You've found very little difference between Seeking when married Vs punting whilst single... but that was during the period when you weren't married and Seeking wasn't on the menu for you.
We've already established that no survey of this sphere could be considered reliable* due to the social costs of participation in whoring and Seeking, and the self-selecting nature of people who participate in surveys.
So, what is the "
zero basis" I've got for claiming that most married men
will find Seeking a more difficult prospect to successfully pull-off vs a singleton or regular punting, respectively? Well, since it was first mentioned here, of the four or so people who've chipped-in, excluding me, two others say that it doesn't prevent them indulging, but do go on to acknowledge that it IS more difficult. 3:1 is emphatically not a zero basis.
And you, as an experienced punter and member, will recall reading many dozens if not hundreds of instances of why people use punting phones - (not just to protect themselves against nutty sex-workers) perhaps most commonly, to shield themselves against prying and discovery by significant partners, where for marrieds the consequences are most damaging and serious. Most of us on Seeking spend more time devoted to its pursuit per shag than we do punting, and it generally leaves a greater trail for us to be caught by.
But this was predictable. We all know that a liar
has to remember much more. And single people, or those with less time-intensive pursuits have to lie much less, if at all. But a dedicated Seeker will also
most likely have to have ring-fenced social circles; finances and accounts; a choice of plausible and flexible alibis; friends, acquaintances & partners who are all simultaneously trusting, unobservant, incurious and unsuspicious. And despite having a partner, they'll also need to have just more... time. Setting up a punt? Often it's just a matter of 1/2 dozen texts or fewer to D-Day. Making an introduction of Seeking?... much more involved.
You may indeed be one of the vanishingly few that is blessed with all of those circumstances permanently, or you may just be enjoying a period of temporarily and blind luck - or else merely be fooling yourself.
All the above is readily, logically inferable; but it is also manifestly attested to on these pages, every * single * day. Tens of thousands of instances and more in all. Those who give few fucks for consequences are often single, and or else notable by their rarity. Those who, despite being married, have cavalier disregard and are gleeful at the sheer ease of it all, are, well... so far I've only seen you who claims it is a breeze, and as we see above, your comparatives and not truly comparable. But
to you anyway, and long may your good fortune continue. For the rest of us, is will continue to pose more of challenges than mere brassing, but we shall not be deterred.
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