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[cim_lover]

I can only imagine she must be talking to hundreds of people for comms to be that slow
you would think if there was money on the table they would respond ASAP.

I am guessing she is gonna be quite expensive.

Yeh i do reckon she's talking to hundreds. Il let you know how I get on if it ever gets there

[samsmith_1231]

Started to talk to her few days back. Very slow to respond, like urself still not got to payment

Ah. She put me on favourites. Never sent her a message

[ddboy4u]

There's a comment about that on the closed thread

What are closed threads? Invite only?

+1 Sorry NK, I am unable to pm you, would you kindly be able to pm me on the criteria to qualify for this or elaborate please?

[S2407]

Yeh i do reckon she's talking to hundreds. Il let you know how I get on if it ever gets there

She randomly texted shes looking for ppm intimacy included.
If I get anywhere with her I'll let you know

[southcoastpunter]

+1 Sorry NK, I am unable to pm you, would you kindly be able to pm me on the criteria to qualify for this or elaborate please?

The closed thread is exactly what it says ie "closed". It is not open to ANY new members.

It is something that goes back a few years - you had to provide proof of SA membership and that was time consuming to the Admin so it was stopped and made a "closed thread" a couple of years ago. From what some others say (i don't have access either) I don't think its very active nowdays - most conversation about SA takes place here.

[massagepuntingfan]

The closed thread is exactly what it says ie "closed". It is not open to ANY new members.

It is something that goes back a few years - you had to provide proof of SA membership and that was time consuming to the Admin so it was stopped and made a "closed thread" a couple of years ago. From what some others say (i don't have access either) I don't think its very active nowdays - most conversation about SA takes place here.

Yes I remember the old admin closing it around the time I became active on SA. This thread and the open thread are two fantastic sources of information.

[bash_eer]

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This SB started a conversation with me and when I asked if wanted to chat on Whatsapp  she wanted payment for her number that's a new for me.

[samsmith_1231]

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This SB started a conversation with me and when I asked if wanted to chat on Whatsapp  she wanted payment for her number that's a new for me.

Lol

[Snax]

Im finding a new trend. After we exchange numbers the SB's profiles are suddenly deactivated (I'm guessing they block me). Why is this? I haven't even used their numbers yet and on SA they're gone...

[southcoastpunter]

I think that the message you get at the bottom of your messages with an individual lady gives a clue to what has happened. if it says :

- The user's account has been deactivated - that means she has deactived her account which some girls do for a while then come back on later.

- Unable to send a message as user is no longer active. - that means she has blocked you!

That of course is on your SA account. Pretty sure this is accurate, if anyone can confirm or correct!

WA is different and she can of course block you there as well if she wants to.

[Snax]

Ah thanks, you're right.

I got this message at the bottom:
- The user's account has been deactivated -

And SB whatsapped me a while ago and said she had deactivated due to 'creepy old men' lol.

[Lfc4life]

This has happened to me before and I too got the 'creepy men' line and often 'I only want one arrangement' even though nothing was finalised. The conclusion I came to was the SB didn't want me to know she was still on the site.

Im finding a new trend. After we exchange numbers the SB's profiles are suddenly deactivated (I'm guessing they block me). Why is this? I haven't even used their numbers yet and on SA they're gone...

[puntingpumping1920]

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[pa5151]

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Multiple location dubai, just in case she finds someone to whisk her away and do whatever they do to them in dubai. 

[DeanoDeano]

Im finding a new trend. After we exchange numbers the SB's profiles are suddenly deactivated (I'm guessing they block me). Why is this? I haven't even used their numbers yet and on SA they're gone...

I don’t think this is new tbh.

Some will block you for what they consider “safety / privacy”
Some don’t want you to be able to see how often they’re online.
Some will actually deactivate their accounts when they’ve got enough guys on the hook.
And some get blocked or banned.

[kuck]

I don’t think this is new tbh.

Some will block you for what they consider “safety / privacy”
Some don’t want you to be able to see how often they’re online.
Some will actually deactivate their accounts when they’ve got enough guys on the hook.
And some get blocked or banned.

Yea, I noticed some block as soon as they add you on WhatsApp.

[samsmith_1231]

I don’t think this is new tbh.

Some will block you for what they consider “safety / privacy”
Some don’t want you to be able to see how often they’re online.
Some will actually deactivate their accounts when they’ve got enough guys on the hook.
And some get blocked or banned.

Well I just got blocked for telling someone they have a hot body 

[samsmith_1231]

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She has stopped escorting!

[Prifessionallondinguy]

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The pursuit of love
32 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
The city of the sky

I reported this one under the Trade Descriptions Act 1968
32 years old my ass 

[bigden40]

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The pursuit of love
32 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
The city of the sky

I reported this one under the Trade Descriptions Act 1968
32 years old my ass 

Lol.

Reminds me of my very first SA meet about 5 years go.  She claimed to be a “30 year old ex model”, after I'd met her it was a case of, I'm sure you were …… 20 years ago.  Later found she was old enough to have modelled for Tennants Lager cans, for those of us that remember those. 

[bash_eer]

Im finding a new trend. After we exchange numbers the SB's profiles are suddenly deactivated (I'm guessing they block me). Why is this? I haven't even used their numbers yet and on SA they're gone...

Not new was happening when i first joined SA in 2019 not many of them do it just a handful. Same thing I seen girls doing on Tinder.

They just want hide when they online I think as they will ignore messages on WA for days yet be online on SA.

[heathen666]

I think that the message you get at the bottom of your messages with an individual lady gives a clue to what has happened. if it says :

- The user's account has been deactivated - that means she has deactived her account which some girls do for a while then come back on later.

- Unable to send a message as user is no longer active. - that means she has blocked you!

That of course is on your SA account. Pretty sure this is accurate, if anyone can confirm or correct!

WA is different and she can of course block you there as well if she wants to.

To break this down a little further

Unable to send a message as user is no longer active and you can still see their username / online status. - that means she has blocked you!

The user's account has been deactivated, her username has changed to "Attractive member", you can still see her location and / or age- that means she has deactived

The user's account has been deactivated, her username has changed to "Attractive member", no location or age - that means she has deleted her account

[bash_eer]

To break this down a little further

Unable to send a message as user is no longer active and you can still see their username / online status. - that means she has blocked you!

The user's account has been deactivated, her username has changed to "Attractive member", you can still see her location and / or age- that means she has deactived

The user's account has been deactivated, her username has changed to "Attractive member", no location or age - that means she has deleted her account

  thanks for that clarification I had noticed the subtle differences and worked it out to some extent like when you see the green light next to a member who as blocked you

[HomerC]

To break this down a little further

Unable to send a message as user is no longer active and you can still see their username / online status. - that means she has blocked you!

The user's account has been deactivated, her username has changed to "Attractive member", you can still see her location and / or age- that means she has deactived

The user's account has been deactivated, her username has changed to "Attractive member", no location or age - that means she has deleted her account

Well deduced!

The biggest "tell" is when you can see a green dot next to their name.

Of course this is on mobile. (E.g. the Android Seeking app, which will soon be removed from Google Play, so download it now while you can.)

On desktop, it's the same generic / boilerplate message...

oh wait, hang on, this is the messages view (on both desktop and mobile), and what you see before you click on their profile 

[Steve2]

Nice sense of humour but a bit too chunky for me

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[massagepuntingfan]

Has anyone met babyphi123?

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She's keen to meet, any intel would be useful.

[alwaysamazing]

Nice sense of humour but a bit too chunky for me

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She's been on seeking for long time, might be 3-4 id. Had chat with her before covid. I just rejoined forum and activated my profile after long break. Seems like things have changed significantly.

[alwaysamazing]

Old timer and serial SB - External Link/Members Only - Avoid

[cim_lover]

Old timer and serial SB - External Link/Members Only - Avoid

The link takes you to the message inbox and not the profile.

[50shades1]

Apologies if I'm spamming the thread with questions, but hopefully a helpful discussion point for newbies like myself:

I've arranged a daytime meet next week. Planning on taking the advice given to me here and booking with DayUse.com in case she flakes last minute.

Just wondering what's the best approach when checking in? I want to wait until the girl literally arrives on site of the hotel just to be sure. However I'm presuming the hotel will be asking for my real name & ID when checking in, maybe even her ID too. I'm not too keen on her knowing my last name - again being extra careful. A Google search of my full name would throw up info from Companies House, socials, etc.

Best to meet her outside and tell her to wait there or something whilst I check in? Any feedback or experience with this is greatly appreciated.

[ParkingArea]

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Seems fairly experienced, and direct.

[Lfc4life]

I have previously met the SB outside of the hotel and asked her to wait at the bar/lobby (most receptions have a reasonably sized lobby areas) as I check in without any issues. They generally get the drill when asked to wait out of the way. I have also prechecked in before the SB arrives; this is obviously a bit more risky incase of flakiness but you can get a good sense of this in the comms leading up to the meet. The pre-check in is much more comfortable as you can get adequately comfortable/freshen up/chill before the main event.

One thing to note, some hotels display your name 'Welcome Mr. X' on the info page when you switch on the TV; which can be quite a nuisance if like me you like to have the radio (via the TV) on in the background. Easily missed, but also easily passed as wait for the SB to go to the bathroom to freshen up etc and quickly get past that info screen! 

Apologies if I'm spamming the thread with questions, but hopefully a helpful discussion point for newbies like myself:

I've arranged a daytime meet next week. Planning on taking the advice given to me here and booking with DayUse.com in case she flakes last minute.

Just wondering what's the best approach when checking in? I want to wait until the girl literally arrives on site of the hotel just to be sure. However I'm presuming the hotel will be asking for my real name & ID when checking in, maybe even her ID too. I'm not too keen on her knowing my last name - again being extra careful. A Google search of my full name would throw up info from Companies House, socials, etc.

Best to meet her outside and tell her to wait there or something whilst I check in? Any feedback or experience with this is greatly appreciated.

[50shades1]

I have previously met the SB outside of the hotel and asked her to wait at the bar/lobby (most receptions have a reasonably sized lobby areas) as I check in without any issues. They generally get the drill when asked to wait out of the way. I have also prechecked in before the SB arrives; this is obviously a bit more risky incase of flakiness but you can get a good sense of this in the comms leading up to the meet. The pre-check in is much more comfortable as you can get adequately comfortable/freshen up/chill before the main event.

One thing to note, some hotels display your name 'Welcome Mr. X' on the info page when you switch on the TV; which can be quite a nuisance if like me you like to have the radio (via the TV) on in the background. Easily missed, but also easily passed as wait for the SB to go to the bathroom to freshen up etc and quickly get past that info screen! 

Thanks pal. Appreciate it.

Yeah gauging the comms leading up is the reason I'm hesitantly waiting until she shows up - simple 'OK's & 'sounds good to me', had an open schedule any day/time for meet even when I had to re-schedule, etc. Otherwise I'd be booking ahead & setting myself up which is 100x more convenient.

Would be more so pissed at the inconvenience & blue balls rather than the lost money on the hotel.

[luv2kiss54]

Has anyone met babyphi123?

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She's keen to meet, any intel would be useful.

I just dont get girls who put photos up with their tongue out or pulling faces  :

[luv2kiss54]

I have previously met the SB outside of the hotel and asked her to wait at the bar/lobby (most receptions have a reasonably sized lobby areas) as I check in without any issues. They generally get the drill when asked to wait out of the way. I have also prechecked in before the SB arrives; this is obviously a bit more risky incase of flakiness but you can get a good sense of this in the comms leading up to the meet. The pre-check in is much more comfortable as you can get adequately comfortable/freshen up/chill before the main event.

One thing to note, some hotels display your name 'Welcome Mr. X' on the info page when you switch on the TV; which can be quite a nuisance if like me you like to have the radio (via the TV) on in the background. Easily missed, but also easily passed as wait for the SB to go to the bathroom to freshen up etc and quickly get past that info screen! 

Can you book using a false name and then pay by cash ?

[massagepuntingfan]

I just dont get girls who put photos up with their tongue out or pulling faces  :

So you haven't met her?

[50shades1]

Can you book using a false name and then pay by cash ?

From dayuse.com site:

"ID requirements
Most of the hotels on the dayuse.com platform will require Identification upon check-in for you and your guest. This follows the country's specific internal regulations.
For your information, it is mandatory to be over 18 years old to book a dayuse room. The hotel reception may ask for a valid ID in case of doubt concerning the age of you and your guest."

[luv2kiss54]

So you haven't met her?

No sorry just making a general point as one of her photos she has tongue sticking out as quite a few girls do. Does nothing for me in fact puts me off.

[luv2kiss54]

From dayuse.com site:

"ID requirements
Most of the hotels on the dayuse.com platform will require Identification upon check-in for you and your guest. This follows the country's specific internal regulations.
For your information, it is mandatory to be over 18 years old to book a dayuse room. The hotel reception may ask for a valid ID in case of doubt concerning the age of you and your guest."

Thanks; oh it would be lovely to be challenged for looking too young ! Does it put the sugar babes off ie having to reveal their real ID ?

[wilkinc]

Any experiences with this SB? External Link/Members Only

Seems fairly experienced, and direct.

I almost set up a meet with her and a friend some time ago. I had to cancel, and she turned really nasty. I'd avoid her like the plague, but I didn't meet her in person of course.

[Lfc4life]

Can you book using a false name and then pay by cash ?

The false name usually works with the larger branded hotels; the smaller independent hotels always ask for ID.

Paying by cash isnt an issue, but most hotels will require a card to cover for incidentals/damage protection

[DeanoDeano]

Any experiences with this SB? External Link/Members Only

Seems fairly experienced, and direct.

She’s had literally hundreds of profiles and I’ve got a feeling is a thief or a scammer.

[bigden40]

I frequently use the Hilton.  Check in with the app and get a digital key.  No need to fuck around with reception at all.

[ParkingArea]

I almost set up a meet with her and a friend some time ago. I had to cancel, and she turned really nasty. I'd avoid her like the plague, but I didn't meet her in person of course.

Thanks - she also mentioned having "a friend", or indeed "several friends" - felt rather scripted.  I was non-committal, and said her PPM (300) was too high.  She countered with 250 and asked when I was available, and I've not responded yet.

[massagepuntingfan]

Has anyone met babyphi123?

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She's keen to meet, any intel would be useful.

Potentially meeting her tomorrow, any info would be very useful - seemed fine on video call.

[bash_eer]

Apologies if I'm spamming the thread with questions, but hopefully a helpful discussion point for newbies like myself:

I've arranged a daytime meet next week. Planning on taking the advice given to me here and booking with DayUse.com in case she flakes last minute.

Just wondering what's the best approach when checking in? I want to wait until the girl literally arrives on site of the hotel just to be sure. However I'm presuming the hotel will be asking for my real name & ID when checking in, maybe even her ID too. I'm not too keen on her knowing my last name - again being extra careful. A Google search of my full name would throw up info from Companies House, socials, etc.

Best to meet her outside and tell her to wait there or something whilst I check in? Any feedback or experience with this is greatly appreciated.

Not all ask for ID i been using Crown Plaza through Day use and no ID was asked for. They just want payment by card.

I normally ask the SB to let me know know they are on their way. I kind of make it clear to them to let me know they not coming couple of hours before the meet. When they confirm they are on the way i usually check in but tend to wait outside somewhere its saved me a few times.

Today i was parked up not far from the hotel  and cancelled the booking as I didnt get any reply back from my messages and it was was an hour before our agreed meet time.

[50shades1]

Not all ask for ID i been using Crown Plaza through Day use and no ID was asked for. They just want payment by card.

I normally ask the SB to let me know know they are on their way. I kind of make it clear to them to let me know they not coming couple of hours before the meet. When they confirm they are on the way i usually check in but tend to wait outside somewhere its saved me a few times.

Today i was parked up not far from the hotel  and cancelled the booking as I didnt get any reply back from my messages and it was was an hour before our agreed meet time.

So do you just give them a fake name? They don't keep the card at reception and/or check the name on card differs from name given etc?

[bash_eer]

So do you just give them a fake name? They don't keep the card at reception and/or check the name on card differs from name given etc?

I use my real name bit hard to use a fake one when using a credit card. No they don't keep the card. I have always checked in before the SB arrives but only when I am certain she is coming. Ask her to confirm at least two hours before and if she don't let you know that she is on her way hour before the time you are due to meet then cancel the booking. Genuine ones are better with comms on the day of the meet and
i have found keep you updated.

[alwaysamazing]

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I just posted about her literally 2 posts ago. She and her friend are professional SB last time asking around 180-200.

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[ParkingArea]

I just posted about her literally 2 posts ago. She and her friend are professional SB last time asking around 180-200.

Was a link to the message, so couldn't view, and didn't match my search.  Thanks for the info, though.