Yeah, I'd be interested in that. Would be good to know details and how fees compare with meets from SA.
The signup fee is much more agreeable at a month around £30 (ish) and 3 months at around £80 (ish) I think as that's what I opted for. That's less than one month’s Seeking sub and I’m getting 3 months.
DOWNSIDE is I’m in Brum and not enough new talents come through. Maybe 3/4 a week that match what I’m looking for so the hit rate is low once you've exhausted the pool as soon as you sign up. So basically, by end of week 2/3 I had messaged all the active and newbie sign ups that met my criteria and I ended up with around 15/20 contacts. That may sound like a lot but once you start chatting and whittling them down it really isn't that much. For that reason, I's say do a month at a time and only re-sub every 3-6 months. ITS NOT a replacement for seeking.com as the traffic through there eclipse SDM
Now the positives: So, I have found compared to seeking you get less experienced SB's who are new to the world and who are after much lower PPM's. Now if you want a 10/10 SB who can fuck like a rabbit then Seeking is still the place to go but you'll have to pay for it. If you want a newbie who you can maybe teach or your happy with vanilla then SDM can be rewarding.
So far, I've had the following:
1) YummyMummy - older MILF SB around 35 MILF (3 kids) - Malvern. Can’t add link as either she’s no longer on the site OR she’s blocked me which is more likely. Met her in Malvern for a meet and greet, agreed if it goes well, we can go to hers for a quickie PPM at £150 which did happen. Deal was we would continue that arrangement at £150 but obviously it would be longer than a one round quickie. Never heard back from her after that so she may use same tactics on multiple guys as a way of making quick easy money for one round.
2) Nicky - 23 YO Brum based - No link as she's left the site. African SB who never did this before. Agreed £100 PPM for any type of meets including overnight. She’s a total FREAK in every sense of the word (or so she claims). So far though she’s been hit and miss. Had 2 meets so far of which 1 was a meet and greet, got a GOOD BJ for free as a thank you for some cheap lingerie I took for her as a gift. Second meet was just a quick 90 min hook up as I enjoyed the BJ so much, I wanted another but this time gave her £50 as a tip. We then planned an overnight and she’s been flaky since. Not sure if that will go anywhere but she has reached out herself asking to meet again.
3) Maria - Asian, 20 something Brum based. Meet and greet done, wanted £200 but agreed £150 PPM for a few hours hotel meet. She’s quite nice and take a bit of time to warm up but never took it further as she’s WAY TOO BIG for me. Like a size 16 but she had MASSIVE TITS so she’s a catch for those who like the bigger ladies. Can’t find the link so may be blocked after I ghosted her. He name was as I have spelt it so may be worth a search.
4) Nins – 28 from Brum, Profile states Acocks Green but is actually in Handsworth living is supported Accom. This is one to avoid. She’s a beggar and don’t think she has any intention to shag. Met for a M&G (she was using me for a lift to the Airport) Seemed very closed off and constantly asking for cash even though I told her NO cash unless intimacy is involved. She is also mentally unstable. Told me to fuck off, then begging again, then claims she gonna off herself, then she’ll be fine. Cut contact after all that. Did report her to the site but she’s still active
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External Link/Members Only5) Teekoshi – 20 something young black girl. Fancies herself a model but an absolute time waster. Agreed to meet then ghosted. NO link as it says member unavailable
6) Sara – 25 Asian Brum – Deep pockets required – Wants around £500 PPM few hours. Left it there
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External Link/Members Only8) Kali90780 – 21 Black girl Brum – Another one to avoid. On a seeking site yet ZERO desire to meet let alone sleep with anyone. Claims to be a virgin and got disgusted at my age (40) saying old enough to be her dad and finds it revolting to sleep with older men. Told her wrong site love and left it there.
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External Link/Members Only10) DesiGirl – 28 Newcastle Upon Tyne (not to be confused with under Lyme like I did) Too far for me but sounds nice and genuine. £300 PPM happy to travel and meet in in Leeds, can also host but not on first meet.
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External Link/Members Only11) Anna, 20 from Stoke – Potential Scammer, agreed a meet but then wanted £20 for travel. Declined and not messaged since.
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External Link/Members Only12) Meesha – 36 Asian from Brum – Another Scammer – Wanted a fee upfront for a meet and greet. Left it there.
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External Link/Members Only14) Sasha – 22 Surrey based girl – Very nice, friendly etc but too far for me. PPM not directly agreed but said she had 2 previous between £250 - £750. Not into fancy designer life, claims prefers charity shops, saving the planet etc. May be able to agree £250 for the right person.
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External Link/Members OnlyThere’s around 3 more I’m currently talking to so not sure how they will pan out. But left the best till last.
My main 2 BEST takeaways from the site to date have been an Asian girl called Alina around 22 - £100 PPM for around 2/4-hour hotel meets. FAF so sorry guys, can’t share that just yet. She’s a decent shag too if not a bit crazy lol.
And the other one an Indian girl only been in the country a year. Was on the site for 2 days before she got scared off with all the messages and guys asking for sex/ppm/meets etc. I was lucky that I got her contact details before she left the site. Had an overnight with her for £150 (was meant to be £100 but she was soo good I gave her extra as a one off). Another meet planned for Friday again overnight but for £100. Best bit though is she works for a large hotel chain and she’s given me her login so I can book hotels for us using her staff discount of 50%.
