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[Perseus02]

Interesting, it must have risen as I thought a fair price (or an 'average' ask from the SB) was £200 PPM, & 250-300 was model looks PPM, however it depends what we talking about...

Newbies vs experienced SB on their.

I'm a newbie and probably not very good at bargaining but thanks! I'll see what I can do from now on
Or course  we might have different targets, but maybe I'm not trying hard enough to keep the request more reasonable

[bigden40]

chatted with her but she just vanished. Anyway i met a SB today just for M&G (unpaid) shes asking 2k a month I'd say ill think about it let her know but she said she's seeing someone already with 2k allowance i wonder if someone from who actually pays that much or there other who just paying to those and ruin our chances. But hell yeh she was damn damn pretty 

If the girl is getting £2k a month then good luck to her.  But tbh there are literally thousands of girls on SA in London, more than most of us could fuck in a lifetime.  The trick is not to get too fixated on any one girl. 

[rskane]

This one i moved to whatsapp with but it never went anywhere - she's 100% genuine but wasn't clear about what kind of arrangement she wanted. was open to a M&G and was no mention of PPM yet so maybe a good sign. I moved on to other SBs in the end

Sorry to bump this up but any experience or intel on these two SBs? Been chatting with them but something about them gives me a feeling they are pros rather than genuine SBs:

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[rskane]

What terms did she quote you? never got any hard numbers from her. PM please

First girls a time waster. I accepted her terms and she never followed through. Probably has cold feet about being a actual SB. Once I said bye, her replies were apologetic but more lazy. Shes most likely looking for Online only.

[maxkalen]

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I was planning to be in South west for the bank  holiday and have recently rejoined the app. bumped into this girl, said she lives in Bournemouth.
Thought hey I am going there anyways, lol, so decided to see if she would like to meet. I mentioned I am there only for 2 days, she agreed if I will meet her for a meet and greet she will be happily come to London once she knows  I am genuine. I decided to take the chance and arranged the meet, initial chat showed no sinister signs, exchanged WA after she felt I am not messing about, confirmed she does not want any money for anything before hand. Said no none at all, so all signs positive.

Contacted her on the day, decided a  time to meet and we did, to my surprise she is a lovely girl,looks better than her photos infact, changed the colour of her hair but the same girl and actually quite attractive. She used to live in London and moved to Bournemouth for work. She said as once shes met me and happy to know I am genuine she is willing to come to London and asked for £250 ppm due to associated costs as she doesnt drive, which can be an overnight too. Seemed like a genuine girl and no BS in anything.

I just need to find time to either meet in Bournemouth or London, will be seeing her soon and will update. She mentioned she is looking ideally for something long term but happy to see how things go along for both parties, depending on how we click. She didnt mess about in anything at all.  Planned to meet hopefully this week.

[maxkalen]

forgot to mention she does come to london often   

[jonny]

She's a pro SB for PPM. Good service. I paid around £250 plus dayuse hotel and optional dinner. She's vanilla but game for 2-3 pops and will put in a 2-3 hour shift.
If I remember correctly, she does BB and I got myself tested before and after to be extra cautious.

Thanks OP for the info, she did come across pretty chilled but wanted to know whether she's bigger than size 12 as she curvy

[Apu]

What terms did she quote you? never got any hard numbers from her. PM please

She wanted a large allowance, not PPM. She said she's only after money. I said OK, let's talk and she basically bottled it.

Time waster, got the feeling she just wants a bank transfer then to disappear.

[Apu]

Thanks OP for the info, she did come across pretty chilled but wanted to know whether she's bigger than size 12 as she curvy

She's probably just a bit bigger. But 12-14 sounds right. She's definitely not fat as most it goes to her tits and well spread out.

[jonny]

She's probably just a bit bigger. But 12-14 sounds right. She's definitely not fat as most it goes to her tits and well spread out.

Many thanks Apu, much appreciated

[pa5151]

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Another scammer who rushes you initially into meeting her as she "doesn't want to waste her time online" then mentions she wants a deposit up before the meet. Avoid.

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Charges £550 + uber for a PPM. Photos look fake.

[ampithestud1]

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Another scammer who rushes you initially into meeting her as she "doesn't want to waste her time online" then mentions she wants a deposit up before the meet. Avoid.

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Charges £550 + uber for a PPM. Photos look fake.

Interesting, the first one is 'Cute_Honey' and I've been chatting with her for a bit. I asked her about the £20 deposit she's wants to cover her travel and apparently this is to weed out the 'timewasters'.

Doesn't want to see a full face pic, doesn't want to know who I am, what I'm into and is simply happy to travel to London and meet anytime, as long as the deposit is paid. Yeah right.

[massagepuntingfan]

Chatting to this lady: Littlemissmaexxx

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Her comms are limited but she seems interested in meeting. No other details. Any info would be very useful.

[quickben]

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"Want a guy to pay to rape me" Nope!

[Prifessionallondinguy]

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"Want a guy to pay to rape me" Nope!

this’ll end well.

[PLeisure]

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"Want a guy to pay to rape me" Nope!

Now removed 
She registered yesterday - her inbox has probably been inundated since 

[PLeisure]

Chatting to this lady: Littlemissmaexxx

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Her comms are limited but she seems interested in meeting. No other details. Any info would be very useful.

We exchanged messages over the weekend. very keen to meet; just a bit too keen. Prompt responses, "few hours fun", "mutually beneficial arrangement", etc.
Anyone in every online community knows that the first rule is 'Safety First'. She was oblivious to that.
Some sad, lonely old guy may be taken in. When I suggested she be a bit more careful, she lost interest in meeting tonight.

[bigden40]

We exchanged messages over the weekend. very keen to meet; just a bit too keen. Prompt responses, "few hours fun", "mutually beneficial arrangement", etc.
Anyone in every online community knows that the first rule is 'Safety First'. She was oblivious to that.
Some sad, lonely old guy may be taken in. When I suggested she be a bit more careful, she lost interest in meeting tonight.

That profile screamed scammer to me tbh

[bigden40]

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"Want a guy to pay to rape me" Nope!

It’s a very common fantasy among women.

But yeah, wouldn’t go anywhere near that myself.

[massagepuntingfan]

We exchanged messages over the weekend. very keen to meet; just a bit too keen. Prompt responses, "few hours fun", "mutually beneficial arrangement", etc.
Anyone in every online community knows that the first rule is 'Safety First'. She was oblivious to that.
Some sad, lonely old guy may be taken in. When I suggested she be a bit more careful, she lost interest in meeting tonight.

Thanks Pleisure. Sparse comms but she's just messaged saying she'd like to meet for a coffee today. I'm insisting on a phone call first but I agree, I don't like an SB to be overly keen before any details have been shared or rapport established.

[Perseus02]

What do you guys think might be going on? Because she's messaged me too

[PLeisure]

What do you guys think might be going on? Because she's messaged me too

She's blanket contacting as many as possible. Standard scammer approach, I reck.

Pity. Her gallery suggests a pretty GND, but who knows if they're her 

[Perseus02]

She told me she wants to meet today, I might play along to see what she's up to...

[massagepuntingfan]

Very helpful. I’m tapping out! Must be desperate for cash.

[jamiekinkxxx]

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"Want a guy to pay to rape me" Nope!

She really wrote that? Jesus!

[testgenie]

We exchanged messages over the weekend. very keen to meet; just a bit too keen. Prompt responses, "few hours fun", "mutually beneficial arrangement", etc.
Anyone in every online community knows that the first rule is 'Safety First'. She was oblivious to that.
Some sad, lonely old guy may be taken in. When I suggested she be a bit more careful, she lost interest in meeting tonight.

I found this one a timewaster. All talk and no action

[testgenie]

Some pet peeves from me. 1 week into my new subscription and it seems like there isn't much happening. A lot of hours going into the search with little outcome. Hasn't been this bad in a long time.

1) moving to WA with girls, good conversation flowing and she stops responding and you see her online on SA hours and days later.

2) boring one word responses with girls not able to have a convo. I know these girls aren't the smartest but having a conversation isn't hard is it?

3) girls who respond to messages with how much

[massagepuntingfan]

Some pet peeves from me. 1 week into my new subscription and it seems like there isn't much happening. A lot of hours going into the search with little outcome. Hasn't been this bad in a long time.

1) moving to WA with girls, good conversation flowing and she stops responding and you see her online on SA hours and days later.

2) boring one word responses with girls not able to have a convo. I know these girls aren't the smartest but having a conversation isn't hard is it?

3) girls who respond to messages with how much

Its been very slim pickings for me and I've never had any issues before Co-vid.

[mrflash]

Some pet peeves from me. 1 week into my new subscription and it seems like there isn't much happening. A lot of hours going into the search with little outcome. Hasn't been this bad in a long time.

1) moving to WA with girls, good conversation flowing and she stops responding and you see her online on SA hours and days later.

2) boring one word responses with girls not able to have a convo. I know these girls aren't the smartest but having a conversation isn't hard is it?

3) girls who respond to messages with how much

True. Post Covid pickings have been very slim. Even got ghosted by my regular and found her still using SA. Getting better money from others I guess.

[Link7]

The other thing which has turned out to be woefully true is that numbers collected earlier in lockdown haven't reaped results now trying to use them some months later. I have had a couple of fit ones who were bang up for meeting previously block/ignore me for seemingly no reason now I've tried to rekindle...damn covid

[pa5151]

The other thing which has turned out to be woefully true is that numbers collected earlier in lockdown haven't reaped results now trying to use them some months later.

You'd be lucky to keep their attention for 2 days, nevermind months. They have the attention span of an ant.

[mrflash]

The other thing which has turned out to be woefully true is that numbers collected earlier in lockdown haven't reaped results now trying to use them some months later. I have had a couple of fit ones who were bang up for meeting previously block/ignore me for seemingly no reason now I've tried to rekindle...damn covid

I think it usually works fine if you get back to someone after a long time. It's just that with lockdown easing, number of men available on SA has increased. Easy to book hotels and meet for M&G. Family guys who couldn't find an excuse when working from home are now back in the scene. The discount on membership. All this means that girls who asked for 300 during lockdown are now asking for 400.

My reg who used to be very chatty and ask for meets regularly, ghosted me out of nowhere. Same with other girls' numbers which I collected. They are all still on SA. But don't reply to me anymore because I negotiated and lowered their prices during lockdown when they were desperate. They are not that desperate anymore 

[stampjones]

The other thing which has turned out to be woefully true is that numbers collected earlier in lockdown haven't reaped results now trying to use them some months later. I have had a couple of fit ones who were bang up for meeting previously block/ignore me for seemingly no reason now I've tried to rekindle...damn covid

I not only collected them I kept talking to 3 girls all through lockdown. Come May 17th they all vanished within a couple of days 

[Prifessionallondinguy]

  The art of conversation has been lost on SA.... you once needed UN standard negotiating powers to charm your way onto WA ... now it’s how much within the first message 

Ppm is my phrase of 2021 already. 

[wilkinc]

Messaged this girl, even though I knew what was coming it was still a shock:

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She said she 'requires £4000 per month allowance'... 

[pepsicolaboy]

Back on Seeking after a long lay off.

It seems different now, lots of 1 picture profiles (potentially these are bots.) Enthusiasm/ excitement seems down and 2 relatively newbie SB wanted £300 for a meet, with brand new profiles (although claimed experienced) and that was for a few hour meets - how they arrived at this figure I dont know.

To me a new/newbish SB, if new to the site, shouldnt be expecting those kind of £ for a few hours IMO.

A stunning Liverpudlian in London wanted £350.00 but I know the model types (hardened SP) will wait out for their £300 - £400+ meets.

I do get a sense of more flakeyness and it could be more weight of gents on there? I dont know.

I dont have a good reason for the change (will continue to investigate and play around with things.)

Feel free to chime in...

As always gents, never pay any money upfront ever, dont believe the sob stories or their stranded and need money for petrol or trains etc etc.

[Perseus02]

I found this one a timewaster. All talk and no action

Can confirm. She first said if we could meet at 8pm, then said she would be free sooner (4pm). Then disappeared. Eventually said "Are you free tomorrow?". Note that we haven't discussed WHAT are we going to do, WHERE we are going to do it or HOW MUCH am I going to pay. So I believe it's complete bullshit.

[Lfc4life]

Back on Seeking after a long lay off.

It seems different now, lots of 1 picture profiles (potentially these are bots.)

Agree with this, decided to dip my toes into the sugar bowl very recently after receiving the 33% discount email. From my initial time circa Sep 2020 I have seen a better response to my advances, on average 200 per meet seems to be the consensus. I must add, I prefer 7/10 non pro SB's; more the girl next door who is happy with the attention and very enthusiastic.

[randompunter1234]

seeing a lot of recent comments, it seems like everyone is struggling. I have had my fair share of flakes and ghosts

Lot of seemingly got propositions flaking out or ghosting, I really dont think its anything to do with the money, I am pretty sure if the monetary element was significantly higher, the result would still be the same.

The only likely explanation is that the active pool of girls is significantly less.

[stampjones]

This weekend wasnt as productive as last. Had 3 meets lined up sat, sun and monday. All flaked. Two texted and asked to rearrange. One when I was at the hotel (not checked in luckily) though she did offer 50 off next time to make up. Third one just vanished or blocked me on all media. Oh well on to next weekend when I have a dead cert waiting. I hope!

[pepsicolaboy]

seeing a lot of recent comments, it seems like everyone is struggling. I have had my fair share of flakes and ghosts

Lot of seemingly got propositions flaking out or ghosting, I really dont think its anything to do with the money, I am pretty sure if the monetary element was significantly higher, the result would still be the same.

The only likely explanation is that the active pool of girls is significantly less.

+1 I like this theory

Others could be: there is either an over saturation of guys on there or an under saturation of SB - resulting is the numbers of those credible for meeting up being lower just through stats.

[Cunning Punt]

You'd be lucky to keep their attention for 2 days, nevermind months. They have the attention span of an ant.

Exactly. That's evident from comms with girls off SA and several of us warned last year that text convo with girls you've not met will fizzle out by the end of lockdown and certainly not lead to intimate meets several months later at the end of lockdown. Therefore, not sure why guys are surprised by this.    It's hard work keeping up the momentum and after such a length of time, one or both of you will have lost interest and had your head turned by others.

If you've had intimate meets previously with the girl and you've had a rapport, then that's different - and one girl who I saw a few times in 2019 contacted me out of the blue asking if we could see each other again.

[Biznasty]

Got a meet lined up on Thursday with a girl who I saw a few years ago, god bless furlough keeping them bored 😂

[Payyourwaymate]

You'd be lucky to keep their attention for 2 days, nevermind months. They have the attention span of an ant.

You are insulting the ants. Have you not seen how ants complete tasks for the sake of their colonies in documentaries?

[randompunter1234]

Exactly. That's evident from comms with girls off SA and several of us warned last year that text convo with girls you've not met will fizzle out by the end of lockdown and certainly not lead to intimate meets several months later at the end of lockdown. Therefore, not sure why guys are surprised by this.    It's hard work keeping up the momentum and after such a length of time, one or both of you will have lost interest and had your head turned by others.

If you've had intimate meets previously with the girl and you've had a rapport, then that's different - and one girl who I saw a few times in 2019 contacted me out of the blue asking if we could see each other again.

its true, I think i mentioned sometime earlier that if the conversation on WA gos really well, the meeting has to consummate pretty much straightaway, otherwise the chances of a meet drop off exponentially. and if you suddenly overwhelmed by potential choices, it becomes quite tricky

[Sparta Prada]

I was going to take up the 33% discount offer but decided against it. If I took it up now I would be wasting the first week as I am really busy at work. So I am hoping that the discount code will still work in a couple of weeks time as then I will be able to meet potential girls much quicker.

Having said that, with the number of you saying how much hard work Seeking is maybe I won’t join at all!

[randompunter1234]

+1 I like this theory

Others could be: there is either an over saturation of guys on there or an under saturation of SB - resulting is the numbers of those credible for meeting up being lower just through stats.

we also have to keep in mind, that flakers and ghosters would always be very high - simply because the idea of SA (transactional) while appealing takes some mettle to meet a random much older bloke . If a girls breaks her duck, she's very likely to meet again

[Lone-punter]

The art of conversation has been lost on SA.... you once needed UN standard negotiating powers to charm your way onto WA ... now it’s how much within the first message 

Ppm is my phrase of 2021 already. 

+1

[Lone-punter]

princessjenxo
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Gym bunny, nice to talk to, okay with intimacy and ppm, which is slightly higher than what we Londoners consider as reasonable. Planning to meet sometimes soon. Any intel is appreciated in advance 

[Biznasty]

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Anyone seen this girl? Seems keen from conversations.