Seeking.com regional open thread - West Midlands

[Direwolf]

Take time out to read the main Seeking thread and also this one too. It will take a couple of hours but it will be time well spent.

Would that be 119 page open topic one?
Can see a bigger 1323 page one but is locked.

Been thinking about joining but seems a bit of a headache 

[Jumping Jack Flash]

Would that be 119 page open topic one?
Can see a bigger 1323 page one but is locked.

Been thinking about joining but seems a bit of a headache 

The 119 page one, it’s full of important information about how to spot scams, how to act and what to look out for. It really will be worth reading it.

[Bluesmad10]

Does anyone know what the cancellation process is like on SDM?

Thinking of upgrading for a month and using SA and SDM but before I upgraded I saw you have to contact customer support so I’m wary it’s one of those that take time to respond and try their best to continue your membership past a month

[alibirmingham]

Does anyone know what the cancellation process is like on SDM?

Thinking of upgrading for a month and using SA and SDM but before I upgraded I saw you have to contact customer support so I’m wary it’s one of those that take time to respond and try their best to continue your membership past a month

If your talking about SDM customer service and your already signed up as a premium member then the customer service is actually very good. It’s webchat based but you speak to a person right away. Not waiting around etc. not sure on the cancellation process though.

[Bluesmad10]

If your talking about SDM customer service and your already signed up as a premium member then the customer service is actually very good. It’s webchat based but you speak to a person right away. Not waiting around etc. not sure on the cancellation process though.

Yeah I was about to sign up for a month but wasn’t sure if it was recurring and I read you’d have to contact them to cancel so was unsure whether it would be a hassle to cancel as I’d want to pay for the month as a tester basically and see if it was any good

[alibirmingham]

Yeah I was about to sign up for a month but wasn’t sure if it was recurring and I read you’d have to contact them to cancel so was unsure whether it would be a hassle to cancel as I’d want to pay for the month as a tester basically and see if it was any good

Just looked into this and on SDM you don’t need to contact customer service to cancel the auto renewal. You can turn it off yourself on the profile. I’ve added screen shots of it if it helps. Happy hunting 

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[Bluesmad10]

Just looked into this and on SDM you don’t need to contact customer service to cancel the auto renewal. You can turn it off yourself on the profile. I’ve added screen shots of it if it helps. Happy hunting 

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Thank you, life saver.

I was about to sign up and I just read about contacting them to cancel so I didn’t press pay now lol will be signing up immediately!

[Iloveoral]

Thank you, life saver.

I was about to sign up and I just read about contacting them to cancel so I didn’t press pay now lol will be signing up immediately!

Polite nudge on the reviews matey, you’re getting a bit behind 

[Bluesmad10]

Polite nudge on the reviews matey, you’re getting a bit behind 

I know bud I’ve had 2/3 years away from all this for personal reasons just looking to find some talent before I can review! AW is looking dry some of the girls I have seen in the past have long gone it seems. SA seems a little better but I’ve had a few quote absolutely absurd prices lol

[Curves]

I used to be on a Telegram channel with around 15-20 off here discussing and reviewing sb's. It was really useful. Anyone know or members of similar?

[Jumping Jack Flash]

I used to be on a Telegram channel with around 15-20 off here discussing and reviewing sb's. It was really useful. Anyone know or members of similar?

That seems a bit counter productive, post here or there or both or not at all.

[Iloveoral]

I used to be on a Telegram channel with around 15-20 off here discussing and reviewing sb's. It was really useful. Anyone know or members of similar?

Why don’t you try reviewing here ?
I’d personally love to ban you for that comment, it’s a sharing community, if you can’t share here off you fuck rather than asking for other options.
But I’ll give you 30 days

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[snax069]

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Annabelle 20,
Avoid! Deposit scammer. Spoke to her on the phone, didnt sound like 20 but sounded like a pro, so got a feeling she knows whats she's doing. Well now I know better :0

[alibirmingham]

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Annabelle 20,
Avoid! Deposit scammer. Spoke to her on the phone, didnt sound like 20 but sounded like a pro, so got a feeling she knows whats she's doing. Well now I know better :0

Oh yes, I have come across her on other platforms like Sugar daddy meets. Has multiple profile and claims to live in stoke. Want “a small deposit” as she’s been messed around. I got as much details as I could and even made an action fraud report but they did nothing stating not enough evidence. Maybe if more people report her to action fraud they will look into it.

I know I’m not allowed to share the whole number but is the last 3/4 digits allowed so people can cross reference if they ever came across another profile similar to hers and wanted to check if it’s the same person?

[alibirmingham]

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Annabelle 20,
Avoid! Deposit scammer. Spoke to her on the phone, didnt sound like 20 but sounded like a pro, so got a feeling she knows whats she's doing. Well now I know better :0

Did you also pay her a deposit? I never and that’s one of the reasons I don’t think action fraud didn’t take any action. If you did pay the. You may have a stronger case than me. I provided them the account deatails, her name, bank details etc so if more people made reports maybe they would see a pattern and do something

[Jumping Jack Flash]

Do not pay a deposit, don’t pay up front for their train/parking/childcare costs/nails etc. They are all classic Seeking scams.

[paul_tall_]

Oh yes, I have come across her on other platforms like Sugar daddy meets. Has multiple profile and claims to live in stoke. Want “a small deposit” as she’s been messed around. I got as much details as I could and even made an action fraud report but they did nothing stating not enough evidence. Maybe if more people report her to action fraud they will look into it.

I know I’m not allowed to share the whole number but is the last 3/4 digits allowed so people can cross reference if they ever came across another profile similar to hers and wanted to check if it’s the same person?

When you say has multiple profiles do you mean across several platforms or actually multiple live profiles at any one time on say seeking ?
Do you think she is actually a she based in the UK and just trying her luck or more sinister for you to contact action fraud ?
I can understand why they wouldn't look into anything until say you have been scammed by her and most probably would just give you advice on what to look out for in the future as they dont have the resources to investigate everything.
She has obviously wound you up but im sure you have come across over profiles that have tried similar ?

[alibirmingham]

When you say has multiple profiles do you mean across several platforms or actually multiple live profiles at any one time on say seeking ?
Do you think she is actually a she based in the UK and just trying her luck or more sinister for you to contact action fraud ?
I can understand why they wouldn't look into anything until say you have been scammed by her and most probably would just give you advice on what to look out for in the future as they dont have the resources to investigate everything.
She has obviously wound you up but im sure you have come across over profiles that have tried similar ?

So I know her off sugar daddy meets which is an alternative site to seeking. She has multiple love profiles last time I checked. She messaged me off both and gave me the same number from both so clearly it’s a volume game for her. The voice notes etc and multiple bank details she gave all point to a uk based girl and more then likely she is from the stoke area although no way to prove this.

The reason why I reported to action fraud is because she sounded like a professional scammer and I had gotta multiple bank details out of her and had her real name etc. and she confessed she had loads of small transactions like this going into her account so clearly she’d been doing this a long time and scammed many men on the past. Just felt she needed reporting. Nothing personal other than she’s a scammer.

[paul_tall_]

So I know her off sugar daddy meets which is an alternative site to seeking. She has multiple love profiles last time I checked. She messaged me off both and gave me the same number from both so clearly it’s a volume game for her. The voice notes etc and multiple bank details she gave all point to a uk based girl and more then likely she is from the stoke area although no way to prove this.

The reason why I reported to action fraud is because she sounded like a professional scammer and I had gotta multiple bank details out of her and had her real name etc. and she confessed she had loads of small transactions like this going into her account so clearly she’d been doing this a long time and scammed many men on the past. Just felt she needed reporting. Nothing personal other than she’s a scammer.

Hopefully anyone that she has done this to has reported to their bank if they have bank transferred. Maybe report her to sdm for multiple profiles

[Jumping Jack Flash]

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Any info on this one? She’s quite keen on messages.

[styussr]

External Link/Members Only FunZoexxx

Gives her whatsapp immediately and wants money up front for "sunbed and lashes"

[Jmaes123]

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SCAMMER goes to what’s app asks for 60/70 immediately as she has no money

[Jmaes123]

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Another deposit scammer

[paul_tall_]

SCAMMER goes to what’s app asks for 60/70 immediately as she has no money

Who is this one you linked your inbox

[Jmaes123]

Sorry I have blocked her know, but profile had the name Zoe and she is under 30 age

[paul_tall_]

Sorry I have blocked her know, but profile had the name Zoe and she is under 30 age

was it the one thats above your message funzoexxx 26 birmingham ?

[Hornylad]

Hi

Anyone had any experience with this one? says shes in birmingham?

Simmy

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[Oralseeker]

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This one, usual scam. They pretend to be keen then suddenly radio silence my phone is broken, can you...

There are some unfortunate folks on Seeking

[Bluesmad10]

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Aliya, recommend this one, great comms, easy to arrange , 150PPM , pretty girl , oral and sex were good.

Very good VFM.

[AndyJay]

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Aliya, recommend this one, great comms, easy to arrange , 150PPM , pretty girl , oral and sex were good.

Very good VFM.

I agree with the great comms but she's gone straight in at 300-350 PPM so she's obviously realised she was giving a good deal and has raised her fees.

She seems to be sticking with the silly PPM fee but I'll see what happens.

[Bluesmad10]

I agree with the great comms but she's gone straight in at 300-350 PPM so she's obviously realised she was giving a good deal and has raised her fees.

She seems to be sticking with the silly PPM fee but I'll see what happens.

Best bet would be to negotiate a regular fee.

I paid 150, she genuinely tries to please the man tbh started swirling to tongue in oral purely for my pleasure lol

[Oralseeker]

She probably had a load from here message her so she tried her luck.
Another one Jams (Jasmine) wants 150 for a meal to start the 350 PPM afterwards. I told her to sod off and she blocked me. She was a straight to telegram type so a red flag for me

[AndyJay]

She probably had a load from here message her so she tried her luck.
Another one Jams (Jasmine) wants 150 for a meal to start the 350 PPM afterwards. I told her to sod off and she blocked me. She was a straight to telegram type so a red flag for me

I left her alone for a bit and now shes gone to 200 haha!.

[AndyJay]

I mostly use the site to arrange meets abroad but sometimes I will meet in the UK but there are far to many scammers.

Just a link to a few recent ones - sadly some block me when I call them out so I cant link their profile

1. External Link/Members Only
Actually lives near to Kidderminster - asked me for £100 to meet at a pub for a chat to cover her time!!!! hahaha. So Coffee meet scammer.

2. External Link/Members Only
Not sure about this one yet - discussed meets but wanted to sell me some content but I refused. Will see what develops

3.External Link/Members Only
Asked me for £300-£350 a meet - told her now way so she went to £250 but I refused

4. External Link/Members Only
Straight in at £250 a meet, told her no and no more comms

5. External Link/Members Only
Really difficult to get hold of - even on whatsapp. Will keep trying but...

6. External Link/Members Only
Content seller and begs for money!. Avoid

7. External Link/Members Only
Content seller

8. External Link/Members Only
Again really difficult to get hold of - £200 a meet i think

9. External Link/Members Only
Tried to call me out and said she would report me to the site for suggesting PPM!.

Will keep updating as n when

[finn5555]

I mostly use the site to arrange meets abroad but sometimes I will meet in the UK but there are far to many scammers.

Just a link to a few recent ones - sadly some block me when I call them out so I cant link their profile

1. External Link/Members Only
Actually lives near to Kidderminster - asked me for £100 to meet at a pub for a chat to cover her time!!!! hahaha. So Coffee meet scammer.

2. External Link/Members Only
Not sure about this one yet - discussed meets but wanted to sell me some content but I refused. Will see what develops

3.External Link/Members Only
Asked me for £300-£350 a meet - told her now way so she went to £250 but I refused

4. External Link/Members Only
Straight in at £250 a meet, told her no and no more comms

5. External Link/Members Only
Really difficult to get hold of - even on whatsapp. Will keep trying but...

6. External Link/Members Only
Content seller and begs for money!. Avoid

7. External Link/Members Only
Content seller

8. External Link/Members Only
Again really difficult to get hold of - £200 a meet i think

9. External Link/Members Only
Tried to call me out and said she would report me to the site for suggesting PPM!.

Will keep updating as n when

all of these, bar one, go to your inbox 

[Hornylad]

Hi

Anyone had any experience with this one? says shes in birmingham?

Simmy

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anyone had any luck with this one? she says shes in birningham?

[AndyJay]

She wanted £300 to £350 initially then dropped to £250 but thats still too high for her.

[AndyJay]

Whoops my bad..........This will work.

1. External Link/Members Only
Actually lives near to Kidderminster - asked me for £100 to meet at a pub for a chat to cover her time!!!! hahaha. So Coffee meet scammer.

2. External Link/Members Only
Not sure about this one yet - discussed meets but wanted to sell me some content but I refused. Will see what develops

3. External Link/Members Only
Asked me for £300-£350 a meet - told her now way so she went to £250 but I refused

4. External Link/Members Only
Straight in at £250 a meet, told her no and no more comms

5. External Link/Members Only
Really difficult to get hold of - even on whatsapp. Will keep trying but...

6. External Link/Members Only
Content seller and begs for money!. Avoid

7. External Link/Members Only
Content seller

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Again really difficult to get hold of - £200 a meet i think

9. External Link/Members Only
Tried to call me out and said she would report me to the site for suggesting PPM!.

[Hornylad]

She wanted £300 to £350 initially then dropped to £250 but thats still too high for her.

she said similar to me, she offered unprotected.. so I just instantly switched off. dont know how many people been dipping in her and what shes carrying..

[DAlpine1980]

Fwiw on the negotiating generally. I wouldn't immediately shut down a convo where they want 250/300. I've found that spending a bit of time showing you're genuine will sometimes see a better genuine offer. I imagine some of those are looking to find a specific type of SD. I've certainly had a couple of conversations start out that way but ended up with 150/200 a meet and we all went away very happy.

Equally, 250 for a good few hours ain't so bad. I've had evenings turn into filthy overnighters for that.

Naturally play it how you feel is best and clearly a lot of scammers put there, but food for thought.

[Hornylad]

in regards to the one above, she came across giving escort vibes and tbh from my experience those are the worst experiences, looking at her heavily filtered pictures, i wouldnt say an attractive girl lyes behind them. overall i didnt get a good vibe from her. Who knows could be ok but also could be a timewaster/scammer. first impressions do count imo and tbh she doesnt make a good one and i think its across the board with everyone as the other OP has experienced as well, not seen anyone on here who has actually seen her to confirm if she is genuine and or provides a decent service. the unprotected part also put me off.

[Everhard115]

she said similar to me, she offered unprotected.. so I just instantly switched off. dont know how many people been dipping in her and what shes carrying..

8 - on the list finalised everything with me then kept me waiting like turnip in broadway plaza. She kept saying coming in 10 mins type and eventually blocked. This after weeks of talking. Not sure what she got out it.
She only blocked me on whats app and not on seeking so sent her a message there which she read. One to avoid. Good thing no hotel was booked so wasted time only!

[Hornylad]

is this the one in birmingham? and mate was this last week on monday/tuesday? oh so she’s a timewaster, i got the impression she sounded more like she was from bradford rather than birmingham, out of curiosity what did she quote you? and did she state what she does/doesnt do? and how long she would stay for?

[paul_tall_]

8 - on the list finalised everything with me then kept me waiting like turnip in broadway plaza. She kept saying coming in 10 mins type and eventually blocked. This after weeks of talking. Not sure what she got out it.
She only blocked me on whats app and not on seeking so sent her a message there which she read. One to avoid. Good thing no hotel was booked so wasted time only!

Had you had in the weeks of talking had a video call with her and have you given her any money/gifts for content or anything.
If she is real then sounds like she is just a girl who likes to play games and that’s the thrill , may even be a group of girls in it for the laugh

[Everhard115]

I dont pay anything upfront or online. So follow all the usual precautions.
I tell them the first meet is a coffee meet and I will pay a small sum for their uber. If they feel like proceeding to hotel the same day then its booked on the spot and allowance paid in hotel. That way I loose no money for no show ups.

This is the second time this has happened to me. Firsf time was a different lass in Bristol. Funnily she sent me a message again to meet up and said she did not know why she did that the first time. Just blocked her.

No she would not do a call kept saying kets do a call in 20 minutes then make an excuse. We had been chatting on whats app for weeks.

I get a feeling its not even the girl in pics. Yes probably some sadistic cunt who gets pleasure out of wasting peoples time.
Upwards and onwards as got some decent Leeds in this round. 

[DAlpine1980]

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Any info on this one? She’s quite keen on messages.

Late to the party for a reply but genuine in my experience. A bit more vanilla but good company

[Rock4ages]

Seeking in the west midlands seem to be tough  was qouted 500 ppm for External Link/Members Only and 550 for External Link/Members Only haha i give up I am heading back to London 

[Everhard115]

Yes similar prices however some nuggets to be found but few and far in between and it is a ALOT of hard work!
Have found 2 good ones after 2 months of constant disappointments, let downs and lots of effort.
Pipeline is strong and most stay in touch testing waters if the banter is there but it is a nightmare. Some days have 5 good leads other days it seems all is lost and trails have gone cold so bit of cat and mouse as girls get offers counter offers etc etc.

[Rock4ages]

Thanks buddy 

[Jumping Jack Flash]

Since lockdown Seeking has got harder and it is much more difficult to find reliable and genuine SB. They are out there it’s just much more difficult to find them.

My theory is that Covid forced everything online and understandably so and it’s never really got back to the fun site that it was. Add in the era of content creators and Only Fans etc, a lot of SB are not motivated to meet in person because they can make money and not leave their bedroom.

I may dip my toe in the water and re-subscribe in mid-January, that has always been a good time to be on there once the Christmas credit card statement lands. I’m not hopeful but you never know.