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Offline Prifessionallondinguy

Nothing new here - guys have been saying that for sometime now!
That is new - or at least I haven’t heard that before- Ethnic discrimination perhaps?

Those were the exact words they used. In red letters!
Lucky I didn’t add no fatties!
« Last Edit: May 28, 2026, 08:56:11 am by Prifessionallondinguy »

Offline Lush1pot

I've had my fair share of luck with girls from seeking. Been going there from 2018 and have had some very good experience. But recently joined again to have another go but realised two things have changed massively - one you can't talk about PPM anymore on the site without being blocked. and two, prices are much higher. I used to find a decent looking sugar for 200-250 a couple of years ago and now, no one would even talk for less than 500!


My understanding is that plenty will meet for £350 to £400. I wonder if girls up north might be an option, if you get them to travel and cover the train then they might be more likely to accept less given the cost of living differences? Perhaps £250 to £300 plus cover travel would be enough for some?

Offline adiroy4k

This time around I wasn’t allowed to mention “ideally seeking an Asian student or young professional Asian lady” in my profile! What the Fuchs wrong with that? Had my profile declined.  Barstewards.

I know they have made the site so unfriendly, its so hard to find someone now a days... wasted my membership this time it seems! :(

Offline adiroy4k


My understanding is that plenty will meet for £350 to £400. I wonder if girls up north might be an option, if you get them to travel and cover the train then they might be more likely to accept less given the cost of living differences? Perhaps £250 to £300 plus cover travel would be enough for some?

I prefer day time meets and have a strict criteria so may be thats increasing the amount... prefer locals as its easier to plan that way.. Ive have 5 amazing arrangements to day and a few bang bang one offs so never been disappointed, until this time!

Online paul_tall_

I think she goes by the name Jade.
Exactly as you mentioned.  Seemed very keen anbd friendly initially, albeit cautious. Said she was very tempted by a travel fund arrangement. Asked to go to WA quite quickly.
Left her a voice message, short reply saying something about wanting to travel and taking things “naturally” so I’m guessing no immediate ppm hotel meets just a travel partner / funder with benefits eventually if ever!
Radio silence since. I guess if I offered stupid money but I’m not going to.

Had a few more positive hits, but alas they’re a bit too chunky for me.
A quick reverse search matches the image of her in front of the hotel door to an ig post , she also has a TikTok , whether she is currently in London not sure

Online PLeisure

A quick reverse search matches the image of her in front of the hotel door to an ig post , she also has a TikTok , whether she is currently in London not sure
When she adds the swimsuit pic, y'all be gagging  :crazy: :cool:

Offline southcoastpunter

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I know they have made the site so unfriendly, its so hard to find someone now a days.

They haven’t made it unfriendly as such - it’s simply that they don’t want guys like us! It’s not an “arrangement “ site any more - it’s an up market traditional dating site ( or at least they is what they are trying to make it- so “compensation dating” as they call it , is no longer acceptable to them!


Offline adiroy4k

They haven’t made it unfriendly as such - it’s simply that they don’t want guys like us! It’s not an “arrangement “ site any more - it’s an up market traditional dating site ( or at least they is what they are trying to make it- so “compensation dating” as they call it , is no longer acceptable to them!

call it whatever they want, we all know what it is... place to find girls who have not yet fully given into escorting...

Offline Heph


My understanding is that plenty will meet for £350 to £400. I wonder if girls up north might be an option, if you get them to travel and cover the train then they might be more likely to accept less given the cost of living differences? Perhaps £250 to £300 plus cover travel would be enough for some?

Until recently, I had such an arrangement, of three years duration. The answer is both yes - the money will go further for them, but also no - the additional travel & accommodation expense and time (at 4+ hours door-to-door each way versus perhaps an hour's travel in the capital), will, likelier than not, more than outweigh any saving you might hope to make on the arrangement fee. I was lucky enough that my SB was happy to host me overnights, which did save some of my bedding costs when visiting her, but bring her my way, or taking her off anywhere abroad, as one periodically must, entailed hauling her down to London for the flight, with all the extra accompanying botheration, contingency-planning and cost that demands.



« Last Edit: May 28, 2026, 02:25:12 pm by Heph »

Offline jakes

Seem to be plenty of opportunities on Seeking at the moment - seen 5 over the last few weeks (2 revisits and 3 new).

Here's some more intel for you all.  I'd consider seeing most of these ladies so if you have any info about them that'd be really welcome

Lauren 22 London
External Link/Members Only
Hotel meets, £300 for a couple of hours

Popai 19 London External Link/Members Only
£300 hotel meets

Bee 24 London  External Link/Members Only
£300 hotel meets

Celine 32-48 London
External Link/Members Only says 48 but apparently 32 - I'd guess somewhere in between
£300 intimate meet

Alicia 25 London
External Link/Members Only
£400 - £500 haven't quite nailed a price, for intimate meet

Kanini 24 London
External Link/Members Only
£300 hotel meet
« Last Edit: May 28, 2026, 10:52:30 pm by jakes »

Offline NightKid

Seem to be plenty of opportunities on Seeking at the moment - seen 5 over the last few weeks (2 revisits and 3 new).

Here's some more intel for you all.  I'd consider seeing most of these ladies so if you have any info about them that'd be really welcome

Lauren 22 London
External Link/Members Only
Hotel meets, £300 for a couple of hours

Popai 19 London External Link/Members Only
£300 hotel meets

Bee 24 London  External Link/Members Only
£300 hotel meets

Celine 32-48 London
External Link/Members Only says 48 but apparently 32 - I'd guess somewhere in between
£300 intimate meet

Alicia 25 London
External Link/Members Only
£400 - £500 haven't quite nailed a price, for intimate meet

Kanini 24 London
External Link/Members Only
£300 hotel meet

I'm confused, have you met any of them or are these just intel on quotes?

Either way, thanks though.
« Last Edit: May 29, 2026, 01:35:43 am by NightKid »

Offline jakes

I'm confused, have you met any of them or are these just intel on quotes?

Either way, thanks though.

Sorry could have been clearer - not met, these are all for info to and from this community.

Offline tazz

With lots of young people out of work youd think there would be lots more young women. Anyone notice more women not in work on the site.

Offline Mr Garmin

With lots of young people out of work youd think there would be lots more young women. Anyone notice more women not in work on the site.

The safety net is strong and tightly woven these days

Offline Punting2022


My understanding is that plenty will meet for £350 to £400. I wonder if girls up north might be an option, if you get them to travel and cover the train then they might be more likely to accept less given the cost of living differences? Perhaps £250 to £300 plus cover travel would be enough for some?

I've tried to search up north to find a cheaper lady. No Such thing. In fact in the UK, it is a rip off, 400 per meet even average lookers want a premium.
A lot of picture sellers, also platonic dates. The whole marketing of premium dating now, few girls say this is a dating site to me, then like we date and develop intimacy.

If your single or flexible with time, i recommend searching in Spain, Madrid/Alicante. So much value. Girls see you for 350 to 400 euros overnights as well. Food and drink is cheap there too. So the date wont cost you as much. Book in advance you get a flight for 60 quid. Some rip off train services in UK you cant even get that. Plus nice weather. 

London is not as good as it used to be

Offline londonhunter008

They haven’t made it unfriendly as such - it’s simply that they don’t want guys like us! It’s not an “arrangement “ site any more - it’s an up market traditional dating site ( or at least they is what they are trying to make it- so “compensation dating” as they call it , is no longer acceptable to them!

Agree with you. I have used it over 10 years now and had amazing experiences. I am very careful about not sending any message which may violate current policies but I still keep getting warning message and threat of suspending the account. Its fee has also increased a lot over time. Will have to consider other arrangement sites. Most of the girls on Seeking also have profile on other site also.

Offline NightKid

External Link/Members Only - Tee

Anyone got tea on her? Must've favourited me a dozen times now & have exchanged pleasantries once before but she's never bothered beyond that.

Offline tazz

Red from seeking

External Link/Members Only

I’ve met Red alone and with some of her bi friends on seeking. I’ve also taken her to sex parties.

Red is perfect.  A smart, tall, beautiful woman.  In the bedroom she can move from submissive to Domme depending on your mood. Great blow jobs, great kissing, all positions enthusiastically received. As you can tell,I am a fan.

I’ve seen some adverse comments on Red saying that she sees too many men. My experience of any girl on seeking for more than a few months is that they see multiple men.

Did you have to pay her friends?

Offline john122350

Latest Findings in London from my last subscription.

Aysha External Link/Members Only Looks cute platonic only
Aktar External Link/Members Only Has Trans friendly. QUESTIONED if she was said not then she blocked.
Roma - External Link/Members Only Wants Monthly. Wont have sex straight away has to be built. In other words will never happen, Your committing 2k a month to her too.

Mandi - talks the game wants fun. But when come to arrange ignoed. Wanted her Whatsapp tg so could discuss allowance. Ignored External Link/Members Only
Riya External Link/Members Only 500 per meet. sex on cards.
TIA External Link/Members Only WANTS 800 per meet few hours.
Apsara- External Link/Members Only 2k a meet. few hours. bad attitude when dont agree
Mayaa External Link/Members Only wants 700 per meet. Not that attractive for it

Tyana External Link/Members Only Ghosted on whatsapp
Serena External Link/Members Only attractive, 400 per meet. But then demands other things. Wanted me to also give allowance for her holiday she went on week after we meant to meet. Also wanted money to buy lingerie. I said ill buy what you want and bring to meet.

Navi External Link/Members Only 300 per meet few hours. but went quite

External Link/Members Only Zahra Wants 800 per meet. Found her on insta pics are like 4 years old

Jasmine External Link/Members Only ghoster

Safa- External Link/Members Only 400 per meet. But says sex has to be natural and a connection. I was like yes develop it over dinner etc. She agreed. then said don't always expect o a meet. Meets would be if we feel the intimacy we will have fun. In other words an excuse all time not to do it.

Alara External Link/Members Only Ghoster
Layla - Ghoster External Link/Members Only
Amara External Link/Members Only 800 per meet few hours.

Nia- External Link/Members Only 400 Per meet. But doesnt want to go out. For me need a outing too,.
Lina External Link/Members Only 350 per meet. But looked a bit chubby in pics etc. so left it
Sal External Link/Members Only ghoster

Yasmine External Link/Members Only 300 per meet. Went quite
Angel External Link/Members Only Looking for monthly build sex up not straight away.

Saffie- External Link/Members Only Bit of a mad one. Talks the game and flirty on chats. Had a date planned. Goes quite then comes back a few weeks after. 500 per meet. Book a day use with this one. Likely to loose hotel money and have a backup.
Serena 24,  appears to be a scammer. She told me she could host and even provided an address. However, when I arrived, she demanded payment before allowing me into the flat.

I was not comfortable paying before seeing her, so I declined and left. Just sharing my experience so others can be cautious.


Offline NightKid

External Link/Members Only - Justine, 24 (High Wycombe)

Seems to have reprofiled quite quickly as well after some recent negative mentions so tagging w pics

Removed.

New profile of this scammer.

External Link/Members Only - Sophie

Offline Punting2022

Serena 24,  appears to be a scammer. She told me she could host and even provided an address. However, when I arrived, she demanded payment before allowing me into the flat.

I was not comfortable paying before seeing her, so I declined and left. Just sharing my experience so others can be cautious.

Serena yes does seem to want cash sent before. When I was chatting, she was like send me cash ill get some sexy lingerie. I told her ill just buy it you and give in person.
But she wanted 400 per meet. But also said her last arrangements also paid for other expenses. At the time she was going holiday, so wanted a holiday allowance. Worded it like he looked after me, ill be exclusive to you etc.

Offline Jardent6

New profile of this scammer.

External Link/Members Only - Sophie

Yeah she reprofiles quite a lot and that in itself is a red flag . But my experience is she is a stinky pussy scammer

Offline Punting2022

Martini - External Link/Members Only
I have just remembered this one, I seen her last year. We agreed 400 ppm.
Met for drinks first, Nice vibes and attractive. Pics a bit filtered. Irish girl lives in a boat.

But very pro like. Good banter on Drinks, went to the room, this is where it is rubbish.
So she said before the meet, that only limited to 2 times sex. Says she's not a machine. No RO on her due to maybe catching something, But will happily do OWO which she can catch something anyway.
Kissing was there, but she put her hands on my face to prevent any decent kissing and going deep with tongues etc. Way to control, push away etc. Her blowjob was good.

Seems she was more into longer social meets and sex limited to two rounds and an hour or a bit more. After the 2nd round started to pack up and not relax. Wouldn't see again. Didn't even let me rub against her either.  She knows about the escort industry, we was chatting and she knw about deposits or id to book. so may be one of those high class ones

Offline finn5555

External Link/Members Only

Anna - 26

From Ukraine, met twice but now moved on. Open minded in bed but limited English.
£250 per meet no time limit.

Online paul_tall_

Yeah she reprofiles quite a lot and that in itself is a red flag . But my experience is she is a stinky pussy scammer
Her profile was indicating she was currently in Portugal , looks like she has turned that off as it’s disappeared now when I look

Online bigden40

Martini - External Link/Members Only
I have just remembered this one, I seen her last year. We agreed 400 ppm.
Met for drinks first, Nice vibes and attractive. Pics a bit filtered. Irish girl lives in a boat.

But very pro like. Good banter on Drinks, went to the room, this is where it is rubbish.
So she said before the meet, that only limited to 2 times sex. Says she's not a machine. No RO on her due to maybe catching something, But will happily do OWO which she can catch something anyway.
Kissing was there, but she put her hands on my face to prevent any decent kissing and going deep with tongues etc. Way to control, push away etc. Her blowjob was good.

Seems she was more into longer social meets and sex limited to two rounds and an hour or a bit more. After the 2nd round started to pack up and not relax. Wouldn't see again. Didn't even let me rub against her either.  She knows about the escort industry, we was chatting and she knw about deposits or id to book. so may be one of those high class ones

Martini.  Anytime, anyplace, anywhere.

Offline Punting2022

Natty - External Link/Members Only Picture seller. Chatted to her last year and she went India. Then got stuck in India and has been there ever since. Just selling pictures.

Sanem - External Link/Members Only Looks like just wants a online thing. Says boob job and relationship.
When i mentioned meeting she ghosted. So looks like wants that funded online
« Last Edit: June 02, 2026, 11:16:23 am by Punting2022 »

Offline londonhunter008

External Link/Members Only

Anna - 26

From Ukraine, met twice but now moved on. Open minded in bed but limited English.
£250 per meet no time limit.

She works as a massage(with Extra) girl near Enfield. I met her. Decent girl. Willing to please.

Online paul_tall_


Sanem - External Link/Members Only Looks like just wants a online thing. Says boob job and relationship.
When i mentioned meeting she ghosted. So looks like wants that funded online
If anything she is looking for a relationship with a single guy that hasn’t got kids but
Open to having them with her and fund her lifestyle and boob job .
Not sure what on her profile suggested she would be open to the types of meet you are looking for

Offline john122350

If anything she is looking for a relationship with a single guy that hasn’t got kids but
Open to having them with her and fund her lifestyle and boob job .
Not sure what on her profile suggested she would be open to the types of meet you are looking for
I spoke with Sanem last year, she quoted me 700 ppm so didn't pursue

Offline Punting2022

If anything she is looking for a relationship with a single guy that hasn’t got kids but
Open to having them with her and fund her lifestyle and boob job .
Not sure what on her profile suggested she would be open to the types of meet you are looking for

well on message she said, she will go to a consultation. Once they confirm, SHe gives my payment details to them for the boob job. Just for reference how much are boob jobs

Offline Punting2022


Online paul_tall_

I spoke with Sanem last year, she quoted me 700 ppm so didn't pursue
Guess a different profile then as this one was created in Feb 26

Her looking for is currently this
"
I’ve got my heart set on a boob job and I need someone who’s on board with that completely.
I’m marriage minded. I’m young but it’s what I’ve wanted since I was even younger, to have at least 2 kids in a loving family. So I’m not looking for fun or short lived endeavours. I also am not interested in men with pre existing children. Sounds harsh but if I’m putting my man first above all else I will expect the same but I know that can’t be done with pre existing kids. I’ll always come second to them which I can’t accept.
"

And her about me has
"
...
Firstly please do not request to view my pictures when our profiles clearly don’t align. If you have open relationship or NSA in your profile I’m not interested in the slightest.
....
Please read my profile before messaging me as I’m not looking for a quick meet. I know what I want and won’t stray from it
"

Offline londonhunter008

Priya 38
External Link/Members Only
Anyone met her? She is on and off and had profile earlier also

Offline john122350

Guess a different profile then as this one was created in Feb 26

Her looking for is currently this
"
I’ve got my heart set on a boob job and I need someone who’s on board with that completely.
I’m marriage minded. I’m young but it’s what I’ve wanted since I was even younger, to have at least 2 kids in a loving family. So I’m not looking for fun or short lived endeavours. I also am not interested in men with pre existing children. Sounds harsh but if I’m putting my man first above all else I will expect the same but I know that can’t be done with pre existing kids. I’ll always come second to them which I can’t accept.
"

And her about me has
"
...
Firstly please do not request to view my pictures when our profiles clearly don’t align. If you have open relationship or NSA in your profile I’m not interested in the slightest.
....
Please read my profile before messaging me as I’m not looking for a quick meet. I know what I want and won’t stray from it
"
yes this is her new profile with this whole boob job thing and other requirements. I think she deleted her previous one