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[rskane]

Recently signed back up after the 33% discount came up - after quite a lucky spell in May, this time round I’m getting absolutely no joy. Read and unanswered message after unanswered message… I’m doing very little differently so don’t understand what it could be -
The only sbs that have been responsive are semi pros that want to meet today etc and indirectly charge by the hour. 

anyone experience a change recently?

[rskane]

This one came down from 500 minimum to 300, but seems like a clock watcher/semi pro. Anyone have any experience? External Link/Members Only

[Spam123]

This one came down from 500 minimum to 300, but seems like a clock watcher/semi pro. Anyone have any experience? External Link/Members Only

Wouldn’t say she’s that at all. Met her once, no desire to see her again. Good, but unless something is amazing I want variety.

[HomerC]

This one came down from 500 minimum to 300, but seems like a clock watcher/semi pro. Anyone have any experience? External Link/Members Only

1. She's in Latvia
2. She's a giant.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

This one blocked me.
Promises the earth on SA.
Urges you to chat via WA.
When on WA wants PayPal to prove trust. 
Doubt it’s even a women.

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I actually reported this one to SA and received a reply back saying they’re looking into it.

[Wowgeek]

This one seems far too good to be true. Meet being arranged, when I shall report back, but if anyone has any intel in the meantime?

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[Link7]

This one seems far too good to be true. Meet being arranged, when I shall report back, but if anyone has any intel in the meantime?

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Lol unless you aren't paying or something, fail to see how an admin assistant from Luton is far too good to be true...it ain't Megan Fox 

[Wowgeek]

Lol unless you aren't paying or something, fail to see how an admin assistant from Luton is far too good to be true...it ain't Megan Fox 

I wasn’t talking about the individual but the arrangement. I’ll give more details when or if the meet goes ahead. Smells a bit fishy and I’m just trying to do some due diligence to either encourage or save other’s time.

Hoped someone may have got to the meet stage, that’s all.

[HomerC]

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She's back, under a new profile

She flaked on me before

[Cunning Punt]

I hide profiles of girls who point me to their bloody wishlist and passed over a couple of them today but I now see Brandon has introduced the line 'Have you seen my wishlist? View Here.' with hyperlink as part of the template for every girl's profile, whether they have created a wishlist or not. 

[Trenlover]

This one seems far too good to be true. Meet being arranged, when I shall report back, but if anyone has any intel in the meantime?

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profile not showing? unless shes blocked me previously

[Prifessionallondinguy]

profile not showing? unless shes blocked me previously

Yep gone here too.

[Trenlover]

Does anyone else concur that poor pre-punt communication = poor punt.

despite my earlier lambasting about SA managed to line up a few girls, HOWEVER communication is poor from them, they take ages to respond to whatsapp messages and the responses are aloof. 

This has been a red flag in the past for a punt that will inevitably be distant and crap.

[pa5151]

Does anyone else concur that poor pre-punt communication = poor punt.

despite my earlier lambasting about SA managed to line up a few girls, HOWEVER communication is poor from them, they take ages to respond to whatsapp messages and the responses are aloof. 

This has been a red flag in the past for a punt that will inevitably be distant and crap.

Yes very much so. If the communication is crap from them before the meet and they barely respond to texts and act aloof etc then most likely they will end up flaking anyway or it will be shit regardless.

You generally want girls who are warm via text and respond well.

[bigden40]

Does anyone else concur that poor pre-punt communication = poor punt.

despite my earlier lambasting about SA managed to line up a few girls, HOWEVER communication is poor from them, they take ages to respond to whatsapp messages and the responses are aloof. 

This has been a red flag in the past for a punt that will inevitably be distant and crap.

Yes. I also find that treating it as a punt also leads to a poor experience.  I tend to look for girls that are not too pro in their comms and approach, I foster the scenario of a date (even if it’s just a drink) with benefits.  Any discussion of limitation on hours then I don’t see her.   If I want a punt I see a brass.

[HomerC]

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Zaraaaa
21 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
   Member Since   Jun 23, 2021




Any intel?


She opened with 500 ppm


she looks like a model:

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[HomerC]

anyone else getting "not interested in PPM or petty offers"?

[Trenlover]

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Zaraaaa

21 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
   Member Since   Jun 23, 2021




Any intel?


She opened with 500 ppm


she looks like a model:

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All the gems and keeper girls I've seen have never opened asking for 500.  Right from the start they suggest or accept a reasonable offer in the 150-250 range.

[jamiekinkxxx]

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Zaraaaa
21 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
   Member Since   Jun 23, 2021




Any intel?


She opened with 500 ppm


she looks like a model:

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Pretty stunning

[NightKid]

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That link triggers a whole bunch of trojan warnings from Malwarebytes for me

[bigden40]

anyone else getting "not interested in PPM or petty offers"?

I usually reverse into PPM.  I always say that I’m ideally looking for a longer term thing, hoping to see a SB on a regular basis.  When on the subject of cash, willing to discuss an allowance once we’ve developed some trust and chemistry. This then usually results in agreeing to do something on a per meet basis for the first 2 or 3 meetings.

[Cunning Punt]

Does anyone else concur that poor pre-punt communication = poor punt.

despite my earlier lambasting about SA managed to line up a few girls, HOWEVER communication is poor from them, they take ages to respond to whatsapp messages and the responses are aloof. 

This has been a red flag in the past for a punt that will inevitably be distant and crap.

Yes, if girls take ages to respond then it hardly ever leads to any meet - they're just timewasters. They come up with an excuse like "I've been busy".

My response is that even if that were true, the net effect of slow replies is from a practical point of view it's not going to possible logistically to arrange anything and if she hasn't got time to send a odd text, how is she going to have time for a meet? And if she's not got time, she shouldn't have pursued the conversation and shouldn't be on SA in the first place.

Further anyway, I remind them: "Busy? WE'RE ALL BUSY!" but people still manage to arrange meets so clearly she is not that bothered.

As you say, even if you do somehow get to meet her, the experience will be crap because she is not bothered and clearly not into you.

[HomerC]

That link triggers a whole bunch of trojan warnings from Malwarebytes for me

OH sorry dude.
Um.. mods.. can you please delete the link? It's too late for me to edit them out. I don't want to be giving people malware. I'm on a Mac so tend not to be as affected.

[HomerC]

Pretty stunning

Yeah but is she £500 stunning? That's assuming she's even the girl in the pics.

[HomerC]

A lady in her 30s just told me her last arrangement was 7k a month.

So, this is where we are.

[Trenlover]

A lady in her 30s just told me her last arrangement was 7k a month.

So, this is where we are.

Offer her 2k a month and when she accepts it ask her why she's lowering her standards

Theres fun to be had in mocking these idiots

[pa5151]

A lady in her 30s just told me her last arrangement was 7k a month.

So, this is where we are.

It must be, because it's next to impossible to meet anyone at the moment. I had a girl flake on me today after her saying last night we should meet today. Not even surprised.

[DeanoDeano]

I usually reverse into PPM.  I always say that I’m ideally looking for a longer term thing, hoping to see a SB on a regular basis.  When on the subject of cash, willing to discuss an allowance once we’ve developed some trust and chemistry. This then usually results in agreeing to do something on a per meet basis for the first 2 or 3 meetings.

Are you actually looking for a regular arrangement based on an allowance?

[bigden40]

Are you actually looking for a regular arrangement based on an allowance?

Not really, I’m just trying to make them feel better.

I have had a couple of monthly arrangements previously but I generally get bored after I’ve seen them 2 or 3 times.

[Cunning Punt]

I usually reverse into PPM.  I always say that I’m ideally looking for a longer term thing, hoping to see a SB on a regular basis.  When on the subject of cash, willing to discuss an allowance once we’ve developed some trust and chemistry. This then usually results in agreeing to do something on a per meet basis for the first 2 or 3 meetings.

That's exactly it - say you're looking for a long term but per meet best to start off to establish chemistry and trust as you say.

I think it would be shitty to promise a girl a monthly allowance or long term if one has no intention of embarking upon that. I rarely get into conversations about monthly allowance because I can't really afford what most girls want. I say I'm open to long term if the 2 of us click - which I am. It's just that it rarely happens that you click enough with a girl that you want more than 3 meetings.

[HomerC]

I've noticed an uptick in profiles where SBs write "I am not an escort" or "I am not an esc*rt"

Um... okay?

[HomerC]

The thing is, pussy is only so good. There comes a point where it's better to just have a wank, surely.
I'm loathed to pay £500ppm or £7k / month. It's a lot to pay just to bust a nut.
I feel like men are being exploited sometimes.

[HomerC]

Not really, I’m just trying to make them feel better.

I have had a couple of monthly arrangements previously but I generally get bored after I’ve seen them 2 or 3 times.

There's no fun to be had screwing the same lass over and over.
You want novelty, beauty, and youth.
This is why an allowance is unappealing. I'm going to get bored of you, so just accept PPM.

Profiles sometimes say "don't insult me with PPM". Um.. okay... then you get nothing.

[Cunning Punt]

Homer, you're posting a lot of rants again which don't really add anything to the thread. Maybe it's time to take a break from SA.

[Trenlover]

I've noticed an uptick in profiles where SBs write "I am not an escort" or "I am not an esc*rt"

Um... okay?

I'm not an escort usually means either she doesn't want sex ( but still wants money lol ) or it can mean that she is highly selective about who she will fuck.

I've said this many times but alot of girls on there are still screening you based on your looks. 

I'm sure these days the amount of guys on SA offering 200ppm is a dime a dozen hence why its now crap compared to 2016/2017. 

[bigden40]

I'm not an escort usually means either she doesn't want sex ( but still wants money lol ) or it can mean that she is highly selective about who she will fuck.

I've said this many times but alot of girls on there are still screening you based on your looks. 

I'm sure these days the amount of guys on SA offering 200ppm is a dime a dozen hence why its now crap compared to 2016/2017.

Which is why I invest some time and effort in developing some level of connection before talking money.  If you’ve already made the sale (i.e. convinced her that she wants to spend some time with you, to go on a “date” then fuck you) then the amount becomes easier.   If you treat them like escorts, just trying to agree a sum to fuck her, then the price goes up. 

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Homer, you're posting a lot of rants again which don't really add anything to the thread. Maybe it's time to take a break from SA.

 

Been in contact with a few new Asian ladies … lots of flakiness through both more than generous ppm and allowance routes… do these girls even know what they want?

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Can   anyone tell me if I’m been blocked or has she just left?  Another fine example. 

[Iceman007]

Blocked for me, probably left SA

[maakriman]

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Met this girl once, then cancelled twice, still asks me to see. Quite sure lots of you have seen her. Could probably be an
escort too. Any more info on her pls. Was thinking whether to see he again or not. Pestering me now.

[heathen666]

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Met this girl once, then cancelled twice, still asks me to see. Quite sure lots of you have seen her. Could probably be an
escort too. Any more info on her pls. Was thinking whether to see he again or not. Pestering me now.

Ignore me.. Having a an idiot moment

[maakriman]

True, initially I thought of sharing contact. Then I remembered my experience of sharing my first SB contact here. I didn't want to see her frequently and thought may be occasionally if desperate. I clearly told to those PMed me not to say about this forum and say she had given the number to them a while back. Guess what, after giving the number to just 2, she blocked me.  .

[what-a man]

Offer her 2k a month and when she accepts it ask her why she's lowering her standards

Theres fun to be had in mocking these idiots

I bet she will say she just likes you and thinks you’re cute, so wouldn’t wanna take too much money off you

[Heph]

I feel like men are being exploited sometimes.

This is nuts. Trite nuts too.

[martini2429]

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Met this girl once, then cancelled twice, still asks me to see. Quite sure lots of you have seen her. Could probably be an
escort too. Any more info on her pls. Was thinking whether to see he again or not. Pestering me now.

If you don't have an account with Sugar Daddy Meet you won't know who he is taking about

 

[maakriman]

Her

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[HomerC]

Her

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this is a cam girl

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[maakriman]

Doesn't look same girl to me, there are some similarities I saw her once. The girl I saw is lot curvier.

[Link7]

Are you actually looking for a regular arrangement based on an allowance?

I know the point you're getting at (morality) - but let's be honest, the lads are only saying what everyone already knows. Whilst I don't use it myself, "Preferably long term" is the oldest line in the book. And the girls all say it too - often in the same breath as they quote ppm price. Nobody really believes it but it's part of the mutual facade (from our side, that we are interested in dating not sex (per se); from their side, that they are potential sweethearts/something more than a common prostitute). Convenient for everyone.

Every prossie "prefers" long term income.

[HomerC]

Doesn't look same girl to me, there are some similarities I saw her once. The girl I saw is lot curvier.

Mate, are you a river in Egypt, because it’s literally the same girl?

Okay, maybe it’s not, but there is a striking resemblance.

I’m sure the bird you met is a chaste lass, who’s never done any kind of online sex work before, so can’t possibly be the cam girl.

[Steve2]

Homer, you always brighten up my day. Keep it up