I always make sure the cash is visible in the room, so on the table for instance but never hand it over until the end.
Why? makes no sense either give it to her or wait until the end. Unless your showing off ....
Right, it makes no sense showing the cash. Wrong, it's not either/or - it's pay at the end. Golden rule - NEVER PAY UPFRONT.
Always pay at the end after sex. Say it's your policy and if she has any sort of problem with that, walk.
The usual - cold feet, money upfront, going through or nicking stuff, crying foul, etc ... there's all sorts of shit they can pull when they're alone with you so use your imagination.
Exactly.
If a girl seems money orientated, i spell it out during initial messages that I provide the cash discreetly at the end; it's my policy.
Usually, they don't question this. If they do, then I don't say upfront that it's to guard against girls nicking cash off me - you're suggesting she may be a thief and it appears double standards because you could be out to swindle her. My line, if questioned, is that paying upfront makes the experience transactional. It's what prossies do but you shouldn't need to spell this out, as most girls will realise exactly what you mean.
This then really only leaves a small number of girls who are still reluctant to accept payment at the end and most will agree if you stand firm. But if they're still adamant or doubtful, then just bin them and move on.
But, again, it saves a lot of time if you do this during texts rather than leaving it till the day of the intimate meet when you may have already booked a hotel.
