I don't think anybody is saying that escorts aren't decent women. What some people are trying to say when they mean "damaged goods" can apply to men and women but because we are talking about escorts let's stick to that.
I have seen several escorts over the course of time and a lot of them have either expressed directly or indirectly through conversations of some kind of trauma in their lives. You just have to see how many escorts have cut marks on their body which clearly points to some kind of past trauma. I have also heard escorts refer to punters as "fuckers" through conversations which clearly shows what they think of us, this can be compounded by what is written about us on SAAFE. Escorts that come on here to defend their lifestyles are just perpetuating the illusion.
Also, you can't really say that an escort that lets punters piss in their mouths or swallows cum all day are marriage material. The fact is that nobody likes doing that but due to past difficulties and trauma they choose to.
That’s crap.
No doubt many escorts don’t enjoy doing it, but both those acts CAN be enjoyed by escorts and women in general and to put it down to “trauma or difficulties” as to why they do it is rubbish, unless you know why every escort does things of course. Is anyone material these days? How many women would want to marry me if I admitted to liking paying for sex and licking their arses?
Some escorts having traumas or difficulties in their life doesn’t speak for every escort.
You talk about self harming, in all my years of punting I’ve only ever seen one escort with visible marks, that same escort spoke about trauma. I’ve had lots of regulars over the years and this trauma you speak of or ALL looking down on punters hasn’t been noticed by me. Which shows it’s not every escort. No doubt there are some.
Just as there are some punters who look down on WG’s and don’t actually like them but use them, that doesn’t stand for us all.
Yes there’s negativity on SAAFE I have read it, but surely you know it’s not a place those women go to rave about punters? It’s quite the opposite mostly warnings, and moaning about work.
Who doesn’t moan about work? I fucking do, if someone heard me talking about work sometimes they’d think I hated my job and everyone in it, but I don’t.
It’s unwise to make assumptions on a whole group of people based on a select few. Our experiences with escorts will differ because of the type of escorts we choose to see.
I take people at face value rather than make assumptions when I don’t know them.