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Author Topic: Alright lads.... virgin here looking for your advice  (Read 4218 times)

Offline HornyUKlad231

Hey guys. So I'd like to give you a bit of background info here. I don't really wanna say how old I am. I'll just say I'm over 21. Old enough that being a virgin at my age is typically frowned upon and is a source of considerable shame and embarrassment.  Basically I've done the square root of fuck all sexually with a woman. Have never touched, fingered, licked or had my member anywhere remotely near to a pussy. I've actually never seen one except in porn or on TV. Have also never had a bj or even had my little fella touched at all... and 'little' fella would be quite an accurate description of mine  :D. I have an idea of how I would envisage an escort visit transpiring. I walk in, exchange pleasantries, give her the cash, and tell her I want us to get down to business as quickly as possible. I imagine myself sticking it in (after I've put the condom on), pumping away and finishing in a couple of minutes... if not less. Is that not what typically happens? Hopefully I'm able to get it up, which isn't a given as I'd be quite shy and nervous about the whole thing. I haven't a clue about foreplay or knowing how to treat a lady in bed because I've never been with one.  :D Do they expect you to know all of that stuff? Seems there are quite a few pitfalls to avoid as a punter. I've read a few horror stories about no-shows, or WGs looking completely different to how they did profile pictures, and not being willing to do OWO or CIM even if their profiles say they will. Looking to avoid any of those scenarios if I can. Any virgins here who lost theirs to a WG? Know anyone else who did?

Offline sparrow

I'd say go to the 'Regional Punting' section and ask in your area. Also take a look at reviews of WGs near you to get a feel.



Offline a10

... I haven't a clue about foreplay or knowing how to treat a lady in bed because I've never been with one.  :D Do they expect you to know all of that stuff?

They're pro$$ies! The good thing is with WGs, pick the right one and you don't have to worry about foreplay... on them!  :D You pay your money and they're there to make you feel good.

Other than that I totally agree with sparrow, check your area on regional punting and scout out a good WG with positive reviews and that should ensure you get a good punt. I've found older WGs deal better with new/first timers than younger/teen SPs.

The main point is don't go for a WG you don't find attractive. Follow your gut and ask as many questions as you need to

Good luck fella!

Offline vorian

Hey guys. So I'd like to give you a bit of background info here. I don't really wanna say how old I am. I'll just say I'm over 21. Old enough that being a virgin at my age is typically frowned upon and is a source of considerable shame and embarrassment.  Basically I've done the square root of fuck all sexually with a woman. Have never touched, fingered, licked or had my member anywhere remotely near to a pussy. I've actually never seen one except in porn or on TV. Have also never had a bj or even had my little fella touched at all... and 'little' fella would be quite an accurate description of mine  :D. I have an idea of how I would envisage an escort visit transpiring. I walk in, exchange pleasantries, give her the cash, and tell her I want us to get down to business as quickly as possible. I imagine myself sticking it in (after I've put the condom on), pumping away and finishing in a couple of minutes... if not less. Is that not what typically happens? Hopefully I'm able to get it up, which isn't a given as I'd be quite shy and nervous about the whole thing. I haven't a clue about foreplay or knowing how to treat a lady in bed because I've never been with one.  :D Do they expect you to know all of that stuff? Seems there are quite a few pitfalls to avoid as a punter. I've read a few horror stories about no-shows, or WGs looking completely different to how they did profile pictures, and not being willing to do OWO or CIM even if their profiles say they will. Looking to avoid any of those scenarios if I can. Any virgins here who lost theirs to a WG? Know anyone else who did?

You don't need to worry about what you do, you just need to worry about finding a good prossie, everything else will take care of itself. Do you have a region or location in mind, remember the further you are able to travel the more options you will have. Also start thinking about what you are looking for, remember you are the customer so you can choose what you want.
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Offline Madone1

Hi mate a10 is right an older WG 27+ Would be a better start for a first time. If you want to learn how to please a women forget everything you have seen in porn as it's 99% bullshit let the girl take the lead and be gentle as it will help no end with non-WG's in the future.

Plus I wouldn't get hung up on CIM,facials and all that stuff just yet.

Good luck mate.

Offline SirFrank

Some sound advice here mate. As above go to the regional board in your area and establish the good girls. Punting can be a great experience with the right girl. Do your homework and book someone who will look after you
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Offline BlackWizard

I would be honest with the WG. You don't have to go as far as telling her you're a virgin, but as stated, if you research the girls in your region and you find one who has good feedback (especially look for people describing fun/personable WG's) and tell her that you'd like her to take the lead you'll have a good time.

I would also suggest your first booking being half an hour, that way if you do feel uncomfortable in any way before/after/during you can get in and out as quickly as possible.

Offline vorian

I would be honest with the WG. You don't have to go as far as telling her you're a virgin, but as stated, if you research the girls in your region and you find one who has good feedback (especially look for people describing fun/personable WG's) and tell her that you'd like her to take the lead you'll have a good time.

I would also suggest your first booking being half an hour, that way if you do feel uncomfortable in any way before/after/during you can get in and out as quickly as possible.

Good advice, I would be tempted to tell the WG you are a virgin, but of course that all depends on finding the right prossie, imho the good ones prefer good communication and like you to outline your expectations from a punt.
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I agree with all the advice given here. One thing I can add: you will figure out sooner or later that how good the girl looks is much less important than how good she can make you feel. So read the local reviews in your area and go for someone recommended here, even though she might not be "your type".

Just relax and have fun!

Offline GeeWiz

Book a longer session with an older lady and tell her the situation up front.  I'm sure an escort will tell you're not the first virgin they've seen.  Don't fret about going too quick, just go again.  I'd let her massage you first and take the lead.  After round one, give her the massage (remembering what she did to you/asking what she likes) and see what comes up...

I wouldn't expect typical foreplay (kissing, fingering etc) unless you get the right lady.  Plus no need to worry about OWO/CIM at this stage.
« Last Edit: March 13, 2014, 11:23:56 PM by GeeWiz »

Offline cunnyhunt

Funny Fucker time again. :wacko:

I understand that a lot of members here are polite and will reply but FFS the sign of Troll is all over this one. :wackogirl:

Offline vorian

Yeah I agree but to be fair all the follow up posts have been very good and informative for anyone looking on.  Hopefully some lurker will pick up on the tips and have a good first punt.  Cheers to the troll for that.
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Offline CBPaul

Lots of good advice above and I'm probably going to reiterate most of it.

Definitely opt for an older WG, I'd say late twenties upwards, who you find attractive. Don't just look at the pictures and go for a younger one, chances are it will end as a crap punt. Also look for plenty of feedback and post your choices here before taking he plunge.

Chances are she'll realise you lack experience so be up front, no need to tell her you're a virgin but just not very experienced. Then lie back, relax and let her take the lead. Book an hour and you'll probably get oral and sex ticked off.

Forget the porn, reality is not like that.

Offline cunnyhunt

Yeah I agree but to be fair all the follow up posts have been very good and informative for anyone looking on.  Hopefully some lurker will pick up on the tips and have a good first punt.  Cheers to the troll for that.

Ok you have a good point there, not thought of that. :hi:

jcdmj12

Funny Fucker time again. :wacko:

I understand that a lot of members here are polite and will reply but FFS the sign of Troll is all over this one. :wackogirl:

He's not really a troll, strictly speaking.  A troll is someone who is deliberately inflammatory, this is pretty uncontroversial.  A fantasist, maybe.

Offline wristjob

Hey guys. So I'd like to give you a bit of background info here. I don't really wanna say how old I am. I'll just say I'm over 21. Old enough that being a virgin at my age is typically frowned upon and is a source of considerable shame and embarrassment.  Basically I've done the square root of fuck all sexually with a woman. Have never touched, fingered, licked or had my member anywhere remotely near to a pussy. I've actually never seen one except in porn or on TV. Have also never had a bj or even had my little fella touched at all... and 'little' fella would be quite an accurate description of mine  :D. I have an idea of how I would envisage an escort visit transpiring. I walk in, exchange pleasantries, give her the cash, and tell her I want us to get down to business as quickly as possible. I imagine myself sticking it in (after I've put the condom on), pumping away and finishing in a couple of minutes... if not less. Is that not what typically happens? Hopefully I'm able to get it up, which isn't a given as I'd be quite shy and nervous about the whole thing. I haven't a clue about foreplay or knowing how to treat a lady in bed because I've never been with one.  :D Do they expect you to know all of that stuff? Seems there are quite a few pitfalls to avoid as a punter. I've read a few horror stories about no-shows, or WGs looking completely different to how they did profile pictures, and not being willing to do OWO or CIM even if their profiles say they will. Looking to avoid any of those scenarios if I can. Any virgins here who lost theirs to a WG? Know anyone else who did?

I was in a similar situation a long way back and it wasn't the best. A really fit girl walked in the room, put a condom on me, sucked me for 15 seconds and I was done - and she walked out the room. Not a lot of help.

I'd say the best way is try at least a 1h booking with a girl with good feedback and a cum more than once in an hour. get in there, shoot your load in the first 5 mins and then just sit there relaxing & talking with her and things will happen and number 2 will be much better. Pressure and expectation are the killers.

Don't stress about looks or age (within reason), just go on who people say are best. Someone said go for the regional boards, def a good call. Don't even think about looking at AW - too many there who will happily take your money then do nothing good.

Offline HornyUKlad231

I'm not a troll guys. It seems to be a common theme here that when someone says they're a virgin, they are assumed to be a troll automatically. Thanks for the advice anyway.

Offline cunnyhunt

He's not really a troll, strictly speaking.  A troll is someone who is deliberately inflammatory, this is pretty uncontroversial.  A fantasist, maybe.

Yes it is probably an incorrect term, but for me all these timewasters are the same.

What it does show us though is that PN is too fucking boring to spam.  :D


Offline vorian

I'm not a troll guys. It seems to be a common theme here that when someone says they're a virgin, they are assumed to be a troll automatically. Thanks for the advice anyway.

Not really,  more like the fact you asked for advice in your first post, you had lots of replies and did not respond or follow it up. That may have made you appear like a troll.  Doesn't really matter as it was a very useful topic and thread anyway.  :thumbsup:
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Offline cunnyhunt

I'm not a troll guys. It seems to be a common theme here that when someone says they're a virgin, they are assumed to be a troll automatically. Thanks for the advice anyway.

It is not if someone writes that they are a virgin, it is when they write such as you, text which comes across as some fantasy.

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I imagine myself sticking it in (after I've put the condom on), pumping away and finishing in a couple of minutes... if not less. Is that not what typically happens?

After watching porn you Must have some idea.

Offline wristjob

I'm not a troll guys. It seems to be a common theme here that when someone says they're a virgin, they are assumed to be a troll automatically. Thanks for the advice anyway.

Glad you aren't a troll. As Vorian says above it's an interactive thing here so you don't usually start a thread and then leave it be.

Since you aren't a troll then join in, get a punt, tell us how it went - and prove people wrong :)

Offline Ali Katt

The best advice I can give any virgin, whether they want to be a punter or not is: You're over thinking it

Where are you based? I'm sure someone can find a recommendation.

Also, set a budget and decide roughly what you want to do and pick a girl that is tried, tested and known to be reliable.

I had a few relationships before I started punting, but my first punt was the most vanilla experience you could imagine.

Offline Ali Katt

Here's a good thread aboust some first punts, I must have been drunk when I typed that:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=8342.0

Offline HornyUKlad231

The best advice I can give any virgin, whether they want to be a punter or not is: You're over thinking it

Where are you based? I'm sure someone can find a recommendation.

Also, set a budget and decide roughly what you want to do and pick a girl that is tried, tested and known to be reliable.

I had a few relationships before I started punting, but my first punt was the most vanilla experience you could imagine.

I'm in NW England, but wouldn't be averse to travelling further afield. I'm 24. I found another thread from a chap who claimed he was 37 and still a virgin and don't want to end up like him. I have no idea if he ever actually got a punt or if he was just trolling for laughs. Anyway, I've looked at a few profiles on AW. There is one in particular who I like the look of. Has decent feedback. Only red flag for me is she's a bit young. 23. Not sure if she would be the best choice for a nervous newbie.


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