex drive and finds sex more of a compulsion.
Punting keeps it simple - you pay without the drama and complications

My mrs ass already told me I could have a fuck buddy and just have relationship with her but dont know if she pulling my leg when we first met we were like rabbits wish I could go back to that time with her

Offline abdul

Do you drive a minicab ?

Sir, Just out of curiosity what did u actually mean or indicate by minicab driver? By the way I've been in minicab since 2001 :hi:
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Offline som2083

My mrs ass already told me I could have a fuck buddy and just have relationship with her but dont know if she pulling my leg when we first met we were like rabbits wish I could go back to that time with her

Same here I wish I could go back to the time with my wife that we were like rabbits

Offline CBPaul

Same here I wish I could go back to the time with my wife that we were like rabbits

Seems pretty common after years of marriage. I took a punting sabbatical when I was first in a relationship / married to Mrs CBP but started again after sex dwindled to birthdays and Christmas.

Offline Aspen

I think most women don't have that drive for sex as much as men do. I could quite easily never have sex again when in a relationship, it get's boring with the same person after a while.

That seems to be the attitude of most women. Funny how they start complaining when their OH goes elsewhere.
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Offline Aspen

My view is that if your spouse doesn't bother to provide for you sexually, it's fine to go elsewhere.

What's the point of staying with them? If they won't have sex with you they don't give a toss about you. It amazes me how many men just don't get that.
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Offline Aspen

Most punters I see are married/with a partner, only 2 of my regulars are single.

From what I see of this thread, most punters are single and that's what I would expect.
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Offline lean3591

Married, wife non existent sex drive for some years.  Started punting at 57.  Not a frequent punter but20 different girls, 23 punts in 3 years.  Includes 2 girl experience.  Ages 22 to 57, enjoy more mature ladies best.

Separated, not yet divorced. In another long term relationship. Sex, when on offer, is fantastic. But nine times out of ten once she has had an orgasm she loses interest. And the one time she retains interest is far too infrequent. I don't punt often, money and time constraints mainly, but when I do I don't feel guilty.

Single never punted when i was in relationships as i am a crap liar and would get caught.Have tried many different things i never did with partners and found i have a taste for certain kinks that few partners would cater for but WG's will if you pay them

Offline CBPaul

What's the point of staying with them? If they won't have sex with you they don't give a toss about you. It amazes me how many men just don't get that.

They won't service you sexually so they don't give a toss about you ? Rubbish.

There is a lot more to a long term relationship or marriage than the going at it like rabbits phase from the early days.

Offline CBPaul

Don't seem to have an edit button.

Meant to add.....

I've had relationships, in my younger days, based on lust and sex. Otherwise we've had sod all in common and those relationships didn't last that long - great in bed (and many other places) but boring as fuck and irritating at most other times. Once we'd gone through the sexual manual that was it.

On the other hand Mrs CBP and I care for each immensely, it's just after years marriage things get less frequent in the bedroom. She's pretty vanilla these days and I have an urge to shag the sort of girls I was shagging in my early 20's - and as many as possible.  I can't entirely blame insufficient action with Mrs CBP for my desire to punt - I'd be pushing it to go 50:50.

Offline Jay-Jay

Separated for ten years now but punted throughout my married life of nearly 15 years. Ex is a stunner and we had a good sex life I'm just into variety I suppose. Have a much clearer conscience since the separation though I would stress that wasn't caused by her finding out,we simply drifted apart.No interest in another relationship,I realise I'm to selfish for that.

Jay

Offline GeeWiz

Happily single.  Relationships after a few months do my head in.  Too much hassle.

My best friend only ever has a BJ on his birthday and his wife has to drink a bottle of wine first.  Madness.

Incidentally, many of my married mates have told me they'd love to have my life.  I find married guys are always the most debauched on tours/stag dos too. 

Offline Aspen

They won't service you sexually so they don't give a toss about you ? Rubbish.

There is a lot more to a long term relationship or marriage than the going at it like rabbits phase from the early days.

There's a big difference between intermittent sex and NO sex at all.

I put up with the latter for a long time, and so have many of my friends. But it's a waste of time and your life putting up with it.

Going at it like rabbits was NOT what I was talking about, and if you think that it was you need a good few more candles on your cake before you are qualified to comment.
 
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Offline smiths

From what I see of this thread, most punters are single and that's what I would expect.

There isnt much in it so far on this thread. There are certainly many punters who have partners that punt as i have seen from reading many other threads about it over the years. Most punters i know personally or meet at parties and chat to tell me they have a partner but arent getting regular sex so decided to punt instead of having an affair, so say they both punt and have affairs.

Offline HepSteph

I am very happily married to a very sexy woman for five years. People often ask me how on earth did I manage to pull a girl like that (I am not good looking or that fit). But she has a very low sex drive. I have gone months without sex. I need sex. I have a very high sex drive.

So I watch porn a lot and jerk off. But it is not enough so I punt. It keeps me happy and stops me from pestering my wife for sex every day.




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