Seeking.com regional open thread - West Midlands

[vindici]

However, she wants return ticket from Birmingham to London and that too to be paid to her via PayPal🚩. The PP address she gives is of some translation agency 🚩. She ignored my offer of buying ticket for her,🚩 instead sent me a screenshot of a train fare receipt with her PP address🚩. Seems a scam 💯

Anyone interacted with her? 

P.S. While we are chatting on WA, she has blocked me on SA 🚩🚩🚩

So many red flags... do you really need any more advice on this? Thanks for sharing her profile though, we can all block that scamming piece of shit.

Anyone that wants cash instead of a ticket is never leaving her apartment.

[WarrenS]

I am from London but the SB I am interacting with is supposedly based in Birmingham, so please bear with me 
Spicy treat (Birmingham)

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Apparently a friendly Purtugeese girl studying in Birmingham, happy to travel to meet up in London over the weekends or when not having uni days against a nominal monthly allowance that we the Londoners might depart for an intimate meet or two. However, she wants return ticket from Birmingham to London and that too to be paid to her via PayPal. The PP address she gives is of some translation agency. She ignored my offer of buying ticket for her, instead sent me a screenshot of a train fare receipt with her PP address. Seems a scam 

Anyone interacted with her? 

P.S. While we are chatting on WA, she has blocked me on SA

Yep, had dealings with her back in March/April, claimed to be based in Coventry then, at uni, kept messing me about regards meeting, she got £25 out of me for some dessert and mocktails (it was early days, I was naive), then she went quiet on me,  she has obviously upped her tactics since then.

Best avoid.

[Lone-punter]

So many red flags... do you really need any more advice on this? Thanks for sharing her profile though, we can all block that scamming piece of shit.

Anyone that wants cash instead of a ticket is never leaving her apartment.

Yep, had dealings with her back in March/April, claimed to be based in Coventry then, at uni, kept messing me about regards meeting, she got £25 out of me for some dessert and mocktails (it was early days, I was naive), then she went quiet on me,  she has obviously upped her tactics since then.

Best avoid.

Your replies are uch appreciated  Blocked her on WA 

[StrangeBrew]

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Looking for an allowance up front. "PPM is against site rules".

Scammer. 

[theaccountant]

Hey Guys,

Hope all is well.

I’ve started looking into SA for the last couple of days. I don’t have any experience in this so reading everything you have posted has been insightful.

What i do need your help on is the rate for PPM. What is a good rate for PPM for Birmingham girls?

[Brumish]

I've paid 50-250....depends how desperate you are and what the room rates are. If you don't have a set budget then seal it with a higher rate. If.youre good looking then they'll settle for a drink a times. Good luck 

[KidCandyShop]

I’ve had plenty of success at £200 which includes overnights, with one turning into a free fuck buddy

[theaccountant]

Well having been on seeking for the last couple of days. I found one that's on SA and at Lush

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This is the same girl.

[Jumping Jack Flash]

Your link to Lush doesn’t work.

[GingerNuts]

Your link to Lush doesn’t work.

She's probably left Lush and they've taken her profile down.

[theaccountant]

She's probably left Lush and they've taken her profile down.

Her profile is back up now on Lush

[henry palfrey]

Spotted this one as well

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[theaccountant]

Spotted this one as well

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This one is an avoid on so many levels for me.

Lists bareback and cannot seem to decide whether its £30 or £20 haha.

And her SA profile looks to be in shambles.

[xjammacx]

Spotted this one as well

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She blocked me on SA when I said I recognised her from somewhere.

[HarryRams]

Been on Sa for past few days. A few conversations ended up with 2 girls asking for upfront payment for taxi fare to meet up on first meet.( fiestygirl1997 is one of them, other one seems to have disappeared from sa)

[jamal2k94]

Anyone have any info or experience on either of these two? Both indicate interest in reasonably priced PPM.

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[Mikeman94]

Pretty sure the 2nd girl is this girl from AW -

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[jamal2k94]

Pretty sure the 2nd girl is this girl from AW -

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Think you're right, thanks.

[ScouserRod]

£250 per hour-she should be so lucky ??

[samsung1]

Bit of a newbie question but do you guys put pictures on your profiles ie face pictures?

[Jumping Jack Flash]

Bit of a newbie question but do you guys put pictures on your profiles ie face pictures?

Yes, maybe use one where you’re wearing sunnies and isn’t too much of a close up, then have a decent face pic in your private pics. This will increase your chances of landing a SB.

[samsung1]

Yes, maybe use one where you’re wearing sunnies and isn’t too much of a close up, then have a decent face pic in your private pics. This will increase your chances of landing a SB.

Nice one! what about net worth and annual income do you guys be honest with that or? 

[Cunning Punt]

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No wonder she doesn't show her face. She shared a grainy SA private pic of a very masculine face with very large nose.

I then ignored her but she still then sent me a copy and paste message saying she wanted £250ppm to start with, then a very long description about what she was looking for.

So ugly, looking for a high ppm and broaching the subject of money on SA which can get a guy banned if they even respond with a neutral message to this.   I didn't respond, just blocked her.

[samsung1]

Think you're right, thanks.

Profile now gone on SA. Has anyone seen her before?

[nightpunter12]

New Profile:

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[Cunning Punt]

Bit of a newbie question but do you guys put pictures on your profiles ie face pictures?

I wouldn't recommend a face photo as your public picture, and one can be recognised when wearing sunglasses. Instead, I would recommend a torso shot with your head cropped off because some sort of photo as your public picture will help get attention in the first place,

Then having face photos in private which you freely share with girls you are interested in will significantly increase your chances of getting replies and holding their interest.

[Ilikemuff]

What the actual fuck !!!

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[Cunning Punt]

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No wonder she doesn't show her face. She shared a grainy SA private pic of a very masculine face with very large nose.

I then ignored her but she still then sent me a copy and paste message saying she wanted £250ppm to start with, then a very long description about what she was looking for.

So ugly, looking for a high ppm and broaching the subject of money on SA which canew get a guy banned if they even respond with a neutral message to this.   I didn't respond, just blocked her.

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[stokecity]

Looks like I'm permanently banned from Seeking and I'm gutted, tbh.

Based not too far from Bristol but often punt on M5 corridor up into the West mids

I've genuinely minded my p's and q's on Seeking in my profile and when messaging and have turned down all the tons of offers of PPM and picture -sellers that they claim they don't allow.

I last had a subscription in October - a really good month and had some fabulous meets.

The account remained dormant after my subs ran out, but still receiving messages etc till a few weeks ago when I thought I'd resubscribe. I was immediately banned and told it was permanent for "potentially" looking for under age members.

Eh? I'm absolutely certain I'd never have messaged anything like that. I'm in my 50s and have had plenty of teenagers from Seeking, but I'm not stupid enough to have done anything out of order.

They're adamant though. I've e mailed them several times and they insist it's true and I'm permanently banned.

Gutted; I really fancied some spring sleaze!

Any thoughts?

Is there any way round this?

They know my credit cards/address etc - could I get somebody else to pay for me using their card? Would that work?

Gutted - I've been a decent SD to plenty of willing young girls on SA...any ideas?

Anyone on here even got a profile I could use if we could come to an arrangement?

Need to find a way back on - it's been such for for the last 4 years!

Any thoughts/ideas/suggestions?

[cooltomtom]

there are conversations about being getting banned around in other threads, possibly the London one, or the seeking.com - Open Topic thread from memory. But from what i remember it's simply a case of setting up an account with a false name using a revolt card...that's actually what I did when I was signed on as a member, basically to remain anonymous (as married) and works a treat...
pm me for more details if you like

[cooltomtom]

meantime, any feedback on this lady from Birmingham? Just contacted me out of the blue some 5 months after I last messaged her. Think she might have been known as Court before. Now shes Larnyy, looks fit, comes across as rather transactional though...
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cheers

[stokecity]

Thanks so much, Tom...you're absolutely correct, the Revolut things has sorted me out...got the info elsewhere but thank you so much for the advice - hope Ur having fun o there

[henry palfrey]

Noticed this one on AW and SA

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[YOY]

Looks like I'm permanently banned from Seeking and I'm gutted, tbh.

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Any thoughts/ideas/suggestions?

You can sign up with a new email account.  Safest to use a different way to pay and use different photos as well just in case they check against banned accounts.

[Jumping Jack Flash]

You can sign up with a new email account.  Safest to use a different way to pay and use different photos as well just in case they check against banned accounts.

Think about resetting your IP address too, they will definitely record this information on their banning lists.

[Memphis87]

Think about resetting your IP address too, they will definitely record this information on their banning lists.

How can I reset my IP address?

[Jumping Jack Flash]

How can I reset my IP address?

Unplug your router and leave it for around 5 minutes, that should reset your IP address. If it doesn’t work, leave your router unplugged overnight and when it comes back on line it should reset the address. If that doesn’t work then there’s some useful info on this website:


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[Memphis87]

there are conversations about being getting banned around in other threads, possibly the London one, or the seeking.com - Open Topic thread from memory. But from what i remember it's simply a case of setting up an account with a false name using a revolt card...that's actually what I did when I was signed on as a member, basically to remain anonymous (as married) and works a treat...
pm me for more details if you like

Does anyone know how this Revolut card works?

[Cunning Punt]

All Coventry, all a waste of time to some degree:

Bootilicious, 26
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She replies to my opener with a copy and paste message setting out her terms etc, including demanding a deposit before meets.


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Nice girl, average looking, quick replies but doesn't give or receive oral due to health risks.
So not really suited to SA or casual sex then. And if a guy only wanted a pump and dump then he could get one much cheaper than the total cost of allowance/hotel/refreshments/petrol and much nearer than a long return trip to Cov. 


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Not that primal. She's a sweet but clueless newbie who is platonic only. I give her 3 weeks on the site tops.

[cooltomtom]

cheers for the above info cunning punt, shame on the last one, right up my alley she would be!

[HoldMichaels]

cheers for the above info cunning punt, shame on the last one, right up my alley she would be!

She told me she was quite into kink and made a lot of kink content (after I commented on her wishlist, where she told me she had to choose something from each category - I call bullshit, but who knows!). I asked her if that meant she was just there to sell content and she stopped replying... Go figure.

[Cunning Punt]

She told me she was quite into kink and made a lot of kink content (after I commented on her wishlist, where she told me she had to choose something from each category - I call bullshit, but who knows!). I asked her if that meant she was just there to sell content and she stopped replying... Go figure.

It's always possible that a girl tells a guy she's platonic when she's not she just doesn't fancy him, and admittedly I'm fairly ugly. But she really did seem just a clueless newbie. Talking about kink is one thing; it doesn't mean she is going to physically indulge in kink with you.

A good looking guy may be able to persuade her into the sack, but I think she's just a timewaster.

[AndyJay]

Just a few profiles to be aware of - all of these are trying to get money up front before a meet through various scams!.

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Wants money up front for pictures or she wont meet!

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Wants money for a babysitter for her sister?!

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Gives false location details and wants money in advance to knock off a meet up!

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Asks for money in advance.

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Content seller only but suggests meet may be possible!.

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Wants money for a babysitter in advance! - Gets a bit arsey when called out!.

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Wants money for a babysitter so she can meet. Gives false location details and blocked me when I called her out with her correct details!!. She left the site after this and has only just returned. She is also on Secret Benefits.

[AndyJay]

Oh and this girl has an ad on Vivastreet.

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[stokecity]

RE SEEKING RE-SUBSCRIPTION.

So, in common with a lot of other, horrible, grasping, duplicitous bastard companies, I notice that it's not been made deliberately very confusing and difficult to cancel your subscription on Seeking.

Is it just me?

You can now only "pause" your re subscription.

As if you'd want to be endlesslyon the increasingly bollocks 'service' they provide!

I e had some fab times on there, but it's fairly poor now, is t it?

Well, we'll see - not impressed with the quality/prices in my latest subscription, but there we go.

Just a general complaint about those horrible US companies that will do absolutely anything to rinse their customers, workforce and suppliers to the absolute max; it seems that that's the whole and sole point of busiithese recent years.

Anyway, didn't it used to be easy to cancel the RE-SUBSCRIPTION?

Some cunt with an MBA has worked out that they can con even more profit if they just make things deliberately complicated and confusing to lock people in or tricky them to resubscribing.

Not only seeking, ofc - all businesses seem to have carte blanche to do whatever they like to con and trick people these days. It doesn't have to be like this, does it?

Not surprising, but there we go.

The Seeking 'search' function when searching messages is appalling as well, isnt it?

Taking the piss, but there we go.

Still, as I say, I've had some extremely nice times on there, but wondering if it's all coming to an end...maybe I'm just getting less sexy?!?!😝😭💋

[InMefan]

RE SEEKING RE-SUBSCRIPTION.

So, in common with a lot of other, horrible, grasping, duplicitous bastard companies, I notice that it's not been made deliberately very confusing and difficult to cancel your subscription on Seeking.

Is it just me?

You can now only "pause" your re subscription.

As if you'd want to be endlesslyon the increasingly bollocks 'service' they provide!

I e had some fab times on there, but it's fairly poor now, is t it?

Well, we'll see - not impressed with the quality/prices in my latest subscription, but there we go.

Just a general complaint about those horrible US companies that will do absolutely anything to rinse their customers, workforce and suppliers to the absolute max; it seems that that's the whole and sole point of busiithese recent years.

Anyway, didn't it used to be easy to cancel the RE-SUBSCRIPTION?

Some cunt with an MBA has worked out that they can con even more profit if they just make things deliberately complicated and confusing to lock people in or tricky them to resubscribing.

Not only seeking, ofc - all businesses seem to have carte blanche to do whatever they like to con and trick people these days. It doesn't have to be like this, does it?

Not surprising, but there we go.

The Seeking 'search' function when searching messages is appalling as well, isnt it?

Taking the piss, but there we go.

Still, as I say, I've had some extremely nice times on there, but wondering if it's all coming to an end...maybe I'm just getting less sexy?!?!😝😭💋

I had an incident where I paid for a months subscription late November, I cancelled it so I didn't get charged for December then randomly in January they charged me and gave me a premium membership despite me not ever wanting to purchase it! I contacted them asking to cancel it and refund me, I had no response. I managed to get the money back from my bank account and then Seeking suspended my account due to the fact it was their mess up!
I have tried to make a new account ever since but I've not been able too. I have heard of things like using Revolut but whenever I try and download it on Google playstore it doesn't seem to work.

[Cunning Punt]

RE SEEKING RE-SUBSCRIPTION.

So, in common with a lot of other, horrible, grasping, duplicitous bastard companies, I notice that it's not been made deliberately very confusing and difficult to cancel your subscription on Seeking.

Is it just me?

You can now only "pause" your re subscription.

It is confusing and it is duplicitous because the cancel option is blanked out but you definitely can cancel your subscription. Just go to the payment section, and click on the greyed out Cancel box then it asks if you're sure etc, again these buttons are greyed out. Make sure you keep pressing the correct buttons, not pause etc.

It does actually stop the further payments because I've done this several times now - and do it immediately after I sign up for a month's membership. On each occasion, it cancels only after the month rather than immediately, because my subscription is paid, and it has never charged me for a further month.

Admittedly, I've always done this via a laptop and not via the phone app, so if you're having problems with the app, I suggest you do this.

[bhampunt19]

Bit the bullet and signed up for a month (had an offer), pretty much cancelled my subscription straight away as I know how these types of sites try to get you (as discussed above).

Got to say I'm really enjoying it, the quality on there is unbelievable and had my first meet yesterday. I do have and live with my gf (as I'm sure most do on that site) but it's so good that nobody cares and the girls message you. Stay away from the obvious hotties (who will either be a scam or just want 600 quid a night) and go for the more attainable hotties and it's a goldmine. Deffo will sign up now and again when feeling it.

I would say if you're not online savvy then it's easy to be fooled on there, but feel like i've been around the block enough to know how to work it to avoid scams.

I am still working out how to price things though - anyone got any good central birmingham ones to hit up for a fairly cheapish hook up?

[Brumish]

Best to get your own numbers pal.gets messy if you do trades like panini stickers lol
If you're on the as premium then you shouldn't have a problem getting the 150s....then again depends on what your requirements are.
I'm a few hours guy so hardly get turned down on that price.likw you say Brum is a great place for this as it covers a decent range at half the London prices

[bhampunt19]

Best to get your own numbers pal.gets messy if you do trades like panini stickers lol
If you're on the as premium then you shouldn't have a problem getting the 150s....then again depends on what your requirements are.
I'm a few hours guy so hardly get turned down on that price.likw you say Brum is a great place for this as it covers a decent range at half the London prices

Haha yes that’s fair enough, didn’t mean to come across as a scrounge but if there were some ‘usuals’ on there that are known for it is all I meant.

Will see what else I can get before my month is up