Would this in a SB's profile put you off, or is it quite common among for some SB's to have similar issues? I know the grammar isn't great, it was more the content.
"I am not long out an long relationship in which I got put down a lot and treated pretty bad so there for have little confidence, sad to say I have never been treated properly and spoiled or felt wanted and I would love for that to change and would love to feel good about myself for once so if you haven’t been scared off then get in touch"
Grammar isn't that bad, by Seeking standards anyway, and while I realise one often has better experiences with girls who are fairly intelligent and articulate, it's not even a yellow flag for me.
As you indicate, it's the content that is slightly concerning and there is similar wording on a lot of profiles. Many girls on the site, particularly younger ones, have been treated like shit by young guys in their private life, and they are looking for a satisfying experience with a nice, attentive, older gent who is going to spoil them a bit - or perhaps a lot.
On the face of it, that sounds fine and a good opportunity to seem like a godsend for these girls. However, one has to judge if they have been emotionally scarred so much that they have serious self-esteem, trust and jealousy issues that they are going to be hard work, or they are rather needy and expect too much TLC or money, or you seem so great that they develop EAS.
