Seeking.com (London)

[Trenlover]

Almost all of the profiles I view have signed up within last few days , young profiles are huge red flags for bots, scammers, fakes, flakes etc.

it seems even with the 33% discount its not worth signing up 

[mrflash]

I make it pretty clear something like Naughtiness if we have chemistry and let them know £30 or £40  if there is no chemistry & full amount if we make it to the hotel. I Always leave the money  at the hotel too 

Not sure why you even have to pay 30 or 40 if no chemistry, unless the girl is travelling far to meet you.
I usually have M&G separate from the hotel meet. I travel to a place closer to the girl to meet in a restaurant or coffee shop. If things go well, I do a paid meet on a later date within a week to show her I am really interested.

[Trenlover]

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I’d actually met her before but this time  she got me to pay up front then went to get ‘drinks’ but actually bounced. Literally can’t trust any of these girls. Lesson learned - never pay up front.

I think I spoke to this girl last year, looked really hot from photo's ....  what is she like irl?

she wanted 500 , managed to negotiate her down to 350 which still was too much so I didnt partake.

[HomerC]

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I’d actually met her before but this time  she got me to pay up front then went to get ‘drinks’ but actually bounced. Literally can’t trust any of these girls. Lesson learned - never pay up front.

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She could crush me with that bottom (assuming it's real and not photoshop)

But yeah, if she does a runner with the money then she's a thief. Sorry about that, bro.

[Rock4ages]

Not sure why you even have to pay 30 or 40 if no chemistry, unless the girl is travelling far to meet you.
I usually have M&G separate from the hotel meet. I travel to a place closer to the girl to meet in a restaurant or coffee shop. If things go well, I do a paid meet on a later date within a week to show her I am really interested.

I have never had to pay out 30 or 40 . I do a M&G away from the hotel too . Its my way of weeding out the time wasters but being upfront and seeing reactions 

[mrflash]

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This girl has been definitely discussed about before on this thread.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

This girl has been definitely discussed about before on this thread.

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[mrflash]

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Thanks! Surprised that she still has the same profile after robbing people. I expected her to deactivate the profile herself or taken down after complaints.

[pa5151]

Charges guys to have drinks with her at £300

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Another drinks only girl at £250:

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Neither are in good shape yet there are simps out there who are actually paying that to have drinks with someone.

[TV1089]

Charges guys to have drinks with her at £300

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Another drinks only girl at £250:

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Neither are in good shape yet there are simps out there who are actually paying that to have drinks with someone.

Tbf the only reason (most) girls that are looking for M&G (drinks) on SA is because of the money. So you can’t really blame them.
if they wanted to have drinks they could have gone with their friends or gone on  a date with someone from tinder/hinge or something that are close to their own age.

They’re only on SA for the money. Maybe if there was a hotel booking after the drinks then I can see why you don’t want to charge for the time for having drinks but other than that they will ask for money and that’s fine imo. I personally wouldn’t see girls just for drinks but some guys do only want that.

[pa5151]

if they wanted to have drinks they could have gone with their friends or gone on  a date with someone from tinder/hinge or something that are close to their own age.

I can say that about myself as well if I wanted to go for drinks I'd go with people I know rather a random girl off the internet 

But yeah can't really blame them leeching off desperate men.

[tazz]

Almost all of the profiles I view have signed up within last few days , young profiles are huge red flags for bots, scammers, fakes, flakes etc.

it seems even with the 33% discount its not worth signing up 

Doesnt mean their mainly scammers, women get tons of messages so hardly hard to get a SD.

[maakriman]

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She came to my hotek room today, but I chickened out. Somehow shev doesn't seem worth gor the money I offered, hence made an excuse. She id like in photos, but not as attractive I had thought. Happy to share number.

[Froomey]

Disagree. Think you've a romanticized view of the site.

Think you have little idea what you are talking about! I've been using the site for over 6 years and never yet had a scam attempted. But then I do a lot of due diligence. As in other fields, ultimately only the stupid or lazy get scammed.

[Trenlover]

Doesnt mean their mainly scammers, women get tons of messages so hardly hard to get a SD.

new profiles are more likely to be scammers because their accounts dont last long and have to keep making new ones.

genuine girls wont have their accounts constantly churned and on balance of probability , she is likely to have joined sometime in last few months rather than just last few days.

is that difficult to see?

[Cunning Punt]

Not sure why you even have to pay 30 or 40 if no chemistry, unless the girl is travelling far to meet you.
I usually have M&G separate from the hotel meet. I travel to a place closer to the girl to meet in a restaurant or coffee shop. If things go well, I do a paid meet on a later date within a week to show her I am really interested.

Spot on, absolutely my usual MO. If M&G near the girl then no need to pay her anything and she is more likely to turn up, and then if there's chemistry there a good chance she'll turn up for the hotel meet. Like you, this is no more than a week later. Some guys will have a M&G and book the hotel there and then, though that could end up being drawnout. I   like time to check out the hotels and book, arrive early on the day, get checked in, get ready etc at my leisure.

[Link7]

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I’d actually met her before but this time  she got me to pay up front then went to get ‘drinks’ but actually bounced. Literally can’t trust any of these girls. Lesson learned - never pay up front.

Cheers lads. I remember who that is. Kind of Latina looking brunette with the fake bum. If i remember rightly, gives her WhatsApp out in record time (maybe first message) but also demands pictures of you. Her attitude absolutely fucking stank, blocked her months ago.

Always worth checking on here when it's a profile that's been around for a while. She was vile when I spoke to her - I am not surprised she did this to you.

And yeah, of course you cannot trust anyone you don't know. There is a balance to be struck between the conventional wisdom of "don't think of SA like AW" and realising that some things never change. Should always set alarm bells ringing if you're asked to meet in public with payment upfront. It's totally lacking in discretion, and you've got to consider the likeliest reason for the ask. The answer is: to enable a getaway.

[pa5151]

And yeah, of course you cannot trust anyone you don't know. There is a balance to be struck between the conventional wisdom of "don't think of SA like AW" and realising that some things never change. Should always set alarm bells ringing if you're asked to meet in public with payment upfront. It's totally lacking in discretion, and you've got to consider the likeliest reason for the ask. The answer is: to enable a getaway.

I once had my watch stolen from meeting one girl. We had drinks at mine, didn't actually sleep with her she bounced before (some clothes did come off). The next morning I realised I couldn't find my watch. Good thing it was a fake watch worth nothing otherwise that would have really been something. I know of a friend also who got robbed from meeting two girls from SA who invited them to his house. Definitely don't meet two girls at yours and be careful with your possessions. Definitely don't trust them regardless of how innocent and sweet they might act.

And agree paying upfront is just asking for trouble.

[Link7]

Think you have little idea what you are talking about! I've been using the site for over 6 years and never yet had a scam attempted. But then I do a lot of due diligence. As in other fields, ultimately only the stupid or lazy get scammed.

Think you have little idea about logical reasoning. Here's what you said:

most are not trying to con anyone out of anything.

The fact you've never been conned (neither have I) doesn't mean this is true. I happen to disagree.

[Link7]

I once had my watch stolen from meeting one girl. We had drinks at mine, didn't actually sleep with her she bounced before (some clothes did come off). The next morning I realised I couldn't find my watch. Good thing it was a fake watch worth nothing otherwise that would have really been something. I know of a friend also who got robbed from meeting two girls from SA who invited them to his house. Definitely don't meet two girls at yours and be careful with your possessions. Definitely don't trust them regardless of how innocent and sweet they might act.

And agree paying upfront is just asking for trouble.

Yeah, wouldn't ever have them back to mine - I keep those worlds separate. Not saying they're all thieves but I agree no one involved in this game is innocent. Always want be able to get rid cleanly and without drama if you need to.

[Trenlover]

Yeah, wouldn't ever have them back to mine - I keep those worlds separate. Not saying they're all thieves but I agree no one involved in this game is innocent. Always want be able to get rid cleanly and without drama if you need to.

saves on hotels costs doing it at home,  but i agree its immensely risky letting these girls know where you live.

Ive had a few "normal sane" SB's suddenly turn psycho on me before. Luckily they hadnt been to mine.

[misterali]

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Wants 500 ppm.  Wouldn’t budge 

Thought to add my experience on this one. Pictures are like 5+ years old as she is way overweight. I didn’t want a commotion so I knocked back a few drinks and got my cock in and said she can leave. Didn’t even bother to finish as she had a funny smell emanating. Definitely very pro and I would avoid. Her lifestyle seems to demand money (party and pills by the sounds of it IIRC) and she will not be ashamed to message you whenever she is short on business.

She is definitely ok with less than 500, 300 or less depending on how dusty her phone is and how low her balance is too.

[finn5555]

I once had my watch stolen from meeting one girl. We had drinks at mine, didn't actually sleep with her she bounced before (some clothes did come off). The next morning I realised I couldn't find my watch. Good thing it was a fake watch worth nothing otherwise that would have really been something. I know of a friend also who got robbed from meeting two girls from SA who invited them to his house. Definitely don't meet two girls at yours and be careful with your possessions. Definitely don't trust them regardless of how innocent and sweet they might act.

And agree paying upfront is just asking for trouble.

Your life is one drama after another 

[stampjones]

Should always set alarm bells ringing if you're asked to meet in public with payment upfront. It's totally lacking in discretion, and you've got to consider the likeliest reason for the ask. The answer is: to enable a getaway.

More than set alarm bells ringing. Its been said on here literally hundreds of times dont give money up front and yet people still do it then act all surprised when it goes wrong 

[Cunning Punt]

Tbf the only reason (most) girls that are looking for M&G (drinks) on SA is because of the money. So you can’t really blame them.
if they wanted to have drinks they could have gone with their friends or gone on  a date with someone from tinder/hinge or something that are close to their own age.

As has been said, we can just go for drinks for friends ourselves - for free. If that's what they want to do and they were honest on their profiles that they charge for drinks dates, then fine, but they don't - and indeed the 2nd profile linked claimed she was up for NSA fun when she's not.

So they are misleading timewasters.  And absolutely you can blame them.

[bbz123]

More than set alarm bells ringing. Its been said on here literally hundreds of times dont give money up front and yet people still do it then act all surprised when it goes wrong 

Yeah this was in person in a hotel room and it was still a disaster, never pay before you’ve done the deed, just asking for trouble. I only agreed this time because we’d met twice before, never again.

[maxkalen]

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chatted with her for a day, discussed the amount at 200 for a few hours meet. when the time came nearer she said she can only meet for an hour from now on for that amount as have lots of offers for that amount. definately a pro. I politely declined.

[maxkalen]

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been speaking to her since a few days, wanted to meet up for m and g no expectations, and now revealed that she has been offered more than 3 k for a month to meet up once lol. So will meet for the m and g is that is acceptable.

unbelievable!!!! dropping like flies.

[maxkalen]

oh yea forgot to mention, wants money  the first time we meet lol

[Prifessionallondinguy]

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  I’d love to meet the guy who’s paying her for her prolonged text messages … her grammar is appealing 

I’m a really god texter so I can keep a conversation going, Would like the same in return! I am new to this and don’t think I’m ready to reach the level off meeting in person just yet but FaceTime and phone calls or just texting I’m good with. Got a bubbly personality and just looking for someone good to talk too

[grebo]

Thought to add my experience on this one. Pictures are like 5+ years old as she is way overweight. I didn’t want a commotion so I knocked back a few drinks and got my cock in and said she can leave. Didn’t even bother to finish as she had a funny smell emanating. Definitely very pro and I would avoid. Her lifestyle seems to demand money (party and pills by the sounds of it IIRC) and she will not be ashamed to message you whenever she is short on business.

She is definitely ok with less than 500, 300 or less depending on how dusty her phone is and how low her balance is too.

I can attest that she will accept less - or at least she used to. I have a WhatsApp chat where 200 was agreed to last September. We never did meet in the end. She seemed a little too pushy and it put me off.

[Froomey]

Think you have little idea about logical reasoning. Here's what you said:

The fact you've never been conned (neither have I) doesn't mean this is true. I happen to disagree.

So, your contention is that the majority of women on SA are intent upon scamming? That's a huge assertion. and I'd be interested to know what evidence you have for it?

[HomerC]

I can't put my dick in your "bubbly personality", love.

There are a lot of time wasters on Seeking, it's dire right now.

[Cunning Punt]

So, your contention is that the majority of women on SA are intent upon scamming? That's a huge assertion. and I'd be interested to know what evidence you have for it?

He also seems to reckon the majority of women on SA are keen to bareback guys they've just met. 

He clearly makes poor choices on SA of women most of us avoid just by one look at their profile or at least initial conversation, and is basing a couple of his own experiences as 'evidence' that the majority are all like that.

[massagepuntingfan]

I’ve been on seeking 3-4 years, always hosted from home and never been scammed. Just saying.

[Link7]

So, your contention is that the majority of women on SA are intent upon scamming? That's a huge assertion. and I'd be interested to know what evidence you have for it?

There are thousands of scammers, catfishes and other types of deceptive profiles (even those with no intention of meeting) on the site. Empirical evidence (not only my experience). Why does your evidential standard work one way btw? This is a forum, so it's for people to express opinions. You'll need to get used to hearing those different to your own.

[Link7]

I’ve been on seeking 3-4 years, always hosted from home and never been scammed. Just saying.

Neither have I.

[massagepuntingfan]

Its an interesting topic - scamming. Think I've mentioned this before but about a year ago I met a lovely young lady, ex stripper who was very forthcoming about being a pro and using seeking like a job. One of the things she expressed was how some of her friends hustle SDs who they perceive to be wealthy.
She thought I was at risk having an SB back to my home. I try to be diligent and trust my gut on meeting an SB, its worked out fine for me so far but in the main I avoid those that come across like pros and go for more natural/normal seeming women.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Depends what valuables you have.. I mean you can’t keep an eye on her 24/7.

[HomerC]

I've setup PPMs with two girls who wanted to skip the M&G, neither of them turned up to the hotel.
Both said they were on their way, both sent videos or photos to prove they're real.

If a SB won't go to a M&G, or she wants to be paid, it's a great way of weeding out time wasters and flakes.

If they won't do an unpaid M&G then just "next" them. Block and move on.

(I did see one young lady & skipped the M&G , she turned out to be good.... until she started hitting me up for money out of the blue.)

[HomerC]

What does it mean when a SB is "looking for a connection"?

What is "to be taken care of financially"? Is that code for give me a lot of money regularly?

[martini2429]

What does it mean when a SB is "looking for a connection"?

What is "to be taken care of financially"? Is that code for give me a lot of money regularly?

It means she is lazy and why should she work when you can pay her to sit around and do nothing all day for the privilege of being in her company once or twice a month 

 

[massagepuntingfan]

HomerC you make me smile - I'm sure you've made similar comments before no?
I use the term looking for chemistry and connection a fair bit in my conversations with potential SBs. To me it means mutual attraction, if the chemistry isn't good then I won't fuck them and they won't get paid.

[HomerC]

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Jess20_xox
20 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
SUGAR xoxox

Asking £200 anyone seen?

Not wanting to be rude about her... but following a simple series of questions on WA it’s clear what she lacks in brains she makes up for  elsewhere.  Friends with B’s instantly.

Hi mate,
She's given me her WhatsApp
Please could you DM me what you've already covered

I suspect her pics are fake / very heavily filtered / computer generated.

I say "her", but it could be a bloke

"she" might just be playing dumb to dodge questions.

[HomerC]

HomerC you make me smile - I'm sure you've made similar comments before no?
I use the term looking for chemistry and connection a fair bit in my conversations with potential SBs. To me it means mutual attraction, if the chemistry isn't good then I won't fuck them and they won't get paid.

Ah thank you, I thought it might mean that.

[DeanoDeano]

It’s been said many many times before. But just use some basic fucking common sense. Yes there are scammers on the site but they don’t last long. There are pages and pages of advice on here so the most basic obvious thing to do is read the thread. If it looks too good to be true then very often it is. But there is no one size fits all approach. Amd every individual has to decide if they want to spend their time energy and money finding the 1%, or just prefers the AW approach to getting laid.

[HomerC]

Fujikochan
19 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
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I would love meeting someone with a genuine connection and whom I can have an honest relationship with. I appreciate and value honesty whatever it may be...

A generous man who enjoys spending quality time together. I am looking to be taken care of financially, messages always welcome ❤️Don’t take life too seriously...

Her IP address comes up as "united kingdom" and not London.

Has anyone spoken with her?

[HomerC]

FalalalaLand
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Loyal, honest, positive. I don't like when people play games, there is always time during the 24 hours day to make me your priority 😉 No excuses
 I might look naive but I am not... so don't try anything - I will know 😉
 PS. My date of birth is wrong - I won't share such personal info

Seeking:

Because I have a GREAT experience in wasting my time with men  I won't waste it anymore.
 Send me a message and tell me something about yourself instead of just asking for my private pictures - I won't respond to that.
 
 ONCE we talked I will tell you exactly what I want 😉

Has anyone conversed with this lady?

[troubletrouble2021]

Fujikochan
19 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
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Her IP address comes up as "united kingdom" and not London.

Has anyone spoken with her?

Yeah had a WhatsApp chat with her. Wanted £400 ppm wouldn’t budge so did not progress.

[PLeisure]

Fujikochan
19 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
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Her IP address comes up as "united kingdom" and not London.

Has anyone spoken with her?

She looks a bit TS for my tastes... caked in make-up makes it difficult to consider her age as 19.