Seeking.com regional open thread - West Midlands

[ratava]

I talked to someone involved in the marketing of SA in the Golden years pre Covid - remember they ran sugar baby courses and posters outside colleges? sigh...I slept with more students than I ever did while at University. Even the BBC "expose" drove traffic to the site. Anyways Brandon told them "You've done your job" and cut the UK marketing spend to zero. It shows

[Bluesmad10]

Anyone got any experience with this one?

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[styussr]

Anyone got any experience with this one?

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Was in an arrangement with someone else and she brought this one for a 3 way one time, she was fine, just heavy on the sniff and sauce. Nothing particularly exceptional about it.

[Bluesmad10]

What was she charging for her time?

[Funboy101]

Anyone had any luck with seeking recently? I see to find a lot of time wasting and effort on potential sugar babies that go quiet and disappear

[Curves]

It it just me, or are they over keen to get hold of your mobile number and whatsapp.. Is that a red flag for everyone else?

[Jumping Jack Flash]

It it just me, or are they over keen to get hold of your mobile number and whatsapp.. Is that a red flag for everyone else?

No you need to get them onto WhatsApp asap or risk a ban from Seeking for discussing the bleeding obvious that the site tries to distance itself from.

[Funboy101]

Getting to WhatsApp is half the battle, last one I got there asked for £500-£600 per meet!!

[shrewsmale]

does anyone have any discount codes?

[Bluesmad10]

does anyone have any discount codes?

Usually one floating around your emails, VPN to the states too to avoid taxes and you can get it for £70/75 instead of like £120

[Pablo02]

I used to use it a lot myself and subscribed to the membership to send and receive messages I started pretty late around the first wave of Covid and I must say I came across some decent members never paid for than £200 and that was for a full evening meet in hotel or apartment even had a few that didn’t require a payment just a evening out for dinner and then back to room for the obvious.

However I still have a active profile I’ve not subscribed back since early 2022 just a lot of scammers on there and I’m finding there isn’t much on there like you’ve said a lot have left the site and using different platforms ….

[Funboy101]

I’ve not tried any other platforms, any suggestions?

[YoungBrum]

Usually one floating around your emails, VPN to the states too to avoid taxes and you can get it for £70/75 instead of like £120

VPN doesn't work for me, it's showing as £120 regardless

[Bluesmad10]

VPN doesn't work for me, it's showing as £120 regardless

Try closing the browser and re opening it after you’ve set your VPN to the states.

Should be £100 then and if you find an email with 25% of you’ll get it for £75 because the 0% taxes being in the states.

[Bluesmad10]

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Aliya, recommend this one, great comms, easy to arrange , 150PPM , pretty girl , oral and sex were good.

Very good VFM.

Stay away from her now wants £600+ because someone has pockets deeper than they have have brain cells and is paying her £650 PPM. 

 

[paul_tall_]

Stay away from her now wants £600+ because someone has pockets deeper than they have have brain cells and is paying her £650 PPM. 

 

you mean supposedly you only have what she says to go on

[Bluesmad10]

you mean supposedly you only have what she says to go on

She did show dated messages someone booked her last Tuesday so I’m just going off that being the reason for the price increase. She said he paid her £650 so the minimum she’s taking now is £600 PPM.

Pretty much a bummer if someone has stupidly inflated the market for everyone else.

[Jumping Jack Flash]

She did show dated messages someone booked her last Tuesday so I’m just going off that being the reason for the price increase. She said he paid her £650 so the minimum she’s taking now is £600 PPM.

Pretty much a bummer if someone has stupidly inflated the market for everyone else.

Equally she will soon realise that she’s priced herself out of the market.

[Mr Garmin]

Equally she will soon realise that she’s priced herself out of the market.

Perhaps she's finding that she only has to shag one bloke rather than 4

[AveragePunter]

Sorry please delete if not allowed, I remember being part of a Telegram group regarding seeking and potential scams. Not sure if someone can point me in the right direction thanks

[Bluesmad10]

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Anyone had the pleasure?

[paul_tall_]

Equally she will soon realise that she’s priced herself out of the market.

What allowances do girls tend to look for around Birmingham ?
I’ve had a girl who has London as a second location Birmingham as primary message me say £450 ppm but gives off the luxury dating , long term commitment vibe rather than a sugar dating experience

[DAlpine1980]

What allowances do girls tend to look for around Birmingham ?
I’ve had a girl who has London as a second location Birmingham as primary message me say £450 ppm but gives off the luxury dating , long term commitment vibe rather than a sugar dating experience

I've had plenty of meets and arrangements that are less than that. It is getting harder to find, but I still think 200-250 is the median. You can get meets under that with really switched on genuine women, but I tend to find that is the settling point.

[Jumping Jack Flash]

I have found that in the Birmingham/West Midlands market, the £450 plus SB are open to negotiation. They aim high to filter out the salt daddies, if you’re genuine and come across well then they will discuss their expectations with you. Don’t bail out at the first mention of a price that is above your ceiling, negotiate!

[shrewsmale]

using SB last year, I met two ladies:

- one I agreed £200 for a few hours, , I covered hotel, great meet but she then let me down twice more and was unclear as to reasons
- One I saw regularly for £250 which included overnight if wanted it, again with me covering hotel and she wanted it like a datenight so cost of dinner etc

Therefore I do think you can find if at those levels if you look - however as referenced above, the good old days of £100-£150 seem to be long gone

[DAlpine1980]

Dare I ask what it is like at the minute if re-subbing? I had a quick browse and looks like a few new faces. Sadly someone I have fond memories of isn't on there (or has me blocked) and I didn't keep her details.

[styussr]

I'm in the same boat, am itching for a new plaything but I'm reticent about the time required to pluck the diamond out of the rough. I have noticed the number of views and messages I'm getting is increasing but I'm always wary it's bots and AI profiles set to entice you.

[Jumping Jack Flash]

I think Seeking is pretty much as it has been since lockdown, hard work at times and occasionally rewarding. My last paid sub ended earlier this month and it didn’t seem any different than my other subscriptions over the past four or five years.

The cost of a subscription does make me think twice about the cost; when it was £40 a month I never gave the cost a second thought. Now it’s a definite factor.

[paul_tall_]

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anyone met or chatted to ?

[DAlpine1980]

I think Seeking is pretty much as it has been since lockdown, hard work at times and occasionally rewarding. My last paid sub ended earlier this month and it didn’t seem any different than my other subscriptions over the past four or five years.

The cost of a subscription does make me think twice about the cost; when it was £40 a month I never gave the cost a second thought. Now it’s a definite factor.

I think that is it. A lot of expense for a lot of wheat and chaff sorting

[Punting2022]

Evening, Thought id help out. I thought i would come midlands in search of a cheaper SB. No such thing.
Simran - External Link/Members Only Is only after selling pictures. Makes excuses saying live at home. Told her we in hotel wont stay out late. STill nothing

Princess - External Link/Members Only 500 pounds, few hours

Dijjana -https://members.seeking.com/member/cf34870d-945f-470d-bc1f-aae86b5cc2e5 Timewaster. will respond to one message then nothing after when come to arranging.

Elegance External Link/Members Only 400 per meet. But gone quite. Lost her number now

Rafa- Ghoster. never responds External Link/Members Only

Laila- External Link/Members Only Attractive. Responds on site. Got WhatsApp. hard to meet. Never replies. OUT BLUE TEXT TAKES A WEEK TO GET BACK. mEET ISNT HAPPENING. hAD HER CHATTING FOR 2 MONTHS.

Iqra Ghoster External Link/Members Only

Rehas  - External Link/Members Only 500 per meet few hours not worth it. Not model like

Anabelle - External Link/Members Only Nice looks 500 per meet. too much

Rose External Link/Members Only Agreed 400 don't find her attractive on TG pics. Evening. Seems the type just wanting one meet to get her quick buck

Sara - External Link/Members Only agreed to 400 per meet. Limited to 2 hours she says. Not for me, I get people have lives but limits not for me.

Sadie- Agreed 350. Attractive enough seems a bit big so left it.

Cherrie- Chatting to this milf External Link/Members Only

Angel- Attractive agreed 350 per meet. External Link/Members Only but i got the feeling shes a lot bigger then pics so i backed out. Now blocked

Khusi complete ghoster External Link/Members Only

[Jumping Jack Flash]

Useful intel thank you.

[Punting2022]

Angel - External Link/Members Only
Charges by the hour so a pro. Thought she may be cheap due to her chubby size. Maybe less interest etc. But nope. Think it was 200 or 300 ph

Saf - External Link/Members Only Was on Adultwork charging 600ph a while ago. so will be expensive.

Kumari - External Link/Members Only Picture seller or wants spoiling so allowance for less meets

[Punting2022]

Just catching up on a few more. Came up in search and remembered them
Ayah - External Link/Members Only Really attractive. 300 per meet, but pushy. i couldn't meet on day she said, due to travel and no good priced hotels. She was pushy for that day, so seems more money motivated. She needed to buy something from the shops in bham, so I guess was pushy for cash to purchase it.May be rubbish in room, as more money focused. She ignored other suggestions for meets and dates. So left her.

Daville- External Link/Members Only Looks fit as f+++ . Regret letting this one go, But didn't feel a vibe. 300 per meet. But she was like doesn't do Bj or let me go down on her. Also wanted cash before the meet and lunch. SO unsure. But my gawd shes hot. I deleted her number, but would like to contact again and try if in area.

[Punting2022]

Thought i would try Coventry hoping for a cheaper one,
Saskia External Link/Members Only Fit but wants 500 per meet. London rates. Is up for Intimacy. But i got the feeling its a few hours thing, not overnight. She wants dinner first too. That's fine, breaks things up. I mentioned that allowance is only if we have fun and after meet, So no click on dinner then nothing. She went ghost mode. So could be says intimacy, don't follow through and you pay 500

Harmony- External Link/Members Only i actually chatted to her on SDM. brief hello, went ghost mode

Marbella - External Link/Members Only Wants 500. Sexy Brazilian girl. No Time limits. Still too much for me.
Amelia- External Link/Members Only Spotted this one, no chat. But if someone does chat to her, Update here. Looks cute.

[Jmaes123]

So I can see your putting information out there about messaging ladies on SA, but have you actually met with anyone from there to give information on. Just a few you have mentioned I have actually seen and conflicts with what you are saying

[Jmaes123]

So I can see your putting information out there about messaging ladies on SA, but have you actually met with anyone from there to give information on. Just a few you have mentioned I have actually seen and conflicts with what you are saying

TO PUNTING 2022

[paul_tall_]

TO PUNTING 2022

If you look at other areas you will see he has mass dumped similar information about girls in other parts of the country . Would suggest ignore in the main what he has written . On the London thread a similar question re had he met any was asked and if I recall he implied one of them .
We have no idea of how he communicated with these girls and whether the ones he claims ghosted him just got bored of his messages or thought he was a time waster

[Punting2022]

So I can see your putting information out there about messaging ladies on SA, but have you actually met with anyone from there to give information on. Just a few you have mentioned I have actually seen and conflicts with what you are saying

I have worded who I have met in my responses. As you can see I have said most are too expensive or I didn't feel it, so have not arranged a meet. But I have commented here on my findings and what PPM most agreed. Helps people on the PPM front when negotiating. I thought id try a midlands search hoping for a cheaper lady. Most in London are deluded wanting 600 plus for 3 hours of meets.

I have actually had more success in Spain. Have two lined up same day. One is a day thing, 300 euros. Next one 350 Euros is staying overnight.
SPain also is cheaper to go out, hotels etc.

[Jmaes123]

I can’t see from the list you have put any that you have met with and if you have how the meet went?

You say it’s info on ppm, well on two you have mentioned the ppm I received was a lot lower and not really hourly, so I suppose it’s how you communicate and show commitment really as a typical seeking girl is looking for more than a one off. Also it’s more about an extra income for them combined with either working or studying, so you have to be negotiable on when they can meet up.

But if you find the right one(s) the chemistry can be a lot better than adultwork and usually a lot less money

[DAlpine1980]

Agree on the communication point.

You get a sense when talking whether their initial desired ppm is a bit of a noon shot to test the water. If you take it in your stride and say it's a bit steep for you (assuming it is) that doesn't necessarily mean the end of the conversation. Just be civil and respectful at least in my experience.

[Punting2022]

I can’t see from the list you have put any that you have met with and if you have how the meet went?

You say it’s info on ppm, well on two you have mentioned the ppm I received was a lot lower and not really hourly, so I suppose it’s how you communicate and show commitment really as a typical seeking girl is looking for more than a one off. Also it’s more about an extra income for them combined with either working or studying, so you have to be negotiable on when they can meet up.

But if you find the right one(s) the chemistry can be a lot better than adultwork and usually a lot less money

Yes its still less then AW. a day etc. But for me 400/500  wasn't worth the travel for what they offered.
What girls offered you less ppm and what were there profiles.
currently have two ladies in Madrid 300 euros ppm. One a full day. Another coming overnight. Flight is 60 quid so going for it.

[Hornylad]

let us know how you get on in madrid and do share the profiles and details, all the best

[Punting2022]

let us know how you get on in madrid and do share the profiles and details, all the best

will do

[Bluesmad10]

I can’t see from the list you have put any that you have met with and if you have how the meet went?

You say it’s info on ppm, well on two you have mentioned the ppm I received was a lot lower and not really hourly, so I suppose it’s how you communicate and show commitment really as a typical seeking girl is looking for more than a one off. Also it’s more about an extra income for them combined with either working or studying, so you have to be negotiable on when they can meet up.

But if you find the right one(s) the chemistry can be a lot better than adultwork and usually a lot less money

Only problem is with AW there’s a lot of airbrushed and fake photos, at least with seeking what you see is what you get 95% of the time. I think the rate is always subject to the person if they find you attractive and nice they tend to bend to a lower rate.

I had one girl who was charging me 150 PPM from seeking but everyone else was being asked for £300 minimum.

[Punting2022]

Only problem is with AW there’s a lot of airbrushed and fake photos, at least with seeking what you see is what you get 95% of the time. I think the rate is always subject to the person if they find you attractive and nice they tend to bend to a lower rate.

I had one girl who was charging me 150 PPM from seeking but everyone else was being asked for £300 minimum.

A lot of seeking girls use filtered pics. Video calls is best to filter these out. Went to see one, different in person then pics. Now i video call before.

[YoungBrum]

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Got to talking on whatsapp, agreed 200. Ask if she has any dos/don'ts, she said she doesn't show her boobs. I didn't ask why and I didn't comment, I just said that won't work for me and good luck. She called me ugly. Blocked and moved on

[Punting2022]

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Got to talking on whatsapp, agreed 200. Ask if she has any dos/don'ts, she said she doesn't show her boobs. I didn't ask why and I didn't comment, I just said that won't work for me and good luck. She called me ugly. Blocked and moved on

Could be fake boobs, surgery etc. Has scars and she is wary of them. Plenty more on site.
She cant judge on looks, she needs the cash from meets on there. So calling you ugly is out of order.

[Iloveoral]

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Got to talking on whatsapp, agreed 200. Ask if she has any dos/don'ts, she said she doesn't show her boobs. I didn't ask why and I didn't comment, I just said that won't work for me and good luck. She called me ugly. Blocked and moved on

Polite nudge on the reviews please

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[paul_tall_]

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Got to talking on whatsapp, agreed 200. Ask if she has any dos/don'ts, she said she doesn't show her boobs. I didn't ask why and I didn't comment, I just said that won't work for me and good luck. She called me ugly. Blocked and moved on

Was the £200 for actually meeting with intimacy ? Her profile mentions wanting a guy who would want to meet at some point .
Obviously there are girls with body confidence issues , however she has been on the site for almost 2 years . You would need to be a pretty understanding guy to meet and agree to that . Is seeking that sort of site maybe but she must have some confidence to 1st be in the site and that long . We have all come across girls that mention no kissing , no oral ,no anal , other acts which are understandable but girls that mention the not to be seen naked and needing the lights out hidden under the bedsheets , change in the bathroom vibe haven’t been that common and often are way too insecure to meet