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Offline Tripsee

Hey guys/girls,

I was watching a programme last night on channel 5 I think it was.
It was a short documentary asking single people about their sex lives and as singletons, what methods they use to keep sexually active.

The majority answered as expected; 'pull on a night out' and so on but a few of them mentioned that they often use sites such as Craigslist and Gumtree to find a guy/girl for a night of no strings attached fun.

I was just wondering if any of you have ever used any such sites to organise and carry out a meeting with a girl?
If so, what were the pros and cons of doing so?
Was it/is it a safe process?

Thanks in advance for any feedback  :thumbsup:

Offline Dani

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I should imagine that guys will probably yes a yes out of every few dozen emails sent as before escorting I used to advertise on them when I fancied a bit of extra fun and couldn't be arsed going out to pull and would receive hundreds of emails daily and would have to filter them out and normally would contact one or two out of the bunch that would then lead to a few meetings until I got bored and put a new add on

If you want to meet this way make your email stand out.  Talk about yourself obviously but don't talk about how large your cock is as every other email does this or how good looking you think you are as they all say this.  Be original.  An email that shows a sense of humour is more likely to get a woman intrigued than one who just goes on about his sexual prowess and skills.  send a photo if you want but one with clothes on as most women prefer to use their imagination than have it shoved in their faces.

On craigslist most are going to be prossies and the prices will slip in just as you think you have pulled just before you are due to meet.
Gutree is a lot stricter and anyone who is a prossie gets booted off very quickly so most ads are genuine on there

Offline Tripsee

Thanks very much Dani :)
I've just had a quick look through the two sites and found a load of listings on Craigslist but can't find any on Gumtree.
Do you know where about on the page or under what category they will be listed?

I found a link on Craigslist and replied to it via e-mail.
I had an almost immediate response and with what she wrote, she did sound a genuine person.
However, she asked me to sign up to some page just to prove that I'm a safe customer and I have no offences to my name.
After looking at this sign up page, it asked me to enter my card details and what not which I didn't find trust worthy.
Is this a normal process when arranging a meeting on CL?

Thanks again :)

Thanks very much Dani :)
I've just had a quick look through the two sites and found a load of listings on Craigslist but can't find any on Gumtree.
Do you know where about on the page or under what category they will be listed?

I found a link on Craigslist and replied to it via e-mail.
I had an almost immediate response and with what she wrote, she did sound a genuine person.
However, she asked me to sign up to some page just to prove that I'm a safe customer and I have no offences to my name.
After looking at this sign up page, it asked me to enter my card details and what not which I didn't find trust worthy.
Is this a normal process when arranging a meeting on CL?

It aint really about no strings mate on CL

There is another thread on this on this page

The thing your being asked to do is to sign up to some no strings website which there are hundreds of on the internet


This sounds a bit of troll you or the ad...

There is another thread about this on this page.

Thanks again :)
« Last Edit: March 15, 2014, 07:40:47 PM by cockneybstrd »

Offline Dani

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No it is not normal. No strings sex means just that. No strings = no way to identify you to come back at you for anything

Anyone who asks you to sign up to a site to prove you are genuine is not genuine at all and is probably sat in the internet café in Nigeria sending the same email to hundreds of men and women every day.

The best way to find out if someone is genuine is to meet in a pub or somewhere public for the first time as she will feel safer

Gumtree has a personal section or it did have.  Craigslist has always been used by prossies but you cant put prices on so have to act as if genuinely want to meet for sex without mentioning paying for it

*edited* Just checked and Gumtree still has personals Just google gumtree personals your area
« Last Edit: March 15, 2014, 08:02:55 PM by Dani »

Offline KentAde

There was another Thread about this, so I replied to a few adds on CL, and the responses were all generated from the same scam site from the US. Just 'googled' the email address and hey presto, warnings galore....but, I then put an advert. on there wanting a NSA sexual relationship, and WTF, I got a response from a lovely young girl (21) , based in London, who I'm meeting next week for lunch and a chat, and we've already booked a hotel for the first naughty fun in a couple of weeks!  :kissgirl: That will save on the punting pot!  :D

Offline Madone1

There was another Thread about this, so I replied to a few adds on CL, and the responses were all generated from the same scam site from the US. Just 'googled' the email address and hey presto, warnings galore....but, I then put an advert. on there wanting a NSA sexual relationship, and WTF, I got a response from a lovely young girl (21) , based in London, who I'm meeting next week for lunch and a chat, and we've already booked a hotel for the first naughty fun in a couple of weeks!  :kissgirl: That will save on the punting pot!  :D

Living the dream mate hope it goes well all that's on CL in my area is guys and gays  :dash:

Offline Aspen

Living the dream mate hope it goes well all that's on CL in my area is guys and gays

Yup. Absolute waste of time.
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Offline CBPaul

I've looked at them occasionally but the number of m4w and m4m ads far far outweigh the number of w4m ads. I did reply to a some ads once to see what would happen, one turned out to be a couple (not mentioned in the ad for a bored frustrated housewife who wanted a lunchtime seeing to) and two others got back with pictures and wanted a load of details about me. Pictures were ripped from other sites so they got written off as scams and forgotten. I seem to remember that one of them said I had to go to a premium rate chat line or something to get guaranteed sex with her.

I reckon most of the w4m ads are cons and you'd be hard pressed to get a genuine contact.

Offline Andre 3000

I posted a thread last week about my adventures on CL met a few fantastic women on there. But yeah too many weirdos and fantasists on there. Cutting through the rubbish can be a slog and it's not for everyone to spend time searching for the few bits of gold on there.

You will get the odd few genuine woman who posts an ad. But most are scams,hardened prossies or gays looking for cock pics.

I pretty much just 'reward' on CL now, so always get good replies. If you're just looking for a NSA 'free' meeting, the amount of men also looking is huge. As an experiment a few months ago. I posted an ad on CL pretending to be a 21yr old female student looking for NSA fun. Keeping in mind this was at about 11.00am in the morning. I got 100 replies in half an hour before someone flagged my ad and it got taken down. That's what you're up against on CL tons of other horny bastards looking for a free shag. If you're looking for free NSA you'd be better off using PoF or OKCupid it takes a few messages to make it clear what both of you are really looking for but it's a lot less risky. As at least you get to see what the woman looks like and she can see what you look like as well. Tons of women on there up for that.

Of course how you look on those places will play into it. If you're reasonably good looking and know how to write a clear and readable sentence you'll do very well. Although I've had to curtail my successful runs on those sites as it was getting a bit too risky social wise.  :D

There are certainly a lot of scam posts on CL which then try to get you to sign up for various chat sites, etc.

Although I did have a lovely evening a couple of weeks back with a very sexy lady at a significantly lower rate than AW and looking to arrange a follow up so may have found a good cheaper regular.

Old addage if you are willing to filter out the dross there are a few gems

Offline KentAde

There was another Thread about this, so I replied to a few adds on CL, and the responses were all generated from the same scam site from the US. Just 'googled' the email address and hey presto, warnings galore....but, I then put an advert. on there wanting a NSA sexual relationship, and WTF, I got a response from a lovely young girl (21) , based in London, who I'm meeting next week for lunch and a chat, and we've already booked a hotel for the first naughty fun in a couple of weeks!  :kissgirl: That will save on the punting pot!  :D

Well an update....met the girl from CraigLists twice now for lunch and now we have a hotel room booked for this Friday and then the following Thursday. Has already said yes to CIM and fucking, of course..... ;) ...just can't wait to see her 21yr old body, dressed in holdups I bought her (which she has already taken away with her to wear!) Happy Days!  :cool:

I posted a thread last week about my adventures on CL met a few fantastic women on there. But yeah too many weirdos and fantasists on there. Cutting through the rubbish can be a slog and it's not for everyone to spend time searching for the few bits of gold on there.

You will get the odd few genuine woman who posts an ad. But most are scams,hardened prossies or gays looking for cock pics.

I pretty much just 'reward' on CL now, so always get good replies. If you're just looking for a NSA 'free' meeting, the amount of men also looking is huge. As an experiment a few months ago. I posted an ad on CL pretending to be a 21yr old female student looking for NSA fun. Keeping in mind this was at about 11.00am in the morning. I got 100 replies in half an hour before someone flagged my ad and it got taken down. That's what you're up against on CL tons of other horny bastards looking for a free shag. If you're looking for free NSA you'd be better off using PoF or OKCupid it takes a few messages to make it clear what both of you are really looking for but it's a lot less risky. As at least you get to see what the woman looks like and she can see what you look like as well. Tons of women on there up for that.

Of course how you look on those places will play into it. If you're reasonably good looking and know how to write a clear and readable sentence you'll do very well. Although I've had to curtail my successful runs on those sites as it was getting a bit too risky social wise.  :D

how do you offer for reward on CL?

Offline KentAde

how do you offer for reward on CL?

I suggested that to the girl I've met......basically I said I would help her out with rent, Oyster card funds, Gift vouchers, etc, so it feels like I'm assisting her with material things and not just giving her cash for sex  ;) She seems happy so far with £50 a meet...  :cool:

Offline Lea

I do use CL for advertising   (as opposed to no strings  attached sexual encounters, which do not interest me anyway) mainly time wasters/ confused types, but got  some legit people.
Gumtree is a waste of time...

I suggested that to the girl I've met......basically I said I would help her out with rent, Oyster card funds, Gift vouchers, etc, so it feels like I'm assisting her with material things and not just giving her cash for sex  ;) She seems happy so far with £50 a meet...  :cool:

As I said on a previous thread I got heavily into reward scene last year ended up doing a sugar daddy thing with one girl. As I was looking for something different at the time

Worked out well I was effectively getting 8 overnights a month for 400 cash. Plus a few trips out and meals out. The problem was I wanted to fuck other women too and it all got a bit messy after xmas.

jcdmj12

As I said on a previous thread I got heavily into reward scene last year ended up doing a sugar daddy thing with one girl. As I was looking for something different at the time

Worked out well I was effectively getting 8 overnights a month for 400 cash. Plus a few trips out and meals out. The problem was I wanted to fuck other women too and it all got a bit messy after xmas.

Do you still reckon it was worth it overall?  Am considering this as a change from punting, but trying to work out the potential risks of it all blowing up horribly in my face and seeping into my 'real life'. 

jcdmj12

Just looked at CL to 'check out the competition' as it were. 

All the 'Grandad wants some company' ones are a bit much.  They make me have flashbacks to the Werthers Original adverts.   

"Grandad wants to sit you on his knee, young lady. THEN STICK HIS WRINKLY COCK IN YOUR MOUTH." :scare: 

« Last Edit: April 01, 2014, 10:56:13 PM by jcdmj12 »

Good Question Was it worth it

The answer is yes. I am divorced late 30's and have no time for the dating scene and the bullshit that goes with it, So it did work out well we used too see each other twice a week for overnights (one in the week and generally meet up saturday day to sunday evening she was doing a post grad) and she would come and meet me for lunch when I was at work.

It was nice we clicked as people as she was into some of things I am into. I have a small bit of fluffy in me which I would never reveal to WG. And it was nice to take her to places she had wanted to go to but hadnt previously

Sexually she was alright not uber confident and I had her tested and everything

Then she started talking about feelings and such like and talking about what could happen after her course finished I did give her severance package when I ended it

Would I do it again not sure the problem with sugar daddy website is they all tend to be wannabe wags. I met this one through CL reward advert and as I said we clicked as people. So it slipped very easily into me saying I will give you 400 a month and we will go out for dinner and drinks at the weekend as well as the sex. Her rationale was she wanted sex liked older men and needed a bit of support
so why not,

If both parties can stick to it being exclusive without anyone mentioning feelings then its great but not everyone can.

Just looked at CL to 'check out the competition' as it were. 

All the 'Grandad wants some company' ones are a bit much.  They make me have flashbacks to the Werthers Original adverts.   

"Grandad wants to sit you on his knee, young lady. THEN STICK HIS WRINKLY COCK IN YOUR MOUTH." :scare:

u get some right sick fucks trying to look for underage girls on there going school holidays want a shopping trip

I suggested that to the girl I've met......basically I said I would help her out with rent, Oyster card funds, Gift vouchers, etc, so it feels like I'm assisting her with material things and not just giving her cash for sex  ;) She seems happy so far with £50 a meet...  :cool:

That sounds like a win-win situation, KentAde. :thumbsup:

It sounds, too, like your head is screwed on the right way to avoid Emotional Attachment Syndrome.  Do you think that's likely to rear its ugly head?


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